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Merry Christmas To All!

Dear Julie,

Jeffery was remembered at Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve and on Christmas morning. I hope this note finds you and all of your family well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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O God, you make us glad by the yearly festival of the birth of your only Son Jesus Christ: Grant that we, who joyfully receive him as our Redeemer, may with sure confidence behold him when he comes to be our Judge; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 25, 2013 8:08 PM CST

Easter Blessings To All!

Dear Julie and Jeff and Joseph,

Jeffery was remembered at St. George's both at the Great Vigil of Easter and at an Easter service this morning. Jeffery is often in my thoughts when I am in the beauty of holiness.

I hope you are having a happy day this Easter Sunday.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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An Easter Collect:

Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 31, 2013 1:26 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I am sorry that I am a few days late in contacting you about Jeffery's birthday. For some reason I was thinking it was March 19 instead of March 16. I hope you are all doing as best as you can, so many months after the passing of your precious Iron Angel.

God bless you all.

Grace and peace,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 19, 2012 11:31 AM CDT

Merry Christmas To All Of Jeffery's Friends And Family!

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and joy,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 25, 2011 1:11 AM CST

Dear Julie,

God bless you and all mothers on Mothering Sunday. This celebration started in Europe years ago. On Mid-Lent Sunday, the apprentices were sent home to spend some time with their mothers. The master's wife would prepare a Simnel Cake for each lad to take to his mother. Those boys too far away to go home would visit their local cathedral, The Mother Church of the region, to pray for their mothers. Twice a year, this day and the third Sunday in Lent, the clergy wear rose vestments. Yesterday, a beautiful rose stole and chasuble were blessed, at St. George's, for this purpose. It brought joy to many hearts. May reading this gladden your heart, and may thoughts of your iron angel be sweet.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

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I have made a note of your new email address.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 3, 2011 10:59 AM CDT

Hello all, I can't remember the pass words and my email has changed, so I'm going to put my email on here every once in a while incase anyone wants to contact me. Sorry for the issue. Guess I could contact caringbridge directly but that would be to easy... for now juliers64@gmail.com All is well right this second and I pray that all is well with you, all out there! Peace and Prayers, always
Julie, Jeffery and Joseph's mom <juliers64@gmail.com>
jax, fl usa - Saturday, January 15, 2011 11:39 AM CST

Happy New Year To All!

Dear Sample,

May this new year of 2011 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son/brother, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):

Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

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New Year's Prayer

Oh Thou, who art ever the same,
Grant us so to pass through
the new year with faithful hearts,
that we may be able in all things
to please Thy loving eyes. Amen.

~Mozarabic, 700 A.D.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 1, 2011 5:31 PM CST

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve. Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson

Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.

Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.

Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 25, 2010 1:22 AM CST

Blessings To All On All Saint's Sunday!

Dear Sample Family,

Jeffery was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning. Both were services honoring all of God's Saints. When you have time, perhaps you can sing one of the hymns we used. I will place it beneath my signature.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!

O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain

Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain

O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain

Words: John Athelstan Laurie Riley (1858-1945), 1906

Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 7, 2010 11:58 PM CST

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

We had an Order of St. Luke Healing Mission, at St. George's, this weekend. While I was there, I remembered Jeffery in Holy Eucharist.

I hope are doing well this month.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

From The Prayer Card Of The Mission:

In the name of God
and trusting in His might alone,
receive Christ's healing touch
to make you whole.

May Christ bring you wholeness
of body, mind, and spirit,
deliver you from every evil,
and give you His peace.

Forgive me for leaving out the most important word in my last greeting, "Family."
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 16, 2010 11:44 PM CDT

Dear Sample,

May God bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01, and may God bless your son, Jeffery, and all others who lost their lives to Rhabdomyosarcoma.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Mychal's Prayer:

Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.

~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001. At one time, Father Mychal served at Siena College, here in upstate New York.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 11, 2010 2:07 PM CDT

Summer Blessings To All!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you and of Jeffery on the first day of summer. I believe he would be glad to have the freedom of these warm days to do outdoor activities. May thoughts of a well and happy Jeffery fill your hearts with peace and joy.

I am sorry I was unable to write here yesterday. I hope Jeff had a good Father's Day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Sharing A Summer Solstice Poem:

The heavens bespeak the glory of God.
The firmament ablaze, a text of his works.
Dawn whispers to sunset
Dark to dark the word passes; glory glory.

All in all a great silence,
no tongue's clamor-
yet the web of the world trembles
conscious, as of great winds passing.

The bridegroom's tent is raised,
a cry goes up: He comes! a radiant sun
rejoicing, presiding, his wedding day.
From end to end of the universe his progress.
No creature, no least being but catches fire from him.

Daniel Berrigan (born May 9, 1921)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 21, 2010 11:36 AM CDT

Happy Memorial Day To All!

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking about you, and of Jeffery, on this day, when we remember those who have died in service to our country, and when many of us also decorate the graves of our family members. I did remember your Iron Angel at church this weekend, as I often do.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayers For Use At Memorial Day:

O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 31, 2010 4:48 PM CDT

Blessings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. Pentecost has always been one of our favorite holy days, as we love the red colored clothing that many people wear and the red altar clothes. It is also a festival not generally spoiled by commercialism, although a very young Andrew once suggested marketing "Pentecost Pizza."

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

The Collect:

O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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Hail this joyful day's return,
hail the Pentecostal morn,
morn when our ascended Lord
on his Church his Spirit poured! Alleluia!

Like to clove tongues of flame
on the twelve the Spirit came--
tongues, that earth may hear their call,
fire, that love may burn in all. Alleluia!

Lord, to you your people bend;
unto us your Spirit send;
blessings of this sacred day
grant us, dearest Lord, we pray. Alleluia!

You who did our forebears guide,
with their children still abide;
grant us pardon, grant us peace,
till our earthly wanderings cease. Alleluia!

Words: Attributed to Hilary of Poitiers (fourth century);
trans. Robert Campbell (1814-1868), alt.

Music: Sonne der Gerechtigkeit, Beata nobis gaudia

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h036.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 23, 2010 5:38 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day To All!

Dear Julie,

I thought of you and of Jeffery at Eucharist yesterday and today. You are indeed a special mother, and I know that Jeffery was, and is, blessed in having you as his mom.

Please let me know when there are specific things I can pray about for you and for your family.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Few Quotes On Motherhood:

The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.

~Honore' de Balzac (1799-1850)

A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.

~Washington Irving (1783-1859)

My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.

~George Washington (1732-1799)

Motherhood from the outset demands the total gift of self.

~Author Unknown

If I am Thy child, O God, it is because Thou gavest me such a mother.

~St. Augustine (354-430) speaking of his mother, St. Monnica whose feast day is May 4.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 9, 2010 3:34 PM CDT

Hi Julie,

You popped into my head today, so I took that as a sign I should stop by to say hello! I want you to know that Jeffery remains in my thoughts, and that you and your family will always be in my prayers.

With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, April 23, 2010 9:22 AM CDT

Blessings On Easter Morning!

"Welcome, happy morning!"
age to age shall say:
hell today is vanquished,
heaven is won today!
Lo! the dead is living,
God for evermore!
Him their true Creator,
all his works adore!

Refrain:
"Welcome, happy morning!" age to age shall say.

Earth her joy confesses,
clothing her for spring,
all fresh gifts return
with her returning King:
bloom in every meadow,
leaves on every bough,
speak his sorrow ended,
hail his triumph now.

Months in due succession,
days of lengthening light,
hours and passing moments
praise thee in their flight.
Brightness of the morning,
sky and fields and sea,
Vanquisher of darkness,
bring their praise to thee.

Maker and Redeemer,
life and health of all,
thou from heaven beholding
human nature's fall,
of the Father's Godhead
true and only Son,
mankind to deliver,
manhood didst put on.

Thou, of life the Author,
death didst undergo,
tread the path of darkness,
saving strength to show;
come then, true and faithful,
now fulfill thy word,
'tis thine own third morning!
rise, O buried Lord!

Loose the souls long prisoned,
bound with Satan's chain;
all that now is fallen
raise to life again;
show thy face in brightness,
bid the nations see;
bring again our daylight:
day returns with thee!

Words: Fortunatus, (ca. 535-600);
trans. John Ellerton (1826-1893), 1868

Music: Fortunatus (Arthur Seymour Sullivan, 1872)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w189.html

Your Iron Angel will be remembered in Easter Eucharist.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 4, 2010 1:21 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I have been thinking of you and of Jeffery on this day of holy waiting. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, Creator of heaven and earth: Grant that, as the crucified body of your dear Son was laid in the tomb and rested on this holy Sabbath, so we may await with him the coming of the third day, and rise with him to newness of life; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 3, 2010 8:37 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I am sorry I have not been able to return to this book earlier, but I have been thinking of you and of Jeffery often during this Holy Week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Good Friday:

Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family, for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 2, 2010 10:23 PM CDT

Hey Guys...just dropping by to say that I think of you often and wanted you to know I keep you in my prayers. I picture Jeffery holding court so to speak, with lots of Angel friends around...I know every time I hear Free Bird on the radio I ALWAYS think of him, always. Sending love*********
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy cummings/david fitting <kcummings03@gmail.com>
boynton beach, fl usa - Saturday, March 27, 2010 7:00 PM CDT

God's Blessings To All On The First Day Of Spring!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you with encouragement and love as we bid good-bye to a long winter and welcome in the spring. I hope you are feeling well and encouraged today. Having daylight until about 7:30 each night has made me think of all of those nights, a few years ago, when we rushed out to the Little League fields. I am sure you have similar happy memories of spring nights with Jeffery as he did spring activities. May those memories be sweet and full of hope for the future in God's eternal kingdom.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

March 20
Vernal Equinox

Everywhere is the green of new growth,
The amazing sight of the renewal of the earth.
We watch the grass once again emerging from the ground.
We notice the bright green atop the dark green on the pines,
the fir, the hemlock, the spruce, the cedar.
The alder is already in leaf.
The old plum trees still blossom, leaf, and give forth fruit.
The locust is late as always.
Everywhere and always the song of birds...bees
raiding the orchard, raccoon prowling at
nightfall, the earthworm tunneling the garden,
chickens and rabbits pecking and nibbling, the
goats tugging to reach new delights...all are the
ubiquitous energies of life.

O Lord,
May we today be touched by grace, fascinated and
moved by this your creation, energized by the
power of new growth at work in your world.
May we move beyond viewing this life only through a
frame, but
touch it and be touched by it,
know it and be known by it,
love it and be loved by it.
May our bodies, our minds, and our spirits, learn a new
rhythm paced by the rhythmic pulse of the
whole created order.
May spring come to us, be in us, and recreate life in us.
May we forge a new friendship with the natural
world and discover a new affinity with beauty,
with life, and with the Cosmic Christ in whom
all things were created in heaven and on earth,
visible or invisible, whether thrones or
dominions or principalities or authorities...for
all things were created through him and for him.
In his name.
Amen.

~Chinook Psalter
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 20, 2010 12:25 AM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I have thought of you all several times this week. You have been in my daily prayers, but especially on March 16.

Today, St. Joseph's Day, I especially think of Joseph. May God bless him.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, who from the family of your servant David raised up Joseph to be the guardian of your incarnate Son and the spouse of his virgin mother: Give us grace to imitate his uprightness of life and his obedience to your commands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 19, 2010 2:37 PM CDT

Dear Jeff, Julie, and Joseph,

I have just prayed for all three of you, each by name, on the third anniversary of Jeffery's passing. May God fill your hearts with assurance, hope, and peace.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect, The Collect For Tuesday In The Fourth Week Of Lent:

O God, with you is the well of life, and in your light we see light: Quench our thirst with living water, and flood our darkened minds with heavenly light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 16, 2010 9:34 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

Following a long line of greeting mothers on Mid-Lent Sunday (Mothering Sunday), I salute you today. Perhaps you will have a taste of Simnel Cake or Mothering Sunday Buns. May thoughts of your handsome son, Jeffery, be sweet today.

I am pausing to pray for you, as I did earlier at Eucharist. God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 14, 2010 10:44 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

Thank you for the very kind words. As you know, I am not signing guest books as regularly as I once did, but I am continuing to remember your precious iron angel in Holy Eucharist, which is the place where heaven and earth meet. I will be thinking of you, Jeff, and Joseph on March 16.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Saturday In The Third Week Of Lent:

O God, you know us to be set in the midst of so many and great dangers, that by reason of the frailty of our nature we cannot always stand upright: Grant us such strength and protection as may support us in all dangers, and carry us through all temptations; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 13, 2010 2:58 AM CST

Thank you, Colette for signing Jeffery's guest book, I do still come by and check the book to see who's signed. Some of your entries have brought me to tears, much needed tears, and I thank you for being there for us. May God keep you close as you are one of his best prayer warriors! Peace and Prayers to your family from ours, Colette! 4j's * 4 ever!
Julie, Jeffery and Joseph's mom <jsample2@comcast.net>
jax, fl usa - Sunday, February 7, 2010 11:57 AM CST

Happy New Year To All!

Dear Sample Family,

I want you to know that I am thinking of you today. I hope you had a good holiday meal, and I hope you take comfort, as you think of the Holy Name of Jesus, in remembering the naming of your iron angel. May 2010 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings for all of you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):

Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 1, 2010 8:37 PM CST

Blessings To All On New Year's Eve!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 31, 2009 5:16 PM CST

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

When I read at St. George's yesterday, and when I attended both Eucharist and Christmas Lessons and Carols today, Jeffery was in my thoughts and prayers. I also prayed for you and for other loved ones of Jeffery. May God bless you all.

I hope you have been enjoying this Christmas Weekend and will enjoy the remaining days of Christmas. May this season of blessing give you hope for a joyous reunion with Jeffery and for many other good things to come.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

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A Christmas Affirmation
by John Killinger

I believe that Christmas is more than a time for parties and ornaments; it is a time for remembering Christ and the incarnation of God’s love in human flesh. I believe there are gifts more important than the ones under the Christmas tree, such as the things we teach our children, the way we share ourselves with friends, and the industry with which we set about reshaping the world in our time. I believe that the finest carols are often sung by the poorest voices, from hearts made warm by the wonder of the season. I believe in the angel’s message that we should not be afraid – that the Child of Bethlehem is able to overcome all anxieties and insecurities. I believe in prayer and quietness as ways of appropriating Christmas – that if I wait in silence I will experience the presence of the One born in the stable, for Jesus lives today as surely as he lived then. I believe in going away from Christmas as the Magi went – another way. I want to be different when these days are past – more centered, more thoughtful, more caring. And I believe God will help me. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 27, 2009 6:30 PM CST

~Christmas Eve Blessings To All!

Dear Julie and Family,

I just want to remind you that you are in my prayers tonight.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Tonight's Collect:

O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 24, 2009 4:19 PM CST

Blessings To All On The First Sunday In Advent!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery has been remembered, in Holy Eucharist, on Saturday and Sunday. May God always bless his sweet spirit.

In addition to lighting the first violet Advent candle this morning, we sang five Advent hymns, at St. George's. One was new to me. I will add the words and tune link below below.

I am thinking of you, and of all of Jeffery's friends and loved ones, during these days of hope and preparation. God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Bless'd be the God of Israel who comes to set us free
and raises up new hope for us: a branch of David's tree.
So have the prophets long declared that with a mighty arm
God would turn back our enemies and all who wish us harm.

With promised mercy will God still the covenant recall,
the oath once sworn to Abraham, from foes to save us all;
that we might worship without fear and offer lives of praise,
in holiness and righteousness to serve God all our days.

My child, as prophet of the Lord you will prepare the way,
to tell God's people they are saved from sin's eternal sway.
Then shall God's mercy from on high shine forth and never cease
to drive away the gloom of death and lead us into peace.

Words: Carl P. Daw, Jr. b. 1944

Music: Forest Green, an old English folk tune, arranged by Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/i/i127.html

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 29, 2009 12:09 AM CST

I am sorry about the two entries. The page did not seem to be working.

Once again, God bless you all.

Grace and peace,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 26, 2009 11:37 AM CST

Happy Thanksgiving To All!

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking of you today. You have given me, and many others, a gift in sharing your son and brother with us. Jeffery is always a part of my heart.

Below is my favorite Thanksgiving Prayer and today's collect. If you have some time, please pray them with me.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Litany of Thanksgiving:

Let us give thanks to God our Father for all his gifts so freely bestowed upon us.

For the beauty and wonder of creation, in earth and sky and sea,
R: We thank you, Lord.

For all that is gracious in the lives of men and women, revealing the image of Christ,
R: We thank you, Lord.

For our daily food and drink, our homes and families, and our friends,
R: We thank you, Lord.

For minds to think, and hearts to love, and hands to serve,
R: We thank you, Lord.

For health and strength to work, and leisure to rest and play,
R: We thank you, Lord.

For the brave and courageous, who are patient in suffering and faithful in adversity,
R: We thank you, Lord.

For all valiant seekers after truth, liberty, and justice,
R: We thank you, Lord.

For the communion of saints, in all times and places,
R: We thank you, Lord.

Above all, we give you thanks for the great mercies and promises given to us in Christ Jesus our Lord:
R: To him be praise and glory, with you, O Father, and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.

The Book of Common Prayer, Page 837

The Collect For Thanksgiving Day:

Almighty and gracious Father, we give you thanks for the fruits of the earth in their season and for the labors of those who harvest them. Make us, we pray, faithful stewards of your great bounty, for the provision of our necessities and the relief of all who are in need, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 246

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 26, 2009 11:35 AM CST

Happy Thanksgiving!

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy
Huntsville, AL - Thursday, November 26, 2009 11:14 AM CST

Dear Julie,

As we start the autumn season, I am thinking of you and remembering Jeffery. I hope all is going well for you, Jeff, and Joseph, and I hope you can enjoy the color and bounty of the season.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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The summer yields to the autumn winds blowing
While the cool burns the leaves golden red
We harvest fields we planted once knowing
Grains of truth would soon come to a head.

Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.

Again dreams seeming hard to remember
Alluring sleep ever taking its toll
Love redeems like the snows of December
Pure and deep as the infinite soul.

Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.

To meadowlands of the soul's flowering
We return from the roots we have sprung
To understand love we know is empowering
Though we learn from the truth where love hung.

Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.

~Chris Van Cleave (American musician and songwriter)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 23, 2009 4:42 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

On the anniversary of the 9/11 attack, I am thinking of you, of Jeffery, and of those brave souls that perished in New York City, in Pennsylvania, and at the Pentagon. Among those individuals are two somewhat connected to me. One was a classmate in high school, whose wife was also a classmate, and the other was a priest, who at one time served at Siena College, a few miles from our home. (A prayer of that priest is below.) May God bless your iron angel and hero, and may God also bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Mychal's Prayer:

Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.

~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 11, 2009 11:10 AM CDT

Happy Labor Day To All!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Andrew and I had a busy day today, so we decided to slip into Pizza Hut for the buffet lunch. As always, it was good. Today, they seemed to have an especially appealing selection of items for making a tossed salad, but we also had some pizza, pasta, and bread sticks. I know Jeffery would have loved this spread.

I hope you have had some time to relax during this long weekend.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Labor Day:

Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 825
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 7, 2009 4:53 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

On a day when some think of the special relationship between a parent and a child, I am thinking of both you and Jeff and of what good parents you were, and are, to sweet Jeffery. Of course, you are also a great mom and dad to Joseph.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, who chose the blessed Virgin Mary to be the mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 15, 2009 9:40 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I am thinking about you and remembering sweet Jeffery today. I hope all is going well.

I am not spending as much time as I once did on my computer, so I am not signing guest books very often, but if you ever need a listening ear, I am here. Please feel free to email.

I have been humming a hymn we often sing on the Transfiguration, which is today, so I will leave it and the collect below.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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Christ upon the mountain peak
stands alone in glory blazing;
let us, if we dare to speak,
with the saints and angels praise him.
Alleluia!

Trembling at his feet we saw
Moses and Elijah speaking.
All the prophets and the Law
shout through them their joyful greeting.
Alleluia!

Swift the cloud of glory came.
God proclaiming in its thunder
Jesus as his Son by name!
Nations cry aloud in wonder!
Alleluia!

This is God's beloved Son!
Law and prophets before him;
first and last and only One,
let creation now adore him!
Alleluia!

Words: Brian A. Wren (born 1936)

Music: Mowsley, Cyril Vincent Taylor (born 1907)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c109.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 6, 2009 3:59 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I am sorry to not have wished you a very Happy Fourth of July Weekend. We have had a lot of severe weather here, in southern Saratoga County, for the past twelve to fourteen days, so I have not used the computer very much. I hope you are all well and enjoying a good summer.

We had hotdogs for dinner one night this week. I wonder if you have your hotdog cart in operation. If so, I am sure your customers appreciate it. (We used to get a dog from a cart, in Troy, when I took my son to the dentist, and I know there are carts operating near the museum, in Albany.)

I continue to remember your iron angel, Jeffery, in Eucharist.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 10, 2009 10:24 AM CDT

Hi Julie. Just stopping by to let you know I was thinking of you guys. Thanks so much for stopping by Lindsay's page still and leaving a message. I'm so bad with updating. She and the rest of the family are doing wonderful. I pray that things are going well for your family and want you to know that I think of Jeffery and his beautiful smile often.
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.org/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Sunday, June 28, 2009 7:01 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you and of your iron angel on a beautiful early summer morning. I hope you are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Sharing A Summer Prayer:

May the openness that Summer brings be a gift to us-
To open the windows of our lives to other people,
To open our homes to share the hospitality of table and church.

Open our minds to revel in the beauty of nature-
The smell of newly mown grass
The morning dew on the rosebud
The scent of honeysuckle on the evening air
The open spaces offering relaxation and a change of pace.

Open our hearts to your love and may your Spirit rest with
each one of us.

~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 23, 2009 10:39 AM CDT

Summer Blessings To All Of Jeffery's Family, Friends, And Supporters!

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking of you and of Jeffery today. I hope all is well and that you are enjoying the first day of summer. Are you using the hotdog cart this year?

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 21, 2009 4:03 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Jeff,

I have come here tonight to let you know that I am thinking of you both on another Father's Day Weekend, with Jeffery in heaven. I know it cannot be any easier for you, and I am so sorry that there is not something more that I can say, or do, to help.

I am sure that Jeff is a very good husband and father. May you both be blessed in both of your children today and always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Some Favorite Quotes On Fatherhood:

My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me.
~Jim Valvano

It is not flesh and blood but the heart which makes us fathers and sons.
~Johann Schiller

I don't care how poor a man is; if he has family, he's rich.
~M*A*S*H, Colonel Potter

I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.
~Sigmund Freud

Fathers are angels sent from heaven.
~Unknown

Father! - to God himself we cannot give a holier name.
~William Wordsworth

Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance.
~Ruth E. Renkel

My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.
~Clarence Kelland

The greatest gift I ever had
Came from God; I call him Dad!
~Author Unknown

Again, God bless you. I am praying for you tonight.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 20, 2009 10:03 PM CDT

Blessed Trinity Sunday To All!

Dear Julie and Family,

Jeffery has been remembered once again in Holy Eucharist. Also, right now, I am pausing at my keyboard to pray for all of you. As with a previous writer, I hope all is well with Joseph.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 7, 2009 2:47 PM CDT

Dear Julie,
Hey Girl, just stopping in to let you know I was 'here', I visit Jeffery's page so I can see that great smile of his! You guys remain, always, in my thoughts and prayers. Hope all is well with Joseph. Hugs from the other end of Florida! :)
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, June 1, 2009 6:20 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

Because May 31 fell on a Sunday this year, the church is remembering the Visitation of the Virgin Mary today. In many ways, all of us who are mothers, share in Mary's motherhood of the Holy Child. (This was made clear to me, when I placed an icon of Mary and Jesus on our mantle, and one of my boys announced, "You and me, Mom!") So, may we too, be blessed, as the collect says, in keeping God's word.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 12:23 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

On a windy Pentecost afternoon, I am thinking of you and remembering Jeffery. I read the lessons at one of our services, including a long lesson from Acts 2, with many difficult names identifying groups of ancient peoples.

I hope you are well and that you have had a good weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Here's one of my favorite Pentecost hymns. Perhaps you can sing some of it today.

Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.

Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain

Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain

Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain

Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain

God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain

God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain

Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain

Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906

Music: Salve, festa dies

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h031.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 31, 2009 5:47 PM CDT

Happy Memorial Day To All Of Jeffery's Family, Friends, And Supporters!

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking of you on a clear, pleasant Memorial Day afternoon. I hope you have had adequate time to remember, reflect, and pray during this long weekend.

Jeffery has been remembered in Holy Eucharist.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayer For Our Country

Almighty God, who hast given us this good land for our heritage: We humbly beseech thee that we may always prove ourselves a people mindful of thy favor and glad to do thy will. Bless our land with honorable industry, sound learning, and pure manners. Save us from violence, discord, and confusion; from pride and arrogance, and from every evil way. Defend our liberties, and fashion into one united people the multitudes brought hither out of many kindreds and tongues. Endue with the spirit of wisdom those to whom in thy Name we entrust the authority of government, that there may be justice and peace at home, and that, through obedience to thy law, we may show forth thy praise among the nations of the earth In the time of prosperity, fill our hearts with thankfulness, and in the day of trouble, suffer not our trust in thee to fail; all which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 820
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 25, 2009 4:54 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Jeffery, on a cool, spring morning. The hint of new life is in the air. May we be open, grateful, and expectant.

I am leaving you a short poem I like very much.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

On Waking
By John O'Donohue, Irish Mystic (1954-2008)

I give thanks for arriving
Safely in a new dawn,
For the gift of eyes
To see the world,
The gift of mind
To feel at home
In my life.
The waves of possibility
Breaking on the shore of dawn,
The harvest of the past
That awaits my hunger,
And all the furtherings
This new day will bring.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 18, 2009 7:32 AM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

Early one night this week, Andrew took me to Albany, to see thousands of tulips, in Washington Park. They were gorgeous. I hope you, too, are experiencing beauty in your lives this week.

As always, I am remembering your iron angel, Jeffery, with a smile in my heart.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Pachomius, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 14, 2009 10:49 AM CDT

Weekend Blessings To All Mothers!

Dear Julie,

I am thinking of you, of your sister, and of all nurturing women in Jeffery's life, on this Mother's Day Weekend. May you all be well and be blessed.

Jeffery will be remembered at Eucharist soon.

In the poem below, there is a mention of that place where Jeffery now dwells. May it bring hope to your soul.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

To My Mother

~by Wendell Berry (born 1934)

I was your rebellious son,
do you remember? Sometimes
I wonder if you do remember,
so complete has your forgiveness been.

So complete has your forgiveness been
I wonder sometimes if it did not
precede my wrong, and I erred,
safe found, within your love,

prepared ahead of me, the way home,
or my bed at night, so that almost
I should forgive you, who perhaps
foresaw the worst that I might do,

and forgave before I could act,
causing me to smile now, looking back,
to see how paltry was my worst,
compared to your forgiveness of it

already given. And this, then,
is the vision of that Heaven of which
we have heard, where those who love
each other have forgiven each other,

where, for that, the leaves are green,
the light a music in the air,
and all is unentangled,
and all is undismayed.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 9, 2009 1:16 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking of you all and also remembering your iron angel. I hope you are all well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (Feast Of St. Mark, A Red Letter Day):

Almighty God, who by the hand of Mark the evangelist have given To your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 25, 2009 9:04 PM CDT

Blessings To All On St. George's Day!

Dear Julie,

I am smiling thinking of events on this day in years past. One year, at the annual St. George's pageant, at St. George's, as the child portraying the saint, kicked the dragon's cave, a startled young Andrew began to cry. Minutes later, the same young Andrew was all smiles, when tasty treats were served.

I wonder, did Jeffery ever see this pageant? What plays and shows did Jeffery enjoy? Did he ever participate in a play? What role did he have? You know the answer to these questions. May they be a source of joyful remembrance to you today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

God bless us all, when we exercise courage over ourselves, in times of difficulty, and courage in faith, to witness to the Name of Jesus.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 23, 2009 5:05 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. I also prayed for you.

We are finally beginning to have some spring weather, here, in southern Saratoga County. I imagine you are busy with the hotdog cart. The thought of eating outside makes me happy.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:56 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

As we continue Easter Week, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Jeffery. I hope you enjoyed a great Easter dinner, after attending an uplifting service.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:21 AM CDT

Easter Joy And Blessings To All!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery has been remembered in Easter Eucharist.

I hope you are having a good day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Jeffery's friends and loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

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Jesus Christ is risen today, Alleluia!
our triumphant holy day, Alleluia!
who did once upon the cross, Alleluia!
suffer to redeem our loss. Alleluia!

Hymns of praise then let us sing, Alleluia!
unto Christ, our heavenly King, Alleluia!
who endured the cross and grave, Alleluia!
sinners to redeem and save. Alleluia!

But the pains which he endured, Alleluia!
our salvation have procured, Alleluia!
now above the sky he's King, Alleluia!
where the angels ever sing. Alleluia!

Sing we to our God above, Alleluia!
praise eternal as his love, Alleluia!
praise him, all ye heavenly host, Alleluia!
Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Alleluia!

Words: Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Stanza 4, Charles Wesley (1707-1788)

Music: Easter Hymn, from Lyra Davidica, 11708; adapt. The Compleat Psalmodist, 1749

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/j/j038.html

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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 12, 2009 1:11 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I am thinking of you, and of all of Jeffery's family, on this day of holy resting.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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O Sorrow Deep!

O sorrow deep! Who would not weep
with heartfelt pain and sighing!
God the Father's only Son
in the tomb is lying.

The Paschal Lamb, like Isaac's ram,
in blood was offered for us,
pouring out the life that he
might to life restore us.

Blest shall they be eternally
who ponder in their weeping
that the glorious Prince of Life
should in death be sleeping.

O Jesus blest, my help and rest,
who tears I pray thee, hear me:
now, and even unto death,
dearest Lord, be near me.

Words: St. 1, Friedrich von Spee (1591-1635); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944). Sts. 2-3, James Waring McCrady (b. 1938). St. 4, Johann Rist (1607-1667); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944)

Music: O Traurigkeit

The Hymnal 1982, #173

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o594.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 11, 2009 11:40 AM CDT

~Palm Sunday Blessings To All!

Dear Sample Family,

As Andrew and I enjoyed spinach omelets on a cold Palm Sunday, I thought of my CaringBridge friends. Jeffrey will be remembered in many services this week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):

Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:

Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.

Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain

The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain

The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain

To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain

Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain

Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern

Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 5, 2009 5:07 PM CDT

Dear Friends,

I am thinking of you and remembering your iron angel, Jeffery, on his second anniversary. May God comfort and sustain you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 16, 2009 11:50 PM CDT

Hi family, I have held you in my
heart today.Hard to believe that
it has been two years today.We are
saying a special prayer for you all
today.Our love for you all is still
unconditional and never endinding.
just remember, someday soon, all this
madness will end and we will all be
togather in paradise forever.
God Bless You all.
We love and miss you Jeffery.
oxo
www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver.ch@gmail.com>
macon, ga usa - Monday, March 16, 2009 10:49 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

We are beginning to get a few somewhat warm days, here, in southern Saratoga County, and we certainly are happy that today will be the first, of many to come, with more daylight. I am sure things look more like spring in your area than they do here. I hope the beginning of the rebirth of the earth, makes you smile, as you think of the eternal life promised us in Holy Scripture.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218

+++

I am sorry I have not signed Jeffery's book recently. I am not signing guest books very much these days, but I do think of all of my CaringBridge youth. May Jeffery, and all, rest in peace, in the paradise of God.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 8, 2009 11:48 AM CDT

Hi Julie,
Just stopping to let you know I'm thinking of you guys. I had been with out my computer through the holidays and wanted so bad to visit my CB Angels pages...I cannot imagine how difficult life without Jeffery is, let alone the holidays...I thought of you all and kept you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending big HUGS from Boynton Beach!
Love,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
BOYNTON BEACH, FL USA - Wednesday, January 14, 2009 7:56 PM CST

Glad Epiphany To All!

Dear Julie,

On this holy day, I am thinking of you, and of your iron angel, Jeffery. We are having nasty weather, and I am not feeling my best, so I did not get out to Eucharist tonight. I am contenting myself singing some of my favorite Epiphany hymns. I will include the John Mason Neale hymn that not many people know, but which is probably my favorite. Tony Barrand and John Roberts, who study and perform traditional music, are the ones that introduced it to me. It is on a couple of their Nowell Sing We Clear albums and also on a William Pint and Felicia Dale recording.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Over the Hill and Over the Dale
by John Mason Neale

Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.

Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.

He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.

Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.

+++ Remember, each time we encounter the living Christ, we continue with hearts and footsteps lighter. +++

Today's Collect:

O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.

+++

When you can, please update the homepage.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 9:02 PM CST

Happy New Year To All!

Dear Sample Family,

Today, as we look upon the holy event of the naming of our Lord, Jesus Christ, may you be blessed in thinking of the birth and naming of your dear son, Jeffery, and the later birth and naming of his brother, Joseph.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 1, 2009 4:32 PM CST

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you all on New Year's Eve.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 31, 2008 8:44 PM CST

A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson

Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.

Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.

Amen.

God bless you, dear Sample family. I am thinking of you tonight, and I am remembering your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 3:34 PM CST

Christmas Blessings To All!

Dear Sample Family,

May your worship tonight, or tomorrow, be filled with joy and praise. I am thinking of you, and of sweet Jeffery, at this holy time of the year.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

LORD JESUS, as we contemplate your en-flesh-ment,

so that you could be like us in all ways but sin:

give us hearts filled with faith and gratitude,

that in this Christ-Mass we make experience Your redeeming love.

Amen.

~A Prayer By Daniel William Herzog

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 10:09 AM CST

Dear Julie and Family,

I cannot believe how long it has been, since I have signed Jeffery's guest book. I have been here, a few times, but I had little, or nothing, to say, each time.

We were without power last week, due to an ice storm, for three days. I am catching up on things I could not do then.

Today was another blustery December day. We have fresh snow, but, due to the wind, I did not see, or hear, any children playing outside, after school.

We marked the Feast of St. Thomas, the Apostle, today. (It is normally celebrated on December 21, and is often the day of winter ordinations, but it was transferred, due to Sunday, which is always a Feast of Our Lord.) I will leave the collect and a hymn below.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everliving God, who strengthened your apostle Thomas With sure and certain faith in your Son's resurrection: Grant us so perfectly and without doubt to believe in Jesus Christ, our Lord and our God, that our faith may never be found wanting in your sight; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.

All praise, O Lord, for Thomas whose short-lived doubtings prove
Your perfect two-fold nature, the depth of your true love.
To all who live with questions a steadfast faith afford;
And grant us grace to know you, made flesh, yet God and Lord.

Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 22, 2008 11:36 PM CST

Happy Thanksgiving, To All!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you, and of all of Jeffery's other loved ones, on this great feast day. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Now thank we all our God,
with heart and hands and voices,
who wondrous things hath done,
in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mother's arms
hath blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love,
and still is ours today.

O may this bounteous God
through all our life be near us,
with ever-joyful hearts
and blessèd peace to cheer us;
and keep us in his grace,
and guide us when perplexed,
and free us from all ills
in this world and the next.

All praise and thanks to God
the Father now be given,
the Son, and Holy Ghost,
supreme in highest heaven,
the one eternal God,
whom earth and heaven adore;
for thus it was, is now,
and shall be evermore.

Words: Martin Rinkart (1586-1649), 1636
trans. Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858

Music: Nun danket alle Gott (later form of melody by Johann Crüger, 1598-1662)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n139.html

Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 27, 2008 11:31 AM CST

Stopping by to say hello and let you know that I am thinking of you and your beautiful family. I wish you a very peaceful Thanksgiving.

Warmly,
Julie-Maddie's mom-www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Saturday, November 22, 2008 11:14 PM CST

Hello my Wonderful Family... I am in Michigan right now and I am loving seeing the SNOW....It is so nice to be where OUR PRECIOUS ANGEL was before and enjoy knowing that Jeffery is with me today and Always... I have seen soooo many birds today....THANK YOU JEFFERY....I LOVE YOU AND I AM EMBRACING YOU AND REMEMBERING THE GOOD TIMES ALWAYS!!!! I was able to see where Jeffery and Joey played in the snow and where My WONDERFUL SISTER tried to break her neck on a snow board...OMG!!!!! WHAT WHERE YOU THINKING????? I AM LOVING YOU ALWAYS JEFFERY SCOTT!!!!THANK YOU FOR SENDING ME LOVE!!!!
AUNT JANET <SCHEEJAN1@AOL.COM>
JAX, FL - Sunday, November 9, 2008 9:15 PM CST

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I was planning to be at the polls at this time, but instead, a minor household emergency has brought me and my plumber together, at this hour. (I will go over to vote later.) I hope you are well and having a good day.

God bless you, God bless sweet Jeffery, and God bless America.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Someone sent me this prayer thought. I do not know the author's name.

Whether your political color is red or blue, I ask your prayers for justice and non-violence at the polls today. Give thanks that this election has drawn more Americans to participate than at any time in our history; please pray that everyone who wants to vote will be able to do so, and that those votes will be counted as they were cast. Pray that long lines may not lead to short tempers, that fairness will guide the process across our land, and that justice may roll down like waters, and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 9:59 AM CST

Blessings On All Soul's Day!

Dear Julie,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Jeffery, on this twin feast to All Saints Day. May you find peace and encouragement throughout the day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless that sweet soul, your Iron Angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon them; and in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 3, 2008 9:37 AM CST

hello my WONDERFUL FAMILY!!!!I am sitting here thinking of our PRECIOUS ANGEL JEFFERY!!!! I am missing Jeffery sooooo badly these days... I know he is always with us, but I soooo miss being able to HUG AND KISS ON HIM!!!!Oh Jeffery...I WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER...BUT I AM ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU...and remembering your face and your wonderful laugh and smile.... I know we will see you again real soon...So keep smiling and we will to.. just knowing that we will be with you again is the only thing that keeps us going...I LOVE YOU SWEET ANGEL!!!
LOVE, AUNT JANET <SCHEEJAN1@AOL.COM>
- Thursday, October 16, 2008 8:08 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I am humbly signing, after a beautiful tribute to you, from Cheryl. I am sure that few reading any of the guest books have suffered as you have, while remaining so faithful to God and to family.

On Friday afternoon, I hope you are at the beginning of a good weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I will remember Jeffery, in weekend Eucharist.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect Often Used On Fridays:

Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on
the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within
the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit
that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those
who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for
the honor of your Name. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 3, 2008 2:47 PM CDT

Dear Julie, as I am sitting here feeling
soooooooo sorry for myself and my
Jennifer, I began to look at your family
picture that I have beside my computer,
and I am so humbled.I miss you my friend.
I wish with all my heart that we could just
sit togather and laugh and talk and comfort
each other.You are truly my hero Julie,I
have so much admiration and love for you all.
I pray for you often,everyday , you are NEVER
far from my heart.Remember that our home is always
open and we are never more then a phone call or letter away.All my love ALWAYS, Cheryl oxoxoxo
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
Macon, Ga United States - Thursday, September 25, 2008 11:02 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I am thinking of you on a beautiful first day of autumn. I hope all is well with you, Jeff, and Joseph, and with all of Jeffery's other loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

We thank you, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 22, 2008 5:16 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

Jeffery has been remembered in Holy Eucharist once again. I always think of your iron angel, when I am in church, and I always pray for you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):

Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 21, 2008 2:53 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I have been here a few times, but have not signed Jeffery's guest book. The latest was late last night, and my brain was mush. I am remembering your iron angel, and I am thinking of you, Jeff, and Joseph.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Feast Of Ninian Of Galloway,
Bishop, Missionary To Scotland, 16 September 430:

O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant and bishop Ninian caused the light of the Gospel to shine in the land of Britain: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 12:26 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

My thoughts are with you on another Friday morning. May we all, "walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace," today and every day.

Jeffery will be remembered, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend.

Since today is Mother Teresa's eleventh anniversary, I will leave her daily prayer below.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Dear Jesus, help me to spread Thy fragrance everywhere I go. Flood my soul with Thy spirit and love. Penetrate and possess my whole being so utterly that all my life may only be a radiance of Thine.

~Mother Teresa's Daily Prayer, by Cardinal Newman
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 5, 2008 12:53 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

Please forgive me for mistyping your family name. I have some distant cousins, whose last name is what I wrote.

Jeffery was remembered in the beauty of holiness on Saturday afternoon. Following the service, a friend and I went to the Chinese buffet, for dinner. I am sure Jeffery would have enjoyed that meal!

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 31, 2008 4:39 AM CDT

Happy Labor Day Weekend To All!

Dear Semple Family,

This Labor Day Weekend, our family thinks of all of our military personnel, our police and fire fighters, our teachers and farmers, our doctors and dentists, and all who work nobly for the public good and the independence and prosperity of their families. May God bless them all.

I am wondering whether you will be taking the hotdog cart out this weekend. Up here, it is a great, clear period, after a very rainy spring and summer. I think there will be hungry crowds at parks and fairs.

Jeffery will be remembered in Holy Eucharist, as he is week by week. May God bless his sweet spirit.

May God nourish you with all good things, especially hope.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

Lord of all power and might, the author and giver of all good things: Graft in our hearts the love of your Name; increase in us true religion; nourish us with all goodness; and bring forth in us the fruit of good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 30, 2008 1:02 PM CDT

Of this I am certain, that no one has ever died who was not destined to die some time. Now the end of life puts the longest life on a par with the shortest... And of what consequence is it what kind of death puts an end to life, since he who has died once is not forced to go through the same ordeal a second time? They, then, who are destined to die, need not be careful to inquire what death they are to die, but into what place death will usher them.

~St. Augustine of Hippo (354-430)
Feast Day: August 28

Dear Julie,

I hope these words, from St. Augustine of Hippo, will be comforting and strengthening to you today, as you think of Jeffery, and others, who have gone before you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Lord God, the light of the minds that know you, the life of the souls that love you, and the strength of the hearts that serve you: Help us, following the example of your servant Augustine of Hippo, so to know you that we may truly love you, and so to love you that we may fully serve you, whom to serve is perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 28, 2008 11:24 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Jeff,

Today's saint is Bartholomew. One of my connections with this name is that when they were young, my boys gave me a lovely, soft, white teddy bear that I named Thomas Bartholomew. We had such a good time with that bear! I am sure little stories like this one make you think of dozens of sweet things Jeffery and Joseph did as little guys, and I hope those thoughts make your hearts smile.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet boys, Jeffery and Joseph.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everlasting God, who gave to your apostle Bartholomew grace truly to believe and to preach your Word: Grant that your Church may love what he believed and preach what he taught; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 25, 2008 11:45 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking abut you today and remembering sweet Jeffery. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 22, 2008 1:55 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I thought I left a message here for you yesterday. Since it was a rainy day, and I thought our power might go out, I saved it, as I wrote it, so I am sending it along today. Would you believe, we are having MORE thunder this afternoon! We have had one of the rainiest years on record. I hope you are having better weather, so you can take out the hot-dog cart and use Jeff's smoker.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

+++++++

Dear Julie,

On a day when many think of mothers, in honor of St. Mary, I am thinking of you, Jeffery, and all of the mothers in your family. May God bless you all.

I apologize for not signing Jeffery's guest book in over a month. It has been a long, busy, and, at times, discouraging summer here in southern Saratoga County. I am just not able to get to the books as often as I would like. Jeffery was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, last Saturday, when I served as lay reader, at St. George's, and he is remembered there, and at our house, often.

Below is the collect of the day and one of my favorite hymns. The second verse speaks of the mother of our Lord, who is a role model and friend to all Christian moms everywhere.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For The Feast Of St. Mary:

O God, who have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

+++++++

Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!

O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain

Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain

O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain

Words: Athelstan Riley (1858-1945), 1906

Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 16, 2008 1:30 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

On a day when many think of mothers, in honor of St. Mary, I am thinking of you, Jeffery, and all of the mothers in your family. May God bless you all.

I apologize for not signing Jeffery's guest book in over a month. It has been a long, busy, and, at times, discouraging summer here in southern Saratoga County. I am just not able to get to the books as often as I would like. Jeffery was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, last Saturday, when I served as lay reader, at St. George's, and he is remembered there, and at our house, often.

Below is the collect of the day and one of my favorite hymns. The second verse speaks of the mother of our Lord, who is a role model and friend to all Christian moms everywhere.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For The Feast Of St. Mary:

O God, who have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

+++++++

Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!

O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain

Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain

O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain

Words: Athelstan Riley (1858-1945), 1906

Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 15, 2008 4:07 PM CDT

Hi Julie. Just wanted to stop in and let you know I was thinking about you and Jeffery. I don't get a chance to stop in as much as I'd like, but wanted you to know that I think of you often and that I always end up with a smile on my face when I think of Jeffery. Such a beautiful, warm, loving son. How lucky we are that God chose us to be the parents of such beautiful children. Take care and know that you're thought of often.
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay) <kelfitz@rochester.rr.com>
Rochester, NY - Tuesday, July 29, 2008 5:55 AM CDT

Checking in on you to remind you that all 4 of you remain in my thoughts. Julie, I appreciate your efforts to stay connected. As hard as it is for us, we are blessed to have each other to lean on.
Wishing you peace.
With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Monday, July 28, 2008 7:35 PM CDT

Happy Fourth Of July To All!

Dear Julie,

I am thinking of you, of Jeffery, and of all of Jeffery's family, fans and supporters, on this Independence Day. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

The Collect For Independence Day:

Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 4, 2008 5:13 PM CDT

Hello my Wonderful Family..I love you all and I am thinking of OUR IRON ANGEL on this 4th of July afternoon....I know He is with us today and ALL days... He fought just as hard as our MEN and will enjoy the fire works as much as we will looking up at Heaven and remembering Him on this Beautiful Holiday!!!!We Love You Always Jeffery Scott Sample Jr...HERE'S TO YOU SWEET ANGEL!!!!!ENJOY THE SHOW!!!! Until We See You Again... LOVING YOU AND MISSING YOU FOREVER!!!!!!!
Aunt Janet <scheejan1@aol.com>
- Friday, July 4, 2008 2:36 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

How the time from Friday to Friday passes! Once again, I am praying for you and remembering Jeffery on the day when many pray William Reed Huntington's prayer. I hope all is well with you and with all of Jeffery's loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 27, 2008 7:10 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

I just want to let you know that I am thinking of you and of your iron angel, Jeffery. I know yesterday must have been bittersweet for Jeff, and for all of you.

We had a hectic weather day today, in upstate New York. Colonie, only about a fifteen minute drive away, had golf ball size hail. Other areas, within an hour of here, had nickel and penny size hail. The Poughkeepsie area had a tornado. We had heavy hard rain. I just saw pictures of the large hail stones, and the thought went through my head, "I wonder what Jeffery would have gotten into, if he had had access to those big ice balls?" May that thought bring a smile to your face.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Thinking Of Jeffery:

Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 16, 2008 10:37 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day To All!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I hope you are having a good day today. I am thinking of the three of you and of Jeffery. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 15, 2008 2:49 PM CDT

Happy Flag Day, Sample Family!

Dear Julie,

I guess almost everyone loves a parade. One of the largest Flag Day Parades in our nation is held each June, in nearby Troy, NY, the home of Uncle Sam Wilson, meat packer during the War of 1812. We have missed it this year, as it was held earlier in the week, but our thoughts are toward our country this morning.

Our thoughts are also toward your family. Jeffery will be remembered in the celebration of the Holy Eucharist, at St. George's.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 14, 2008 8:40 AM CDT

Julie thanks for all your kind and psoitive words on Dave's page. So happy Joe is going school! Dave will get his license before I sign him out...if anything, I can get someone to write a letter, but right now it appears that you can't get a license if you drop out, but if you get it prior to signing out you're okay, the car insurance may not be though..but I feel with Dave I can get letters written explaining his medical history and leave it at that. I know you 'get it'....time is more important than anything for David so I want him to live his dream. You are always on my mind and in my prayers. Jeffery too. Hugs and Love,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 6:44 AM CDT

Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water.

~Christopher Morley, writer (1890-1957)

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking of you today. Try to stay cool and well hydrated during this heat wave.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 9:12 AM CDT

Just dropping by to say you're on my mind and in my prayers. Sending love and Hugs....
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, May 30, 2008 10:56 AM CDT

Hi Julie,

Just wanted to let you know there is a blueberry festival coming June 6 & 7th . It's in Wellborn. Would love for you all to visit and lets do the Blueberry thing. Pie tasting and jelly and jam and junk like that. call me.

cathy
cathy <dualldogs@hughes.net>
live oak, - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 12:51 AM CDT

hi please know you are in my prayers.
Mary Sanchez
Tx USA - Monday, May 26, 2008 4:27 PM CDT

Happy Memorial Day, Sample Family!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday, and I am thinking of you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 840
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 26, 2008 1:47 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of all of you, and of sweet Jeffery, during this weekend of remembering both our military dead and our departed loved ones. May God bless those who mourn and those who, like your iron angel, rejoice in eternal life.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 25, 2008 2:05 AM CDT

Blessings To All On Trinity Sunday!

Dear Julie,

This is just a quickie to remind you, Jeff, and Joseph, that I am thinking of you and remembering your Iron Angel, Jeffery, on another Sunday afternoon.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 18, 2008 5:15 PM CDT

Hi Julie,

I'm glad you haven't changed the picture on the front page. It's very hard to believe that Jeffery is in Heaven but somehow I believe he is watching over you here. I love ya girl, and hope you are doing well right now. Big hugs and Kisses to all.
your friend Cathy
Cathyh, mom to Shawn,cb.org/fl/shawnreed <dualldogs@hughes.net>
live oak, fl - Friday, May 16, 2008 9:49 AM CDT

I was thinking of you especially this
mothersday my dear friend.I am always
praying for you. I have no doubt that Jeffery
is always with you, but most especially this
past Sunday.I luv you girl, stay in the faith.
peace
oxo
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon,, Georgia United States - Thursday, May 15, 2008 1:09 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

I know you missed your Iron Angel yesterday, but be assured, you will see Jeffery again.

God bless you and all of your family.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Heavenly Father, whose most dear Son, as He walked the way of The Cross, accepted the service of Simon of Cyrene to carry his physical burden for him: grant us each the grace gladly to bear one another's burdens, for the love of him who said, "As you did it to the least of these my brethren, you did it to me," your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 12, 2008 1:51 PM CDT

Greetings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery is in my thoughts today, as we celebrate the birthday of the church. It is not often that this great feast of the Holy Spirit also falls on Mother's Day. Here in the Capital District, of New York, is it also the Albany Tulip Fest, in honor of our Dutch heritage. What a busy day for folks involved in all!

The birds are singing here today, and the sky is bright and pretty. Some people will grill today, and others will go out for brunch. Perhaps you will use your smoker. Whatever you do, I wish Julie a Happy Mother's Day.

Even when I do not sign, I think of your beautiful family. God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 11, 2008 8:42 AM CDT

DIDO!!!!! MY DEAR SISTER....DIDO!!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!
JANET <SCHEEJAN1@AOL.COM>
- Friday, May 9, 2008 12:48 AM CDT

Thanks so much for your kind words Julie. I know you know how unpredictable this gbm is...I'am at peace knowing that right at this moment in time, David is living his dream....I pray he continues to be able. I think of Jeffery so often. Of all of you and the journey that brought us together 5 years ago. Jeffery is always in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks so much for keeping in touch. Much Love,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, May 9, 2008 10:10 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

Blessings on the Feast of the Ascension! Jeffery will be remembered in Holy Eucharist.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that as we believe your only-begotten Son our Lord Jesus Christ to have ascended into heaven, so we may also in heart and mind there ascend, and with him continually dwell; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 1, 2008 1:51 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

The sun is shining in Clifton Park today, and I am hoping you are having a good day, too. Probably the weather is good enough where you are, to have the hotdog cart out.

I would like to ask you, and all of Jeffery's friends, to pray for Samuel, a ten and a half year old boy, from Clifton Park, who is a patient at Children's Hospital, in Philadelphia. Sam's grandmother, Gert, is a storyteller, a good friend of mine, and the founder of our faith based story circle. I have been praying for Samuel, since he was in the womb, as testing revealed that he had half a heart. Sam, who had surgery on his heart, the day he was born, is in Philadelphia for testing and to have a pacemaker replaced. Thank you.

Today's saint is Catherine of Sienna, a reformer and spiritual teacher, who died on this date in 1380. Our Daughters of the King, at St. George's, is St. Catherine of Sienna Chapter, in her honor. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

Everlasting God, who so kindled the flame of holy love in the Heart of blessed Catherine of Siena, as she meditated on the passion of your Son our Savior, that she devoted her life to the poor and the sick, and to the peace and unity of the Church: Grant that we also may share in the mystery of Christ's death, and rejoice in the revelation of His Glory, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Tuesday, April 29, 2008 3:56 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I thought of Jeffery several times today, including while having ice cream, at Friendly's, with Andrew. He had a peanut butter topping on vanilla/peanut butter ice cream, and I had blueberry topping on black raspberry. Of course, since Andrew likes blueberries, he leaned over and took a few spoons of my treat, which was more than OK with me. I wonder if Jeffery would have liked either of these sundaes, or if perhaps a banana split, pie a la mode, or a hot fudge on chocolate, would have been more to his liking. I certainly wish Jeffery could be here, to go out for ice cream, pizza, or some other treat, with his folks, and to help with the family hotdog cart.

I hope you have had a good weekend. God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):

O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 27, 2008 11:36 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

Today is St. Mark's Day, and Father Bill is away, so there was not a Eucharist, at St. George's. It seems funny to me to not be attending a Red Letter Day service, but I will be remembering Jeffery in the beauty of holiness, over the weekend.

I hope you are well and anticipating a good weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, by the hand of Mark the evangelist you have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Since I could not receive today, I have been singing. Perhaps you will join me in this hymn that mentions St. Mark.

By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that we might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.

For Mark, O Lord we praise you,
the weak by grace made strong:
his witness in his Gospel
becomes victorious song.
May we, in all our weakness,
receive your power divine,
and all, as faithful branches
grow strong in you, the Vine.

Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #231

Music: Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 25, 2008 2:31 PM CDT

Happy St. George's Day To All!

Dear Julie,

Today makes me smile, as I remember St. George and the Dragon pageants from years gone by.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Commemoration Of St. George, The Martyr:

Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to Confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 23, 2008 1:30 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Once again, I am at my keyboard thinking of sweet Jeffery. May God bless him always.

I hope you are having a good spring and doing well in your hotdog business. If we lived in your area, we would stop at the cart.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Commemoration Of Damien The Leper, 15 April 1889:

Almighty Father, we praise your name for those who, following in the footsteps of your beloved Son, have preached the good news of salvation to the despised and rejected of the earth, not counting the cost to themselves; and we pray that your love for us may enkindle in our hearts an answering love for you and our neighbors, and that your grace may give us wisdom to see the opportunities you give us to serve you, and the courage to grasp them; that in all things we may be made conformable unto the image of the same your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who now lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 15, 2008 3:31 AM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

Sunday afternoon, Andrew decided to treat Kristen and I to dinner at the Red Lobster, which is one of my favorite places. We had a lovely time, although we all had a difficult time choosing from the ample menu. I was even able to bring home a couple of their excellent Cheddar Bay Biscuits. We have had a lot of cold, rainy weather, so the trip to the restaurant was a little break for all of us.

As today's outing brought me some cheer, I hope you, Jeff, and Joseph, are having some special occasions.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet Iron Angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Fourth Sunday In Easter:

O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people; Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 14, 2008 1:22 AM CDT

Just stopping by to let you all know I'm thionking of you. Keeping you all in my prayers and thoughts. Julie, thanks for the emails and keeping in touch. Keeping Jeffery in my thoughts and wondering what he's up to. You have yourself a true warrior and I know you are very proud. I cannot imagine how each day is for each of you. I only know how to pray. So I pray that each of you, on your darkest days, has the other to hold you up. To be there when it's just so hard it hurts to breathe. I pray for peace and comfort,but understand it is heartbreaking without Jeffery. He will always be remembered, and I come to his page today to let you know often I think of him. Often I think of you and his dad and brother....sending heartfelt prayers and hugs***********
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Saturday, April 12, 2008 5:21 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

This is a short note to remind you that I am thinking of you, and of Jeffery, today. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Do not let your Church close its eyes, O Lord, to the plight of the poor and neglected, the homeless and the destitute, the old and the sick, the lonely and those who have no one to care for them. Give us the vision and compassion with which you so richly endowed your servant William Augustus Muhlenberg, that we may labor tirelessly to heal those who are broken in body or spirit, and to turn their sorrow into joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

May your sorrow turn into joy today, knowing that Jeffery lives with our merciful Lord.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 1:39 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I am thinking of sweet Jeffery today, and I have paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. A few minutes ago, I received a "Cancer Candle," which I sent along in honor of family members and friends, who have died from this terrible disease. Jeffery was one of those, in my thoughts, as I did so. He has also been remembered in Eucharist, once again, this weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

An Easter Collect:

O Lord, the life of the faithful, the glory of the saints, and the delight of those who trust in you: Hear our supplications, and quench, we pray, the thirst of those who long for your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 6, 2008 2:13 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I have been here, at least three times, since you posted your entry on March 24. You are a hard act to follow.

I want to assure you that I pray for your family, and for several other CaringBridge families, on a regular basis. I have not walked in your shoes, but I do care, and I miss your iron angel, Jeffery, very much. How good it is to know that Jeffery, and many others, are now in a place where there is no sighing or saddess, but where there is peace, joy, abundance, and eternal life.

God bless you, Jeff, Joseph, and of course, sweet Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

I am Resurrection and I am life says the Lord.
Whoever has faith in me shall have life,
even thought he die.
And everyone who has life,
and has committed himself to me in faith,
shall not die forever.

As for me, I know that my Redeemer lives
and that at the last he will stand upon the earth.
After my waking, he will raise me up;
and in my body I shall see God.
I myself shall see, and my eyes behold him
who is my friend and not a stranger.

For none of us has life in himself,
and none becomes his own master when he dies.
For if we have life, we are alive in the lord,
and if we die, we die in the Lord.
So, then, whether we live or die,
we are the Lord's possession.

Happy from now on
are those who die in the Lord!
So it is, says the Spirit,
for they rest from their labors.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 491
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 2, 2008 10:58 AM CDT

Julie,

Thinking of you and your beautiful family, and sending my love to you.

Warmly,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Thursday, March 27, 2008 1:24 PM CDT

Hello all, Jeffery's mom here. I'm writing on the sign in sheet cause I don't want to move the journal from the front page, I'd like to leave that there for anyone it may help.

It's been a year since Jeffery went Home but it feels like its only been about
5 weeks. We are all still very raw from his illness. The pain that has set in
from not being able to touch him has left us very weak, no energy to speak of
and lonely to say the least. For some reason we are able to still wake in the
morning and move though the day.

Joseph has proven to be a very special person in this world. He is
spiritually strong and sound. He can say something to us to make us understand
what we're doing, just like that. Seems he's becoming an adult while we're
kinda reserved or unsure, don't misunderstand in most situations he is still so
young and doing "young people crap", I don't know how to explain it but he has
been able to step into our shoes and help direct us. I've been reading a lot of
books and most believe when the loss of a loved one occurs the family circle is
broken and the remaining family unit steps in and tries to physically fill the
loss in the circle. We have seen that to be true. Everyone in the family has
picked up something from Jeffery, even down to his messy, messy room! I won't
speak for everyone else but for me, I've picked up his ability to laugh at the
simplest of humor (loudly). After a few times, I was like, what was that? I
realized that I was laughing for Jeffery, keeping what
we would have heard, here with us. It makes perfect sense when you think about
it.

A few times during each day I can't seem to believe that he's gone, this
overwhelming panic grabs me and freaks me out. I'm able to somehow move through
it and go on. I'm trying to work through the grief, a better word would be
hell, or anything worse you can think of. I stop and cry on demand now because
holding it in can cause severe trauma to the heart and soul! I'd say we are all
doing as best as we can at this point. Jeffery is with us when we need him, he
still is comforting us even if we can't touch his beautiful body. When I cry,
my minds eye can see him standing beside me holding me, saying it's ok. Then I
feel a calm and move on. I know it's my baby comforting me, just as he always
had the ability to do. My Iron Angel!

We will survive these days in our lives no matter how dark they can be. I pray
that NO more children will die, that NO other family has to go through this
horrible, horrible pain, that God will come and get us, soon!

Someone just
recently asked me is life worth it? This saddness, is not worth this life, this
price is to high to pay. I can't believe that God intended for us to feel this
much pain. Maybe we grow, the books keep talking about growth. Who cares about
growing, I just want my baby back! I don't care about the person I'm to become
from this. I was perfectly happy with the person I was before Jeffery was taken
from us! I know, I know, maybe 100rds would benefit from the person I'm to be.
BUT, I'm not God, I would not willingly give my son for the sake of all others!
I'm human, stingy that way. Go figure.............

Peace and Prayers to you all and thank you for your continues prayers for us, as
you can see, we need them still!
4js*4ever!

Julie, Jeffery and Josephs mom <jsample2@comcast.net>
jax, fl usa - Monday, March 24, 2008 1:36 PM CDT

Happy Easter Sample Family!

Jeffery was remembered at the Easter Vigil, at St. George's. He is always in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who through your only begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 23, 2008 12:46 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you today, knowing that your connection with this day is strong, because of the suffering you have known with Jeffery's illness. May God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Good Friday:

Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family (the assembled church), for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 21, 2008 11:43 AM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

May the spiritual messages of this Holy Week provide assurance for you, in every way. It doesn't seem possible that Jeffery has been gone over a year.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Wednesday In Holy Week:

Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 19, 2008 11:16 AM CDT

I LOVE YOU JEFFERY!!!!!!!!!
AUNT JANET <SCHEEJAN1@AOL.COM>
- Monday, March 17, 2008 8:14 PM CDT

Hi, Jeffery.

It's been a year. Do you remember what a year means down here? It can be a long time to someone who is in physical or emotional pain. It's hard for us to understand the timelessness of Heaven - eternity without pain, fear, or sadness. Without even having to wait for the next exciting thing to happen or take time out to rest.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams

Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Sunday, March 16, 2008 10:12 PM CDT

FATHER, PLEASE HUG OUR PRECIOUS IRON ANGEL FOR US TODAY!!! LET HIM KNOW THAT WE ARE ALWAYS THINKING OF HIM AND LOVING HIM. THANK YOU FOR GIVING US THE STRENGTH TO LIVE EACH DAY BY FAITH....I KNOW YOU WRITE THE SCRIPTS LORD,PLEASE HELP US BE PREPARED FOR WHAT IS TO COME!!! GUIDE US THROUGH THESE ROUGH TIMES IN OUR LIVES...THE ONLY COMFORT I HAVE IS KNOWING THAT JEFFERY IS WITH YOU NOW AND THAT YOU ARE LOVING HIM AS MUCH AS WE DO.AMEN!!! UNTIL I SEE YOU AGAIN MY PRECIOUS SWEET ANGEL JEFFERY... I LOVE YOU FOREVER!!!!
AUNT JANET <SCHEEJAN1@AOL.COM>
- Sunday, March 16, 2008 0:01 AM CDT

~Palm Sunday Blessings To You All!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

We had the reading of the Passion, at Saturday afternoon Eucharist today, and it will be done again, tomorrow, at all of the services. It is always such a solemn, reverent occasion.

My thoughts are with you tonight, and I will remember Jeffery, and think of you, all throughout Holy Week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):

Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 15, 2008 8:44 PM CDT

I MISS YOU SWEET ANGEL!!!!! THANK YOU FOR WINKING AT US TODAY!!!!I FEEL YOUR PRESENTS AND MY HEART FEELS YOUR HUGS!!! LOVE AND KISSES TO YOU FOREVER!!! ;*
AUNT JANET <SCHEEJAN1@AOL.COM>
JAX, FL USA - Friday, March 14, 2008 10:12 PM CDT

As I am sitting here reading Jeffery's journal... I can't even believe he isn't sitting in the next room... I sometimes feel like this is all a really BAD dream and I will wake up any minute... The reality of it all is overwhelming at times... as I am sure most of you know... I just want to THANK my WONDERFUL NEPHEW JEFFERY for loving me and making me smile EVERYDAY!!!!!! I am so THANKFUL that He was a part of my life... (and will always be)I OFTEN think of Jeffery's passing day as being the WORST DAY of my life!!!!! In reality... It is the BEST...because he gave me the last gift he could and let me be a part of HIS FLIGHT TO HEAVEN!!!!I WILL BE ETERNALY GRATEFUL!!!!!I know he is with the FATHER and not suffering anymore...I also know that Jeffery wouldn't want us to suffer here without him...SOOOOO..... I will be praying for the good Lord to help our family to live each day with the FAITH of knowing that one blessed day we will be in Jeffery's life once again...I CAN FEEL THOSE BIG ARMS OF HIS REACHING OUT TO HUG ME NOW {{{{HUG}}}} I can't wait for that day to come because I miss Jeffery sooooooo much... I LOVE YOU SWEET ANGEL!!!!!UNTIL I SEE YOU AGAIN!!!! YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS AND FOREVER IN MY HEART!!!
Aunt Janet <Scheejan1@aol.com>
Jax, Fl USA - Wednesday, February 20, 2008 3:39 PM CST

That just breaks my heart. Your son's story. All of you look so happy in that picture. Ashley was diagnosed with Diffuse Instinct Pontine Glioma in June of 2005 and passed away March 29 2006. I was with her from the begining until the end and it broke my heart and it still does. Sometimes I wonder when things will get better and my heart will stop aching.
Please take care.
Tina Christian <InMemoryofAshley@aol.com>
Richmond, VA US - Sunday, February 17, 2008 2:19 PM CST

Happy Valentine's Day, Sample Family!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you and remembering your sweet iron angel, on this day of love and friendship. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Valentine: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 14, 2008 12:27 AM CST

Thinking of you all and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers...remembering Jeffery with a smile and that gleam he has in his eyes...just want you to know you are thought of often.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Tuesday, February 12, 2008 6:06 PM CST

thinking of you. www.groups.yahoo.com/group/prayfor
David Melton <DMelton321@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 6, 2008 11:23 AM CST

This is not at all how
We thought it was supposed to be
We had so many plans for you
We had so many dreams
And now you've gone away
And left us with the memories of your smile
And nothing we can say
And nothing we can do
Can take away the pain
The pain of losing you, but ...

We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end, oh no
And we can grieve with hope
'Cause we believe with hope
(There's a place by God's grace)
There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again

And never have I known
Anything so hard to understand
And never have I questioned more
The wisdom of God's plan
But through the cloud of tears
I see the Father's smile and say well done
And I imagine you
Where you wanted most to be
Seeing all your dreams come true
'Cause now you're home
And now you're free, and ...

We have this hope as an anchor
'Cause we believe that everything
God promised us is true, so ...

So we can cry with hope
And say goodbye with hope

We wait with hope
And we ache with hope
We hold on with hope
We let go with hope
Dana <danacrumb@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 5, 2008 2:39 PM CST

Just stopped by to remind you that you are loved.
You are all constantly in our hearts and our
prayers.I don't know the pain of having lost a
child, but I do know the FEAR of that.
peace.
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <ceweaver@cox.net>
macon, Ga United States - Tuesday, January 29, 2008 11:58 PM CST

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I have been here, on Jeffery's website, several times this month, but I have not had anything to say. I guess I should leave a message today, just to let you know that I am remembering your iron angel and thinking of all of you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Great Spirit, whose breath gives life to the world and whose voice is heard in soft breeze, we need your strength and wisdom. May we walk in beauty. May our eyes ever behold the red and purple sunset. Make us wise so that we may understand what you have taught us. Help us learn the lessons you have hidden in every leaf and rock. Make us always ready to come to you with clean hands and straight eyes, so when life fades, as the fading sunset, our spirits may come to you without shame.

~From A Native American Prayer (Today's Peace Thought)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 19, 2008 1:47 PM CST

Dear Sample Family,

As we draw near to the end of the Christmas season, let us remember that Christmas is really an everyday feast.

Work of Christmas Begins
By Howard Thurman (adapted)

"When the song of the angels is stilled,
when the star in the sky is gone,
when the kings and princes are home,
when the shepherds are back with the flocks,
then the work of Christmas begins:
to find the lost,
to heal those broken in spirit,
to feed the hungry,
to release the oppressed,
to rebuild the nations,
to bring peace among all peoples,
to make a little music with the heart…
And to radiate the Light of Christ,
every day, in every way, in all that we do and in all that we say.
Then the work of Christmas begins.
The message of the Feast of Epiphany announces to all people, everywhere:
Rise up in splendor…your light has come,
The Glory of the Lord shines upon you!

Let the work of Christmas begin, and let it begin with you."

My thoughts and prayers are with you all, and I am remembering your iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 4, 2008 12:41 AM CST

Dear Sample Family,

As this new year begins, I am remembering sweet Jeffery and thinking of you all. May 2008 be a year of grace, hope, peace, and blessings for all.

Beneath my signature is the end of a long prayer by Deacon J, from Barbara C. Crafton's Geranium Farm website. You can read it all by visiting the website and going to the section "More or Less Church."

I hope you have a good day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

During this upcoming year tune my heart
to seek Your truth,
to listen for Your voice,
to learn Your ways and incorporate them in my life,
to speak Your love,
to remain faithful regardless of setbacks
one day at a time, one person at a time, one heart at a time.

Like your servant Francis, make me an instrument of Your peace
in and to this broken world. Amen.

By K.L. Joanna Depue, Known As Deacon J
From Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm
January 2, 2008
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 7:23 AM CST

Hi Julie and Jeff & joseph,

Just dropping you a note to say Hi. Just thinking about yall and hoping things are good. Seems to be a bit better here right now. Come on over, Dave & I are having a bonfire and steaming oysters with beer over the fire. (bunch of 'em)
We have the room so come on over. Just an hour to get here or less. I-10 west to wellborn exit south to 90 and west 5 miles, your here. Wish you would come, I'd enjoy the company. Take Care and wishing you Happy new Year, 2008.

cathy

Cathy & shawn reed -cb.org/fl/shawnreed <dualdogs@hughes.net>
liove oak, fl - Monday, December 31, 2007 9:05 AM CST

Julie, just wanted you to know that I think of your family and your beautiful angel Jeffery often. Please know I keep you all close to my heart and in my prayers.
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, ny - Thursday, December 27, 2007 12:18 AM CST

Dear Julie and Jeff,

Jeffery was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, this morning, on the Feast of St. Stephen. Perhaps you have sung Good King Wenceslas with your boys, when they were little. The king and his page, in the song, were celebrating this feast.

Good King Wenceslas looked out, on the Feast of Stephen,
When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even;
Brightly shone the moon that night, tho' the frost was cruel,
When a poor man came in sight, gath'ring winter fuel.

"Hither, page, and stand by me, if thou know'st it, telling,
Yonder peasant, who is he? Where and what his dwelling?"
"Sire, he lives a good league hence, underneath the mountain;
Right against the forest fence, by Saint Agnes' fountain."

"Bring me flesh, and bring me wine, bring me pine logs hither:
Thou and I will see him dine, when we bear them thither."
Page and monarch, forth they went, forth they went together;
Through the rude wind's wild lament and the bitter weather.

"Sire, the night is darker now, and the winds blow stronger;
Fails my heart, I know not how, I can go no longer."
"Mark my footsteps, my good page. Treadst thou in them boldly:
Thou shalt find the winter's rage freeze thy blood less coldly."

In his master's steps he trod, where the snow lay dinted;
Heat was in the very sod which the saint had printed.
Therefore, Christian men, be sure, wealth or rank possessing,
Ye who now will bless the poor, shall yourselves find blessing.

~John Mason Neale (1818-1866)

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand: where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 5:13 PM CST

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Jeffery was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, last night and this morning. I have thought of Jeffery many times both days, and I have thought of you, and of all of Jeffery's other loved ones. May it be well with you all on this Christmas night.

Below is a copy of the well-known Christmas prayer by the author, Robert Louis Stevenson. Please pray it with me tonight.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Christmas Prayer

Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.

Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake. Amen.

~Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 7:51 PM CST

Julie-

Merry Christmas to you and your family!

I just wanted to take the time to tell you how thankful I am that you have been checking in on Brooke & signing in on her guest book with such sweet messages. You have really touched my heart & Brooke's.

Wishing you peace & happiness this Christmas day!

Kathy G. www.caringbridge.org/visit/brookegoodman <goodkat1@msn.com>
Orlando, FL - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 5:00 PM CST

Dear Sample Family,

Early this morning, I spotted a bright red cardinal, in the tree, near my bathroom window. I had to smile, watching him. He made me think of Jeffery and of other CaringBridge young adults. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you and all of Jeffery's many other loved ones. Each one of you was named to God at late Eucharist last night.

Grace, peace, love, and all good, on Christmas morning.

~Colette

Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born [this day] of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 8:41 AM CST

Eternal God, in the stillness of this night, you sent your almighty Word to pierce the world's darkness with the light of salvation: Give to the earth the peace which we long for and fill our hearts with the joy of heaven through our Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.

~Common Worship, The Church of England, Quoted in The Anglican Cycle of Prayer

Merry Christmas to all!

Julie, Jeff, and Joseph, as I was at church, earlier in the evening, I thought of all of the families I know, who are in bereavement this year. You were there, in my prayers. I wish things could be different for all, especially those like you, who have lost a young gentleman, and those who have lost children. Hang in there, as the reason Jesus came into the world is to give us all hope, in this life, and eternal life, in the next. Jeffery is safe in his tender love and keeping.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 2:00 AM CST

Christ will come soon, will not delay. The Holy One will make the darkest places bright.

~a Monastic liturgy

Dear Julie,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Jeffery, this Christmas Eve. He will truly be a part of my prayers, when Andrew and I kneel, in prayer, later, at St. George's.

God bless you always, and God bless your iron angel, Jeffery Scott Sample, Jr.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 212
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 24, 2007 3:57 PM CST

Seventh and Final O Antiphon, December 23:

O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Dear Sample,

Today is the last day leading to Christmas. May our thoughts and our preparation honor the Christ Child.

I am sorry I have not been here, writing to you more often. It has been a busy time for us. However, I do remember Jeffery regularly, in Holy Eucharist, and I hold you in thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Other O Antiphons:

Sixth O Antiphon, December 22:

O come, Desire of nations,
Bind in one the hearts of all mankind;
Bid thou our sad divisions cease,
And be thyself our King of Peace.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Fifth O Antiphon, December 21:

O come, thou Dayspring from on high,
And cheer us by thy drawing nigh;
Disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
And death's dark shawows put to flight.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Fourth O Antiphon, December 20:

O come, thou Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
make safe the way that leads on high,
and close the path to misery.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Third O Antiphon: December 19:

O come thou branch of Jesse's tree,
Free them from Satan's tyranny
That trust thy mighty power to save,
And give them victory over the grave.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 23, 2007 11:42 PM CST

I realize any day with out your Jeffery is a bad day..a sad day...and the holidays intensify all this even more.I want you to know Jeffery is in my heart and prayers...as are you all. Remembering always. Hugs to all.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, December 21, 2007 10:04 AM CST

Second O Antiphon, December 18:

O come, O come, great Lord of might,
who to thy tribes on Sinai's height
in ancient times once gave the law
in cloud and majesty and awe.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Dear Sample Family,

My thoughts are with you as we get a little closer to Christmas. I know you must miss Jeffery very much. All of his friends miss him, too.

Please sing/pray the second O Antiphon with me today. I will add the first antiphon below. (I was called away from my computer yesterday before I could send it.)

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your iron angel, Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The call of Advent is a call to live wide awake so that we can be alert to God working in us and in our world to bring about the Kingdom. Awareness is another way of talking about being awake. Work today to be aware of the needs of people around you, because God calls us through those very needs. Each time we answer to them, the Kingdom comes nearer.

~Philip Berrigan and Elizabeth McAlister
Today's Peace Thought in Peacemaking Day by Day, Volume 2

First O Antiphon, For December 17:

O come, thou Wisdom from on high,
who orderest all things mightily;
to us the path of knowledge show,
and teach us in her ways to go.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o084.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 4:10 PM CST

Hi Julie and guys,

Thanks for checking and praying for Shawn. He has good days and bad days. Mostly bad ones these past few months. It's baffling to say the least. However, with your prayers and others that know Shawn he seems to be doing better currently.I believe in prayer. And angels that watch over us. "Angels in the outfield" remember that movie? I think the same way about it. I can't see'em though. Ha!
You gotta come to Live Oak sometime. I gotta B.B.Q. trailer. b.d.b.i.t.w.w.w... that means(best darn burger in the whole wide world) lol
Joy to the World and Peace. Take care

love ya like a sis,
cathy

cathy and shawn <dualdogs@hughes.net>
live oak, fl - Monday, December 17, 2007 6:51 PM CST

Julie-

So nice to hear from you today. I certainly continue to keep you and your wonderful family in my heart.
Sending my love and wishes for a peaceful holiday.
With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Friday, December 14, 2007 1:01 PM CST

Dearest Julie,
Thank-you for your kind words Julie.. Sigh, I cannot imagine what you and so many other CB friends who have Angels, go through on a day to day...moment to moment basis...compounded by holidays and traditions...let me say when you said it is harder the second year..I have heard that time and time again...I wish there was a magic wand I could wave and bring your baby back...I'll be here for you always. You ever want to chat..call...anytime...tell Jeffery stories, cry, laugh...whatever it may be...I'm here. Sending you and your guys love and hugs...prayers and support. Thank-you for checking in on Dave, it means so much. I know you understand more than most. And how hard it has to be to even get on CB..Love to you!!!!
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, florida usa - Monday, December 10, 2007 5:01 PM CST

Hi Julie & Sample Fam~

Julie- I want to thank you so much for stopping by Brooke's page...several times. Not only have you brought a smile to Brooke's face...You also brought a smile to mine! I can see you have a very giving heart. Well, this is the last weekend before Brooke's surgery. We will be making the best of it! God bless you on your first Christmas with your 'Angel'. I wish you peace in your hearts & warm Christmas feeling for your whole family
Kathy ... www.caringbridge.org/visit/brookegoodman <goodkat1@msn.com>
Orlando, FL - Friday, December 7, 2007 7:58 PM CST

Happy St. Nicholas Day To All!

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am just stopping by to say, "Hello!" and to wish you well. May your faith and your memories of Jeffery give you courage and comfort during this holiday season.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, our heavenly Father, who raised up your faithful servant Nicholas of Myra to be a bishop and pastor in your Church and to feed your flock: Give abundantly to all pastors the gifts of your Holy Spirit, that they may minister in your household as true servants of Christ and stewards of your divine mysteries; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 6, 2007 8:25 PM CST

Dear Sample Family,

As we begin the Advent season, I am thinking of all of you. This weekend, we light the first candle, the one that stands for hope. As we do this, either actually, or in imagination, may you hope deeply in our Lord Jesus Christ, who is the reason for this season.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (December 1):

Lord God, make us so reflect your perfect love; that, with your Deacon Nicholas Ferrar and his household, we may rule ourselves according to your Word, and serve you with our whole heart; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 1, 2007 11:33 PM CST

Bless your hearts & bless your family! I got your link from Seth's website. I'm Ruthie's cousin in Orlando. I'm a former caringbridge survivor (breast cancer) & now my daughter has a page for her Chiari 1 Malformation. Her website is www.caringbridge.org/visit/brookegoodman. I was drawn to Jeffry's page from the sweet note you left Ruthie & her fam. I hope life is treating you well. Take care!
Kathy <goodkat1@msn.com>
Orlando, FL - Saturday, November 24, 2007 6:55 PM CST

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

~Melody Beattie

Dear Sample Family,

I just want to say, "Happy Thanksgiving!" to all of you. May you enjoy everything about this holiday weekend, with grateful hearts, despite this being your first Thanksgiving without Jeffery.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Will you be using your smoker?
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 22, 2007 4:48 AM CST

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Over the past few days, Jeffery has been remembered in several celebrations of the Eucharist. May God always bless him.

I hope your are having a good Veteran's Day Weekend. May God bless you all, and may God bless all those in your extended family who are serving, or who have served, in our military.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, we comment to your gracious care and keeping all the men and women of our armed forces at home and abroad. Defend them day by day with your heavenly grace; strengthen them in their trials and temptations; give them a sense of your abiding presence wherever they may be; through Jesus Christ, our merciful and righteous Judge. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 823
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, November 12, 2007 6:30 AM CST

Dear Sample Family,

Jeffery was remembered again today in Holy Eucharist. Our bishop was with us for Confirmation, and we had some marvelous All Saints music. Things like that make the heart glad. I hope you are finding things that make your hearts glad. Jeffery would want that, that is for sure.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 3, 2007 11:39 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I have been thinking of Jeffery these past two days on the twin feasts of All Saints and All Souls. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless the three of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, we remember before you today your faithful servant Jeffery, and we pray that, having opened to him the gates of larger life, you will receive him more and more into your joyful service, that he may win with you and all your servants everywhere the eternal victory, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 2, 2007 1:52 PM CDT

HI there,
I saw where you had been to my friend Ryan's page (ky/ryans.hope). They are very dear to me.
Anyhow, I just wanted to stop by and say hello to you!
I'm glad you wrote like you did on your journal. It's very theraputic, and as you said, it helped you!
Please know that we will keep you in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Your family, and Jeffrey, sound like a wonderful family!

Love and hugs,
Eva and Rodney <kwfan4ever@yahoo.com>
www.caringbridge.org/mi/rodneyreeves, - Tuesday, October 23, 2007 9:51 PM CDT

I read this on another Angels page Julie...thought it would be appropriate. Love you. Thinking of you and keeping you and the family in my heart and prayers. Jeffery was such an icredible young man Julie.
he Gap by Michael Crenlinsten

The gap between those who have lost children and those who have not, is profoundly difficult to bridge. No one, whose children are well and intact can be expected to understand what parents who have lost children have absorbed and what they bear. Our children come to us through every blade of grass, every crack in the sidewalk, every bowl of breakfast cereal. We seek contact with their atoms, their hairbrush, their toothbrush, their clothing. We reach for what was integrally woven into the fabric of our lives, now torn and shredded.

A black hole has been blown through our souls and, indeed, it often does not allow the light to escape. It is a difficult place. To enter there is to be cut deeply, and torn anew each time we go there, by the jagged edges of our loss. Yet we return, again and again, for that is where our children now reside. This will be so for years to come and it will change us profoundly. At some point in the distant future, the edges of that hole will have tempered and softened but the empty space will remain - a life sentence.

Our friends will change through this. There is no avoiding it. We grieve for our children, in part, through talking about them and our feelings in having lost them. Some go there with us, others cannot and through their denial - a further measure, however unwittingly, is added to an already heavy burden. Assuming that we may be feeling "better" in six months is simply "to not get it."

The excruciating and isolating reality that bereaved parents feel is hermetically sealed from the nature of any other human experience. Thus it is a trap – those, whose compassion and insight we need most, are those for whom we abhor the experience that would allow them that sensitivity and capacity. And yet, somehow there are those, each in their own fashion, who have found a way to reach us and stay, to our comfort. They have understood, again each in their own way, that our children remain our children through our memory of them. Their memory is sustained through speaking about them and our feelings about their death. Deny this and you deny their life. Deny their life and you no longer have a place in ours.

We recognize that we have moved to an emotional place where it is often very difficult to reach us. Our attempts to be normal are painful and the day to day carries a silent, screaming anguish that accompanies us; sometimes from moment to moment. Were we to give it its own voice we fear we would become truly unreachable, and so we remain "strong" for a host of reasons, even as the strength saps our energy and drains our will. Were we to act out our true feelings we would be impossible to be with. We resent having to act normal, yet we dare not do otherwise. People who understand this dynamic are our gold standard. Working our way through this over the years will change us as does every experience - and extreme experience changes one extremely. We know we will have recovered when, as we have read, it is no longer so painful to be normal. We do not know who we will be at that point or who will still be with us.

We have read that the gap is so difficult that, often, bereaved parents must attempt to reach out to friends and relatives or risk losing them. This is our attempt. For those untarnished by such events, who wish to know in some way what they, thankfully, do not know, read this. It may provide a window that is helpful for both sides of the gap.

Your Friend,
Kathy
www.caringbridge.org/fl/david
Kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, October 15, 2007 3:47 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

The last few days have been rather difficult for me. Earlier tonight, I thought of a scripture and a collect, which cheered me. I am leaving them, here, for you, in hopes that they will do you some good.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless the memory of your Iron Angel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

+++++++

Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.

~Philippians 4:8

+++++++

Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 11, 2007 2:37 AM CDT

Happy Columbus Day, Sample Family!

I am thinking of you.

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Monday, October 8, 2007 5:13 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I don't always sign, but I have been here several times this month, thinking of your iron angel. May God bless the memory of Jeffery and grant you peace, strength, and all you need.

Beneath my signature is the collect for Fridays. Please pray it with me.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 28, 2007 1:49 PM CDT

Julie,

So nice of you to stop by Maddie's page to check on us. I think of you and your family often, and send my love and best wishes to you all.
Be well.
Warmly,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie

Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Saturday, September 15, 2007 7:47 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff and Joseph,
Just stopping by to say hello and let you know that I think of you all often and keep you in my prayers. Jeffery of course is with me always. Not one day goes by when I do not think of all the Angels who have touched so many lives. Jeffery of course was one such Angel. Sending love,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Saturday, September 8, 2007 10:33 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

Today is the tenth anniversary of the passing of Mother Teresa. Recent information in the news, taken from her letters, indicates that she struggled for years, as many do, with spiritual dryness. Please let the knowledge that the great ones of faith struggle with problems, doubts, and dryness, help you, as you struggle with missing Jeffery.

I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for all of you, and to remember sweet Jeffery.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

I don't know what God is doing. He knows. We do not understand, but of one thing I'm sure, He doesn't make a mistake.

~Mother Teresa (August 27, 1910 - September 5, 1997)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 10:31 AM CDT

Happy Labor Day, Sample Family!

I have just had an email from my cousin, Jennifer, who has two little boys. Liam, a new age five, called it "Pregnancy Day," so they have had a discussion of the various meanings of "labor" this morning, before heading out to the parade.

I hope, that whatever plans you have for today, you have a positive day, full of good memories of Jeffery and of the hope of heaven.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Labor Day:

Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

I continue to think of your Iron Angel, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 3, 2007 4:12 PM CDT

Happy Labor Day Julie and family. I will call you soon.
Love Ya,
Denise R.
denise
beaumont, tx - Monday, September 3, 2007 3:18 PM CDT

You are in our thoughts and prayers as you relive the joy of Jeffrey's birth and, I am sure, wonderful life within a loving family circle now temporarily broken. We pray the sweet and cherished memories of the past and the precious promises of the future are far, far brighter than the darkness of your pain. In His Love, Yolanda Rogers, http://www.galatians5.com
Mom to Anna <weloveanna@earthlink.net>
Alt Spgs, FL USA - Saturday, September 1, 2007 7:44 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I continue to think of Jeffery, and of several other young men, beneath the Jesus and the Children window, in our church. May God bless their sweet spirits.

Today's saint is Augustine of Hippo, a great scholar, writer, and teacher, in the church. An important thing for folks, like us, to remember about Augustine, is his faithful mother, Monnica, who prayed for him, for many years, just as you prayed for Jeffery and for Joseph, and as I pray for my sons.

I will leave the collect, beneath my signature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Feast Of St. Augustine Of Hippo (August 28):

O Lord God, the light of the minds that know you, the Life of the souls that love you, and the strength of the hearts that serve you: Help us, following the example of your servant Augustine of Hippo, so to know you that we may truly love you, and so to love you that we may fully serve you, whom to serve is perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 11:47 PM CDT

Hi Julie. Just wantd to stop by and let you know I was thinking of you and Jeffery, as I do very often. Holding you both close to my heart and in my prayers.
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Monday, August 27, 2007 6:44 AM CDT

Hi,

Been thinking about you lately, thinking about our babies.... Life is really rough, isn't it? But, like you said, ready to go Home!!!!! Can you just imagine how wonderful that is going to be for us...

God Bless

Roy
Cheyenne's Daddy
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5
Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
san angelo, tx - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 9:00 PM CDT

Julie,
I am a friend of Wendy. Her angels Noelle and Nicholas have a page. I have seen your name on the Babers guestbook for years and wanted to say how sorry I am about your son, Jeffrey. I hope you continue to have more days that are better days than days you feel unable to go on. I am so sorry you lost your son. My son was born in '87, but my youngest is the same age as Noelle would be now, 11. I have prayed for the families on this site, and wanted you to know that you and your family were in my prayers, too. God bless all of you during this time of intense grief.
Audrey B. Curtin <abcurtin@wsfcs.k12.nc.us>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 11:12 PM CDT

Julie - I just "met" you and your family. I have a son who was born in 1986, too. They always remain our babies, don't they? My Gavin is in Iraq and I pray for his safety. I have three other babies here at home that I have to keep going on for, too. You journal entry pierced my heart and I could feel the love you have for your children. Remember you always have a special guardian angel - your iron angel:) God bless - Pam www.caringbridge.org/mn/nolan
Pam Anderson <pam_anderson@roseau.k12.mn.us>
Roseau, MN USA - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 8:23 PM CDT

Julie-
What an absolutely beautiful journal entry- such a tribute to your love for both of your amazing boys. I truly know how difficult it is to get through some days, and I want you to know that the 4/Js remain in my daily prayers, my thoughts and my heart.
God bless you.
With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 7:02 PM CDT

Dearest Julie- Always thinking of Jeffery. Really- his life and David's are, well, you know. Spirit is the word to describe these boys. And you are so right, we are who we are today because of their awesome spirit. Not a day goes by, not one single day, where I tell God thank you for giving me these children, and I know how unpredictable life is...and I thank him for people like you and your tremendous family, for sharing the beauty that is Jeffery and the courage he and his brother (and of course his Mom and Dad) displayed throughout this journey. Just know this, you are all, 4J's, forever in my thoughts and prayers. Always. Thank-you for sharing Julie.
Love,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, July 16, 2007 7:07 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I am thinking of Jeffery and of all of your family. What a beautiful entry you wrote yesterday. I did not realize, until I read it, that you had moved during Jeffery's illness. I am sure it is helpful being near family, but it must be hard, at times, missing friends and familiar places from your previous home.

My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 15, 2007 1:41 PM CDT

what a wonderful entry Julie.
We love you all & are praying
for you.Gods grace continue
to flood your hearts & lives.
peace
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Saturday, July 14, 2007 2:52 PM CDT

Thinking of you guys. Sending heart felt prayers and letting you know Jeffery is on my mind in my prayers and my heart.
Blessings,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, July 6, 2007 8:35 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I was called away yesterday, before I could sing Jeffery's guest book and wish you all a Happy Fourth of July. I just want you to know that I am thinking of you all.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 5, 2007 4:03 AM CDT

Happy July 4th.
Luv you all
oxo
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 10:03 PM CDT

Sending my love...

Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 10:38 AM CDT

Just stopping by to let you guys know Jeffery is on my mind. Sending prayers and wishing I had the recipe to mending broken hearts.....keeping Jeffery's memory alive is something I can do and will continue to do. Sending love from Boynton Beach,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Saturday, June 30, 2007 10:11 PM CDT

I can't begin to tell you how
much I love you Julie, I know your
heart is truly broken.I am praying
hard for you that our precious Lord
will heal it.God bless you all my
precious 4j's.
oxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 1:46 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I just want to let you know that I am thinking of you all on this family day of celebration. I know it must be bittersweet, as it is the first Father's Day with Jeffery in heaven.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 17, 2007 4:29 PM CDT

Hello Julie & guys,
Just wanted to say, thanks for checking on shawn & praying
for him. I'd like to think your Jeffery's ^spirit^ is asking God to help Shawn pull through these obstacles he faces. Your son was one sweet & polite & quiet young man which he &Shawn share some of those same qualities,that's what people admire the most and like to be around. Guys like them.
I shared in the joy of getting to meet you & Jeffery, and I'm sharing your grief by the hurt I feel about his passing.
You are a very good friend & I hope to bring Shawn &Michael to your "dog house" some day soon!
love ya like a sis.
cathy

cathy & shawn:cb.org/fl/shawnreed <kshawn1@windstream.net>
live oak, fl - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 4:06 PM CDT

Hey Julie..just thinking of Jeffery and wanted to stop by and let you know he's in my thoughts and so are you guys. Sending loving thoughts to you all and keeping Jeffery forever in my heart.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 5:08 PM CDT

YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS & HEART.
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Friday, June 8, 2007 10:45 PM CDT

LOVE YOU ALL *********
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Monday, June 4, 2007 2:13 PM CDT

Missing my sweetie....
Aunt Tonya
Callahan, Fl - Monday, June 4, 2007 8:05 AM CDT

Julie: What happened? I thought Jeffery was doing much better. I am completely shocked; to say the least. I hate cancer and what it does to our children. We can cope... but the effects on our children... it's just not fair to them. I have to say that even five years out I am stil bewildered. It's not what you would ever expect to happen to your own family. Things like this only happen to "someone else." Yeah right. Good Lord, I know that you are crying your eyes out and you will for a long time to come. I still cry myself to sleep many nights.

I used to love to look at Jeffrey's drawings. He was such a brilliant artist. Now, he's dazzling our kids with his masterpieces. Nothing anyone says to you will ease your heart and mind. You have your memories of him and they will last your for your lifetime. As for the famous saying, "time heals all wounds;" I'm not sure I agree with that, but through time, life has become more tolerable.

Please know that I am praying for your peace and comfort. Jeffery has his and now, may you feel the Lord's loving arms wrapped ever so tightly around your entire family.

We're hanging in there. School is keeping me very busy; I'll update sometime over the summer.

Forever "March"ing "Forth" in Him for Them,

Wendy (Forever Loving Mommy of Noelle and Nicholas_ <wbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston Salem, NC www.caringbridge/org/nc/noellenicholas - Saturday, June 2, 2007 12:01 AM CDT

Continuing to send my love and prayers...

Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 9:50 AM CDT

On this Memorial Day I want you to know that as well as the soldiers who have fallen and those still fighting to keep our freedom...there are another set of soldiers. Our CB children. Those still fighting the fight and those who courageously fought and have become Forever Angels. Remembering Jeffery as a warrior. Remembering his smile, his artwork, his love for his family and his courage in the face of adversity. Thank-you for setting an example for all Jeffery. Remembering YOU always.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david

kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, May 28, 2007 11:51 AM CDT

Thinking of you guys and always..^Jeffery^....sending massive cyber hugs and prayers...I know there really are no words of true comfort, just know you all will remain in many of our continued prayers and of course in our hearts. Hugs and Love...xoxoxoxoxo
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, May 21, 2007 6:31 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

I remembered Jeffery again this morning, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. May God bless Jeffery's sweet spirit.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Today, Ascension Sunday:

O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 226
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 20, 2007 11:54 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

I have not been signing guest books a lot lately, but I have not forgotten you, or sweet Jeffery. Last Sunday, I remembered you, and all mothers, with a child in heaven, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass, before, during, and after Eucharist (on Mother's Day).

I have a personal connection with today's feast, in honor of Dunstan of Canterbury, who entered eternal life on May 19, 988. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of truth and beauty, who richly endowed your bishop Dunstan with skill in music and the working of metals, and with gifts of administration and reforming zeal: Teach us, we pray, to see in you the source of all our talents, and move us to offer them for the adornment of worship and the advancement of true religion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 19, 2007 11:54 PM CDT

still here for your with
all our love and prayers
4 j's.
oxoxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Friday, May 18, 2007 1:12 AM CDT

Hi Julie. Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you.

Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Thursday, May 17, 2007 11:46 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

My heart goes out to you for the loss of Jeffery, I only just heard that he had gone to Heaven. I know his spirit will shine brightly and he will always be with you in your heart, this is a bond that cannot be broken, ever. I used to follow Jeffery regularily many years ago, then Jeffery was doing so very well, and life and other sick kids came along to support. I know you must miss him so, I am so sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, bless you, big hugs,
Tracey xoxo HAB and family xoxo <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , Ab, Canada, - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 10:20 AM CDT

I love you Julie, God will not
forsake you, he is always with you.
I am always praying for you all.
peace
oxoxoxo
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Monday, May 7, 2007 9:31 PM CDT

You are always in my prayers, Love You All

Jennifer
Jennifer Perry <jperry50@marykay.com>
Orange Park, f US - Monday, May 7, 2007 11:25 AM CDT

I came here through the Sharethelove.org site. I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. If I were a lucky person I would have had the honor of meeting him..I love the picture on the web page - such a happy family :) Please know that there are many of us out here praying for your family and that your son will never be forgotten or loved any less :) Hugs and love - Elizabeth Spehr
Elizabeth Spehr <e_spehr_99@yahoo.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Saturday, May 5, 2007 6:13 PM CDT

I love you and I had lots of fun at the party. How were the fake pics of your mom and mine? HAHAHAHAHA......
Joanna Cook <joannacook88@hotmail.com>
Jax., FL - Friday, May 4, 2007 7:45 AM CDT

Hi Julie,
Just stopping by to say hi and tell you I was thinking of all of you. I picture Jeffery in the stars shining down at each of you. At night when I'm walking I think of all our Angel friends and each time a star twinkles I'm sure it's one of them. I keep you in my prayers Jules. Sending hugs and warm th to you and yours. Letting you know Jeffery is always in my thoughts.
Kathy
www.caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 6:07 PM CDT

Julie, Joe and Joseph,
I continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. I know how terribly you miss Jeffery, and certainly understand that some moments are so incredibly overwhelming. This Sunday it will be 3 years since Maddie died, and I miss her more every day. I have found that the support and love that continues to come our way from so many really does help enormously.
With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Monday, April 30, 2007 8:52 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I just want you to know that I remembered Jeffery at Holy Eucharist, yesterday. We have a beautiful window, in the nave, of St. George's, of Jesus and the Children, and that is one place where I remember children, teens, and young adults, like Jeffery, who have passed on, all too soon.

I know you must feel sadness behind your laughter, when joking around, and at parties, without Jeffery. It is hard not having a family member present. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Fourth Sunday In Easter:

O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people; Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 29, 2007 2:34 PM CDT

I love you
shalane
everywhere, usa - Saturday, April 28, 2007 11:46 PM CDT

Hi Julie and family,

Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of yall always. Things always going on 'round here to stir my plans. Shawn is feeling better and has more appointments to boot. I want you to call me if you wanna, and let us know about the ^viking funeral^. 386-963-5110
Get Jeff to give you a hug from me. He's the closest one to do that, lol

love ya like a sis,

cathy
cathy & shawn reed, cb.org/fl/shawnreed <kshawn1@windstream.net>
live oak, f - Friday, April 27, 2007 1:09 PM CDT

STILL LOVING YOU, THINKING OF YOU & MANY WONDERFUL MEMORIES OF JEFFERY GROWING UP.HOW BLESSED I FEEL,
ALL I HAVE TO DO IS CLOSE MY EYES & I CAN STILL
SEE THIS HAPPY LITTLE ( YES, HE WAS ONCE),ADOREABLE
KINDERGARDEN CHILD LEARNING TO READ.YOU ARE AN
AMAZING MOM JULIE, I HAVE LEARNED ALOT FROM YOU OVER
THE YEARS.ALWAYS PRAYING FOR YOU MY PRECIOUS 4j's.
AS JENNIFER WOULD SAY, PEACE BE WITH YOU.
OXOXOXOXOX

cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Friday, April 27, 2007 2:50 AM CDT

Julie I think of you all everyday. I'm so sorry for your pain and I cannot imagine how badly you are missing Jeffery. He does have a beautiful smile. Prayers and hugs always.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Thursday, April 26, 2007 4:39 PM CDT

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. So much of what you said hit home, the dreading changing the address to Heaven especially. I had to laugh when I saw the 4 some picture on teh staircase, Jeffery with the holes in his shirt for the thumbs to go in, whoever thought of that!? My girls do it to their sweatshirts too.... As a mom I cant imagine your pain and emptiness. As a cancer mom, I dont ever want to find out first hand. But I feel for you, and hope you all find peace in this somehow.
Chris & Gooch
Share the Love.org <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 26, 2007 7:43 AM CDT

Continuing to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Hoping that you are experiencing some peaceful moments amongst the difficult times that I am sure you are having missing Jeffery.
With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 12:03 AM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking of you all on the morning of Jeffery's Viking funeral. I hope this event helps you to honor Jeffery and to have greater peace. I look forward to Julie's update.

Beneath my signature, I will add a familiar prayer, which I have used a lot, during this week of national sorrow.

God bless you all, and God bless all affected by the sad events of Monday.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Prayer Attributed To St. Francis:

Lord, make us instruments of your peace. Where there is hatred, let us sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is discord, union; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy. Grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 833
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 21, 2007 5:25 AM CDT

Just read about your loss through Maddie's website, my prayers are with you. Your son seems like he was a wonderful person, your loss must be incredibly difficult. I pray each of you will feel God's embrace. Pam
Pam Coakley <pcoakley2@yahoo.com>
Camarillo, CA - Friday, April 20, 2007 7:50 PM CDT

Dear Sample family, Collete has told me about Jeffrey's passing, and I come to offer my most sincere condolences. What a beautiful young man, and too quickly taken away from his loving family. All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers, and I ask for God's great peace and comfort to enter into your lives. Love and hugs, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
boston, ma usa - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 7:31 AM CDT

Thinking of you all...

With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Monday, April 16, 2007 9:56 PM CDT

Dear Sample family,

I came to your site after hearing of Jeffrey's passing from Colette, and am so sorry for the loss of your beloved son. I lost my step-brother to a brain tumor in 2001, and remember well the grief. Jeff is with God, and is free from pain and suffering. I pray for you and your family, and ask God to bring you peace.
Deb Endyke
Litchfield, NH USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 7:23 PM CDT

Just here to let you all know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. GOD BLESS. ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE FAMILY
jack - angel colby's daddy forever and ever
UNIONTOWN, PA USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 6:50 PM CDT

still loving & praying for you all.
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Friday, April 13, 2007 2:31 PM CDT

Thinking of you all and remembering Jeffery and his wonderful spirit.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:17 AM CDT

Jeffery's Viking funeral will be on the second anniversary of Mamie's death.

After two years I still cry, but not nearly as much as before. It wasn't long after she went to live with Jesus that I found I could laugh again, but not nearly as much as now. With each passing week you will find that the memories that now bring mostly tears will bring more and more smiles instead.

I hope you had a happy Easter, realizing that Christ went through death on Earth so that we can share life again in Heaven.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 10:27 PM CDT

Just wanted to tell you that i love u all :) from the 5 J's.....
Jess, Josh, Joshua, Jacob, and Jonah <jesscook3@hotmail.com>
Jax, Fl - Monday, April 9, 2007 1:53 PM CDT

Blessings On Easter Monday!

Dear Julie,

Thank you for updating Jeffery's guest book. I have never heard bereavement likened to arthritis, but it is an apt metaphor. May God bless you, Jeff, Joseph, and all of Jeffery's loved ones, as you grieve the passing of your Iron Angel.

We had a cold Easter here, but we experienced beauty and fellowship at church and at table. I hope your faith inspired and heartened you all.

Good luck with the hotdog cart tonight. It would be far too cool here to generate much interest tonight, but the thoughts of it make me want to prepare some dogs here at the house. I have not had lunch, so now I know what to make.

God bless you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Bottom Of Page 222 - Top Of Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 9, 2007 12:37 AM CDT

Blessings On Easter Morning!

"Welcome, happy morning!"
age to age shall say:
hell today is vanquished,
heaven is won today!
Lo! the dead is living,
God for evermore!
Him their true Creator,
all his works adore!

Refrain:
"Welcome, happy morning!" age to age shall say.

Earth her joy confesses,
clothing her for spring,
all fresh gifts return
with her returning King:
bloom in every meadow,
leaves on every bough,
speak his sorrow ended,
hail his triumph now.

Months in due succession,
days of lengthening light,
hours and passing moments
praise thee in their flight.
Brightness of the morning,
sky and fields and sea,
Vanquisher of darkness,
bring their praise to thee.

Maker and Redeemer,
life and health of all,
thou from heaven beholding
human nature's fall,
of the Father's Godhead
true and only Son,
mankind to deliver,
manhood didst put on.

Thou, of life the Author,
death didst undergo,
tread the path of darkness,
saving strength to show;
come then, true and faithful,
now fulfill thy word,
'tis thine own third morning!
rise, O buried Lord!

Loose the souls long prisoned,
bound with Satan's chain;
all that now is fallen
raise to life again;
show thy face in brightness,
bid the nations see;
bring again our daylight:
day returns with thee!

Words: Fortunatus, (ca. 535-600);
trans. John Ellerton (1826-1893), 1868

Music: Fortunatus (Arthur Seymour Sullivan, 1872)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w189.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 8, 2007 1:24 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

On this day of holy waiting, may you, and your sweet Jeffery, be blessed. May today lead to a Holy and Joyous Easter and be a foretaste of the wonderful Day of Resurrection to come.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of unchangeable power and eternal light: Look favorably on your whole Church, that wonderful and sacred mystery; by the effectual working of your providence, carry out in tranquility the plan of salvation; let the whole world see and know that things which were cast down are being raised up, and things which had grown old are being made new, and that all things are being brought to their perfection by him through whom all things were made, your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 280
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 7, 2007 5:57 PM CDT

oUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALWAYS CUZ. LOVE JOHNNY MONTE AND THE GIRLS.

COUSIN JOHNNY <JHOBLIT@AOL.COM>
- Friday, April 6, 2007 9:46 AM CDT

Hi to my wonderful Sample family members, How could we not all love the boy with the best hugs in the world!! I miss him, I miss seeing and talking to him and to you. The picture on the stairs is great, everyone is happy, he just took the first step on the stairway to Heaven. He was brave and courageous. I am glad you had those final weeks together for fellowship, pain, crying, laughing and preparing for God's plan. You are an amazing family. People often ask me how I do this job as Oncology Nurse and I have to say that meeting, knowing, caring, hurting, laughing, crying, smiling and loving my patients and their families through it all is a blessing that not all nurses receive. This is a gift, Jeffery is a gift that will live on forever in our hearts. He is artistically painting the sky as we speak. May you cling to one another, realize that each day in our lives is a blessing and smile at the stars where your Jeffery shines. God bless you. Love always, Susan
P.S. Where can I get a yummy hot dog at 2 AM?
Susan Carnall, RN Pediatric Oncology Nemours Clinic <scarnall@nemours.org>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 5:23 PM CDT

You folks have been in our prayers for months and will continue to be. We share your sorrow more than you will ever know. Jeffery is in a wonderful place now and we know that he is in God's care. May God bless the family and comfort you as you accept the fact that God called him home.
Uncle Jim Bennett <umwajpb@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 4, 2007 8:11 AM CDT

Dear Samples,

We heard about Jeffery's passing and wanted to add our warmest, deepest thoughts and prayers for all of you. Jeffery fought long and hard, as did you all. This ordeal in some crazy way, brought all of you together in an unbreakable bond. Jeffery certainly knew he was loved. And was he ever loved!!! We just thank God that we had an opportunity to meet Jeffery while he was still in this world. With that, we were blessed.

God be with you and hold you close.
Your friends at POST - Barbara, Terrie, Sandy, Annette, and Issa <just_do_it@earthlink.net>
West Palm Beach, FL - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 1:39 PM CDT

Blessings On Palm Sunday And During Holy Week!

Dear Sample Family,

I am kind of hurrying along, as my son is at work, and I need to make a food run for him. I did, however, wish to tell you that I am remembering Jeffery and thinking of you all.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Palm Sunday:

Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 1, 2007 6:00 PM CDT

Hi 4j's , wishing you all blessings & Gods grace during this very holy week of Lent.Peace.
oxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Sunday, April 1, 2007 12:57 AM CDT

I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Jeffery. Although, he has left you, in this physical world, I am sure he is by your side all of the time. I have followed Jeffery's story for a long time. He has been such an inspiration to me. He touched the hearts of so many, more than you and he will ever know. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
www.caringbridge.org/va/drewb
Gina <OneAngelsMommy@aol.com>
VA USA - Saturday, March 31, 2007 6:44 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I thought of Jeffery, when I was at Eucharist, on Thursday night, and I know I will think of him often, both at home, and at church, during this upcoming Holy Week. I am also praying for all of you. May God comfort, bless, strengthen, encourage, and sustain you all.

I saw your entry, Julie, in Cheyenne's guest book, and I am glad you are signing there and keeping Jeffery's journal. Writing is a good spiritual exercise, and I am sure it will help you, as well as help others.

God bless you all, and of course, God bless sweet Jeffery.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect for Saturdays:

Almighty God, who after the creation of the world rested from all you works and sanctified a day of rest for all your creatures: Grant that we, putting away all earthly anxieties, may be duly prepared for the service of your sanctuary, and that our rest here upon earth may be a preparation for the eternal rest promised to your people in heaven; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 31, 2007 1:39 AM CDT

It's obvious Jeffery is right next to you all, watching over you letting you know he's okay and guiding you through this difficult void in yourlives. Love is eternal and nothing can ever take that away from you. Cannot imagine the range of emotions you all must go through. Believing your Faith has most definetley been guiding you. Sending love and prayers of strength. Keeping Jeffery FOREVER in our hearts and prayers.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Friday, March 30, 2007 5:12 AM CDT

I love all of you..........I want the strength you have....I will hug you tomorrow.......God is with you as he is with us all......He is the one who is helping us all.....I'm so glad the smoker came to you.......He wanted you to have it.......Call me when it's time to eat.....
Joanna Cook <joannacook88@hotmail.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Thursday, March 29, 2007 8:23 PM CDT

P.S. MAKE SURE THAT JEFF COOKS UP SOME GOOD
VENISON ON HIS NEW SMOKER, HA HA HA HA,
JUST KIDDING JEFF, YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU!!!!!!
PEACE
oxoxoxoxoxo
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Thursday, March 29, 2007 1:43 PM CDT

I am soooooooo glad that you felt up to writing an
update my special faith filled friend.I know that you
all are grieving right now, so I hesitate to call.
Even though every fiber of my being wants to.This
way I can read your page everyday & know that even
though there will be sadness, you are all alright.
The hills & valleys I have no doubt will be there
for a very long time, but just remember that when
the sun sets, it does rise again and there will be
joy and smiles in your life again when you think
about Jeffery.I think also Julie, that writing
about it is good therapy for you.It is keeping things
inside that causes problems.I tried to imagine myself
in your place with Jennifer being gone and I just
could not let my self go there.I know that everyone
keeps saying how strong you are, I think that in
your own private moments,you probablly fall apart &
draw your strenght from Jeffery and God.I am praying
that Gods grace touches you with a sense of peace soon.
love you all soooooooooooooo much.
peace.
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Thursday, March 29, 2007 1:42 PM CDT

Dear Julie,

Thank you for updating and for telling the story of the smoker. I think of you every day, and I visit this site, even when I don't sign.

God bless you and all of your family.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 29, 2007 2:39 AM CDT

Dear Julie,
I am hoping that you will rethink keeping this site active for awhile. I think about you so often through the day and wonder how you and your family are doing. I have been in this devastating position and really understand. Please let us know what you are doing and how you are doing.
Lorraine <LMiscik@aol.com>
pa - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 9:09 AM CDT

Dear Julie,
Please update and let us know how you all are doing and what you are doing. I think of you so often through the day. I have been where you are and know how devastating this is for a family. Hope you will respond.
Lorraine <LMiscik@aol.com>
Pa - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 9:04 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

I love stories and would certainly love to hear that smoker story. God bless you and your family.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 0:37 AM CDT

Hey Julie, it is me again. Please keep this caringbridge
up and running for a long while.Even though Jeffery is gone, that doesn't mean that we still don't check this page to see what wonderful things are happening in your life.We all love you and Jeff and Joseph very much.It brings us all a sense of relief to read about how you are all doing.It is so good for our hearts to hear all about how Jeffery is still with you.You should write about the smoker story.I think that miracles are meant to be shared,
don't you? Luv ya'll.
Peace.
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Monday, March 26, 2007 0:30 AM CDT

Hi Julie, it was good to be able to
talk to you today.Hope you found
what you were looking for on the
computer.Remember, just take it
one day at a time, or if need be,
one hour, one minute at a time.I
promise you that the day will come
when the tears will not fall so
easily or for so long.There will be
joy and laughter in place of grief
and heartache.I love you my strong,
faith filled friend.Peace.

cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Monday, March 26, 2007 0:25 AM CDT

Dear Jeffery's family
my heart breaks for you in your loss
I know how hard your Jeffery fought to stay with you all
love doesn't end with dying
or leave with the last breath
for someone you have loved deeply
love doesn't end with Death
from one Angels family to another
with Love jacob's Mum

Jacob's Mum Our Aussie^i^Jacob
Australia - Sunday, March 25, 2007 5:25 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, and Joseph,

I am thinking of you all, and remembering Jeffery, on a sunny late March afternoon. I have just paused here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. May your memories of Jeffery be sweet, and may God strengthen the bonds of love and affection between you.

I recently found a prayer, which may be of some help to you, so I will add it beneath my signature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Guide Me Through These Dark Days

O Lord, I am torn up with grief.
I know you are there, but I cannot see past
my sorrow and tears.
Be with me, Lord, and do not take
my unhappiness to heart.
Rather, work within me to guide me through
these dark days
and bring your light to my life,
so that I may see your goodness, even in my mourning.

~Maureen Pratt, in Peace in the Storm
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 24, 2007 1:17 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I am thinking of you all on another Lenten morning.

Congratulations to Joseph on his driver's license. I know he will be careful and that he will use his new ability to help the family and others.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 23, 2007 8:52 AM CDT

Congratulations on your driver's license Joseph. I know Jeffery will be your ^Angel^ co-pilot.
Keeping you all in my daily thoughts and prayers as you continue on. Jeffery's memory will never dim....he is and always will be an inspiration to all. His courage, his determination his love for his family and that wonderful smile..I cannot begin to imagine the void in your lives...I know you have a very strong faith and we all know Jeffery is no longer in pain and is continuing his journey...may you continue to receive signs from Jeffery. You are a wonderful family. Thank-you for sharing the latest update.
Remembering a Hero. Jeffery.
Kathy
caringbridge./org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, March 23, 2007 6:49 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, Joe, and All,

The previous writer has said some important things. I will remember Jeffery, when I attend Stations of the Cross next Wednesday. I often find a strong connection to the losses I have faced in my parenthood, when I consider the losses Mary faced. Perhaps reading the Scriptures about the passion of Christ, or walking the Stations, will aid and comfort you, now, or at some time in the future.

Jeffery is alive and at peace, in the nearer presence of Jesus, and for that, we are all thankful. You will see your Iron Angel again, and when you do, "all shall be well."

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

"And all shall be well. And all shall be well. And all manner of thing shall be well."

~Julian of Norwich
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 22, 2007 6:40 PM CDT

There are no words to lessen the pain and emptiness that lies in your hearts but there will be peace to follow. This is the most difficult time in your lives. Our Lord and Savior tells us that death is but a transition into the spiritual world. Death is not the end but the beginning of eternity. Jeffery will send you all signs letting you know that he is okay. I am sure that he bargained with God for ways to bring comfort to his earthly family. You all did a terrific job at raising such a wonderful child and I know God is smiling. He knows that your hearts are being ripped from your chests. I look at how Jeffery has inspired so many of us and how God chose you to be his parents and his brother. There is no understanding why our children were chosen to go HOME before us and as unbareable as the pain is at times, we continue to exist. I often think of the movie "The Passion of Christ". Mary watched her son, Jesus Christ be tortured and put to death on the Cross. Watching that scene, I relived every second of Colby's illness and his amazing strength to keep on living even though his physical body was broken. I ponder at the ability and courage it took for him to comfort us, his family during his last days on earth. It is okay to be angry and confused. God created us with such emotions. It doesn't mean that your faith is shaken. You will feel Jeffrey everywhere!!!! He is a part of you just as you all are a part of him. May God wrap His loving arms around each of you and carry you when you can't find the strength to lift your head and may the wind in circle you and dry your tears as though Jeffrey is wrapping his arms around you.
Our loss has become HEAVENs gain.
Love & Prayers
Laura (Angel Colby's mommy)
The Cole's <colcam@atlanticbb.net>
New Salem, Pa USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 8:24 AM CDT

For the rest of my days I will feel blessed to have known your Iron Angel. Jeffery was truely a remarkable man. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jeanne Baranek <pjbjax@yahoo.com>
Jacksonville Beach, fl Duval - Thursday, March 22, 2007 2:39 AM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I have been thinking about you. I am sure you will come home tired tonight. Please know that someone is thinking of you in your bereavement.

I will leave you with a thought from the great hymn writer, Charles Wesley, who also lost a son.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 6:02 PM CDT

I'm very sorry to hear about your son's passing. I pray that God wraps his arms around your family and gives you peace and comfort.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 3:57 PM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, Joseph, and All,

You will be in my thoughts often during the day today. I leave you a copy of these old, familiar words, in hopes that they may be of some comfort to you this day and in the days to come.

God bless you all, and God bless Jeffery,

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

I am Resurrection and I am life says the Lord.
Whoever has faith in me shall have life,
even thought he die.
And everyone who has life,
and has committed himself to me in faith,
shall not die forever.

As for me, I know that my Redeemer lives
and that at the last he will stand upon the earth.
After my waking, he will raise me up;
and in my body I shall see God.
I myself shall see, and my eyes behold him
who is my friend and not a stranger.

For none of us has life in himself,
and none becomes his own master when he dies.
For if we have life, we are alive in the lord,
and if we die, we die in the Lord.
So, then, whether we live or die,
we are the Lord's possession.

Happy from now on
are those who die in the Lord!
So it is, says the Spirit,
for they rest from their labors.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 491
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 0:11 AM CDT

Jeff,
Thoughts and prayers with you and your family
Tony P. (JVMA) <pro5@bellsouth.net>
Jacksonville, fl usa - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 12:12 AM CDT

Dear Julie,
I wanted to let you and your family know how truly amazing you are! You took such excellent care of Jeffery and made his life so fulfilling. I will miss our late night and early morning talks trying to make medical decisions to help you and Jeffery through this long process. But I am so thankful for being allowed to be part of Jeffery's life during such an important time. He was truly an amazing young man. I will miss my big hugs from him, but have comfort in knowing he is finally at peace. Wishing you all God's peace and comfort through your grieving during this difficult time.
Katie Sharp (Pedscare Nurse) <katie.nurse@gmail.com>
Jacksonville, FL - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 9:16 AM CDT

We wanted to send our love to you(julie) jeff and joey.. we are thing of you and wanted you to know that we love ya
julie, mark &felicia <silkento@comcast.net>
callahan, fl USA - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 8:42 AM CDT

OUR LOVE & PRAYERS ARE
WITH YOU ESPECIALLY TODAY
& TOMORROW. GOD BLESS
YOU ALL.
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 8:35 AM CDT

Just letting you know my prayers are with you all today, and everyday. Sending love and keeping Jeffery in my heart and prayers.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 5:13 AM CDT

We are very sorry for your loss. We all know and feel that Jeffrey is with the lord. He will be missed and we will think of him always. We love you guys and we are here for you guys.
Love always,
Olivia, Phil, and family
Olivia, Phil, Josh, Trinity, Phil jr., Ebu, and Eddie <pavilion008@hotmail.com>
Fernandina Beach, FL Nassau - Monday, March 19, 2007 1:23 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I receive a daily thought from the Nouwen Society. Today's thought, from the writings of the late Henri Nouwen, spoke to me of Jeffery. Perhaps it will say something of value to you, as you prepare for Jeffery's funeral.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Infinite Value of Life

Some people live long lives, some die very young. Is a long life better than a short life? What truly counts is not the length of our lives but their quality. Jesus was in his early thirties when he was killed. Thérése de Lisieux was in her twenties when she died. Anne Frank was a teenager when she lost her life. But their short lives continue to bear fruit long after their deaths.

A long life is a blessing when it is well lived and leads to gratitude, wisdom, and sanctity. But some people can live truly full lives even when their years are few. As we see so many young people die of cancer and AIDS let us do everything possible to show our friends that, though their lives may be short, they are of infinite value.

~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)

Jeffery knew he was loved and that his life mattered to God and to his family. Some people never realize that, so Jeffery was blessed.

Jeffery's life bore fruit, while he was on earth, and it will continue to bear fruit in the days and years to come.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 19, 2007 12:09 AM CDT

Julie - My heart aches for you and your family; you all are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you.
Mindy Bennett Jones <mindy.jones@sigmonclark.com>
Statesville, NC - Monday, March 19, 2007 10:47 AM CDT

So sorry to hear of your loss. I just found Jeff's site a few weeks ago and have abeen viviting quiet often. I pray for your family for peace and strength to get threw this time.
My heart breaks for you.
Norma mom to Erik
www.caringbridge.org/nj/erikz

Norma Zimmerman <enzimmerman@comcast.net>
Lambertville, NJ USA - Monday, March 19, 2007 9:40 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff and Joseph,
I am truly sorry for the pain and loss you are feeling. I, too, am honored to have had a glimpse into your lives as I have followed Jeffery's journey. Your love for each other and your faith are inspiring- although you may not feel that way right now.

Please know you all will remain in my heart and prayers.
With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Monday, March 19, 2007 8:08 AM CDT

Here from Dale's page....
praying for Jeffery's family at this time
mrs pam
St Louis, MO - Monday, March 19, 2007 8:00 AM CDT

Dear Julie, Jeff, Joseph, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, and Grandparents,

I have read Jeffery's obituary, and I count it an honor to be among Jeffery's countless prayer warriors. May God bless Jeffery's sweet spirit and give him peace and happiness in that land of light and joy that we all hope to attain, and may God strengthen, comfort, and sustain you all.

In the sure and certain hope, and with my love,

~Colette

Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 19, 2007 1:56 AM CDT

No words right now seem right......... so just love and long distance hugs and a salute to a strong fighting young man who now knows beauty we have to wait to see for ourselves someday, and also pride in you three who have taken such good care of Jeffry as he made the journey.
My Love to you all

Tina James <cherokee15@msn.com>
CINCINNATI, oh u s a - Sunday, March 18, 2007 11:55 PM CDT

Dear Julie,Jeff, and Joseph,

It was with extreme sadness that JF and I read your latest updates and the tears continue to flow as I write this message. We didn't realize that Jeffery had another tumor show up. I am so very sorry.

We are among the few that truly understand what you have been through and the trials that lie ahead. Please know that we are always here for you and don't ever hesitate to contact us if you need to talk or want someone to listen. Our hearts are breaking right along with you . . . . .

JF & Carol

Carol Keirnan <ckeirnan@comcast.net>
Jacksonville , FL USA - Sunday, March 18, 2007 5:45 PM CDT

I love you......
Joanna Cook (Butler) <joannacook88@hotmail.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Sunday, March 18, 2007 2:05 PM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I am continuing to think of all of you. Jeffery is free of illness and pain, but you are experiencing a whole new kind of pain, which we sometimes call bereavement. I hope your friends, neighbors, and church family surround you with care and prayer.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved, the spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. And this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Savior. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 17, 2007 11:20 PM CDT

Dear precious 4j's , we are holding
you very close in our hearts,thoughts
and prayers.I am praying that God's
mercy is abundent for you right now.
Even though we all knew that this was
coming, we all cried for your great loss.
Jeffery is just fine now & I believe
with all my heart that he is and always
will be with you,guiding & protecting &
praying for you.I know that he wouldn't
want us to be sad for him,but to happy
that he is home, where we ALL will be
someday.I LOVE YOU ALL !!!!!!! My HEART
ACHES FOR THE GRIEF YOU ARE FEELING !!!
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Saturday, March 17, 2007 1:47 PM CDT

Dear Julie and Family,

I am continuing to think of you all.

May God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 17, 2007 12:03 AM CDT

My heart goes out to you and your family Julie. I will be praying for all of you. Love Ya and GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY!!!
DENISE PROHN <DENISE2695@AOL.COM>
BEAUMONT , TX UNITED STATES - Saturday, March 17, 2007 11:06 AM CDT

Holding you all close in my thoughts and prayers. What a wonderful young man Jeffery was and how lucky not only was he to have all of you, but for you all to have been given the gift of sharing his much too short life with him. I was never lucky enough to have met Jeffery, but I will never forget him or the love your family so obviusoly has for each other and God.

Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Saturday, March 17, 2007 10:54 AM CDT

God bless you all.

In the sure and certain hope and with my love and prayers.

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 16, 2007 10:41 PM CDT

Jeffery, You must have quite a welcoming "upstairs".
Anyone who ever had near death experiences always wanted to stay there, total happiness! I know you will watch over all your family and friends from above and will help their guardian angels.
Ps. Have you gone on any dinasour rides yet?! Have a great time, until everyone is reunited for all eternity.
May the Divine Assistance remain always with us and may the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen
Mary
Saint Louis, Missouri - Friday, March 16, 2007 9:18 PM CDT

Rest in Peace Jeffery. You have been an inspiration and a warrior. My deepest sympathy Julie, Joe and Joey. Words can never fill the void, just know your wonderful son/brother- will never be forgotten. Ever. Praying for you all.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, March 16, 2007 8:08 PM CDT

YOU ARE LOVED JEFFERY, REST IN PEACE, WE LOVE YOU.
WE ARE HOLDING YOU CLOSE & PRAYING FOR YOU
JEFF,JULIE & JOEY.PEACE.
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Friday, March 16, 2007 11:45 AM CDT

Gob Bless and Keep you all in his loving arms.

Lorraine
- Friday, March 16, 2007 11:23 AM CDT

God Bless you all.....

Roy
Cheyenne's Daddy
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5
Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, tx - Friday, March 16, 2007 10:34 AM CDT

My heart is hurting so badly today for all of you. I have been there, so I know just exactly how bad you are hurting. May God put his healing hand on your whole family. I wish I were there to help you through this.

Lorraine
Pa - Friday, March 16, 2007 8:20 AM CDT

Dearest Julie,
My heart is breaking for all of you. I too have never understood why there is so much suffering during this process..as told to me by a few parents who have been through this journey. And yes, my faith too is strong, and I do believe things happen for a reason we will not understand until we also go to Heaven..but as a parent, there is nothing more difficult then to see your child suffer. I pray for peace and comfort for Jeffery. He is a warrior. I pray for God's strength to be with you and surround you with love. I just wish we lived closer to one another.
Thanks for your kind words and great ideas. Dave had been home schooled in the beginning of his illness, but missed all his friends so much and he loves sociaization and at this point, just wants to finish up and leave this middle school behind and start new at the high school. For him, he doesn't want to leave his band of friends. It's difficult because I'd pull him out in a millisecond and have him on homebound programs...we both know what this disease does and it's hard to see a child going through all this and having to deal with adults that are just unprofessional and without compassion.

Julie if you ever need to talk my # is on the site. I do not want to disturb you as I know you need to spend all those valuable moments with Jeffery and the family. Sending you love
Kathy
]caringbridge.org/fl/david

kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, March 16, 2007 6:51 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

Each of us, as mothers, sometimes sees our children suffer physically, emotionally, socially, and/or spiritually. It is never easy. Most of us would rather be the one to suffer than to see it in a dear, much loved child. I am so sorry that you and your family are suffering this week, as Jeffery is dying. I am also glad that hospice is there with you, to provide nurses, to help care for Jeffery, and to walk with you. One of my best friends, Lynne, was a hospice social worker for many years. She is also an ordained clergy. She has a deep spiritual life, and she always prayed for and with her clients. Hospice also has chaplains. Make use of them, as you are able. You do love God. That is obvious, and God loves you, Jeffery, and all of your family. Suffering, like birth, is a mystery. Right now, we do not know why, but perhaps the quote I will add beneath my signature, will be of some help. I am also going to add a collect I learned, many years ago, when my mother was terminally ill, which has helped me through many rough places.

God bless you. You, Jeffery, Jeff, Joey, and the rest of your family, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, I do not understand why any suffering is necessary, much less the suffering of the innocent as Jesus was. Give me the consolation of faith to know that, could your Kingdom of Love grow without suffering, you would have done it that way. Amen.

James E. Adams, in Lord, Open My Heart, Page 110

+++++++

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 16, 2007 6:23 AM CDT

Dear Julie,

Thank you for taking the time to update Jeffery's journal. Like the previous writer, I have tremendous respect for all of you. I also agree that letting hospice come in is a good thing. The hospice people I have known are wonderful people, and I am sure it is a relief to have them carrying the physical and medical aspects of Jeffery's care. May God bless them, and may God bless all of you, especially Jeffery.

Beneath my signature, I will add a prayer which may be helpful during the night.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Be present, O merciful God,
and protect us through the silent hours
of the night, that we who are wearied
by the changes and chances of this
fleeting world
may repose upon your eternal
changelessness,
through the everlasting Christ our Lord. Amen.

~Gelasian Sacramentary
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 15, 2007 0:31 AM CDT

God Bless you all guys, I have such tremendous admiration for all of you.I think that letting hospice is a good thing.You will have a little more energy to be with each other and strengthen each other.God hold you close tonight.Thankyou Julie for continued updates.It helps
me & everyone close to you to share your struggles.
LUV YOU ALL
oxoxoxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 11:40 PM CDT

HI,
Yes, what you said yesterday is very true. Even though we don't know your son, we all love him and are praying for all of you. I hope you are able to update soon today.
Lorraine
Pa - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 9:45 AM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

We had a problem with our internet service on Monday, and I was unable to visit Jeffery's site on Monday, or on Tuesday. I have just read both journal entries. Joseph sounds like a wonderful brother. God bless him. I am glad the ramp is complete and that Jeffery has been outside. I am also glad that Jeffery isn't in pain.

I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you all. May the courage and peace of Christ be with you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 4:54 AM CDT

Jeffery is truly blessed to have such a wonderful family taking care of him.We are so happy to hear you got him outside and that he is pain free.Please give him big hugs from all the girls at POST. WE LOVE YOU JEFFERY

Terrie Johnson <terrie.johnson@ctrcd.org>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 3:19 PM CDT

Just want you to know that I am still thinking about all of you. I love you all.
Shalane.
Everywhere, usa - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 11:04 AM CDT

I am so glad the angel got to go outside, yesterday was a beautiful day for that. I hope that it was all he expected. Hugs and kisses.... missing everyone....
Aunt Tonya <tsroth@alltel.net>
Callahan, Fl - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

Jeffery,

Ped's Care has been keeping me updated on you, but, I didn't know you had a website till this morning....please know how brave and wonderful I think you are. I am hoping you will be able to get outside again today as it looks like it's going to be a beautiful day. Give your sweet momma a hug for me. Love, Joli (Nemours)
Joli Craver <jcraver@nemours.org>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 8:12 AM CDT

Have a peaceful,restful,blessed night all.
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 0:31 AM CDT

I hope Jeffery gets everything his little heart desires! God loves you all.
Aunt Tonya <tsroth@alltel.net>
Callahan, Fl - Monday, March 12, 2007 2:43 PM CDT

God Bless you Jeffery,

Enjoy your fresh air when you
get to go outside sweet boy.
Tell Joseph to get some bubbles
and have some fun blowing some
for you, you can watch them
float in the wind.

oxoxoxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Monday, March 12, 2007 1:24 AM CDT

Dear Sample Family,

I have thought of you many times today. I hope the ramp was completed and that Jeffery had an opportunity to use it. We have had a beautiful day, here in southern Saratoga County, with the birds singing and the sun shining. I hope it has been as grand where you are.

I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for you all. God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 11, 2007 10:44 PM CDT

Well, well. I am so pysched that he got out of bed!! I was hoping to get those windows open for you tomorrow. But you have done even better than that! I am sure he is outside as I type this and can't wait to hear about his adventure tomorrow.
Love, Kelly
Kelly Komatz <kkomatz@communityhospice.com>
Orange Park, FL USA - Sunday, March 11, 2007 5:14 PM CDT

Julie, you have been amazing. Jeffery of course, is amazing as well. I cannot imagine the moments youa re going through at this point. Though we have traveled similar journeys, this part I know nothing about, my heartbreaks for you and your family. I can't help but wonder how lucky we all are to have these incredible kids who teach us so much. I pray that Jeffery gets to use his ramp today....keeping you all in my heart and prayers.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Sunday, March 11, 2007 12:15 AM CDT

Julie, I've sat here typing and then retyping a message to leave for you and your family, and everything I type just doesn't seem to come out quite right and really express what I want to say. I've followed Jeffery's caringbridge site for so long that I really feel as though I actually know you and my heart is just breaking. As a mom of a child whose battled a life-threatening disease, it's easy for me to say that I have an idea of what you must be feeling, but I know the reality must be a million times worse. I can't even imagine and I am so sorry for all your family and your beautiful son are enduring. From all of your journal entries, especially the ones from these past few days, I can tell that Jeffery is an extremely lucky young man to have such a wonderful woman for his mother, and I'm sure he knows that too. Please know that I think of all of you and pray for you every day.

Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Sunday, March 11, 2007 7:37 AM CDT

Sleep well safely in the arms of all God angels,
surrounding and comforting you tonight Sample family.
Be at peace and filled with comfort.
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Saturday, March 10, 2007 9:56 PM CST

~Thinking of you.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 10, 2007 9:26 PM CST

I know this is a kids poem but I LOVE it!

A giraffe looks in my window
At the same time everyday,
He just appears with silly ears,
When I turn on the light to play.

I tell him the things I do at two
While he munches and crunches the leaves,
That are so very tasty too,
From the tippy tops of the trees.

One night he didn’t look so good,
His eyes were filled with pain.
I asked him, "What is the problem, the food?"
He said, "I must explain!"

"My knees are hurting pretty bad
And my long neck is so sore.
I really do like our talks,
But I can't take much more!
If you do a favor for me,
I know how my pain will be free.

CAN YOU MOVE UP TO THE SECOND FLOOR!!!

Love from Post Pals

viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, March 10, 2007 4:51 PM CST

All of us at the COLBY JAMES COLE house are keeping you all in thought and prayer. PEACE BE WITH YOU! Sending our love from above!
jack-angel colby's daddy forever and ever
uniontown, pa usa - Saturday, March 10, 2007 2:40 PM CST

Julie, thankyou so much for taking the
time ( I know how especially precious that
is right now ) to update this page each day.
As much as I want to call you, I don't dare,
I wouldn't want to do anything to take your
time away from Jeffery, or Janets time away.
I guess like most everyone who loves you
all, I feel so helpless. If I had it my way,
I would come and do EVERYTHING FOR YOU ALL!!!
I know that is not realistic, so I will have to
settle for just praying for you all and asking
our precious father to help you.By updating
each day, it makes me feel like I can share in
this experience with you and it helps me to be
specific with God when I pray.Please know that
you are all LOVED SOOOOOOOOOO much that your
pain is my pain.May God be Graceous to you.
I know that this is probablly the hardest thing
that God will probablly ever give you to
endure, stay strong, you are not alone, EVER.
If you need me for ANYTHING, I am just a call
away.Kiss that precious Jeffery for me.Peace.
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Saturday, March 10, 2007 10:41 AM CST

My heart is with you all today.
God Bless and keep you in his arms.
Lorraine
- Saturday, March 10, 2007 9:01 AM CST

Dear Sample Family,
You all sound like such brave people. I admire your faith.
God bless you during this terrible time in your lives.
Lorraine <LMiscik@aol.com>
Pa - Friday, March 9, 2007 5:17 PM CST

My Dear Family,
I love you all so much it hurts... I have tried to write several times and just couldn't find the words.. I still can't.. but I will do my best to express how I feel...(my heart is breaking)... I believe the dying process is percieved differently by ALL...
1. The PAIN,SUFFERING,DISBELIEF,ANGER,SADDNESS,HURT,GRIEF,HEART ACHE,etc... just consumes you and you aren't sure how to do or take care of anything.. everyday you just ask God to carry you through and thank him for doing so...Wishing all the time that you could change what is happening...knowing you have no control of the situation...can't stop anything from happening...wondering where your FAITH is... second guessing everything..how in the world are we going to go on???
2. The FAITH,JOY,HAPPINESS,STRENGTH,LOVE,HOPE,MERCY,etc.. that God gives us is how we handle this...PAINFULLY BEAUTIFUL process.. we call "passing away"...giving everything to God. Trusting in Him for COMFORT, COMPASSION,STRENGTH,SERENITY, etc...
I pray Father that you "FREE" Jeffery's MIND,BODY AND SOUL!!! KEEP YOUR LOVING ARMS AROUND HIM AND FLY!!!!
FLY HOME JEFFERY!!!! We will FOREVER BE LOVING YOU!!!! YOUR IN MY HEART ALWAYS!!! FOREVER LOVING YOU!! AUNT JANET
AUNT JANET <sheejan1@aol.com>
- Friday, March 9, 2007 10:01 AM CST

I haven't wanted to call a lot because if I called every time I thought of ya'll I wouldn't hang up the phone. I love you all so dearly and my heart is just breaking inside. I know that the good Lord will take care of us and Jeffery. I keep hoping that I am gonna wake up and this will have been one hell of a nightmare. I love you Julie, Jeff, Joey, Jeffery, Janet, Bruce, Zack, Matt, and Jordyn. You are the best family I could ask for.
Aunt Tonya <tsroth@alltel.net>
Callahan, Fl - Friday, March 9, 2007 6:54 AM CST

Dear Sample Family,

I was here last night and thinking of you all, but I did not sign the guest book. I am here, praying for you all again, this morning. May God bless you with peace.

Beneath my signature, I will add a quotation I found earlier this morning. Perhaps it will be of some help.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

As a physician, I have seen men, after all other therapy has failed, lifted out of disease and melancholy by the serene effort of prayer. It is the only power in the world that seems to overcome the so-called "laws of nature"; the occasions on which prayer has dramatically done this have been termed "miracles". But a constant, quieter miracle takes place hourly in the hearts of men and women who have discovered that prayer supplies them with a steady flow of sustaining power in their daily lives.

~Alexis Carrel (1873-1944)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 9, 2007 6:07 AM CST

I'm praying that God gives you a blessed night tonight.I love you, your in our prayers and thoughts and hearts always.God Bless.
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:56 PM CST

Dear Jeff, Julie, Jeffery, Joey, and All,

I remembered Jeffery, when I was at church, at noon today, for Stations of the Cross. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 2:40 PM CST

Hi to the 4/Js,

Stopped by to "see" you all, and it was nice to read the update- I totally understand your ability to find humor in the story you shared. Good for Jeffery, letting everyone know what he wanted and helping to bring laughter to you all.

Praying for peace and comfort for you all.
With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 2:08 PM CST

Thank you so much for the update. I am thinking of all of you today and always. Many prayers going up for you. Hang on! Stay Strong! Much love and many hugs from Ohio, Barb (Mom to Heidi)

oh/heidi "be a hero . . . become an organ donor"
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 1:41 PM CST

I just wanted to tell you I am thing of you & praying for you.Love you all.
Cheryl
oxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 1:06 PM CST

Dear Sample Family,
My thoughts and prayers are for all of you today. Don't let go of your faith in God. He will help you through all of this in time.
Lorraine <LMiscik@aol.com>
- Wednesday, March 7, 2007 7:44 AM CST

Hi ,I came upon your site by visiting another site. What a stong family you have. You can feel the love you have for your son by reading his journal.

Take care

Melissa

http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/taryngrodhaus

melissa grodhaus <mgrodhaus@neo.rr.com>
winona, o - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 6:18 AM CST

Im thinking of you all.
Shalane.
everywhere, usa - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 9:13 PM CST

Dear Julie,

Thank you for updating Jeffery's journal. I know writing today's entry must have been difficult to do. Please know that I am praying for Jeffery, and for all of you, right now, here at my computer. I am sure those who know you, in the flesh, are praying even harder and more frequently.

There is an interesting book of prayers for those seriously ill and for their caretakers. The title is Be Not Afraid: I Am With You. It is by Mary Brian Durkin, who has served as a chaplain in two Chicago hospitals. Beneath my signature, I will add the last part of the prayer from pages 76-77.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Strengthened by our belief that life is eternal
and true love is everlasting, we ask you. God:
Come with your angels and saints
and welcome into resurrected life
one whom we love, and who, when able,
served you so well.
Give eternal rest to our dear one,
and the joy that surpasses all understanding.
We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 10:41 AM CST

Holding you all up with prayers
May God continue His great works and comfort all of you
Laura (Angel Colby's mom) <colcam@atlanticbb.net>
New Salem, pa usa - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 7:34 AM CST

Dear Jeff, Julie, Jeffery, Joey, and Aunt Tonya,

I am thinking of you all. I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for each one of you. May God give you comfort, peace, and everything you really need.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 2:43 AM CST

Just wanted to let you know you are on my mind. Peace, Love and Prayers to you!!!!
Tonya <tsroth@alltel.net>
Callahan, Fl - Monday, March 5, 2007 8:44 PM CST

I LOVE you all so much.I wish more then anything that I could take away all your pain.Please God, cover this dear family with the precious blood of your son.Give them the grace to accept your will.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
cheryl weaver www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Monday, March 5, 2007 6:17 PM CST

Good Morning to you all, I just want to let you all know that I pray for you all everyday and you all are in my thoughts every minute of every day. I love you all very much.
Uncle Bruce <parrotheads5@steelersfan.net>
J-ville, FL USA - Monday, March 5, 2007 7:56 AM CST

Dear Sample Family,

I am visiting on a quiet Lenten morning. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 5, 2007 4:10 AM CST

I love you Four J's. My heart and prayers are with you always. Hugs and Kisses for all.
Tonya <tsroth@alltel.net>
Callahan, Fl - Sunday, March 4, 2007 8:32 PM CST

Good Evening Sample Family,
Justs topping by to let you know you are all in my thoughts and prayers...everyday. Sending prayers of peace and comfort to all. Jeffery has been such a warrior. Keeping you all in my heart.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Saturday, March 3, 2007 7:22 PM CST

Good morning family. Hope you had a good night. Just wanted to say how lucky I am to have you. I am very thankful that everyone is able to be home together. Janet you are truly a blessing for help making that possible. I love all of you
Aunt Tonya <tsroth@alltel.net>
Callahan, F - Saturday, March 3, 2007 11:40 AM CST

Hi Jeffery, I just found you today but will be back often to check on you. Know that you are loved here in Ohio. I will be praying for you. Much love and many hugs from Ohio, Barb (Mom to Heidi)

oh/heidi "be a hero . . . become an organ donor"
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Saturday, March 3, 2007 10:10 AM CST

Dear Jeff, Julie, Jeffery, Joey, and Aunt Tonya,

The prayer I am sharing tonight, is one I learned many years ago, when a family member was very ill with cancer. I learned it on a weekend retreat, led by David S. Ball, then Dean of the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany, NY. He later became our bishop and now serves again at the cathedral, in his retirement. I hope it will be of help to you.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 2, 2007 10:08 PM CST

Love is such an inspiring thing to see, and it is flowing in bright torrents in your home. I am sure that Jeffery is experiencing the greatest love possible from those at home with him, and from those in Heaven, and from those of us who are praying that God will work a miracle and heal him completely and permanently. May God bless you Jeffery, and heal you, and keep you with your loving family for many, many more years to come. There are so few angelic people on Earth...Lord please don't take Jeffery from us.
Peter Tijerina
- Friday, March 2, 2007 1:24 PM CST

Good morning Sample family. Just wanted to let you know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Sending warm hugs from chilly New York.
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Friday, March 2, 2007 7:44 AM CST

Dear Sample Family and Aunt Tonya,

I have just viewed the family picture of the four Samples on the stairway again. It is obvious that Jeffery is a loved person, surrounded by his family. I pray that friends will also be there for you this week.

God bless you always.

Grace and peace,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 1, 2007 11:50 AM CST

Dearest Julie, Jeff, Joey, Jeffery and Aunt Tonya,
My heart is so heavy right now. Jeffery you are the epitomy of strength and courage. This battle is a fierce one and God has surrounded you with so much love...your family is awesome and you are such a gift Jeffery. I pray for peace and comfort. I pray for God's strength and grace for all. I wish I was closer to you Julie. I think of you all every single day. Every day. Blessings.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david GBM fighter
Kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 6:45 AM CST

Dear Jeff, Julie, Jeffery, Joey, and Aunt Tonya,

I just want to let you know that I am thinking of you early on a Lenten morning. We have not met, except through CaringBridge, but my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 6:07 AM CST

Hi my family, Jennifer wrote a poem that I want to share with you.I hope it brings you the joy it has brought to me.

A LIGHT IN THE NIGHT
by Jennifer Weaver

As I was sleeping soundly in my bed,
Suddenly I saw a bright light over my head.
I sat up in bed to see what was wrong,
Then an angel started singing a pretty song.

He sang:"God's light is coming to you,
No matter what happens he will always stay true."
I sat up straighter and started to pray.
I asked God:"What would happen today?"

Just then the light came even brighter,
I pulled the covers around me tighter.
It was the middle of the night you see,
and I had no idea what would happen to me.

Then God came to me and said:
"Please ,beloved get up out of bed.
For you have received your sight,
Come out of the dark,look into the light."

I was so excited to see,
the faces of all my family and ME!!
God had given me a miracle!
Everything looked so beautiful!

My mom had an angel face,
Now I felt like I was drifting out to space.
From that night on while I pray,
I will always remember what happened that day.

Thankyou God, I love you
love, Jennifer

The hardest part in life, I think has to be, watching our children suffer.Being Jennifers mom and watching her suffer and knowing & loving Jeffery since he was just a tiny little guy and now watching him struggle & suffer has really taught me that we truly have to conform to the will of God, no matter how difficult that may be.It is comforting to know that this is not the end for Jeffery, just the beginning of a new and joyous journey.One he will not be alone on,Jesus will be with him and he will know peace he has never known before.No more suffering or trials or sadness.As Jennifer says, only light mom and peace and joy.This past year, Jennifer has lost five very special friends, as they have gone home to paradise.She loves Jeffery very much and it saddens her that he will be away from everyone.But as she reminded me,in his new home in heaven, he can" rock out" ( her words) with Elvis & Jesus & the angels.We love you Jeff, Julie,Jeffery & Joey.
We are here if you need us for ANYTHING.
Peace be with you.

www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer

cheryl weaver <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia United States - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 9:51 PM CST

Dear Sample Family and Aunt Tonya,

I continue to think of you all. May the peace of Christ be with you always.

Beneath my signature, I will place something you may be able to share with Jeffery during one of his alert periods. I shared it with another family that lost their teenage son to cancer recently. Perhaps it will help Jeffery, or one of the others, in the family. (I know you are not a Catholic family, and we are not Roman either, but I think it speaks a universal truth of Christianity that is helpful to many.)

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

One day, I was sitting with Rodleigh, the leader of the troupe, in his caravan, talking about flying. He said, "As a flyer, I must have complete trust in my catcher, The public might think that I am the greatest star of the trapeze, but the real star is Joe, my catcher. He has to be there for me with split-second precision and grab me out of the air as I come to him in the long jump."

"How does it work?" I asked.

"The secret," Rodleigh said, "is that the flyer does nothing and the catcher does everything: when I fly to Joe, I have simply to stretch out my arms and hands and wait for him to catch me and pull me safely over the apron behind the catchbar."

"You do nothing!" I said, surprised.

"Nothing," Rodleigh repeated. "A flyer must fly, and a catcher must catch, and the flyer must trust, with outstretched arms, that his catcher will be there for him."

When Rodleigh said this with so much conviction, the words of Jesus flashed through my mind: "Father into your hands I commend my Spirit." Dying is trusting in the catcher. To care for the dying is to say, "Don't be afraid. Remember that you are the beloved child of God. He will be there when you make your long jump. Don't try to grab him; he will grab you. Just stretch out your arms and hands and trust, trust, trust."

Henri J. M. Nouwen
A Roman Catholic Priest
Our Greatest Gift: A Meditation On Dying And Caring
Harper, 1994
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 11:18 AM CST

Dear Sample Family and Aunt Tonya,

I have not visited Jeffery's site in many months. (I have cut back a little in computer use.) I was sorry to learn, on Monday, on Cheyenne Fiveash's site, that Jeffery has become progessively ill. Certainly we all hoped that Jeffery would be one of those lucky ones to beat cancer. What an awful disease it is!

Let Jeffery know that many people are proud of him for his courage, strength, and faith. My prayers are with him, and with you all, this morning.

God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

This Psalm, in this particular wording, has helped me through and beyond a lot of difficult things. May its words bring you whatever it is you most need today.

5. O LORD, YOU are my portion and my cup; *
it is you who uphold my lot.

6. My boundaries enclose a pleasant land; *
indeed, I have a goodly heritage.

7. I will bless the LORD who gives me counsel; *
my heart teaches me, night after night.

8. I have set the LORD always before me; *
because he is at my right hand I shall not fall.

9. My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; *
my body also shall rest in hope.

10. For you will not abandon me to the grave, *
nor let your holy one see the Pit.

11. You will show me the path of life; *
in your presence there is fullness of joy,
and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.

~Psalm 16: 5-11, The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 600
(My Favorite Psalm Portion)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 3:11 AM CST

It hurts so much to read the latest update. Jeffery is one of our heroes. God bless your family, today and everyday. You are in our prayers. Hug Jeff for us..

Roy
Cheyenne's Proud Daddy, forever
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5
Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, tx - Monday, February 26, 2007 11:36 AM CST

Julie, I don't know if you remember me, but we were in drill team together (I'm a few years older than you) but from one mom to another, my heart is breaking for you. There are no words I can say to comfort you, but I know the Great Comforter. Stand strong in the faith and know HE holds your beautiful family in HIS loving hands. Always remember, GOD is still in the miracle business. God bless you and yours.

Jill (Brack) Durant <durantj@peoplepc.com>
Silsbee, TX USA - Friday, February 23, 2007 8:35 AM CST

Just wanted you to know that you all our in aour thoughts and prayers,, love to all the other julie (mark and felicia
julie <silkento@comcast.net>
callahan, fl - Thursday, February 22, 2007 4:39 PM CST

I LOVE YOU MY WONDERFUL FAMILY...GOD IS WITH US!!!!!!AMEN!!!!!
AUNT JANET
JAX, FL USA - Friday, February 16, 2007 8:09 PM CST

Thinking of you all, and praying for your comfort.

With love,
Julie-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Thursday, February 15, 2007 4:59 PM CST

Thinking of you all today. Sending lots of loving prayers and warm hugs.
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay) <kelfitz@rochester.rr.com>
Rochester, NY - Thursday, February 15, 2007 7:58 AM CST

Just to let you guys know that you're in our thoughts and prayer.
Happy Valentine's Day and we love you guys.
Phil, Olivia, Joshua, Trinity, and PJ, Jr. <pavilion008@hotmail.com>
Fernandina Beach, FL Nassau - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 9:24 AM CST

Hello Jeff,
I hope today is a good day for you...

David <hoblit@bellsouth.net>
Jacksonville, Fl - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 7:36 AM CST

My eyes fill with tears
When I hear him say he has no fear
What strength this child has shown
So much more than those of us who are grown
It doesn't seem fair to take him away
We've only had him a short while and want him to stay
I know I can not be selfish for the Lord must need him now
I know we have to let him go, I just don't know how
Every precious hug and every precious smile will forever be etched in my heart
And I will hold on to every memory if we HAVE to be apart
So if you go to Heaven before I do
Save a place for me close to you
Aunt Tonya
Jacksonville, Fl - Sunday, February 11, 2007 12:38 AM CST

Dear 4J's,
Keeping each of you in my thoughts and prayers. Thank God you have such a strong Faith. Believing God is with you all every step of the way and trusting Him to keep watch over all.
Sending prayers of strength and peace to you all. Jeffery, keeping you in my prayers and sending blessings of peace to you.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Saturday, February 10, 2007 7:29 AM CST

Julie
I have tried sending you an e mail to your new e mail address but it keeps coming back undeliverable..... I am praying and believing that somehow in these next weeks you will feel Jesus' arms and peace in your home. No words can tell how hard I know this is , but yet I pray that the thin veil between this world in the next is shown to you so that you understand how close we really are to those who now live on the other side with Jesus. Much love to you all and many prayers for daily miracles that help you all get through such a time as this....... even writing that i feel stupid , what words can anyone say to you all if they have not experienced this? I love you all though, please know that
tina
cincinnati, oh u.s.a. - Friday, February 9, 2007 8:15 AM CST

Hi Sample Family. Sending lots of prayers that you are feeling God's loving arms wrapped around you right now and that Jeffrey knows how much he is loved, not only by his family, but by many of us that have never had the pleasure of meeting him.

Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Monday, February 5, 2007 12:39 AM CST

Hi dear family, still praying for you & loving you.Wish with all my heart that I could take away all your pain.
God Bless & sustain you.
Peace
oxoxoxoxo
www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer
cheryl weaver <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Ga United States - Saturday, February 3, 2007 2:58 AM CST

Hi Sample Fammily,
Just wanted to let you know that your family here at POST has not forgotten you. We love you and are praying for your strength. You are such a very special family and are always in our hearts.
Love Terrie and the girls at POST
terrie johnson <terrie.johnson@ctrcd.org>
West Palm Beach, fl - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 10:01 AM CST

Hi Jeffery
Our hearts and prayers are always thinking of you and your family. Julie I got your message on Shawns page.
I updated it too. I love yall's picture on the front web page. Julie and Jeff, how did you get the doctors to clone you? Jeffery and Joesph are exact replica of you two. The older they get the more of you I see in them. It's the best compliment, cause you guys made some very handsome children. Take care and stay in touch.

cathy & shawn reed, cb.org/fl/shawnreed <cjreed63@windstream.net>
lake city, f usa - Thursday, January 25, 2007 11:42 AM CST

I am Sister Lucille, a friend of Cheryl and Elizabeth Weaver, who sent me the info about you. I am praying for your whole family at this special time. God bless you and give you strength and peace!
Sister Lucille
Petersburg, VA - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 1:15 PM CST

Hello!
This is Julie, Maddie's mom(www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie), I used to follow the "4 Js" on the Protocel site, but have lost touch... I'm sorry for all you are going through, but so happy to read of the peace, strength and faith with which you are moving forward. Please know that I am keeping ALL of you in my thoughts and prayers... sending extra love to Jeffrey.
With love,
Julie Dornisch-Maddie's mom www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie
Julie Dornisch <juliedornisch@yahoo.com>
Mpls., MN - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 11:03 AM CST

Hiya, someone emailed me an update and so i thought i would sign to say im thinking of you

love viks from Post Pals
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Wednesday, January 24, 2007 10:27 AM CST

He's a fine young man and my heart cries deepply. I want so much for Jeffrey to live on. Just seen this message today and will lift him to the Lord in prayer.
Rose
Vanuatu - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 5:58 PM CST

Jan 23 2007 Cheryl has told us about you and your needs.We are going to do what we can AND we are going to keep you in our forever hearts and prayers. From: Charlene & Christine (we are twin sisters)
Charlene Seago
Bartlesville, Ok USA - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 5:45 PM CST

Your family in Macon,Georgia loves you & is still praying for you all.Gods peace.
oxoxo
cheryl weaver <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com, www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer>
macon, Ga United States - Monday, January 22, 2007 11:49 PM CST

STILL LOVING YOU , PRAYING FOR YOU & HOLDING YOU CLOSE IN MY HEART.GOD'S PEACE BE WITH YOU ALL.
OXOXOX
www.caringbridge.org/ga/jennifer
cheryl weaver <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
macon, Georgia 31210 - Friday, January 19, 2007 10:02 PM CST

Just wanted to say that someone in Colorado thought of you today. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hoping that you feel the gentle touch of God's love as He holds you gently in the palm of HIS hand.
Linda Pung, One Who Cares <ginponymom@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 1:32 PM CST

Dear Family,
Just wanted you to know I'm joining others out here in computerville, walking silently by your side, lifting you up as you face the days ahead...where minutes seem like hours and days feel like they're disappearing in a flash.
Surrounding you with love, warmth and Prayer~Songs.
Blessings
Lu
Hugs&Hope/Dabbles&Doodles
Lucel~Melody Wings
Atlanta, GA USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:17 AM CST

Just wanted to let you know that I am praying for your family. Stay strong.
Jodi Hugs and Hope/DabblesandDoodles <jodiw78@yahoo.com>
IL - Friday, January 19, 2007 7:19 AM CST

I wanted to stop in and let you know I am praying for your family, and hoping things are going your way. Without an update, I don't really know what to say except that many people are concerned about you :) Long distance hugs from Florida.
Cathe L haldagobay.com/Dabbles and Doodles/OWC <haldagobay1@bellsouth.net>
Pensacola, - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:20 PM CST

Dear Jeffery and family,
Just wanted u to know that I have all of u in my thoughts and prayers.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Love Eileen OnesWhoCare, Angel_Wings
Eileen
USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 6:07 PM CST

Dear Jeffery & family,
I just wanted u to know that I have u all in my thoughts & prayers.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
LoveEileen OnesWhoCare, Angel_Wings
Eileen
USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 6:02 PM CST

Thoughts and prayers from snow covered Wisconsin.
Hugs and Hope club.
Blessings,
Cathy Calvetti <cmcalvetti@yahoo.com>
Eagle River, WI USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 5:10 PM CST

You are in our thoughts & prayers

Charlene & Becky/Dabbles & Doodles
...
- Thursday, January 18, 2007 5:02 PM CST

Just popped in to say Hi and how brave you all are.
Heather Sarina's Mom http://www3.caringbridge.org/pa/sarina/ <cloudraven@veriozn.net>
philadelphia, PA USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 2:49 PM CST

You are in my thoughts and my prayers

Jan Ciskowski <momskii@hotmail.com>
Meriden, CT usa - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:27 AM CST

your in my thoughts,

all my love,

viks
www.postpals.co.uk
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:19 AM CST

hi my dear family, I know that all I can do for you now is offer up my prayers for you all.Please know that I love you all soooooooo much and I am asking God to hold you close right now.I know that Jeffery is such a precious angel & I know that you all are surrounded by Gods angels.Just know that I am here for you if you need me for ANYTHING.God bless all the precious angels.peace.oxox
cheryl weaver <weaver_cheryl@yahoo.com>
Macon, Ga 31210 - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 11:04 PM CST

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