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Terry
Was thinking about you and your daughter today. I hope that time is being good to you.
Christina Alexander
Little Rock, AR USA - Wednesday, February 20, 2013 12:46 AM CST

Terri, thinking of you, Larry and Livi all week.
I will try to call you on Friday the 28th. Love you much.

Brenda
Brenda Steele <steele.brenda@yahoo.com>
North Little Rock, AR Pulaski - Tuesday, January 25, 2011 12:13 AM CST

What a great tool
Darlene Johnson
Springfield, MO United States - Thursday, June 4, 2009 6:32 AM CDT

Checking in on the sweetest Southern Belle I know!
Sonia Carter <soniacarter@sbcglobal.net>
San Antonio, TX Bexar - Friday, April 17, 2009 11:30 PM CDT

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Happy Easter

A Little Easter Fun.. Enjoy!

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Shane <Eric_Nae@yahoo.com>
Bend, OR - Sunday, April 12, 2009 11:46 PM CDT

we are a cow lover family.........with no cows nearby......sending prayers for your family.

Melissa and Hailee
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/haileesangels
melissa <angels4hailee@q.com>
mesa, az usa - Saturday, April 4, 2009 7:59 PM CDT

I hope all is well in college town. Enjoy the country living for a day or two.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Friday, April 3, 2009 6:56 PM CDT

Oh. My. God.

You crack me up. After my week I needed a good laugh. Should you ever find yourself in these parts, lemme know. The doxies would be a welcome visitor to the mutt, if they can tolerate the Dukester. He's a bit much at times. Correction. He's a bit much all the time, especially when boys ride him like a horse. But the boys love their dog, and the dog loves his boys. Is it just me or does that sound like a line from "The Giving Tree?"

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
LA - Friday, March 27, 2009 9:00 PM CDT

Hi Mrs. Root,

I know it's been a while since I've written on here. But I wanted to let you know that I'm currently in the process of getting my masters in education and am seriously considering a Special Needs certification following my masters. Last night I was in a class and we talked about Traumatic Brain Injuries and I shared Lorriane's story. I still think about you and she daily. I think our experience with her accident has led me in a very interesting direction I might not have followed without her help. I have found myself becoming more and more sensitive to families with children with Special Needs, especially TBI. My undergrad is in Studio Art so I hope to combind all of these to do some sort of art therapy. I wanted to let you know how Lorriane is still a large part of my life.

Much Love,
Helen
Helen Feild <hfeild@gmail.com>
Shreveport, LA USA - Wednesday, March 25, 2009 10:06 AM CDT

I don't sign in often but I think of your family's story often. I enjoy your day to day entries so much. You have a talent. You make us feel like we know the "doglets" and your family. Thank you so much for allowing all of us to be a part of your story. I know myself and my 21 year old daughter will definitely "Remember Lorraine".
Cindy Bullock <cindy.bullock@sbcglobal.net>
Benton, AR - Thursday, March 19, 2009 10:08 PM CDT

Thank you for your support, thoughts, and most importantly prayers over the last week and a half. To say we have been stressed and worried begins to touch on the emotions that have run through our hearts and minds. Maybe someone up above has a straight shot to His ear. Perhaps a lovely young woman who loves children...

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Wednesday, March 18, 2009 2:57 PM CDT

I'm not a bird person, but I work in an office where I sit right next to a Fish and Wildlife Biologist who happens to be a bird lover/watcher. I told her about your Robin and she said that it could be a male who sees himself in the reflection of the glass. She said that they are good fathers who help with the babies, so maybe instead of a female it's actually a male trying to protect his domain. She said you could put an adhesive cutout of another bird or a tree or something to "fool" it. She had to do the same to a finch who was trying to kill the other finch in her sideview mirror of her car. She eventually resorted to covering that with a "poke". But who knows, it might just be "a crazy ole bird". Good Luck!
Penny <pennywarwick77@hotmail.com>
BG, Ky - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 8:24 AM CDT

Glad you made it home safe. Orville has requested confirmation of your safe arrival. We have had fun with you this week. Next week is serious work. And none of it gets the business of grieving done....Well as far as i know we have time.
Love you, thanks for everything.
Tonia

caringbridge.org/visit/carolacker
Tonia Goolsby <tsuzannegoolsby@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Saturday, March 14, 2009 11:15 PM CDT

Hi Terrie. I'm Jane's friend. I saw all your sweet comments on John and Connor's site and I wanted to see who you were.

I just read your story. Yes, all of it. About 1/2 way through I realized that I know who you are. I attended OBU in the 90s and knew both Jeff and Deborah through yearbook and OSF.

I pray that Livi's health will be strong as she tackles the rest of this semester. Take care.
Salinda
Shreveport, LA 71118 - Tuesday, March 10, 2009 11:23 PM CDT

I hang onto your written word, and believe I would do the same for spoken.
We are home from Children's, but John just vomited again in his bed. I have plenty of sheets, hopefully I don't go through all of them. Sigh.
Jane Chauvin
- Tuesday, March 10, 2009 10:18 PM CDT

Lorraine's MOM!!

This is almost creepy, we (me , mom and The Hisser) have been on the same kick...we are good listeners, talkers, too, but if someone is on the phone, unless it is an emergency, why would anyone "click over" and then say I have to take this? Makes you kinda feel insignificant and taken advantage of considering you (all of us) have sat for hours hearing about whatever drama they may be creating in their lives and try to lend an ear and be supportive, only to break out in a sweat in from of LaMadelaine when they "forgot" you had plans, because they are over their immediate problem...and the cycdle continues...the hisser calls it giving and taking..some people are takers and consumed with themselves and their trials, while givers, not saints, but can also be just as (more so if they are control freaks..guilty!) caring over someone trusting us enough to say, this is me, this is what is going on, all is not right...Keep being the giver you are....just keep a healthy eye on those takers.....but don't stop being you, their behavior is awful..you are listening to your heart, can't go wrong there! Lorraine just may be visiting me, I swear I can taste carrot cake....really.....wow...I can TASTE it.....

Sorry about your day....still tasting cake...it is GOOD

God bless,

Peace, Love & Platelets

Zack

Caringbridge: Zack
Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Tuesday, March 10, 2009 0:21 AM CDT

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. Punkin is in the hospital, but he is coming around, we hope.
Jane Chauvin
- Monday, March 9, 2009 10:35 AM CDT

I haven't been by in a while. Sounds like everything is good except for maybe a kidney stone...UGH...I have heard they are PAINFUL! I hope the beer and cranberry juice does the trick.
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, March 3, 2009 4:46 PM CST

I think you and my momma would make good drinkin' buddies..she just can't stand the taste of beer..LOL..I hope those kidneys quit twiddling around and straighten out...well, the flu had felled me, but I am now up and ambulatory, so to speak...I even had the shot! Did you get snow? How are my doxie girls (do not let them taste beer or you may have to deal with "doxies gone wild" as I suspect it is spring break..LOL...on the other hand, film it, youtube could use those two dignified clowns!!! How is Larry, Livi, the castle and what art are you creating? I know you have to be working on a painting.......

God bless,
Always remembering Lorraine!

Zack-sauce

Caringbridge: Zack
Zack Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Monday, March 2, 2009 4:11 PM CST

Hi, Thinking of you :)

Sherri
www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
Sherri <ketch16@yahoo.com>
ohio - Sunday, March 1, 2009 8:32 AM CST

HI!
I am so sorry that I am so behind YEt again. I have been helping in a clinic that is SWAMPED thus I am.
I think of you daily and sometimes several times a day. I hope the results of the studying are PHENOMINAL I also HOPE to spell some day *grin*
LOTS of prayers your way NEVER forget that.
Steph from Sabrina's Bunch
Stephanie <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, February 23, 2009 2:58 PM CST

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

How many times have I wanted to "raise someone right" whilst out in public! Thank you on behalf of all those who wanted to do exactly what you did but lacked the guts.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jand Chauvin
- Tuesday, February 17, 2009 12:27 AM CST

I like that new show on ABC, "What would you do". Sounds like I know what you would do in those type situations. I like to think I would do it too, but I am married to the one that would say something, so most of the time I don' t have to. Although, I guess if no one else was going to say something, I'd have to eventually do something myself. I know if I'd been in there, I would have been smiling too. The nerve of some people.
Penny <pennywarwick77@hotmail.com>
BG, Ky - Tuesday, February 17, 2009 9:35 AM CST

Teri:
You sound so sick. Do you want me to bring you soup etc. and hand it thru the door. Let me know how to help.
Kay Robertson
Fayetteville, AR Washington - Friday, February 13, 2009 10:32 AM CST

Sending well wishes yours and Livi's way! We took the flu "sniff" instead of the flu shot and though I wondered how sucking a mist up my nose would be better then the shot...so far so good.
Penny <pennywarwick77@hotmail.com>
BG, Ky - Thursday, February 12, 2009 7:50 AM CST

Once a mom, always a mom, to every child that ever passed through your door. I'm sure HIS mom was oh-so-thankful for the care only moms can provide.

I'm thinking Lorraine met Will at the gates.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Tuesday, February 10, 2009 10:31 AM CST

Thanks for tipping me off about Zack's birthday.

The story about the campus assistance folks reminded me of the guy that called the police and said two men were taking stuff out of his storage shed. Since they were in the shed and not the house, the police said they were too busy to send anyone. Five minutes later the man called again and told them everything was under control - he had shot the burglars. Soon the place was thick with flashing lights and sirens. As the would-be thieves were being put in one of the cars, an officer said to the homeowner "I thought you said you shot them!" (As redundant as it seems at this point, I'll go ahead and repeat the reply: "I thought you said no one was available.")

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Wednesday, February 4, 2009 10:34 PM CST

I too have been reading caringbridge pages these past few days and have cried until my eyes ached. I find myself asking questions like, why them and why not me? I feel so selfish sometimes because I worried so for my son (www.caringbridge.org/visit/benjaminmatthew) but he's fine. It's just so many of these precious children don't get to come home and though I believe they are in a better place and happy in heaven, they leave behind destroyed and heartbroken families. Last week 3 of 4 teenagers (kids) were killed in a car accident. Two of them were from our Church. It has been devastating....as it always is. And then to read about Brave Will along with the countless others....my heart is just breaking to pieces. I actually was praying for the rapture so that no one has to suffer anymore on earth.

I hope that Livi is feeling better. We've managed to avoid the sickness...we've been buying the cheese and crackers instead of the peanut butter.

As always I thoroughly enjoy your entries. It's almost theraputic for me after reading about so many sick children.
Penny <pennywarwick77@hotmail.com>
Bowling Green, Ky - Wednesday, February 4, 2009 8:20 AM CST

I can't thank you enough for all of your support. WE HAVE NED! I have been thinking about you often. I know it is a hard time of year.
*HUGS*!
Steph
Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Tuesday, February 3, 2009 2:31 PM CST

Luckily, neither boy likes peanut butter. Generally, if Mama don't cook it, it don't get eaten in my house! Most of our meals are the "from scratch" kind, and even sandwich meat is recooked before touching a slice of bread. I'm a bit nutty that way :-)
J. Chauvin
- Tuesday, February 3, 2009 11:03 AM CST

We, too, wonder how you know "when to go back" to a place without power. Our answering machine is plugged into the wall. We call ourselves. If the machine comes on then, voila, the lights are back on.

Good luck. Stay warm!
Jenny
St. Louis, - Saturday, January 31, 2009 9:37 PM CST

And to those "sisters" who took of on Livi:

Did your mama not raise you right?
J. Chauvin
- Saturday, January 31, 2009 9:57 AM CST

I was reading your entries when I saw the word "Poke". I seriously, up until today, thought that my crazy father-in-law invented that word for a plastic bag! However, I find myself saying it pretty often. We Kentuckians have been known to have some silly sayings, but I had no idea that Poke was actually used in the real world! Interesting! Stay Warm.
Penny <pennywarwick77@hotmail.com>
Bowling Green, Ky - Friday, January 30, 2009 3:23 PM CST

I was without Internet yesterday, but I was thinking of the Root family. I also saw and heard the name Lorraine about three times yesterday. She's still with you, Terrie.
Meghan Wedgeworth <meghan423@gmail.com>
Centerton, AR USA - Thursday, January 29, 2009 1:42 PM CST

Happy Birthday, Lorraine.

I like to think the stars twinkling last night were your eyes, looking down and telling all of us thank you for the birthday wishes. I'm sure Mr. Wonderful was by your side.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Thursday, January 29, 2009 8:26 AM CST

Happy Birthday to Lorraine....Thinking of you!

Sherri
www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
sherri <ketch16@yahoo.com>
ohio - Thursday, January 29, 2009 7:03 AM CST

Sending you sweet hugs on Lorraine's birthday. My thoughts are with you. I hope ya'll are staying warm in that yucky weather.
Paige Callegan <pcallegan@cox.net>
Baton Rouge, LA - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 9:07 PM CST

We're thinking of you on Lorraine's birthday and hoping you feel her presence beside you, or at least some sweet memories.
Jenny
- Wednesday, January 28, 2009 4:22 PM CST

Wishing you and yours a blessed day! Happy Birthday Lorraine!!! I hope all the stars are lit brightly for you tonight!
Jenny Leger
North Richland Hills, Tx - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 3:26 PM CST

I found your caringbridge page while viewing BraveWill's site. My brother was t-boned at 18 years of age. He was in a coma for 33 days and then transferred to a brain rehab facility for a 21 days before they sent him home to yet another rehab facility for another 2 weeks. Those were some of the hardest days I have ever had to endure and it was less then 3 months. I can't say he is the same, but even though he suffered the TBI he is married and has two children and holds a job. He is even trying to go back to college, taking one or two classes a semester. I can't imagine enduring 20 months and then having to say goodbye. Enduring as a sister is not even comparable to enduring something like that as a mother. As a mother I have a little understanding what it is like to worry and be scared for your child because I had a son that was born 2 1/2 months early and we spent 60 days in the NICU, but he too got to come home. My heart breaks for your loss. Life's not fair and I just don't understand why not. I don't know you, but when I read your entries I find myself captivated by your words. I love your way of writing....I think you must be a writer and an artist and a wonderful wife and mother of not only 2 legged children but the 4 legged kind as well. I love how you talk about the noise box in the car and how you use the word "atall" and "teats on a boar hog". I am not sure where you are from, somewhere that gets cold in the winter. I love the name Livi, but wish I knew if I was pronouncing it in my head correctly. I hope that her college days are memorable and that your dogs share your castle with you for many years to come. Thanks for sharing your life with us. May God bless your family
Penny <pennywarwick77@hotmail.com>
Bowling Green, Ky - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 11:34 AM CST

Thinking of Lorraine this special day. It is Loraine's day.
Praying that the entire family and friends of Lorraine will be Blessed and emotionally Healed through our Heavenly Father.
Anne Marie Willett <Awillett@world-electronics.com>
Muhlenberg, PA USA - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 6:53 AM CST

I know that tomorrow will be rough.
I will say an extra prayer.
Thank you so much for supporting Sabrina. You are a DOLL!
Steph
Stephanie <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 10:23 PM CST

Happy birthday Lorraine!

We can't see your candles in the sky tonight - too cloudy. Maybe when you blow them out in the morning you could scatter some of the clouds. They say we may get snow this week - they love to say that. Once in a while we actually get some.

Sounds like Livi got a good lesson in who she could trust. (I think that should be "whom" but I'm not the kind of person that says that.)

Your Mom is a regular contributor to Mamie's guestbook. I'll bet if she included your site address, some more people would get to see your picture.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 9:49 PM CST

HI!
Been busy with work, but I think of you often.
I hope you are staying warm!
lots of hugs your way.
Steph
Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 1:08 PM CST

Hoping for a week filled with good times and better memories.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Monday, January 26, 2009 2:22 PM CST

I have no idea what a purl is, so I won't comment on your domestic goddess status.
I do know that the return on advocating for children is immeasurable. Although I technically represent the state of Louisiana in our child in need of care proceedings, I feel that I am often advocating for the child. We so desperately need more foster and adoptive homes! These children have committed no crime other than giving love unconditioanlly only to have it shot back in their faces. Those beautiful little faces, eagerly upturned with a smile, so quickly hung in tears.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Wednesday, January 21, 2009 10:22 AM CST

Hi Terri, I just wanted you to know that Lorraine and you have very much been on my mind. And to let you know that prayers are always being said for you. I don't know if you remember me or not but I was one of the nurses that took care of Lorraine while she was in Baptist hosp. I think about her often and it always makes me wish I could have known her before she came to the hospital. I feel like she was like my daughter, out going, well liked, a little lady, and a crack up when she wan't to be. It sometimes feels that people forget about other people when they are gone and to a mother that just dosn't seem possible how people could forget. I just wanted you to know that Lorraine, you and your family are in my prayers and on my mind often. Hope all is well.
Lisa Bonds <rlsbonds@yahoo.com>
Fox, Arkansas United States - Saturday, January 17, 2009 9:49 PM CST

HI Terrie - hope you and the girls all stay warm up there. My girls have taken up a new hobby. They learned how to CLIMB while I was not looking. Things on my bathroom counter have been chewed - there are toothmarks. My husband swears it wasn't him. They ate my glasses and my mascara. Rest assured that measures have been taken to prevent further expeditions. BUT I had NO IDEA that such short little legs could climb like that!
Cindy Minor <cwminor1@comcast.net>
- Thursday, January 15, 2009 7:45 AM CST

No Michael's in these parts, I'm afraid. But there's a lovely knitting shop near the downtown square � Hand Held. We're in for a frigid week in the north country!
Meghan Harris Wedgeworth <meghan423@gmail.com>
Centerton, AR USA - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 2:38 PM CST

I came across your daughter, Lorraine's caringbridge site by acccident. I went back and read all your entries. I cannot begin to understand the pain and suffering that you have endured since losing her. She looks like she was very vibrant, energetic and a beautiful person inside and out. I pray for you and your family daily that God surrounds you in his love and comforts you.
Janine
Austin, tx USA - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:40 AM CST

I think you need a visit from the Dog Whisperer! LOL...it's on the cold side here to in Texas...believe it or not! Have a great day. I too, like the guestbook signer below always say "Wow, so beautiful!"
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, January 12, 2009 4:09 PM CST

Hey you sweet friend.
Cute pic of Brina iddantit?
I am amazed at the beautiful Lorraine everytime I come here to visit and I always say "How BEAUTIFUL" outloud everytime.
So an artist too eh? Multi-talented.
My friend Allison that posts on Brina's Site, she recom a book... Divorced Drunk and Covered in Cat Fur. It's about a lady that knits. You may like it too.
I hope you are having a relaxing time.
Steph
Stephanie <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, January 12, 2009 3:00 PM CST

Hey Girlfriend, Melt down over. Now more troubles with all the recession scares. THANKS for explaining what I was going through or I may have wondered about myself.
HANG IN THERE!
Steph
Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Saturday, January 10, 2009 6:53 PM CST

Thinking of you today. I went to see mom before my doctor appt.Both said how much we think of you.
Sabrina <ssmith02@cableone.net>
- Thursday, January 8, 2009 4:37 PM CST

Hi, Thinking of you.

Love, Sherri
www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
sherri <ketch16@yahoo.com>
ohio - Wednesday, January 7, 2009 9:10 PM CST

Well, the handprints are done. Not sure how to get plaster off of ceramic, but hey, I wanted new floors anyway.

I have toyed with the idea of going back to medical school. However, my reasons for attending would be to gain knowledge regarding my boys, as I really don't think I would ever want to practice. Sounds like too much debt just for knowledge. I may just buy the books.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Wednesday, January 7, 2009 11:12 AM CST

Happy Relatively New Year! (Hey, there are still 361 days left! That's pretty new.)

Hope you got that nap.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Sunday, January 4, 2009 9:41 PM CST

Must be something about the minds that think alike. We are doing plaster casts of the boys today! Or rather, I am doing them as DH is at work. Should be messy and gross, and generally a blast!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin
- Friday, January 2, 2009 8:16 AM CST

Happy New Year!
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, January 1, 2009 4:34 PM CST

Wishing you a peaceful and happy 2009! I wish for understanding, peace, and unity for you and your family. I wish for continued health for everyone, especially Livi. But more than anything, I wish happiness for you. Sometimes you've just got to keep on keepin' on, as my mom would say!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin
- Wednesday, December 31, 2008 6:01 PM CST

I am glad to be outta the hospital and have this step behind me. I am looking foward to a good year in 2009. Thank you for the prayers. I am a liilt woosey from the 2 lortab I was given before I left the hospitall.
Sabrina <ssmith02@cableone.net>
Parsons, KS USA - Wednesday, December 31, 2008 12:41 AM CST

Prayers and MUCH love from South Louisiana.

Joel
Friend of Little Joel Wagner
Joel A. Ohmer <joel.ohmer@gmail.com>
Houma, LA 70360 - Tuesday, December 30, 2008 1:55 PM CST

What is a BFF?
Rosie <Rosie@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Saturday, December 27, 2008 8:58 PM CST

I am hoping that you made it through without too much stress. I got to see Brina for the day yesterday and she decided to go back home and will return on Monday.
I am prayin' for ya!
Steph
Stephanie <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Saturday, December 27, 2008 5:43 PM CST

You are so much in our hearts tonight.

I am praying that you have comfort. My heart is with you and I hope you know that we remember her in our prayers and always will.

Granny Sesame
Stephanie from Sabrina's Bunch <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 10:16 PM CST

Happy Anniversary! And an early Merry Christmas! We are on the roads today a-visitin' and hopefully eating. Hoping to get through CHristmas without any more serious sinus issues. Sigh. Have tons of fun in the kitchen with Wes and Livi!! Give the doxies a treat from me!!
Jane Chauvin
- Wednesday, December 24, 2008 8:00 AM CST

I haven't disappeared, Terrie! Simply gone into "oh-my-goodness-only-x-number-of-days-left" mode. Yikes! Little ones are so much fun this time of year, and so much work!! Well worth it to see their smiles and hear their laughter, though!!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin
- Sunday, December 21, 2008 10:02 PM CST

Hey Girlygirl,

I was reading below, and I LOVE Selah. Their Celtic tune I am strong. It is amazing.

I am thinking of you and holding you close in my heart.

Steph
Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Sunday, December 21, 2008 6:17 PM CST

Hello Terri, I am a nurse at Easter Seals and helped take care of your sweet Lorraine. I have thought about you many times this past year. You see, I also lost my daughter Jayme this past April after a long battle with cancer. I want to share this with you. Jayme knew about Lorraine, and wanted to share some music she loved. She burned some Selah cds for her and sent a little card with them, and had me give them to her to listen to. Sometimes I would go into Lorraine's room while she was awake and play this beautiful music for her. Jayme and Lorraine had to be a lot alike in this world---- both so giving and full of love for everyone. I hope they meet up in heaven. I pray for you and your family. Please pray for me, I know you understand like no other, the pain of loosing a child. God Bless--- Carole Wood
Carole Wood <carolew0310@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 20, 2008 4:56 PM CST

Hey Terri, Since this is an older caringbridge page I don't get the automatic Journal update notification like the newer pages do. I actually have to remember to come visit you and see what all is going on. Now, you and Lorraine are totally UNFORGETTABLE but...you have to know that I am over 40...so REMEMBERING is the biggest challenge for me! Nothing personal, I can assure you! Sounds like everything is going smoothly. I am with Livi on the driving cold thing except my reasoning is I can't get too warm or I get sleepy. I frequently have my passengers turning their temps up on their side of my car! Of course being in Texas this is not a huge problem! I will say that the day it snowed here last week I was on a plane to Virginia with some girlfriends and it was 70* there with humidity. I felt like someone played a trick on us and we were really back in Houston! And then we find out it is snowing where we LEFT? Crazy! However, the very next day in VA it got cold so I was happy! Take care and have a good holiday....the best you can without that beautiful daughter of yours physically present but she is certainly looking down on you smiling her gorgeous smile!
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
Spring, TX USA - Saturday, December 20, 2008 2:45 PM CST

Good morning. Just wanted to again tell ya hi, and again thank you for your support. I am praying for ya girl. You are FAR stronger than I could ever be.

Lots of "Mom" love going out to you.
Steph

Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Friday, December 19, 2008 8:24 AM CST

HI!
I just wanted to stop by and tell you that you are in my heart and in my prayers. We are counting down the days until we get that other breast out of our lives. Wow that sounds odd unless you know what I am talking about hahaha

Ah well, like I tell Brina, a lot of goils buy their breasts these days. *SMILE*

I want you to know that I can only imagine how difficult this time of years is for you. And I am selfish enough to admit to you that I never want to find out. I am praying for your strength and peace.

I hope that you are so BLESSED!

Thinking of you with warmest thoughts a HUGE prayers.

Stephanie from over at Sabrina's
Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Thursday, December 18, 2008 8:39 AM CST

Terri, I am thinking of you and praying for a blessed Christmas season for you and your family. I can not imagine your pain, and admire you for your spirit. It is so comforting to know that Lorraine is safe with her Savior, although your void must be so great.
Martha Cope
Little Rock, - Saturday, December 13, 2008 6:38 AM CST

HI!
Just a lil note to let you know that you are in my heart and in my prayers.
Someday I'll have to tell you my funny dog story. You will roll with laughter.
Stay safe, take care of you.
Stephanie from Sabrina's Bunch
Stephanie <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Thursday, December 11, 2008 3:16 PM CST

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!!!!

First, I think premeeie socks for doxiegirl paws are just the ticket! I am almost to the point of looking for footie pjs in my size..LOL..well, we had bona fide snow here in the Houston area, or hell has actually frozen over..hee hee, I hope that does not offend...BUT, wow, Sam's, why is it Sam's? My mom has been cornered by more "soccer moms" than I can name and asked what sport I was playing, school I was in, etc. ad nauseum..all while I am standing, during school hours, right there..ignorant..All I could think of when I read about that is how sorry I am that you had to go through that, and how sorry I am that you are no longer ignorant..ignorance really is bliss...kiss the doxies for me, maybe a tad more kibble for the obese one...from me...I spoil..lol

Peace be yours,

Zack, me

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Wednesday, December 10, 2008 8:56 PM CST

Terrie, everyday for close to four years now, I have read your entries, and right now, I swear I don't even remember how I first came to the site. Everyday I am either laughing or crying with you. And even though we have never met, your heartfelt entries make me feel like I am one of your best friends! I just had to comment on your post from yesterday. It is so hard for me to understand some people's lack of sensitivity. Like you say, none of us are immune. Lorraine must have been a wonderful young lady, I love hearing about your good times with her, and I am so glad that you have so many good memories of her to cherish. I know everyday must be a struggle for you, especially this time of year. I just want you to know that there are people out here thinking of you and praying for you, that you don't even know about. I am thankful for your relationship with God...I don't know how anyone could possible deal with a tragedy of this magnitude without having a personal relationship with Him, or the knowledge that you will see your precious Lorraine again someday. You are a true hero to me, and I pray that in the days ahead God will fill your life with many joys that you so richly deserve. My best to you and your family, and may God bless you during the coming holidays.

Sharon Farris <sharon@industrialpipe.com>
Cabot, AR - Wednesday, December 10, 2008 3:12 PM CST

THANK YOU so much for your loving and kind words to Sabrina. Please forgive my selfishness and weakness and remind me that I have so much to be joyful for. I will NEVER forget all that have been so KIND! I am praying for you! Stephanie
Stephanie <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 11:51 PM CST

Terrie!

Could you just shake people sometimes? I swear we have to pity the ignorant. I'm sorry the parent was such a fool. What an impact Lorraine has had on so many of us, much thanks to her mom. Sending comforting hugs your way during the holiday season.

Paige
Paige <pcallegan@cox.net>
Baton Rouge, LA - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 10:12 PM CST

Morons. That's what politics breed. People go into politics and causes to "make a difference" and end up only wanting to make a difference in their wallets or name. A very rare gem finds her way through the muck and comes out still wanting to make a difference that matters to others more than herself.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin
- Tuesday, December 9, 2008 10:40 AM CST

Thank you for adding my boys to your links. We are hopeful their story can make others more aware of PID disorders. Early diagnosis made a huge difference, as neither boy should have any life-long effects from repeat infections. Most are diagnosed so late their little lungs are scarred, their hearing lost, etc. We are ever grateful to our doctors.

Have you yet adorned the doxies' paws with socklets?

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin
- Monday, December 8, 2008 10:43 AM CST

Hi,
Just wanted to stop by and say that I think of you often. Especially when Mr. Zachamazing reminds me to remember Lorraine.
My heart reaches out to you during this season of the year. I hope that you are so blessed this season.
Stephanie from Sabrina's Bunch
Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, December 8, 2008 8:38 AM CST

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

I am so sorry about Mr. Wonderful, but I am sure he and Lorraine had quite the reunion...still sad...

I had to read and read and read, I got very behind these last several weeks...kinda bruised and battered, but here and thankful! My mom and the hisser decided it was time for a change (they claim to have gypsy blood..lol) and so we are gearing up to go to the ocean..we all need it..instead of a month like in years past, we are going for two..playing like snowbirds in FL..they always look at us strange when we say we are escaping Texas this time of year...I am brimming with excitement, just one (or six) small problems..the divas and our divo..oh there is going to be hell to pay when the suitcases come out..and when we get back!! I am living for watching the waves and listening to music..for my soul to replenish..so much has been taken, as you know, now I am going to let my mom fuss over me and sleep in some...have a clinic appt. before, hope my counts don't tank our plans...

livi is still fighting ringworm? miserable...at least it is not on her head!

Please give an extra little treat to the girl doxis for me..but make them work for it (less calories that way)!!!

me, zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

thanksgiving was a bomb here, ordered out and it was inedible..ran to Kroger and ate a whole pumpkin pie, paid dearly for that..mom and the hisser are going to cook next year....I have high hopes for that!
Zack Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Tuesday, December 2, 2008 6:43 PM CST

He does send down angels in human form, all shapes and sizes. I'm sad that you are sad, but hopeful the heavenly reunion between therapist and patient was one between friends.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin
- Tuesday, December 2, 2008 2:01 PM CST

Terrie,
Thanks for posting the info about "Mr. Wonderful". I hadn't heard anything since the day Brent left Timber Ridge. Kerry was a great man--we, too, thought he worked miracles with the TBI children---his love for them showed.

Anna Marie Nobbe <beetaz@celerityinc.com>
- Monday, December 1, 2008 10:52 PM CST

Terrie,
It was so nice to read your note on Carl's guestbook!! We do share a common understanding, a mutual bond of missing our precious Angels. Wednesday will be yr 4, how can time keep ticking away? It seems like yesterday, but at the same time forever since we have held him. Your daughter is Beautiful, and I am very sure Carl welcomed her to Heaven with him :-) He Loved girls, especially about Lorraine's age. He had a way of capturing their hearts, and wrapping them around his little finger. They are Happier than they have ever been, but it is just so hard for us to be missing them so much. May you find some warm comfort This Thanksgiving Holiday, and feel some Peace sent straight from your Angel above.

Love & Peace
Kelly Robinson
Angel Carl's Mommy
www.caringbridge.org/mn/carcar
Kelly Robinson <tkranch@rconnect.com>
Franklin, Mn - Monday, November 24, 2008 9:10 PM CST

Hey Terrie, I just wanted to tell you about a website that has all kinds of doxie stuff that I'm pretty sure you need. Ha Ha !!! The site is www.cafepress.com, when you get there type in dachshund in the search box and OMG at the goodies !!! Hope yall have a Happy Thanksgiving :)
Kim <ktaylor1225@yahoo.com>
Minden, La - Thursday, November 20, 2008 3:56 PM CST

Hi you signed my daughters guestbook and I want to thank you for visiting. NO I did not make the quilt that she is laying on but a lady in our town did as a fundraiser for morgans Medical bills. The man that won it then donated it back to Morgan.
I am sorry to read your story and to hear of a loss for you. Your daughter was Beautiful.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/morgankolling
Angela
Angela Kolling <KOLLING0129@YAHOO.COM>
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 11:42 AM CST

Terrie,

Our boy is sympatico with you...wierdly so, actually...this weekend, well, sucked...until Sunday night where he got to do his thing...I am hovering over him, "mama bear" like...lots of awful things, I'll email..We are heading to NYC as soon as the weather warms up to see a new specialist..the waiting game, my least favorite..oh, and Zack was delighting in telling his friends about you and Lorraine and how you have become an artist..to David Adickes, no less!! I have to say, I am SO GRATEFUL to the artistic community for keeping our guy inspired, loving him and giving him the opportunity to soak in their positivity...I can't wait to tell you about it, but I would sound incredibly bragadocious and over-the-top on here, I'll email you! I am coming out of hermiting, wiping my red eyes...wish I could sleep...Happy Fricking Holidays, indeed, my friend.

Carpe Diem,
Saber

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Saber Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Tuesday, November 18, 2008 6:50 AM CST

Always perfect in a mother's eyes...Even while arguing toe to toe with her mother...

Oh, the restorative qualities of a relaxing time with hubby. And canine devotion, of course

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin

(Did you enjoy the special occasion napkins?)
Jane
- Wednesday, November 12, 2008 8:33 PM CST

I read your family's story from start to finish this weekend. Lorraine sounds beautiful, in every way. I'm sorry for your loss.

I was amazed by your tenacity and sheer determination. I hope these traits are helping you through a tough time now.

Best regards,
Jenny
St Louis, MO USA - Wednesday, November 12, 2008 7:19 PM CST

Terrie,
I, like you dread the holidays approaching. My dad died 2 years ago and things have not been the same since. We were very close and it was totally devastating to me to lose him. It's hard to make new memories without him here with us, probably because I don't want to. Me and my mom just trudge along and get through it the best we can. This was his favorite time of the year though so that brings me a little comfort. Not because of the holidays, but because it's white perch season around here !! :) I hope today finds you and the doxies in better spirits. My doxie always makes me smile.
Kim <ktaylor1225@yahoo.com>
Minden, La - Monday, November 10, 2008 8:19 AM CST

Terrie, sending sweet hugs and comforting prayers to you on this sad ending to your weekend.
Paige <pcallegan@cox.net>
Baton Rouge, LA USA - Sunday, November 9, 2008 10:08 PM CST

Happy 50th birthday!
Jenny
St. Louis, MO - Friday, November 7, 2008 8:46 PM CST

Happy Belated Birthday Terrie! Hope you had a good day! Thank you so much for signing my son Lucas's guestbook.
Kristin Decker <www.caringbridge.org/mn/lucaskells, kristindecker@yahoo.com>
Red Wing, MN - Thursday, November 6, 2008 6:41 PM CST

Happy Belated Birthday Terrie !!! It sounds like you had a great birthday. I hope your next fifty is full of peace and joy.

Kim
Kim <ktaylor1225@yahoo.com>
Minden, La - Thursday, November 6, 2008 8:20 AM CST

Happy Birthday, Terrie! Just remember, as you get older, two things start failing... one is your memory, and I can't remember the other. ;-)
http://caringbridge.org/ny/alex/
Mark, Karen, Carrie and ^Alex^ Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Wednesday, November 5, 2008 10:18 AM CST

Happy Birthday :-) !!

Sherri
www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
sherri <ketch16@yahoo.com>
ohio - Wednesday, November 5, 2008 9:17 AM CST

Terrie, I started reading your journal on Lorraine a couple of months ago. What a beautiful girl you had. I cannot even begin to imagine your pain of losing her. Her eyes in her picture are "soulful" to me for some reason. I went back and read the entire history and bawled and squawled thru the whole thing. I don't even remember how I found your site now but anyway I love the way you write in your journals. You must be an absolute hoot to be around, oh and those doxies too !!! See I have a dachshund too with a bit of a weight and attitude issue so I can feel your pain sometimes !! Ha Ha !!! Just wanted to tell you what a beautiful daughter Lorraine was and I love to read you entries every morning, they bring a smile to my face !!!
Kim <ktaylor1225@yahoo.com>
Minden, La - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 10:39 AM CST

Hey Terrie! Since your site is with the "older" caringbridge I don't get an e-mail signaling an update like I do with the newer....no biggie! Celebrate your 50th like it will be your last! Don't hold back! lol....I am just three years behind you and have no idea what I am talking about except that I want to go to this restaurant in Houston and have Yvonne Washington sing "Happy Birthday" to me. She is Houston famous and extremely GOOD. However, hurricane Ike sent that said restaurant down in FLAMES...darn HIM! They have three years to rebuild...GET TO IT!
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, October 31, 2008 6:24 PM CDT

Terrie, Thanks so much for visiting Caleb's CB site, it means so much when people visit, but especially when they write something! Your daughter is beautiful, prettier than any angel I've imagined. God Bless you and Your family. You are an awesome Mom! Love, Sheri Brooks
www.caringbridge.org/visit/calebbrooks
Sheri Brooks <bead.bear@hotmail.com>
Taylor, TX USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2008 7:44 PM CDT

Thank you for stopping by and signing Jobe's caringbridge page. It is always exciting to read messages from people. Have a blessed day!
Alida
St. Amant, LA - Monday, October 27, 2008 1:19 PM CDT

I enjoyed and spent a good amount of free time (and there isn't much) reading your journal. Man, i can totally sypmathize with many of the things you have said about your feelings and thoughts. I too had put entries into my journal, hardcore stuff, only to find out that people couldnt handle the "real feelings". They wanted to know what "dirt" was going on with Sam or my husband, but as soon as i spilled the "dirt" in my thoughts and feelings, they were so quick to tell me that it "sounded bad" and that i should "be careful" with how i say things. Just as you said, there are people who will come and people who will go and i have learned to accept that. I don't like it, but noone can ever fully understand what I or my Children, or my family has endured in our short time we've been here.
Thanks for signing our guestbook and i'm glad i came to read yours!
Amy and Sam
www.caringbridge.org/visit/samueldavidschweinberg
Amy <raisn5kidz@aol.com>
Morrow, oh usa - Monday, October 20, 2008 1:41 PM CDT

Thanks for signing Mamie's guestbook again.

No I haven't priced Levi's lately. Does it still cost more to buy them already faded and/or torn? I could have made a fortune if I had saved all the blue jeans that I wore to school when they were new and then wore at home till Mom couldn't sew any more new patches onto the old patches.

I share your thankfulness that our daughters are safe from all the craziness. We won't always have to miss them - we can be with them again and forever. I wonder what they might have done to make this world better if they had lived here longer, but I guess they finished their work and we may never know what may still result from the mark they left on others.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Saturday, October 18, 2008 9:15 PM CDT

Thank you for signing our guest book and praying for us. Lorraine is a very beautiful ^Angel^. We have never met her but we've been on her site a few times before... Well, Laney has.

~ Eric, Laney and Anya

www.caringbridge.org/visit/angelbabyreyanna

Eric Martin <laney_m916@gmx.com>
Honesdale, PA USA - Wednesday, October 15, 2008 7:49 PM CDT

I am visiting for the first time. Zack has become a member of our "family" and has asked us to REMEMBER LORRAINE.
When I opened the site, I was awestruck at how absolutely gorgeous she is. Can you imagine the ANGEL that she has become. Breathtaking.
My heart goes out to you. I will hold you in my prayers.
May God always let you know that your precious daughter is right by your side.
Lots of prayers from us at Sabrina's Bunch, Stephanie
caringbridge sabrinasmith
Stephanie Schouten <stephanie1022@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK USA - Tuesday, October 14, 2008 8:14 AM CDT

Terrie,
Thank you for stopping by and letting me know it's OK to continue to be devastated. Yes, the love we have for them equals the pain we feel when they're gone- so that is deep and wide and forever, isn't it?
Glad to hear you're back home. Sometimes we long to get away- a change of scenery- but then it's so good to be back. It gives us renewed appreciation of our surroundings.
Glad to hear that Livi is OK. Please let her know that we're out here thinking of her and cheering her on!
With love and gratitude for amazing long-distance friends,
Christine
www.mirasmovement.org
Christine Brouwer <mirasmom@mirasmovement.org>
Ithaca, NY - Sunday, October 12, 2008 6:55 AM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom...

So, as I was laying my head down to "try" and sleep, it dawned on me what had been driving me crazy all week...I finally remembered!!! I hadn't talked to you! I did not know the happenings at the castle or how Larry and Livi were...eeek!! So, here I am, reading back a bit and feeling silly for missing this past week...sounds like quite a trip...is there a destination? An ice tea quota? Sending some prayers for Livi...who WILL change the world...

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Yep, going to lay my head down now...
Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Saturday, October 11, 2008 10:39 PM CDT

Just stopping by to say thank you to my angel friend for watching over my precious Maya and to her Mommy for being so sweet!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/mayamarieabbacchithole

Gina Abbacchi <ginaabbacchi@netscape.com>
St. Louis, MO USA - Monday, October 6, 2008 12:22 AM CDT

Beautiful story .
Roz
Litttle Rock , ar - Monday, October 6, 2008 4:39 AM CDT

Hi, Just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you.
Love, Sherri
www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
sherri <ketch16@yahoo.com>
ohio - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 10:30 PM CDT

Yippee! I am so happy to hear no CVID evident. Tell her what I tell my boys:
1. WASH YOUR HANDS!
2. Keep your fingers out of your mouth.
3. Don't put your mouth on the water fountain.

Hm, all you really need to know you learned in kindergarten...or preschool.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
LA - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 11:32 AM CDT

Wonderful news about Livi! It's always great to get negative results from nerve-wracking tests. It also narrows down investigations into her other symptoms. We've been laying low lately, although you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark, Karen, Carrie and ^Alex^ Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:11 AM CDT

Thank you for signing my guest book! My mommy luaghed at the motorcycle riders part, cause on our way up here we seen some motorcycle riders and i said the same thing to her. so she said it reminder her of what i said. Thanks for ther prayers ,
princess peanut robynn brooke
wwww.caringbridge.org/visit/robynnmcglothlin
Sherry McGlothlin <sherrymcg@hotmail.com>
Clay, WV - Monday, September 29, 2008 6:31 PM CDT

I just love you. Just when I get caught up in everyday junk, I read your post and a calm comes over me like never before. Thanks for being here and for reminding me that we're just here for as long as He wants us to be. Just sit back and enjoy the ride. Have a fantastic day...
Jenny Leger
North Richland Hills, Tx - Monday, September 29, 2008 1:34 PM CDT

Sounds a whole lot like what is going on here, minus the feline allergies, of course...poor Livi...good thing you used the "mom-radar" and headed off to take care of her..AND super clean her house (you are probably overqualified for an apartment, but I am sure it was fun!)...Hope the doglets enjoyed their trip, I am assuming they are James Herriot fan's, perhaps, "Dog Stories"? LOLGod bless,

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Sunday, September 28, 2008 2:57 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

I saw Suze Orman on Oprah...she had a RV couple on...I almost had a panic attack at their tiny living quarters..teensy tiney...clean though, but timy AND a true gas guzzler!! Oh, need I say that Oprah and Suze oozed all over them? I was laughing and laughing, thinking, yep, bet they are headed to DQ!!! Can you believe that, DQ?! Yep, we may be related...how are the doglets? Has Larry recovered from all the market stuff? I am still trying to figure out how giving more money to these people who threw away so much money and get such big ol' bonuses makes any sense? Oh and is anyone else freaked out that the government now owns AIG? Talk about Big Brother!! There was an op/ed piece that determined the number of Americans and then broke down a bunch of numbers, but in the end it turned out that if they gave a certain amount of money to each person, they would pay off their bills, houses, cars, shop, bank, save and restimulate the economy and in the process replenish all of Wall Street...crazy idea might just work...

Are the doglets enjoying the weather? I have a DIVA revolt..someone caught whiff of the incoming DIVO, word spread, cold shoulders, etc....oh and he has ringworm..he is being kept at the vet to decantaminate...poor thing...mom and I went nuts scrubbing to make sure we would not get it..fingers crossed...

Blessings,

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Thursday, September 25, 2008 8:42 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom,

so, i am in suspense...what did the doglets think of your shoes?

I am seriously considering a stroller for the DIVAS..saw a couple on overstock..I'll have to check the weight limit, lets see 5 x 20 is 100 pounds of feline in a stroller, could be funny! they are all such chickens, they may not even enjoy it, come to think of it, they are kinda sheltered..lol

I have saved the best for last...you are going to be soooo jealous, well, less jealous since your super laundry clean...BUT mom and I started on one side and worked at deep cleaning since we were gone for a week...bliss...5,000 square feet of deep cleaning AND then the maid came....yes, we clean before and after the maid, is that wierd? Why do we have a maid to begin with? I should hire myself out...lol

PRAYING for you, livi, Larry and the doglets!

Trying not to be grossed out by the "carrier monkey"..i.e. livi's charges in there sharing of the ringworm....

God bless,
Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zack Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Monday, September 22, 2008 9:09 PM CDT

Choices make life, don't they? Without choices, individual daily decisions on minute obscure details, life would be boring. And I would much rather a happy life than a sad one.

Thank you for reminding me of my choices.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
Jane Chauvin
- Wednesday, September 17, 2008 9:56 AM CDT

Terrie, your family is in our prayers. Good luck with the ledge. I admire your spirit to stand up and voice what is true. I'm not surprised after reading your journal... but I still admire your resolve.

I'm listening to a new CD by Melody Gardot. I think you might find her story interesting. She used music as therapy to recover from a car accident.
Jenny
St Louis, Mo USA - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 9:17 AM CDT

I have a lot more journal to catch up on.
Laura <lamitchell@buygolly.com>
North Little Rock, AR USA - Monday, September 15, 2008 8:21 PM CDT

I can't get into my regular email account...no storms here right now, but the power is partially off and things are acting crazy in my condo complex. The refrigerator and microwave are on full strength, other things "partial strength" and some things "no strength." Anyway, I hasten to add to your thinking of last night: I vote you stick with dark chocolate. The added value of the DARK chocolate will overcome any oil problem!

Signed,
A sister chocolate lover!
Carol Rasco
Alexandria, VA - Sunday, September 14, 2008 6:07 AM CDT

Hi, Thinking of you :-)
Take care, Sherri

www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
sherri <ketch16@yahoo.com>
ohio - Friday, September 12, 2008 8:26 PM CDT

Hi Terrie,
I just wanted to thank you for signing my daughter, Maya's webpage. It helps knowing there are other parents out there who can share in our unending grief. I'm sure you know how it is when the bad news just keeps on coming. Maya has been through so much and we as parents are exhausted. Her Dad recently lost his job, partially because of the stress and anxiety it has created for him and partially because of department politics. It has made life difficult for all of us. We are so glad to have our Maya with us. She is perfect in so many ways. We just wish she was as perfect in body as in spirit.
Your daughter Lorraine is absolutely gorgeous. I bet you had boys beating down your door with her. I hope she is watching over my little Maya. A friend of mine lost his son suddenly at the age of 18. One day we were sitting and talking about everything he as a father was experiencing. One of the final things he told me was that for once in his life he felt at peace. He said he doesn't worry anymore. He said he always worried if Danny was late coming home, or if he seemed depressed, if his grades were dropping, everything parents worry about. He said now, he's gone and I don't have anything to worry about anymore. He felt peace knowing that Danny was at peace. I can't imaging ever getting over losing a child, but I understood what he said. I hope you find a similar peace.
Please keep my Maya in your prayers. She really needs them. We recently learned she has nearly profound hearing loss and the doctors aren't sure if they will be able to correct the loss.
Take care.

Gina
www.caringbridge.org/visit/mayamarieabbacchithole

Gina Abbacchi <GINAABBACCHI@NETSCAPE.COM>
St. Louis, MO USA - Friday, September 12, 2008 5:42 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

Yes indeed, I am addicted to the weather..specifically a website called Weatherunderground, good stuff..I have been watching IKE and, I agree, iffy..they showed some scenarios on the news about different areas that would be effected and how...well, I am still confused and much prefer to plot it out on my Hurricane Hunter Map..LOL..

The critters with more than 4 legs, or no legs at all are not allowed anywhere near my mom as all of her muscles contract at once..LOL...SO, in the event of an evac, it would be the DIVAS and a shih-tzu who thinks he is a DIVA..hopefully we are far enough inland, but with Galveston in the mix...well, it is still too far out, therefore maddening for a planner like me! Thanks for the offer, hopefully IKE will just peter out and leave everyone alone...Praying for you, Larry and Livi...and of course, the girldoxies..I may need to eat a bit of chocolate now..nervous eating..LOL

Z
www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Tuesday, September 9, 2008 10:38 PM CDT

I have been a "silent supporter" for some time now. I was touched by an entry that you left for another young girl. Your family bond is amazing. I hope that you continue to feel Lorraine with you, always.
Jenny
St. Louis, MO USA - Monday, September 8, 2008 3:35 PM CDT

Terrie, I can only imagine how hard your day was. The milestones hit me worse than I think they will. 5 years seems like a huge one. Another Sunday.
Sending you love and strength as you remember your girl.
With love,
Christine

www.mirasmovement.org
Christine Brouwer <mirasmom@mirasmovement.org>
Ithaca, NY - Sunday, September 7, 2008 9:25 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom...

Today was THE big day..I have been dragging all day...you and Larry and Livi have been in my thoughts all day..5 years...

oh, the pink stroller, I see Larry's objection..

REMEMBER LORRAINE!!

Zack
www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zack Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Sunday, September 7, 2008 8:36 PM CDT

Thinking of you...
J. Chauvin
Destrehan, LA - Sunday, September 7, 2008 1:38 PM CDT

You all are in my thoughts and prayers always, but today especially.

Pam
Little Rock, AR - Sunday, September 7, 2008 10:02 AM CDT

I'm thinking of you all and Lorraine this weekend.

Zaff
Lauren Zaffaroni
Boulder, CO United States - Saturday, September 6, 2008 11:26 AM CDT

Hey Terrie,
Share that painting you cranked out in a day! Add some color to the gorgeous black and white shots of Lorraine. I have had a couple of Christmases(?) where I was definitely dreading them. Just that holiday blues thing. It went away but the day you got the phone call all parents dread will always be the dreaded day. Know we're thinking about you and Lorraine on that day.
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
Spring, TX - Wednesday, September 3, 2008 2:33 PM CDT

Thanks for signing Ethan's CB.I'm sorry for your loss, your daughter was a pretty young lady.
Hugs, Amanda/Ethan's mommy

www.caringbridge.org/visit/ethanperkins
Amanda Perkins
WV - Monday, September 1, 2008 11:02 PM CDT

Hi Lorraine's mom!!!

I am still giggling over the exploits of the girldoxies..

We considered boarding the menagerie...but the DIVAS are vindictive and if we are away from home for more than a few hours, we have to grovel..never having boarded them, I am thinking they would object...and possibly leave us suprises in our shoes...LOL

Girldoxie may need to be renamed...I am thinking her skill at finding the snakes is very good, nothing like having a dead snake or two hanging out in your garden to keep more slithery ones out...darn bird..what if it limped/slithered off to plot it's revenge? LOL

Praying!

z

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Saturday, August 30, 2008 9:25 PM CDT

I am terribly sorry for your politician's lack of incentive without a payoff of some kind. Unfortunately, I can undertand your frustrations all too well -- I'm from Louisiana!! We've been trying to get mandatory newborn testing for PID's for a while. No one really seems to care. Until a loved one is affected, or, better yet, a big name politico wants to make a change. Then you'd better step out of the way, because it was their idea all along.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin <janechauvin@gmail.com>
LA - Thursday, August 28, 2008 11:23 AM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

Terrie, I can't tell you how much I feel for you about your migraine's...I have the same barometric pressure migraines (along with stress ones, and random ones), but by and large, they are weather related..That is awful!! I am huffing and puffing and trying to blow Gustav away!! Hurricane/headache same thing!

Is the name "Gustav" French, German, or English..maybe ask Livi to ask her English as a first language French teacher!LOL..It is probably Austrian or something fairly random!LOL My dad is leaving for Egypt on Saturday, if we have to evacuate, we have mom, me, the hisser and grandaddy and 5 cats and the hisser's shih-tzu..can you picture the scene? LOL....We need a Uhaul just for us! Oh, and don't get me started on what kind of establishment would allow such a menagerie, I think I would have to learn to sleep standing up..LOL..Forget stocking up on bottled water, I am heading straight for Lysol!! Hey, do you think we could get a Lysol sponsership going? We can be the ambassadors!! I bet there are a few obssessive repulsives that would genuinely love to pick up a few new "tricks"...LOL

Mochi..Hawaiian ice cream..mmmmm...ok, it is round, but not spherical, more flat than that, there is hard as a rock ice cream in the middle of a covering of rice paper..all with natural flavorings, such as honey dew melon, mint oreo (my fav), strawberry, green tea, pomegranete, and then other regular flavors, I love it! It can best be described as "refreshing"...

I congratulate you on hanging the tapestries!! Also, please wish Larry a happy belated birthday for me! So, the girldoxies have a taste for carrot cake...hmmm...the DIVAS seem impervious to sweets, but are getting a bit "aggressive" when there is meat involved, especially the hisser's pot roast..I should video it and put it on YouTube, it is that funny!!!

z

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Wednesday, August 27, 2008 8:53 PM CDT

To add insult to injury I can count the number of headaches I have ever had on two hands. Happened mostly when pregnant. It's just still HOT here. Not one thing exciting or great about this HEAT! Have a great day regardless! I hope you are able to stave off those nasty migraines!
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, August 26, 2008 4:35 PM CDT

Greetings Lorraine's Mom!
We spoken before through email and I'm finally dropping in to say hello! I'm glad your tapestries are hung-isn't it fun to hang new things?! Well, fun for us and not for our hubbies! Mine was just so disoriented after hanging two sets of curtains, I had to run to Sonic for ice cream to calm his nerves! I sit here with my precious yorkie Maggie curled up next to me-ahh the joys of sleeping puppies! Does it get any better? Have a wonderful and blessed week. I'm ready for the rain to go away!
Paige
Baton Rouge, LA USA - Sunday, August 24, 2008 9:27 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom,

I am so grateful you have had the first of hopefully many good days..You are correct, the seperation is temporary..I am just tickled pick for you today! Whether or not tomorrow is as good, who knows, but know you do know that these days are possible..the return of HOPE..

Z
Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Monday, August 18, 2008 10:33 PM CDT

My yard guy recommends moth balls to encourage the snakes to move along... might be worth a shot!
Cindy
- Monday, August 18, 2008 7:38 AM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

Eeekkkkk!!! Snakes!!! It may be time to move..I am just saying..LOL..I can't believe the bravery of the doglet...or hmm, what is the opposite of bravery??? (the cats are laughing..)

We were quite suprised by a monsoon here in Texas today...our tickets to Dave Matthews Band were lawn seats, so we opted to pass...Glad Arkansas got some rain as well..

May have to borrow the "snake charming/snake finding" girldoxies, as I am fairly sure we have a lurker or two out here in "the woods"...I have seen a coral snake or two and I can tell the difference!!!!

With all my drama recently I forgot to ask how Livi's John Meyer trip went! I am sure that boy took real good care of her..after your little chat!LOL

Send any and all pics of current artwork, I am an art junkie as well...

Z.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Friday, August 15, 2008 9:46 PM CDT

Thinking of you and praying for Livi's results. Go get those elephants!!!
Jenny Leger
North Richland hills, TX USA - Wednesday, August 13, 2008 11:48 AM CDT

Thanks for signing Mamie's guestbook. I'm praying for Livi.

Doggies and kitties are more alike than they like to admit. Especially when it comes to favorite chairs.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 10:16 PM CDT

First let me say your daughter is gorgeous (not was as some would say--IS beautiful). Second---You need to write a book. You have such a way with everyday life--touching, entertaining, lovely. I enjoy every word--the doglets remind so much of my own--one doxie, one poodle, and one half poodle half chiuaua(sp). Never a dull moment--I too have one in college town so life is an adjustment, can't imagine adding what you have been through with Lorraine also. Please keep writing and let us in for peek of your world. Many blessings to you and yours.
Cindy Bullock <cindy.bullock@sbcglobal.net>
Benton, AR USA - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 9:00 PM CDT

I just happened upon your website. Your pain is very simular to mine. On October 30, 2005 I lost my 3 year old daugter when an 18 year old boy missed a stopped signed and T Boned my SUV directly in the door where she was sitting. The pain never goes away. You just keep living day to day. We have angels in heaven!
Lee Ann <lraines@brittneyinc.com>
- Tuesday, August 12, 2008 1:45 PM CDT

I recently discovered Lorraine's website -- what a treasure! You have created a wonderful tribute to your daughter.

I am sorry to hear of Livi's potential diagnosis with a PID -- primary immunodeficiency. Both of my children have a PID, and there are many resources out there for information and support.

Prayers and well wishes your way!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/johnchauvin
J. Chauvin <janechauvin@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 12, 2008 10:46 AM CDT

You are such a delight! I found this site on Asher and Jacob's website and had to go back and read from day one. I should have been working, but just counldn't. My heart aches for what you have been through. You're writing is so heartfelt and the love that you feel for both Lorraine and Livi comes right through. You are now the first thing I read every morning and you make me smile... :) Take care and know that you have been in my prayers since I stumbled upon you and your family's story. Take care.
Jenny Leger
North Richland Hills, TX USA - Tuesday, August 5, 2008 4:19 PM CDT

Thank you so much for registering Lorraine on the Friend's site. Please know I will be keeping your family in my prayers. Never hestitate to let us know if there is anything you need.

www.asherandjacobsfriends.com
Laura Lynn <aandjfriends@gmail.com>
Mount Union, Pa - Monday, August 4, 2008 5:17 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

I am still laughing at the bathrobe exchange!! I, one time, I may add, walked into my mom's room..with a friend in tow..she was "in for the night" and she was horrified!! My friend probably was too!LOL

I hope you are luxuriating at the castle this weekend...It is too hot to leave the comfort of the air conditioning...

Praying for Livi's fun and safety this weekend!

Z

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Saturday, August 2, 2008 8:57 PM CDT

Hot hot hot here in TEXAS too and with humidity! I am BOILING outside and FREEZING in my house! And this is with one silly TRIP to the mailbox! I mean I don't chance RUNNING cuz gosh knows what amount of SWEAT that would conjure UP!!!!!!!!!! I am NOT turning this a/c down so I will just wrap up in a blanket till the stupid heat goes AWAY! Does it really ever in Texas??? NOOOOOO!
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
Spring, TX - Friday, August 1, 2008 2:43 PM CDT

Hello,
Just wanted you to know your daughter is amazingly beautiful and she lives thru you. I learned five years ago how amazing it is to have angels waiting for us in heaven when I lost my father.
I also appreciate all of your kind words to our friend Lisa Forss.
You and your family will always be in my prayers!
Rebecca Bee <ladamaloca23@yahoo.com>
QC, AZ USA - Thursday, July 31, 2008 11:19 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!!

Well, you know the drama that has been unfolding, that is all still the same..Now, my hematologist wants to do some enzyme and DNA testing on me, and here is the kicker, my dad's dad is adopted, they want him to take a bunch of tests as well..why, I have no idea!!! Anyhow, my dad panicked and gave him my CB info..darn!! I have NEVER met the man..Can you believe he had the nerve to sign my guestbook and call himself "Grandpa"??? Wow, I am hot under the collar, and everywhere else..LOL..it is so hot I broke into a sweat checking the mail..

Are you squeezing the doxies? Hee hee, lot's of exercise lifting and squeezing the obese one and the formerally obese one..LOL..

I have a mental picture of Livi trying to get a cell signal, and it is funny!! Hmmmm, the kiddo is not too bright, huh? Either that or his father does let him play in the middle of the street!!LOL!! Livi won't put up with that for a minute..do you think she'll stay on? I am leaning towards a week, not that she is a quitter, but no cell signal, that is barbaric!!

Love and Lysol!!

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Thursday, July 31, 2008 7:42 PM CDT

Hi, Thank you for stopping by Kara's page. When I went to your page I thought..."Wow" what a beautiful, gorgeous young lady and then my heart dropped when I noticed what she had went through :-( I'm so sorry and I'm thinking of you!!

Love, Sherri
www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
sherri <ketch16@yahoo.com>
ohio - Thursday, July 31, 2008 5:59 PM CDT

Thank you for signing our guestbook. Your thoughtfulness is greatly appreciated.
Love,
Barbara
www.caringbridge.org/visit/tylerbartlett_bigtex

Barbara Barteltt <bfayetb@yahoo.com>
sulphur, la us - Thursday, July 31, 2008 3:26 AM CDT

Hi,

I am the Dad of AJ, a 14 year old cancer victim. I wanted to make you aware (maybe again) and enlist your help for the Cure Childhood Cancer petition! Our goal is to have a one-hour special on network TV devoted solely to CHILDHOOD CANCER to raise awareness. And publish a parent-written book about our miraculous children, with all proceeds going to CureSearch.

The GREAT news is that CureSearch (story on the Petition), LIVESTRONG(story on the Petition) and Alex�s Lemonade Stands have ALL written about the Petition on their websites! And TX Children�s and DUKE have both allowed us to setup paper versions inside the hospitals! So this is a SERIOUS EFFORT AND WE ARE MAKING HEADWAY! Right now we are at over 11,000 signatures! But we need your help! If you can please make your readers aware, email it around, and give just a little publicity, I know we can make this happen!

Thanks again,
AJs Dad
CarePage - AJsSpace
Childhood Cancer - Petition to Raise Awareness and Funding for a CURE!

AJs Dad <ajsdad4227@gmail.com>
Wake Forest, NC - Sunday, July 27, 2008 11:51 AM CDT

Okay, Livi's deal with campus crusaders CRACKED me UP! I find comfort when stuff happens to me that reminds me of my grandmother like when I try to get out of the car forgetting to unbuckle my seat belt. I say "Hello to you too, Maw-Maw". I know it is then that she is looking down on me.
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, July 25, 2008 4:47 PM CDT

I am going to get fired from my job! I spent the last couple hours reading from day 1 of your journal entries. You are an amazing Mom. You entries were so heart felt, funny, compassionate, emotional, passionate. I couldn't stop reading. My heart goes out to you and your wonderful family. You, Larry, Lorraine and Livi are all an inspiration to anyone who reads this journal. Keep on living and honoring your wonderful daughter!
Kelli
- Friday, July 25, 2008 4:42 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

Oh my, that is funny! I will have to keep that response in mind when I am being "hounded"..I am a Christian, but hopefully not in an offensive way..Come to think of it, I think that in the Bible it is fairly specific about "turning people off" or being aggressive, yuck! Wrong way to spread any message! Go, Livi!! (for the record, when hounded and I answer "yes", that does not appease these people, they then want details, which ticks me off, it is personal, or it should be!..LOL)

God bless (yes, I see the irony..LOL)

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

I can't possibly be the ONLY Christian that finds these people nuts?! Maybe I am, oh well...LOL

Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 8:21 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's mom!!!

Terrie, I cracked up at your entry, I have been "obessive-repulsive" myself, in recent days and took on cleaning out drawers, visiting Wally World and every other place you already mentioned to find the perfect receptacles for 11 or so years of legos..on going process, gleefully involving Lysol! Oh, my mom cracked me up today, thougth you would be truly appreciative of this too....I do not have OCD, I have CDO, whew, why would I have something that was not in correct alphabetical order? LOL!!

Kiss the girldoxies, I know you are glad they are home..even if you have a mumble or two, at least with them there I do not have to fret over you getting chickens..BIRD FLU!! Chickens are kinda nasty, huh? I was also quite viciously attacked by one intent on pecking the back of my neck, I sure enjoyed my Chick-Fil-A that night!

I am all out of dark chocolate, and, get this, it is now on the "Top Ten List of Platelet Lowering Foods and Drugs"..EEEKKKK!!! But, really, how much could one teensy little square hurt? I am not a quitter! LOL..yes, I am in chocolate withdrawls, but I am saving a trip up to H.E.B. as a reward for finishing the lego mess...back to the Lysol! Praying for you, the "angel doctor" is truly a gift from God...how could anyone forget you or Lorraine of Livi, or Larry?!?

God bless,

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/

my journal is very long, I got carried away...be sure and have liquids and sustenance prior to takling it! Oh, and Blue had OCD, I think I inherited it from her, she groomed herself bald...just on her underside, comical to say the least..clean cat!
Zack Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Sunday, July 20, 2008 4:19 PM CDT

Wow....just read your journal...what a trip. But I learned...many things by your postings. Giving advice, or not. Hiding behind God, or not. Just to be a little/LOT more sensitive to things one might know absolutely NOTHING about. Lorraine is BEAUTIFUL!
Traci Weirich <traci.weirich@sbcglobal.net>
Spring, TX - Friday, July 18, 2008 5:02 PM CDT

Hey Lorraine's Mom!!!

Ok, first, I was coming on here to tell you about my friend Savannah, who had an accident that was very similar to Lorraine's, but then I saw that you guys had found each other!! Also, I may or may not have commented on this originally, but seeing as though everyone has mentioned this, Lorraine IS gorgeous! I wish we had met, we would have had some fun and some "fur stories" I am sure!

On the girldoxie front....girldoxies 1, Livi 0....hee hee, the short obese ones are not going to stand/sit/sleep for that kind of treatment..LOL>>>

Praying for you and, wow, a hole in one, did the guy win a car or any money? Where is a news crew when you need one?

God bless,

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/
Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Sunday, July 13, 2008 9:05 PM CDT

Hi, My name is Angie Steer, and I am Abby's Nana. Your daughter is truly beautiful. I so love visiting caringbridge sites. Your journal is so inspirational to me as I too am a traveler and love to study and get to know all the types of people God has made. Thank you for your continued prayers for Abby. May God bless you greatly!

Angie Steer
Angie Steer <asteer@baxterregional.org>
Mt. Home, AR USA - Thursday, July 10, 2008 8:33 AM CDT

Your daughter was absolutely stunning and there is no doubt that she is a beautiful angel.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/jacquelinerose

Cyndi <ms_independant0424@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 10, 2008 0:35 AM CDT

Thank you for signing Abby's guestbook. I am sorry so for your loss. Lorraine was absolutely beautiful!
www.caringbridge.org/visit/abigailgracesteer
Rachel Steer <rachelleahsteer@yahoo.com>
Springfield, MO - Wednesday, July 9, 2008 1:24 PM CDT

Hi there,

Thanks for signing Laken's GB. Lorraine is such a beautiful young lady, I'm so sorry that you have lost her. I can't imagine what you have gone through and my heart goes out to you.
Cammy - Laken & Nigel's Mom <parsons@fullnet.com>
Huntingburg, IN USA - Wednesday, July 9, 2008 8:27 AM CDT

hello my name is mary. i had found lorraine's site through another caringbridge site. if i can ask how do i subscribe to the journal notifications? is there a way to do that? if you can let me know i would greatly appreciate it. please know i am praying for you during this time.
your friend,
Mary.

Mary
tx United States - Wednesday, July 9, 2008 6:18 AM CDT

Thank you. As my heart aches it helps to hear kind words and truth from others like you who continue to try and live this life on earth,honoring their child who is no longer here to hug and kiss. It is with this new heart I have to learn to live, a heart that can see by "feeling" it's way through. And you are right, I am lucky to have had the pleasure of hearing/taping Shelby singing that beautiful song..stopping to catch her breath, singing with all the might she had in her. You reminded me of that blessing. I know that you would have loved that too. It's so hard not to "hear" their voices.
Thanks for being a friend. I know your grief and pain as you know mine. We both love our girls. love kim/shelbys mom www.caringbridge.org/visit/shelbyr
kim rodriguez <myredmustang@tx.rr.com>
- Tuesday, July 8, 2008 10:28 PM CDT

Hello...

I found your site through a site you had signed. I'm so sorry for your loss...

I went back and read some of your journal entries and I want to thank you. My daughter is leaving for college...and I was feeling kind of sad about it. After reading your entry...the one about being glad your child can go off to college..it put everything into perspective for me. You're absolutely right...I will look at it more as a celebration that she can make that choice. My prayers are with you...
Mary Kay
GRAND FORKS , ND Grand Forks - Tuesday, July 8, 2008 4:05 PM CDT

What a beautiful daughter you have! Thank you for the kind words you left on my son's site.

Brenda m/o Josh 15 yrs 4ever dx 12/4/06 GBM
www.caringbridge.org/visit/joshhoneycutt

Brenda Honeycutt <brenda@onalot.com>
Haskell, OK USA - Monday, July 7, 2008 10:55 PM CDT

Hi,
I got your email today in regard to the news paper article about our son and our foundation. Thank you for your kind words. I'm sorry that our common bond is that we have both lost a child, but I'm glad to have "met" you, none the less. Your daughter was absolutely GORGEOUS!!!!

with love,
Bethany Gillham
Bethany Gillham <bethany@jrgfoundation.org>
- Monday, July 7, 2008 4:34 PM CDT

Thanks for stopping by and visiting us. I am so sorry for your loss. Your daughter is so beautiful. I will kepp you in my prayer's.
The Gunty Family
www.caringbridge.com/visit/adrianagunty

DeAnna, Adriana NB stage IV, and Family <Kam_913@hotmail.com>
- Monday, July 7, 2008 3:19 PM CDT

hi!
i wanted to come by and thank you for signing my guestbook! i visited your site and read all about your daughter. i am truly sorry that happened. her accident actually sounds alot similar to how mine was. she was a very beautiful young lady! and thank you again, for stopping by to sign my guestbook, the messages really mean alot to me. i pray you have a blessed week!
www.caringbridge.org/visit/savannahsmitherman
savannah <nannahs@gmail.com>
clanton, al - Sunday, July 6, 2008 9:54 PM CDT

Thanks for signing my son Colby's guestbook. I am sorry you lost your daughter. She was beautiful. I will say a prayer for Livi.

Wendy
www.caringbridge.org/visit/colbydinwiddie

Wendy Dinwiddie
Burleson, TX 76028 - Sunday, July 6, 2008 12:25 AM CDT

What neat pictures! I'm sorry your daughter is not still here :o(. If you would like to add her link to a prayer website: www.asherandjacobsfriends.com, we'd love to see you there. Just fill out a simple registration form under "add your family". Hope to see you there.
JD Wetmore
- Saturday, July 5, 2008 9:30 PM CDT

you are always in my prayers <3
sammy
- Saturday, July 5, 2008 6:34 PM CDT

hello i have been reading stuff on her site.my name is morgan mitchell i am a 13 year old almost 14 year old girl i had ewings sarcoma its a type of bone cancer.it was in my small bone when i had my surgery they had to take 6 and half inches of my bone they didnt put anything back in to take its place.i got diagnosed in november this year well really on october 31 my doctor called my mom and said marva i dont know how to say this but i think morgan has cancer but my mom didnt say anything to mo cause she wanted halloween to be the same for my younger and oldeer sister and me so after my biospy and they knew that it was cancer i got told over dinner and started crying cause i would lose my hair i was never scared of cancer just being bald cause girls are not suppose to be bald.but now i could care less cause i dont have to
hello i have been watching videos and reading and stuff on your sons site.my name is morgan mitchell i am a 13 year old almost 14 year old girl i had ewings sarcoma its a type of bone cancer.it was in my small bone when i had my surgery they had to take 6 and half inches of my bone they didnt put anything back in to take its place.i got diagnosed in november this year well really on october 31 my doctor called my mom and said marva i dont know how to say this but i think morgan has cancer but my mom didnt say anything to mo cause she wanted halloween to be the same for my younger and oldeer sister and me so after my biospy and they knew that it was cancer i got told over dinner and started crying cause i would lose my hair i was never scared of cancer just being bald cause girls are not suppose to be bald.but now i could care less cause i dont have to take the time to fix or anything so i think its great i dont wear hats or anything really just go bald.i have done 11 rounds almost 12 rounds of chemo i will have to do 14 so almost there.i fractured my foot last sunday the foot that i have only one bone in my leg so that was not good at all.i was on a trampoline and i was going to do a flip and i had not been on one in awhile and i landed right on my foot and got a little fracture i can walk on it but they want me to use my boot i hate it.but thats all. i just wanted to take the time to sign this. and i hope you will sign my guest book when you get this so we can keep in touch.my name is morgan mitchell.loev always morgan
morgan <morgan12@windstream.net>
- Thursday, July 3, 2008 7:20 PM CDT

Hi!!

First, I am so sorry for your loss. Lorraine was beautiful, and still is, only now with Our Heavenly Father.

Ok, so you were kind enough to come by my site and give me a little uplift (I positively live for them) and I decided to run by your site to return the favor and add you and your family to my prayer list (which, sadly, is quite impressive). Anyhow, I should have known, if you found me on Mamie's site, and you read George's journals, I was in for a literary treat. You did not disappoint, I had a doxie when I was a toddler (my father's mother decided said doxie loved her more and she was kind of right). I then turned to the comfort of cats, I know, I know, boo-hiss from the dog people..I thoughrally enjoyed reading about the eating habits of the domesticated doxie and more uses for plastic bags, that yes, I too felt all eco-friendly buying my tote at Border's, where they placed it in a plastic sack to give it to me, could not help but laugh at the irony!! Well, you have a devoted prayer warrior in me and a devoted reader...Peace be with you.

God bless,

Zack

www.caringbridge.org/visit/zack/
Zachary Tavlin <SaberTexan@sbcglobal.net>
The Woodlands, TX USA - Thursday, July 3, 2008 4:14 PM CDT

Terrie,

Thank you for signing my grandson's Caring Bridge site. Lorraine is such a beautiful young lady, and I am sure she is an even more beautiful sweet angel. I began reading your journal and have really enjoyed your posts. I grew up with dachshunds, and have two now. Our "obese" one was just tested for allergies yesterday. (Who would have ever thought I would take my dog for allergy tests? Next thing you know, I will be cleaning their teeth...) She is allergic to cats and grass. So she has been taking steroids. Hence the weight gain!

Lukas has just gone down for his (hopefully final) scan. We should know by tomorrow at the latest whether or not the cancer is GONE. You and your prayer warriors are most certainly welcome to pray for him.

Regards,
Grandma Jena
www.caringbridge.org/visit/lukasmacdonnell
Jena Perkins <sgp_warrior_mom@yahoo.com>
Grand Prairie, TX USA - Thursday, July 3, 2008 1:53 PM CDT

Lorraine is a gorgeous girl. You must be so very proud! I also want to thank YOU for making me smile with your doxie story - I too have an obese pup who believes all things are edible.
Berna <bflipps@yahoo.com>
Lafayette, IN USA - Thursday, July 3, 2008 7:54 AM CDT

What a beautiful daughter you have. She is in Shelby's rainbow..thank you so much. I am glad to know she is one of the beautiful angels who helped Shelby thrrough her Leukemia journey and blindness, that Lorraine was makeing Shelby smile and holding her hand. My heart goes out to you, so tragic. love kim/shelbys mom
Kimberley Rodriguez <myredmustang@tx.rr.com>
Frisco, TX Collin - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 6:00 PM CDT

Thank you for signing Andon's guestbook and asking for prayer. It is much easier going into a scan knowing people we have and haven't met are praying for him. Thank you for you kindness!
www.caringbridge.org/visit/andonzehring
Brian Zehring
Leesburg, IN USA - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 10:35 AM CDT

Terrie,

Thank you so much for signing Kami's caringbridge site, and for having your Prayer Warriors keep her in their thoughts!

I've read back a few months on Lorraine's site: First, I have to say how sorry I am for you and your families' loss. Lorraine is lovely, and Kami is blessed to have such a lovely angel looking over her!

Secondly, I have to say what a pleasure it is to read your journal entries!

Like you, I love Bavaria, and I had to laugh at some of your input on the different European countries! I had the pleasure of living in Europe for ten years, and miss it every day...especially the bakeries and the yummy chocolate!

I'm a new follower, Terrie! I'll look forward to your next entry!

Sending Hugs and Prayers! ...xoxoxoxox...Jill and Kami www.caringbridge.org/visit/kamisroadhome

Jill and Kami Chauncy <Jill@FirstClassDrivingSchool.com>
Benton, LA USA - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 1:25 PM CDT

Dear Lorraine's Mother
I just signed your beautiful Angel's page and then went to my angel Jacob's page and saw that you had signed his guessbook
Thank you so much for visiting and signing Jacob's page it means so much to me that people leave a message..I hope our Angels have met in heaven and are both happy
love and hugs to one angels mother from another
Jacob's Mum ^i^Jacob playing soccer with angel wings
Australia - Monday, June 30, 2008 9:24 PM CDT

Dear ^i^ Lorraine's family
I found your link today on another Cb page
I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss ...may your Lorraine fly high in heaven happy healthy and pain free sending angel kisses down to you all
with Love ^i^ Jacob's Mum

Jacob's Mum ^i^Jacob playing soccer with angel wings
Australia - Monday, June 30, 2008 9:16 PM CDT

OUR CARINGBRIDGE SITE IS
caringbridge.org/visit/sarahheuke
GOD IS GOOD !!!!
BRITTANY HEUKE <tbheuke@insightbb.com>
MT WASHINGTON, KY USA - Monday, June 30, 2008 7:49 AM CDT

They call it American fubol. And what we call soccer, fubol. I have a son who is all a twitter here over it!
Jill
- Friday, June 20, 2008 7:27 PM CDT

I'm pretty sure I visited that same castle and I will never forget the hike up that mountain. I wanted my friend to carry me, but he wouldn't. Isn't Bavaria just the nicest place you ever saw? Sounds like you're having a time!
Meghan Harris Wedgeworth <meghan423@gmail.com>
Centerton, AR USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 2:15 PM CDT

What an inspiration to read your journal. We've never met and I have posted only a few times, but I feel as if I know you and your family. Thank you for sharing your joys and sorrows with those who have been blessed with daughters and now granddaughters. glynetta burnett
glynetta burnett <gburnett@centurytel.net>
star city, ar usa - Tuesday, June 3, 2008 8:34 PM CDT

I hope you find whatever you're looking for. You certainly deserve it. I hope you have a great trip.
Erin (Stiles) Hunter <conley730@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Monday, June 2, 2008 2:38 PM CDT

Hi Terrie,

Maybe you've discovered the "secret" in Victoria's Secret!

We're still lurking here, reading your posts, if not daily, then catching up when we can. We went to Ohio for Memorial Day weekend to see longtime friends. They knew Alex and Carrie from birth. We saw the new Indiana Jones movie. We all agreed Alex would love it. He was an Indy fan from the first movie, and the new one includes aliens, which he also loved. He continues to pop up in all sorts of ways for us, like Lorraine does for you.

Keep writing, and sharing. Your love and honesty are an inspiration for more people than you'll even know.

http://caringbridge.org/ny/alex/
Mark, Karen, Carrie and ^Alex^ Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Friday, May 30, 2008 7:30 PM CDT

I read the journal everyday. I learn so much from you and can't wait till the next entry so i can see how things are going with everyone and think of Lorraine. I may not have known Lorraine before her accident but through this journal I sometimes feel like I did. I will continue to follow the journal as long as your writing.
Tabatha Koder <tkoder@cityofbryant.com>
Benton , AR USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2008 4:53 PM CDT

I read every day too. I don't think you will ever forget Lorraine - I know I still have my "Remember Lorraine" sticker on my car.
Erin (Stiles) Hunter <conley730@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2008 10:32 AM CDT

Terrie, I, too, am still reading faithfully...another stranger who has been so moved and inspired by your family's journey. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. You are a gifted writer and we would all love to see you as a published author one day! May God continue to provide you with strength, comfort and that marvelous humor you have. God's peace.
Anne Koch <aajkoch@yahoo.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Monday, May 26, 2008 10:08 PM CDT

I too read usually every day. You are a fantastic writer, Terrie. I started reading while Lorraine was at Timber Ridge. I've never met you in person, but one does get the feeling of knowing you and your family from your blog. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Glad Livi did so well her first year off!
Jill
Little Rock, AR Pulaski - Monday, May 26, 2008 8:41 AM CDT

Terrie,

I am a PT student (one of the 4) who worked with you and Lorraine at Timber Ridge. I still keep up with y'all, and hope that you will have a good holiday weekend.

Megan Dowdle <meganb7@hotmail.com>
Atlanta, GA 30341 - Monday, May 26, 2008 5:49 AM CDT

Hi Terrie - I am another of the "read your journal every day" folks. I suspect there are many of us whom you have never met (although I hope to meet you one day). I believe the first time I read your journal was a day or two before Lorraine received her wings.

I am in awe of your perseverance in all that you are doing on behalf of TBI victims. May God bless your efforts today and always.

Kim Cook <kim.cook@yahoo.com>
Cabot, AR USA - Sunday, May 25, 2008 11:49 PM CDT

I do read daily and am so grateful to you for sharing your journey with us.

Enjoy the watermelon....I haven't found a good one in 15 years in the DC area!
Carol Rasco
Alexandria, VA - Sunday, May 25, 2008 10:24 PM CDT

Just to let you know, I read nearly everyday, and when i miss a day or two, I catch myself up. I find many of your entries to be very inspiring and thought provoking.
Claire
- Sunday, May 25, 2008 9:59 PM CDT

I wasthinking of Lorraine the other day and had to check in on the Roots. It is amazing to hear how well you are all doing. She was an amazing fighter, fun to work with, and moved so many. Hopefully she will continue to affect change in the world thru your efforts. Its nice to hear your happy descriptions of home, makes me miss Arkansas.
Robin Powell (OT) <robin113@hotmail.com>
Okinawa, Oki Japan - Thursday, May 22, 2008 4:26 AM CDT

Hi
I just wanted to stop by to say hi and let you know I am thinking of you today.
caringbridge.org/visit/champ291
Jenna <nevergiveup301@aol.com>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 2:46 PM CDT

Isn't travel wonderful? Most of all it makes you appreciate getting back home. But before long you'll mostly remember the fun parts and then there will be stories to tell for the rest of your life.

Come to think of it, our whole lives are that kind of a journey.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Monday, May 19, 2008 11:12 PM CDT

Terrie,
Please know your deeds are greatly appreciated and have touched many people's lives to a huge extent, that you should be very proud of. I salute you for all your hard work as many folks do.There are always people that don't do volunteer work for the right reasons but please know your heart is in the right place and very much respected.
Linda Tullos <lstullos@yahoo.com>
Little Rock, AR - Monday, April 28, 2008 11:11 AM CDT

Terrie,

Mindy is correct...don't waste your time and passion on people who don't appreciate you or what you have to offer. There is more than one way to skin a cat...sorry nothing personal to all the cat lovers out there...just an old southern saying....You know I am there to support you in any and all ways...you are my sista friend....
Jennifer Choate <jhchoate@sbcglobal.net>
Maumelle, AR USA - Thursday, April 24, 2008 9:39 PM CDT

I am so sorry for your disappointment in this situation. I know that no matter what......Lorraine is proud of you. Find the other groups that will appreciate your support and keep moving toward your goals. Better yet....how about the Lorraine Root Foundation for the Treatment and Prevention of Traumatic Brain Injury?!? You have so much to give and there are people who will appreciate your time and effort. Keep going. Don't ever give up!
Mindy Hollingshead <mindy74@yahoo.com>
Little Elm, TX - Thursday, April 24, 2008 4:48 PM CDT

I just went to the video and you are such an inspiration. I know with your devotion to this so many lifes will be saved. Heaven gained a beautiful angel when Lorraine went home and I know she is with you every step of the way. You're amazing! May God Bless you and yours
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, TX - Thursday, April 17, 2008 6:03 PM CDT

Great news coverage Wednesday night. Terrie your doing a great job getting the word out. Your doing an awesome job, I'm so proud of you and so is Lorraine.
Linda Tullos <lstullos@yahoo.com>
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, April 17, 2008 10:22 AM CDT

Your journal entry is the first thing I read every morning.
Lynda Dixon <lbd43@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR - Monday, April 14, 2008 6:54 AM CDT

One of my tenth grade students came into class not long ago with a different look - new bangs. Everyone commented on how cute they looked on her. They are straight across and do look really good. When she came back from spring break, she had a very cute long bob to go with her bangs. Her hair is a solid brown and she doesn't wear any (or much) make-up. For two days I kept thinking "She looks like somebody." It finally hit me driving to school that third day back - Lorraine from seventh grade. Now everyday when I look at this lovely young girl, I think of Lorraine! Just wanted to let you know after all these years, I still think of Lorraine quite often.
Brandy Brown <brandybbrown@hotmail.com>
Conway, AR - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 3:20 PM CDT

I followed baby Ethan's journey too. I hope Lorraine has her wings wrapped around him, and I'm praying for peace for Ben & Becky.
Erin (Stiles) Hunter <conley730@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Sunday, April 6, 2008 1:15 PM CDT

Hi
My name is Jenna and I came across your site. I just wanted to say hi, and let you know I am praying for your family. I hope you have a great day.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/champ291
Jenna <fighter_smiley@yahoo.ca>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Sunday, March 30, 2008 7:22 PM CDT

I'm so happy to hear your "good" news. EBV is not "good" but I am so glad it was nothing more. I've been praying for you all and will continue!
Mindy Hollingshead <mindyh74@yahoo.com>
Little Elm, TX - Tuesday, February 5, 2008 10:32 PM CST

Happy Birthday, Lorraine! I'm wearing blue and thinking of you today.
Erin (Stiles) Hunter <conley730@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Monday, January 28, 2008 8:03 PM CST

Happy Birthday Lorraine! I know many, many people here are missing you and remembering you on your special day.
casey <browncm@archildrens.org>
little rock, ar us - Monday, January 28, 2008 3:20 PM CST

I read your journal everyday and you are such an inspiration to so many. Hope you and your family have a very blessed New Year
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagovill, TX 75159 - Monday, December 31, 2007 12:54 AM CST

Terrie, I met you briefly at the BIA Conference last week and was deeply touched when you spoke of your daughter, Lorraine. Your determination to help others is uplifting and is inspiring to others. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!!
Lori Surtman, BIAOH <lsurtman@biaoh.org>
Olmsted Falls, OH US - Thursday, December 13, 2007 12:51 AM CST

Terrie,
It was so nice meeting you at the Brain Injury Association Conference. Thank you for sharing Lorraine's website with me. Lorraine inspires me to work hard at my job to help others with brain injuries here in Ohio. Her strength is felt, her voice is heard and her light is comfort. What an amazing young woman to be effecting so many lives today, including all of us in Ohio!
Jennie Horner, Brain Injury Association of Ohio <jhorner@biaoh.org>
Ohio - Wednesday, December 12, 2007 12:58 AM CST

I DO have high strung redheaded twins! They are so much fun though. I hope you guys had a great Thanksgiving.
Erin (Stiles) Hunter <conley730@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Friday, November 23, 2007 3:14 PM CST

Breaking the Wal-Mart routine is no small feat in these parts! If you need anything, let me know.
Meghan Wedgeworth <meghanh@nwanews.com>
Centerton, AR USA - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 2:11 PM CST

Ms. Terrie~ You and your family are still in my prayers.
By the way- vacuums are exciting! I have already asked my dad for a household appliance for Christmas this year and I'm still in college! :)
Whitney Martin
Little Rock, AR - Saturday, October 27, 2007 10:29 AM CDT

I have been reading your blog since I discovered it a month or two ago. I just wanted you to know how very sorry I am about the loss of your daughter. Reading about your journey and your strength.... it just inspires me when I too am down. Thank you.

My Schnauzer Buster would love the doxies!
Nancy Ferril
Kingwood, TX USA - Friday, October 19, 2007 2:10 PM CDT

Terry, thank you so much for sharing the website and photos of your beautiful daughter Lorraine with me. What a poignant expression of how precious every little minute with our loved ones are. If there is anything at all that I can do to help you with your story I am at your service.
Isabelle Sue Barbour <isabellesue@yahoo.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Sunday, October 7, 2007 10:29 AM CDT

Terrie:
I am sure your wonderful scrapbooks would reveal all the fun Halloween times you had with the kids...I'd love to catch a glimpse of those girls in their costumes over the years! Most parents hold their holiday memories near and hear to their hearts; your memories are even more precious. I just wanted you to know I was thinking of you all!
Celia <blasier205@comcast.net>
Little Rock, - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 11:02 PM CDT

Well Hello!! It has been so long. I got on here to get an update on you guys! I wanted to let you know that I think of "Raine" often. I hope all is as good as it can be. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you!!
Lindsey, (nurse @ hospital)
Lindsey <lindseyholland@centurytel.net>
- Wednesday, September 26, 2007 5:02 AM CDT

What an inspiring journal. Thank you for connecting and sharing your journey so honestly and beautifully. This is a reminder of how precious every day is. Sending you all love and gratitude.
Jennifer Hansen <hansenwords@aol.com>
Fayetteville, AR USA - Sunday, September 23, 2007 10:36 PM CDT

Terri, Larry, and Levi, I know the upcoming anniversary of the accident brings back many memories of your wonderful and beautiful daughter and sister. Please know not only are you in my thoughts and prayers many people are thinking of you. Thanks for sharing your healing process. All three of you guys have tremendous strength and we all appreciate your willingness to reach out to us.Your a great example of a family that loves and grieves together but also moved on with their lives. Always know that you have many friends that tune in each day and think of you each day.
May God Bless and May Lorraine Rest in Peace!!!!
Linda Tullos <lstullos@yahoo.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 4:56 PM CDT

To all of the readers of this journal I want you to know that Terri and her family are more special than I can say. Terri and I have gotten to know each other by the deaths of our daughters. I lost my daughter to suicide on March 11, 2005 and Lorraine went to heaven May 11, 2005. Terri is the most wonderful person and has saved me so many times when I thought I couldn't go on. I have begged her to write a book and I hope some day she will. She has such good common sense about life and there is nothing false about her. She has become a wonderful friend and I know our girls know each other in heaven. Terri is strong but I try to remember she has her hard times as much as I do so all of you that read her journal keep her in your prayers as well as Larry and Livi that we will all remember to be strong for them as they help us.

Brenda Steele
Brenda Steele <bsteele@aref.org>
North Little Rock, Ar Pulaski - Monday, September 10, 2007 3:34 PM CDT

Dear Terrie and Larry, I'm so glad that yesterday was a wee bit better than last year. You're thought of frequently and I pray that the slow progress of healing will continue. I'm thinking of Livi as she goes through rush and I can't wait to hear the outcome. I'm sure that it will be happy.
Sylvia McWilliams <ssmcw@sbcglobal.net>
Little Rock, - Monday, September 10, 2007 12:11 AM CDT

Terrie,Larry & Livi
Thinking of you on your 4th anniversary date. Brent's anniversary date was Sept. 6 (4 years for us too). Tonight I attended the visitation of a very special lady (Carol) who has now joined Lorraine. She taught music at Vandalia Elementary School for 30 years and passed away at age 56, just a few months after retiring in May.

Her husband and daughters wore their Vandalia Elementary School Honor Chorus shirts tonight -- as did Carol. Her husband said "She's probably in heaven right now checking out all those special little children for her Honor Chorus."

Honor chorus was for 4th & 5th grades who were willing to practice after school every day. She also had Spirit Singers at church, then there was the Youth Chorus & the Flag girls for the high school band.

Lorraine probably has a new choir director now.
Anna Marie Nobbe <beetaz@celerityinc.com>
Coffeen, IL USA - Friday, September 7, 2007 10:58 PM CDT

I am out of state at the time and do not have your email addy with me, but I do keep your website in the Favs on this laptop. I wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers, esp. today. I know you're a strong person, but a hug from a friend helps from time to time.
HUGS!!!!!!!!!

Pam
Little Rock, AR - Friday, September 7, 2007 8:56 PM CDT

Mrs. Root~ I will be praying for you & your family. Also Good Luck to Livi for Rush!
Pam Matthews Lee <aunt2lainey@yahoo.com>
Conway, Ar USA - Thursday, September 6, 2007 9:48 PM CDT

You are in my thoughts on Friday. I hope that you are consumed with peace on this precious anniversary. I love the stories of your girls. I find myself crying for you some days and laughing with you at other times. I have a little girl (she's 35 now) who has two little girls (age 5 and 10 months), so I know your heart's joy for your daughters. I pray that I never know the sorrow that you have endured. Your journal has helped me to appreciate the "now" so very much. God bless you. glynetta burnett star city arkansas
glynetta burnett <gburnett@centurytel.net>
star city, ar usa - Thursday, September 6, 2007 9:32 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Larry......you're not over the hill yet...but it is in sight!!! Don't worry, it's not bad over here in the valley.
Jennifer Choate <jhchoate@sbcglobal.net>
Maumelle, AR - Thursday, August 23, 2007 9:22 PM CDT

I don't know how I came upon this journal but I do know it's by our heavenly father. I've read through the journal and I admire you and your family. This is a blessing to me as well as others. I have a 7 year old daughter and I thank God for everyday with her. If we can just appreciate the more important things in life (i.e. family, being a blessing to others) and not be so consumed with worldly things...I thank you...I thank Lorraine...An angel working...spreading love. I will pray for you and your family. Your testimony is changing alot of lives and blessing so many people.
JoAnn <ariesmarie5@verizon.net>
Wilmington, DE U.S. - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 11:12 AM CDT

Pets become part of our family. After my husband Pete passed away and twins in college, my two dogs became more and more like family! I'm praying your dog will be ok. My dog, Knick was on steroids 3 years before he passed away on June 21st of this year at the vet. I cried and cried and still cry when I think of him. He was 13 years old but such a wonderful dog. I had him cremated and he is now back in my bed room in his little cedar box. Praying for you!
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, TX USA - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 1:10 PM CDT

Oh my! So sorry to hear about your poison ivy! My husband managed to get it in his eyeball two weeks ago, so you have my utmost sympathy.
Meghan Harris <meghanh@nwanews.com>
Bentonville, AR USE - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 2:58 PM CDT

"Lar-bear", as Lorraine referred to him (to me), is such a dear Dad--I know he is missing and thinking of both of his sweet girls today!
Cecelia <blasier205@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Sunday, June 17, 2007 11:08 PM CDT

praying for Livi to get get test results today:)
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, TX USA - Friday, June 8, 2007 1:48 PM CDT

Praying that Livi's test all turn out great, I do believe Lorraine is watching over her and her special friend. I read your journal every chance I get, you touch so many people. Praying for you all.
Patty Plough <Patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, TX 75159 - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 1:25 PM CDT

NO, no, no...don't start the nasty habit of making the bed!
Carol Rasco
Alexandria, VA - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 4:50 PM CDT

Thinking of you today.
www.caringbridge.com/ar/davidburrall
Sharon Burrall <ssburrall@yahoo.com>
Roland, AR USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 10:46 PM CDT

Just wanted you to know you have been in my thoughts so much--all day Friday especially. I saw the sweet photo of Lorraine in the paper and said a special prayer for each of you. I know she is watching over you all closely and she will never be forgotten by all who loved her and were lucky enough to know her and be touched by her!

Celia <blasier205@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR Pulaski - Saturday, May 12, 2007 6:15 PM CDT

Oh, my, I missed by my time a note to you on the 11th; but it is 11:10 in LR as I write this note so perhaps it still counts since I have indeed thought of all of you today on numerous occasions.

I spent a great deal of time today getting from point A (DC) to point B (Toronto, Canada for a reading convention). It took far longer than the small distance between those two points would take under normal circumstances. But during all those waiting moments I had time to think about you all...and how glad I am I know you. With love sent to you three, Carol
Carol Rasco
Alexandria, VA USA - Friday, May 11, 2007 11:06 PM CDT

We are thinking of you all today. You are in our prayers. Wearing blue in honor of Lorraine. She'll never be forgotten.

Donna & Rod Breuer <donna.breuer@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Friday, May 11, 2007 1:25 PM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Anne M. Koch <getakoch@yahoo.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Friday, May 11, 2007 12:26 AM CDT

We are with you in prayer, spirit and understanding as you observe Lorraine's second anniversary with angel wings. Alex's 3rd anniversary is coming up at the end of June. May you all find moments of peace and comfort today, and always.
Mark, Karen, Carrie and ^Alex^ Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Friday, May 11, 2007 10:52 AM CDT

I am thinking about you all today. You are in my prayers.
Zaff
Lauren Zaffaroni <LZaff@mail.utexas.edu>
Austin, - Friday, May 11, 2007 9:47 AM CDT

Terrie and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers today.
Linda Tullos <lstullos@yahoo.com>
LR, AR USA - Friday, May 11, 2007 8:52 AM CDT

Thinking of you today.
Cindy
- Friday, May 11, 2007 6:57 AM CDT

Terrie, Just a little note to say - you, Larry, and Livi are in my thoughts and prayers today.

Pam
little rock, ar - Friday, May 11, 2007 0:59 AM CDT

I am praying for you all as Friday approaches.
Leah <leahgolleher@sbclgobal.net>
- Wednesday, May 9, 2007 2:16 PM CDT

Dear Terrie,
I don't know where to begin. Your kindness, wisdom, generosity and guidance in my time of loss has been greatly appreciated. You have done more for myself and my family than I can put into words. Be sure to give Livi and Larry my love and a big hug for taking care of Mia for us. I am missing our beautiful babies. God Bless you, Terrie. I love you. Cherie
Cherie McKnight <cheriemcknight@yahoo.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 9:10 AM CDT

I so agree with your message today. I buried my 18 year old son 13 years ago today, he died from a car accident. We are not meant to understand, just to accept and look forward to the great reunion. I read your entry everyday and feel your pain.
Peggy White
Arkadelphia, Ar Clark - Monday, April 16, 2007 11:19 PM CDT

Dear Terrie,
I write this with tears of gratitude in my eyes. I truly think that God (with the help of Lorraine and Rachel) sent you to be with Cherie and our family during this trajic time. Your empathy and wisdom have been such a gift. Words cannot express what a blessing you have been to Cherie and our family. Love, Charlotte
Charlotte Cook <charlotte.cook@lrsd.org>
Little Rock, AR U.S.A. - Sunday, April 15, 2007 9:23 AM CDT

Our thoughts and prayers have been with you in the years we have read your journals here. We have never met, but we share the feelings of the loss of a child. Please assure your dear friend that we also offer our prayers, sympathies, and understanding on her loss. May peace and comfort be with you all.
Mark, Karen, Carrie and (angel) Alex Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 9:00 PM CDT

Well what a great idea...my Remember Lorraine "cling" wouldn't cling on my new car windows when I transferred it from the Bug! I had to tape it--which is not allowed, you know, by the car boss. I was just about to call and ask for a new one! But, I would love to have a snowflake (or be involved in the "design" stages of said snowflake) as well! As always, thinking of you, Terrie, and Livi and Larry.
Remembering Lorriane,
Celia
Cecelia <blasier205@comcast.net>
- Monday, March 12, 2007 1:07 AM CDT

I know several people like Vicki, that still have their "Remember Lorraine" stickers. I think they are a constant reminder to not take life for granted and to remember those who cannot speak for themselves.

Thinking of you guys!
Leah <leahgolleher@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, March 9, 2007 2:04 PM CST

Ms. Terri,
I was thinking of your family today and wanted each of you to know that you truly are still in my prayers! Let me know if there is ever anything I can do!
Whitney Martin <mar40314@obu.edu>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 10:39 PM CST

Hey Root Family,
I just wanted you to know we were thinking about you all on Lorraine's birthday, though it is late notice.
-- Paige
Paige McGilvray <paige586@yahoo.com>
- Monday, February 5, 2007 6:11 PM CST

Dear Terri, I still have my "Remember Lorraine" sticker on my car window, though I'm one of those not keeping track of the tough days that must still come....our family has had some rough times, Henry lost his mom this year, but nothing like what you all have been through.

Thank You for the effort in passing the Brain Injury Registry in Lorraine's honor. Carla made sure we all had a copy from the paper! Some years ago, under *Governor* Bill Clinton, there was a bill that made it through but the project was then assigned to the Ar. State Rehabilitation Project rather than an independent group like the Spinal Cord Commission, and then went unfunded under their priorities. I hope and expect this time it will be different.

One of our current rehabilitation therapists has a brother who is still disabled after a TBI, but in Texas where they actually have organized services...may I give her your e-mail?
Vikki Stefans <vstefans@george.ach.uams.edu>
Little Rock, AR USA - Monday, January 29, 2007 4:36 PM CST

Sorry about the lack of timeliness, but it's not a lack of concern, as you observed Lorraine's birthday. Those special dates are the hardest. Earlier this month marked Alex's third "new" birthday, the anniversary of the bone marrow transplant that gave us so much hope at the time. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you all, and your journal provides so much inspiration.
Mark, Karen, Carrie and ^i^Alex^i^ Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:27 AM CST

I wanted you all to know that you were in my thoughts yesterday. I miss Lorraine dearly and I am sad that I didn't get to share this big day with her. I hope you all are doing well.
Love, Zaff
Lauren Zaffaroni <lzaff@mail.utexas.edu>
Austin, TX - Monday, January 29, 2007 8:14 AM CST

Terrie, I'm so glad we met Tuesday, Jan. 23rd. I admire your courage and strength, you are a very special Mom/lady/person. I wanted to drop you a note on this especially hard day to say you all were constantly in my thoughts today. I know words can't take away the hurt, if they could, I would talk forever and dedicate each word to you and yours. God Bless each of you as you continue this journey.
Pam
Little Rock, AR USA - Sunday, January 28, 2007 10:05 PM CST

I just wanted to wish Lorraine a Happy Birthday. I know she is in Heaven having a big party, eating a big piece of carrot cake and making sure everyone is having a good time. The entire family is always in my prayers. I miss you all.
Love,
Aaron
Aaron Strobel <astrobe@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR - Sunday, January 28, 2007 7:00 PM CST

Just wanted to wish Lorraine a happy birthday. I know she is having a big party in Heaven with a big piece of Carrot Cake.The whole family remains in my prayers everyday.
Love,
Aaron
Aaron Strobel <astrobe@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR - Sunday, January 28, 2007 6:54 PM CST

Dear Root family. I have only written once before, but I read your journal every day. Thank you for sharing your heart.
Today, you have been on my mind and in my heart. For my family, it was a day of celebration as we christened our 3 month old granddaughter at church. As much as everything was perfect, I couldn't help but think of your very different day. I just wanted you to know that you are in hearts of people who have never met you in person, but feel a kindred to you. You are always in my prayers. God bless you on Lorraine's birthday. glynetta burnett star city ar
glynetta burnett <gburnett@centurytel.net>
star city, ar usa - Sunday, January 28, 2007 3:56 PM CST

Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you all today. I hope you have found the perfect carrot cake that I know Lorraine would love :) I hope Olivia is doing well, tell her hello. ...I am not a big carrot cake person, but I might just have to get a piece for myself!
Lots and lots of hugs and love,
Hannah
Hannah Kennedy <hkenned@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR - Sunday, January 28, 2007 12:37 AM CST

Terri: I read your post about your victory today. No surprise for me that you are effective as a lobbyist on this issue (or any other). You have the right talents for this work. Congratulations to you and all who have worked, emailed, etc. at your request. The Ledge is a strange place, but I know you can do well there becaue of your talents and your passion. Keep going, Anne
Anne <aparker.4@sbcglobal.net>
Little Rock, Ar - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 10:04 PM CST

I'm so sorry all these entries showed up yesterday with the same message, only clicked once so don't know why this happen, sorry for taking up so much space, praying for you today that your bill passes. Hoping this doesn't show up 10 tims:)
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, tx USA - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 1:36 PM CST

I'm praying that tomorrow your bill will get all the support it needs. Like your jounal entry said, how fitting this would be for Lorraine's 21st birthday. Wishing you and your family the best. You inspire so many people, you will never know how many!
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, Tx USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 1:32 PM CST

Good luck on the bill! I would be there and support if I wasn't in NWA right now! I'll be thinking of you on Tuesday! and you're right, Lorraine does deserve the best!
Mary <mfeild@gmail.com>
Fayetteville, AR USA - Saturday, January 20, 2007 12:00 AM CST

Mrs. Root,
I wish you the best of luck in your legislative efforts and I hope the bill gets much support from political leaders. I emailed my Senators & Representives tonight and I hope the much needed bill is passed. Keep up the good work.
Pam Matthews Lee <aunt2lainey@yahoo.com>
Conway, Ar - Monday, January 8, 2007 9:55 PM CST

It is amazing how Lorraine has touched so many lives. I was at a video store just minutes ago and saw a sticker on a car that read "Remember Lorraine" with the web site underneath. As soon as we got home I logged on and felt compelled to sign the guest book. I work in the Operating room and was there the night Lorraine came in. I kept up with her recovery for a long time and knew when she had passed. I saw you many times in her room, exercising her legs and standing vigil. I saw the outpouring of cards, letters and posters from all of her friends. I saw her uniform, her dog and her BEAUTIFUL Senior picture.The waiting room was always full of her friends. She touched many lives that I am sure you will never know about...like mine. I hope you find a little comfort knowing that. We think of her often and remember her and that day. Our thoughts are with you still.
Operating Nurse
Little Rock, Ar USA - Friday, December 29, 2006 9:42 PM CST

Thinking of you all this Christmas day, wishing you peace. Terrie, thank you for your continuing journal, which shines with love. Thank you too for providing inspiration, especially in difficult moments.
Mark, Karen, Carrie and (angel) Alex Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Monday, December 25, 2006 10:08 AM CST

Oh how I can relate to tonight's entry! Tony and I both were high strung tonight(and all day as well). We both know the root of our stress, just not quite sure why so bad right now.

Keeping you guys in our prayers!

Leah
Leah Golleher <leahgolleher@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, November 28, 2006 10:59 PM CST

I am so glad to hear the good breast news report!!! I have dealt with that in the past, and I totally had my service planned out too!! Have a great day! Love, Shannon
Shannon Pate <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, November 16, 2006 2:59 PM CST

What is the BIG deal about Livi taking the front page of the newspaper to her all-girl Catholic school? What is she trying to prove?
Carol <Carol@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Wednesday, November 8, 2006 10:21 PM CST

I will be praying for you and yours. Have a blessed day in the Lord. Luke 1:37
patty plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
seagoville, tx usa - Wednesday, November 8, 2006 1:50 PM CST

I am praying for you.
Anne M. Koch <getakoch@yahoo.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 10:55 PM CST

Terrie, Please don't feel guilty when you have a good time without Lorianne. I can promise you that Lorianne is having fun and enjoying every moment of Heaven and all of the people there. I am sure that she misses you and her family, but she knows that it is only a short time and you will all be together again. Remember that Lorianne is where there are no bad times, only wonderful, peaceful, happy activities there.
Dianne <diannejackson1@gmail.com>
Bradford, AR USA - Monday, November 6, 2006 6:25 PM CST

I hope you have a wonderful birthday, if anyone deserves it, it is you. I read your journal daily and you are amazing. Thanks for sharing with us!
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, tx usa - Thursday, November 2, 2006 1:19 PM CST

I can't wait for your book. I only knew Lorraine as a little girl, but she was truly amazing (as is Olivia). If I can be half the mother you are, my boys will be in good hands. I still pray for peace for you all.
Erin (Stiles) Hunter <conley730@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR - Saturday, October 21, 2006 1:34 PM CDT

Your words have moved and inspired me so many times...You have a gift for writing and it would be a blessing to so many for you to share Lorraine's story. Thank you for sharing so much every day through this site and best of luck with the book.
Anne M. Koch (relocated with new e-mail) <getakoch@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 19, 2006 8:58 AM CDT

I have been following your journal entries daily for a couple of years. Your writing is wonderful, interesting & thought provoking. Good Luck on getting your book published. I think it is a wonderful idea and a great way to honor your daughter. I will definatly go out & buy it.
Pam Matthews Lee <aunt2lainey@yahoo.com>
Conway, Ar - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 4:54 PM CDT

I definitely think the time is right. I would love to read your book!!!! Love, Shannon
Shannon Pate <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 2:47 PM CDT

I think you are an amazing woman, putting a book out about Lorraine and what your family has been going through will help so many people. May God Bless you and yours.
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
seagoville, tx usa - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 12:27 AM CDT

I remember Lorraine from Calvary Baptist, when my family attended church there. I just wanted to let you know how truly sorry I am for your loss. I know that doesn't help, but I wish you all the best.
Lauren Kennedy
- Thursday, October 12, 2006 3:13 PM CDT

I just wanted to drop a note and say hi and let you know that I was thinking of you all today. I was in LR for the first time since my move to texas and i remember feeling lorraine when we flew in. Something sparked my attention and reminded me of her. Shes still so close to us!!!! Im sure shes so proud of you livi for your college choice. Congrats. Love you all. Miss you lou!
Alissa <alissa.renee@hotmail.com>
Arlington , Tx - Monday, October 9, 2006 2:23 PM CDT

I heard Lorraine's name 3, Yes, 3 times today alone. I love it when she pops up to say hello. It makes me smile. Thinking of you guys always.
Leah Golleher <leahgolleher@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, October 3, 2006 0:46 AM CDT

just thinking about you guys!! i hope Olivia is enjoying her senior year!! i love you all!
Katie Harrison <singin4him06@hotmail.com>
Little Rock, AR United States - Sunday, September 24, 2006 9:16 AM CDT

Just stopped by to see how you are doing. You are in my thoughts,
Sharon Burrall <ssburrall@yahoo.com www.david-james-burrall.memory-of.com>
Roland, AR - Friday, September 22, 2006 4:47 PM CDT

Yes, I so agree - thinking can lead to trouble . . .

But the trouble is so worth the thinking!

You are not alone.
Cherryl <chall94782@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, September 17, 2006 9:31 PM CDT

Dear Root Family,
My name is Donna Gwinn. I am a teacher at Westside Middle school in Jonesboro Ar. I got your address from a friend and fellow teacher here. My nephew has a website through caringbridge as well. Dakota Hawkins was my precious nephew. He left us March 2 of this year. Our lives were changed just as yours. Dakota had ALL leukemia. He lived with it for 3 long years of his short precious life.
YOur daughter was very beautiful and seemed to be as beautiful in her spirt. I can only say this from all the special things said about her. God bless you all and I will think and pray for you often. Dakota's web address is caringbridge.org/ar/keepthefaith
Donna
Donna Gwinn <dgwinn@westsideschools.org>
Jonesboro, AR - Tuesday, September 12, 2006 4:02 PM CDT

You all are always in our thoughts and prayers. Donna & Rod
Donna Breuer <donna.breuer@comcast.net>
- Saturday, September 9, 2006 10:35 AM CDT

I can't imagine the pain... Livi, I am ALWAYS here for you... call me anytime... -akcomanniway livi and lorraine <3 always amanda t.
Amanda Tubbs <ladybug71654@hotmail.com>
McGehee, AR - Friday, September 8, 2006 1:56 PM CDT

Roots �
You guys are incredible. Thank you for sharing Lorraine with us.
Meghan <meghanh@nwanews.com>
Bentonville, AR USA - Thursday, September 7, 2006 11:01 PM CDT

i have thought about you all a thousand times today and what an end to the day to have a bright bright orange moon rise up against the darkest midnight blue sky and not nary a cloud. wish i were a poet. called jed and he saw it too. he had been out for a ride on his mountain bike...your sweet baby will never ever be forgotten... she is such a strong force in our hearts....love you
linda
- Thursday, September 7, 2006 9:23 PM CDT

Roots-
Lorraine and you all are in my thoughts and prayers today.
Love,Zaff
Lauren Zaffaroni <lzaff@mail.utexas.edu>
Austin, TX - Thursday, September 7, 2006 8:34 PM CDT

Mrs. Root~
I have been following your journal for a couple of years. Your entries are inspirational and thought provoking. Praying for you and your family on this day.
Pam Matthews Lee <aunt2lainey@yahoo.com>
Conway, Ar 72032 - Thursday, September 7, 2006 3:22 PM CDT

Praying for you today.

April Bevis
April Bevis <abevis@cebridge.net>
Cabot, AR USA - Thursday, September 7, 2006 12:36 AM CDT

I'm keeping you all in my thoughts today!

Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, ON Canada - Thursday, September 7, 2006 7:51 AM CDT

Thinking of you all today. The anniversary dates are the hardest. As you feel lonesome, missing Lorraine's physical presence, please know you are not alone. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, today and always. And, our deep admiration of your continuing life journey, so lovingly and honestly documented here. Thank you for sharing.
Mark, Karen, Alex (in spirit) and Carrie Wozniak <mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Thursday, September 7, 2006 6:23 AM CDT

Thinking of Lorraine--and all of you today.
I think you are right, she is watching and smiling at you and all of us. She never took the little things in life TOO seriously, and that was a good thing! Missing Lou but cherishing my memories of her and all the "girls" together...
Celia <cblasier@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Thursday, September 7, 2006 0:30 AM CDT

Lorraine stirs thoughts of joy and life in me. I don't remember a time that I did not see that girl smiling and enjoying whatever it was she was doing. I think back on her life and smile. Also thoughts of Lorraine and Zach in about 4th grade at Walnut Valley flood my mind- such a sweet face skipping around the playground or parking lot. You are in my prayers this week. Love, Shannon
Shannon Pate <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Tuesday, September 5, 2006 10:35 PM CDT

Hello. I found Lorraine's site through a link on Jill Kiddy's. I never knew her but she sounds like a phenomenal young woman. I just wanted to let you know your site is an inspiration to me. I check it daily for interesting ways you have of putting things into perspective. I lost my brother in December, 2002, in a car accident. Your words really hit home with me. I just wanted to tell you thank you for sharing yourself and your family with me. You will be in my prayers.

April Bevis <abevis@cebridge.net>
Cabot, AR USA - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 12:56 AM CDT

I think of Lorraine daily...numerous times. Lately she has been on my mind a lot though, and so has your family. It is good to hear, Mrs. Root, that you're starting work up again. That should be nice having something you did for so long back in your life, and something to occupy your time. I am sure the Doxies will miss you very much, but take guard over the house while you're away. Today I messaged Olivia, she is SOOO BEAUTIFUL!!! Her new picture on facebook is gorgeous, did she get professional pictures recently? Tell Mr. Root I say hello, and send my best. I hope all is well, and that the new house is homie(sp?) and pleasant!
Sending my love,
Hannah
Hannah Kennedy <hkenned@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR US - Monday, August 28, 2006 7:33 PM CDT

Good Luck at work today! I'll be thinking of you!

Christine
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Monday, August 28, 2006 10:52 AM CDT

Your ponderings of today caused me to ponder, also. I occasionally smoke, drink, dance on tables, sing kareoke, and do all those other things so offensive to others. But, I know God loves me in spite of these things (or because of these things!) Why don't other people know that?
Cherryl Hall <chall94782@sbcglobal.,net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Sunday, August 27, 2006 8:22 PM CDT

Oh what it would have been like to be in petticoats and sporting parasols all that time ago. Glad to hear the pups can go out now. Congrats, Livi, on the sell! I would pay you take some of the kiddos!
Leah <leahgolleher@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, August 23, 2006 11:11 AM CDT

Congrats on being a senior, Olivia. It's going to be such a fun time for you.
Meghan Harris <meghanh@nwanews.com>
Bentonville, AR USA - Wednesday, August 16, 2006 11:41 PM CDT

I'm praying for you and your family. I read your journal everyday, no wonder your girls are so wonderful, you are an exceptional woman who I thank you for sharing with us. I've lost my husband and father but no comparison to a child but you are right it is riding the cycles out. May God Bless you and yours in a very special way. Luke 1:37
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
Seagoville, tx usa - Wednesday, August 9, 2006 1:03 PM CDT

Funny how the packing and unpacking goes. I have a suitcase sitting in our bedroom from three weeks ago. I have taken all of my things, Bryce's things and Libby's things out of it. yet it still sits there with items inside. I am still waiting to see how long it will be before the other member of this home will realize things are not "missing" but rather waiting patiently where he left them. =) Always a joy to read your entries.
Leah <leahgolleher@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, August 7, 2006 2:27 PM CDT

Glad to hear you guys have enjoyed your trip. Hoping to bring Libby by sometime before schools starts back into swing. I'll try to call later this week. Thinking of you always
Leah <leahgolleher@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, August 6, 2006 4:53 PM CDT

I haven't signed the guestbook in ages, but read every day! I had to tell you that I love vinegar with my french fries! Hope you have a wonderful trip and I'm sure Lorraine is right there with you all.

Christine, a Southwestern Ontario, Canadian admirer
Christine Walton <crsrwalton@ciaccess.com>
Merlin, - Friday, August 4, 2006 1:50 PM CDT

Canada is a wonderful country, with terrific people. For us, near Buffalo, it's a short drive to the bridges to cross over to Lake Erie beaches, or a day trip to Toronto. One way to see if your American rental car is actually Canadian is to check the odometer... does it measure miles, or kilometres? I hope your trip includes a visit to Niagara Falls. Even though we live on the US side, the view is much better on the Canadian side.
Mark, Karen, Alex (in spirit) and Carrie Wozniak
<mwozniak@wbfo.org>
Tonawanda, NY - Friday, August 4, 2006 8:16 AM CDT

AMEN sista friend....you certainly have given us food for thought...i'm going to think of 3 things i'm good at and maybe one...ok two things i'm not and try to improve. i love that you are such a deep thinker and give us a little pearl to ponder....hugs and kisses to livi! luv u....linda
linda <cindystwin@aol.com>
hot springs, ar - Sunday, July 23, 2006 7:27 AM CDT

Preach it, sister!!!!! I totally agree. We all have many different talents. I am glad you are going to use one of yours again as you head back to the part time job. Good for you!! Love, Shannon
Shannon Pate <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Saturday, July 22, 2006 11:39 PM CDT

hey...our "driver" will be home on wed. aug. 2 and will be here until the 7th....i think you know what that means....come over. there is mexican food to eat and pool water at 91 steamin' degrees....luv u sista friend
linda <cindystwin@aol.com>
hot springs, - Saturday, July 22, 2006 6:03 PM CDT

i just wanted to write and tell all of you what a wonderful person Terri is and how she is helping so many mothers that have lost a child and now she will be doing work that will help so many others. Terri has been very kind to let me get to know her and has let me in her life enough to know about Lorraine and Livi and of course those girl dogs. I lost my daughter March 11, 2005 to suicide. I found Terri's site on May 11, 2005 the day Lorraine died. I emailed her a while later and she has been helping me in so many ways. Now I am suffering from PTSD because I found my daughter and Terri's writings and she willingness to help me is wonderful. I think Terri should write a book. Her writings do make me and others feel better and I hope with her going back to work she will still have time to continue to enrich us with the daily updates. I love Terri for the person see is and all that she did for Lorraine and now what she has done for others. I do know however, I have to keep in mind that there are days Terri is down and she needs us to up lift her and carry her for awhile. "Congrats" Terri on the job and thank you so much for being there for me and for all the others you have helped.

Love,
Brenda Steele
bsteele@aref.org
Brenda Steele <bsteele@aref.org>
North Little Rock, AR Pulaski - Tuesday, July 18, 2006 12:59 AM CDT

Good luck on your interview...I'll be thinking about you.
Anne M. Koch <annekoch@alltel.net>
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, July 13, 2006 11:50 PM CDT

If you get those doxies doing laundry I have a few girl doggies that I would HAPPILY pay to enroll in your training program!

My dear friend lost her 18 month old daughter to complications of the treatment of Lymphoma in March. I certainly appreciate the insight into what she might be feeling that I get from reading your words. Thank you again for sharing your story and your life experiences. Your willingness to share is making a difference in someone's life..........Lorraine is making a difference and I like to think that maybe she has met our Dani. Maybe Lorraine will love on her for us until the day we can join them!

Many prayers for you and yours from good ol' Texas........
Mindy Hollingshead <mindyh74@yahoo.com>
Little Elm, TX - Wednesday, July 12, 2006 11:46 PM CDT

I read an article in one of those "women's" magazines that said that when we get older our brain gets congested....we have so much in there it just gets jumbled up. You have been using yours a lot lately with trying to navigate in a foreign country....so just relax and decongest.....
Jennifer Choate <jhchoate@sbcglobal.net>
Maumelle, AR USA - Sunday, July 2, 2006 5:44 PM CDT

i have the utmost respect and admiration for your family because I am going through a traumatic brain injury and stroke recovery right now thats left me mute and paraplegic. i wish your family the best.
Robert Moore <rbmoore45@hotmail.com>
Searcy, AR USA - Friday, June 30, 2006 11:34 AM CDT

What a wonderful adventure!!!!!! Thanks for updating!!!! Love, Shannon
Shannon Pate <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Sunday, June 25, 2006 10:48 PM CDT

Hi,
I just this journal today. My thoughts and prayers are with yall now. I wish yall the best of luck with your trip and future endeavors in life.
Katelyn <bayouteddybear1@yahoo.com>
LA USA - Thursday, June 22, 2006 7:57 PM CDT

Thank you so much for sharing your adventures with us. I love reading your entries. I think I am addicted to them like a Dear Abby column!!!! You are a fantastic writer. I feel like I am with ya'll! Here's to many more traveling mercies. Love, Shannon
Shannon Pate <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 5:21 PM CDT

Sounds like you guys have had quite the adventure so far. I am glad to hear you are safe and well fed now. Praying for your safe return.
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
- Tuesday, June 20, 2006 10:36 AM CDT

I have just recently experienced having an animal in the tub with me! Just be greatful that you just had a doxie in the tub with you whereas I had a CAT! She fell in while trying to eat the bubbles! The scraches are finally healing! =) Hope ya'll have a good trip.
Han <nlrhannah04@yahoo.com>
Sherwood, AR - Saturday, June 10, 2006 9:16 AM CDT

Terri and Levi,
I hope you have a fun and exciting trip, it's much deserved. Your journal friends can't wait to hear all about it.Be safe!!!!

Linda Tullos <lstullos@yahoo.com>
Little Rock, AR - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 11:36 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know how much I have been thinking of you all over the past few days and weeks...I, too, am reminded of Lorraine in the blossoms around, although I am not sure why--nothing during our time together really included flowers or blooms. I think earthly beauty and the vibrant colors just trigger thoughts of love and dearly loved ones. I happened to visit the Vietnam Veteran's Memorial here in Little Rock just a few days after Memorial Day and it was moving to see all of the (mostly) yellow stem roses left there for loved ones. People here DO remember those they love who have gone on to heaven and wait for us there.
Celia <cblasier@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Sunday, June 4, 2006 0:07 AM CDT

Mrs. Root,

For years now, I have considered Lorraine's story one of the most tragic stories and have admired your strength throughout your life.

I still admire your strength, but realised how lucky you were to know it was Lorraine in the wreck. I have just learned about a family who supported their daughter during her waking up process. Yesterday they discovered this was not their daughter. Their daughter had died. The site is http://lauravanryn.blogspot.com/.

I still think about you and your family in my prayers. You have come out of this tragedy stronger than before and it brings joy to those around you. God bless.
Anonymous
- Thursday, June 1, 2006 10:01 AM CDT

I had special thoughts of Lorraine yesterday. I hope you guys were able to remember the good times in addition to all the hell you have been through the past few years.

How is the book coming along?
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
- Tuesday, May 30, 2006 1:36 PM CDT

that big yellow dog? was it extremly furry, and absolutely HUGE! If so, it's been around our street to, and it followed my dog and me around our neighborhood, and it walked up to my car when I was stopped in our street one day! I can't believe it's still lost! I hope it finds a home!
Claire
- Thursday, May 18, 2006 11:22 PM CDT

Mom, Larry, and Olivia:
I just wanted you all to know that I have been thinking of you today. I miss Lorraine more than I know how to express. Hope you all are doing well. -Love Wes
Wes Manus <wmanus@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR - Thursday, May 11, 2006 10:25 PM CDT

Dear Roots just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you and praying for you today and everyday. Donna & Rod
Donna Breuer <donna.breuer@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR USA - Thursday, May 11, 2006 6:30 PM CDT

I began reading your journal one year ago. Three years ago, my mom was in a car wreck & survived with life changing physical injuries. I am sorry for your loss & know you miss and think of Lorraine every day. I admire your sense of strength and determination. I am praying for your family on this day.
Pam Matthews <aunt2lainey@yahoo.com>
Conway, Ar - Thursday, May 11, 2006 4:55 PM CDT

Praying for you and your family.
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
seagoville, tx USA - Thursday, May 11, 2006 12:34 AM CDT

Roots,
I wanted to let yall know that my thougths and prayers are with you today. I hope to see yall soon.
Love, Zaff
Lauren Zaffaroni <lzaff@mail.utexas.edu>
Austin, TX - Thursday, May 11, 2006 10:21 AM CDT

Terrie, Larry, and Livi----
Thinking of you today....I'm wearing a "Lorraine blue" blouse to keep her in my thoughts today. Enjoy your wonderful memories of the remarkable young woman she was. I know that you will be relieved and I hope given some peace with having the last of the "first one without Lorraine" dates pass this weekend. It's obvious from your journal that your friends are keeping you close this week and offering as much comfort as they can...accept that love from them and know that many others of us are lifting you up in prayer and wishing you well on your journey as you continue to deal with your loss. Best wishes,
Melinda
Melinda Marks <melinda@pulaskiacademy.org>
Little Rock, AR USA - Thursday, May 11, 2006 7:20 AM CDT

Terrie, Larry & Livi: I feel certain that Lorraine and God will hold you gently throughout the day today, and every day to come, until you all meet again in Paradise. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Celia <cblasier@aol.com>
- Thursday, May 11, 2006 0:20 AM CDT

Roots � Thinking of you today and every day, ever aware how fortunate I was to know Lorraine.
Meghan Harris <meghanh@nwanews.com>
Fayetteville, AR USA - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 10:59 PM CDT

Just letting you know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow. Love, Shannon
Shannon Pate <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 10:05 PM CDT

I am just so sure those shoes you bought were some "cute shoes!" She would want you to have them! She is with you always . . .
Cherryl <chall94782@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, May 10, 2006 7:31 PM CDT

I have only signed this guestbook one time before today, and that was a year ago. I read of this family in the Dem-Gaz. When I logged on to this website and read the entire journal, my heart grieved for a family that I have not ever met. I haven't missed a day of reading since. I am in awe of the daily things the Root family has endured before and after May 10, 2005. I may have a twin sister with Terrie Root. Our thoughts are so much alike in many ways. I don't claim to have gone through the same heartaches, but I have felt such sadness for you in your sad times. I have also felt your strength when you have expressed your insight on issues such as the movie on the terrorists.
I will lift up this family tomorrow morning in storms of prayers. You have touched my life.
Glynetta Burnett
Star City Arkansas
glynetta burnett <gburnett@centurytel.net>
star city, ar usa - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 2:59 PM CDT

Mrs. Root, I think about y'all and pray for you often! You may not remember me, but God is taking care of you when we don't even realize it; I can only imagine how many people you touch without ever realizing it. What a blessing Lorraine has been in my life. I can't think about any of my memories without smiling. Thank you for being faithful to the website. I have really been lifted, encouraged and inspired by your words!
Kate Guerin <kjg8@georgetown.edu>
Washington, Dc - Tuesday, May 9, 2006 11:46 PM CDT

Thinking of you, always . . .
Cherryl Hall <chall94782@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, May 9, 2006 8:05 PM CDT

lorraine was in my dreams the other night, too. i don't remember the details, but i do remember her being there just stopping by to say "hey". Gosh, I miss her.
Thinking of you guys always.
Mary Feild <mfeild@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR - Friday, May 5, 2006 10:26 PM CDT

Ultimately, don't you think everyone handles life's trials alone. People can offer advice, encouragement, discouragement. But at the end of the day, it's all about you and how you handle the feelings and events.
Jill
Little Rock, AR USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 11:10 AM CDT

Praying for you.
Anne M. Koch <annekoch@alltel.net>
Little Rock, AR - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 9:57 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you!!
Shannon PAte <shannybsp@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR USA - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 6:39 PM CDT

Mrs. Root, You are an amazing woman and such an inspiration to me. Thank you so much for sharing yourself and your journey. May God bless and keep you and yours today and always.
Anne M. Koch <annekoch@alltel.net>
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, April 27, 2006 11:26 PM CDT

Thinking of you as the one year anniversary looms. I also understand your reluctance to go to the Easter services,..just way too much joy and celebration on that particular Sunday morning. I too have a beautiful teenage daughter who is experiencing and enjoying proms and end of the year senior activites. The emotions for me are so mixed and jumbled up. I am loving this time in Casey's life, but am still in disbelief that Jae Lynn is missing all of of her senior milestones. Life moves on, as it should. Amen to the "feeling lopsided". Teary smiles like other picture taking moms, but with very different reasons. Bittersweet. Never the same.
Becky Russell <blrussel@baptist-health.org>
Jacksonville, - Tuesday, April 25, 2006 9:48 AM CDT

I thought of you yesterday when I saw a news story about a "doxie convention". Dachsund owners met up and met each others pups. I fully expected to see you and yours in that news story.

Hope Livi had a wonderful prom!
Erin (Stiles) Hunter <erinandbrit@earthlink.net>
Maumell, AR USA - Sunday, April 23, 2006 3:50 PM CDT

PROM!!!! How exciting for Livi! I'm sure Lorraine is there every step of the way. She would not miss a social function. Hope you all enjoy the upcoming weekend.
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
- Wednesday, April 19, 2006 1:40 PM CDT

oh, poor Livi! I hope she gets to feeling better soon, you guys are in my thoughts and prayers as always!
Mary Feild <mfeild@gmail.com>
Fayetteville, AR - Monday, April 10, 2006 8:05 PM CDT

Praying that Livi will get a good report at the Doctor and nothing serious. Praying for you and Larry also. May God bless all of you in a special way. 1Peter 5:7
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
seagoville, tx USA - Monday, April 10, 2006 1:03 PM CDT

Livi!
Im so sorry you are sick! Thats an awful illness to get, as well! Feel better and enjoy the slowed lifestyle as much as you can considering your spleen is at risk!
xoxoxox Brittany
Brittany Blasier <brittanyblasier@hotmail.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Sunday, April 9, 2006 1:11 AM CDT

I hope you guys are feeling better soon! In my thoughts and prayers!
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
- Friday, April 7, 2006 11:33 AM CDT

I just wanted to let you know that you all remain in my thoughts and prayers. All the best and all my love, Terryn
Terryn Weygandt
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, April 6, 2006 6:41 PM CDT

I am sorry to hear that you have pink eye Mrs. Terrie, and I hope you get to feeling better Olivia! I hope you are up and going very soon :)
Love you lots,
Hannah
Hannah Kennedy <hkenned@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR US - Thursday, April 6, 2006 10:26 AM CDT

That is something I cannot stand about our government! If the "leader" doesn't see a certain are benefitting him, he doesn't even bother to care about that area. That is not a true "leader". That is someone simply filling a position that has the the title of "leader".

Your hometown is in my prayers!
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
- Tuesday, April 4, 2006 1:20 PM CDT

Im so proud of you livi. You have so many qualities like lorraine!!! She ALWAYS STOOD up for what she believed in. I know she was standing right beside you through every minute. This site is so precious for terri and livi and ALL of her many friends. We ALL hold lorraine and her family very close to our hearts!
This is a special place for those who love and cherish lorraine!!
Alissa Willett <Arwillett@ualr.edu>
Little Rock , Ar - Monday, April 3, 2006 10:24 PM CDT

Go, Livi! Right there with ya, girl!
Cherryl Hall <chall94782@sbcglobal.net>
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, March 30, 2006 8:04 PM CST

I hope you guys are having a GREAT time on vacation!!! Livi-I hope your birthday is the BEST!!!!! I can't wait until you return.
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@Statefarm.com>
- Wednesday, March 29, 2006 8:47 AM CST

PS. Olivia Root is my hero!
Brittany Blasier <brittanyblasier@hotmail.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 9:24 PM CST

To Terri and Livi and those whom I truly adore who are connected through this website, I love you. The words of this Rose are certainly scattered with thorns, arent they? What a shame she has used them with a horrific negative result.
This is a private place for Terri and Livi to say what they need to, this isnt a chatroom. Not only that, this place is where I go, and all of Lorraine's best friends still frequent, to hold on to that last thread of her beauty and friendship. We get that through the words of Terri and Livi and not through discussions about religion.

Rose, I hope that someday you reach the hands of your maker and you are put into that final beautiful arrangement. Maybe at that point, you can take part in something that betters other's lives. Until then, your words and your thorns are not welcome here.
BRITTANY BLASIER <brittanyblasier@hotmail.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 9:21 PM CST

I do not want this journal to become a fight over people's beliefs. I feel strongly in my heart that my Emily is with the Lord even with her taking her own life. I made this pretty clear in my entry last week. This journal and Terri saved me this year. Terri helped me through many a dark day and I know she has gone through many a dark day as well as Livi. This will be my last entry on the subject of suicide. Rose you don't know what you are talking about and I have your email so I am going to get in touch with one of my friends that attends IC in North Little Rock and she will give me information I can share with you about what their church teaches. With it being of you faith maybe they can share with you that the "C" church does not teach that anymore. She even sang at Emily's funeral and she told me Emily was with the Lord and not in anymore pain. I would like to ask you but if I must I will just tell you to not read this journal, do not post on this journal and have no contact with Terri or Livi. It seems that you have an agenda and you are trying to get that agenda across on this website. As another of the writers wrote this is not a website to discuss religion. This is for Terri to share with us what it is like having lost a child and how she is getting through the journey. You must not have anything else to do. I would ask you to find something to do or some way to help people without cramming your beliefs down others throat. You have no idea how my child suffered with the illness she had. After years of the illness they aren't even the person you knew before. The can't take stress, pressure of any kind and they are in pain all the time. Mental illness causes physical illness as well. She had seizures and just got to where she didn't want to go through anymore of the pain. You must not know much but don't you know that when someone has cancer and they know they can't do anymore for them that pain medication is given and the dose is increase until it is enough that they just go to sleep and never wake up. You must be one of the most ignorant people on this earth. You are the kind of person that makes people that don't believe glad they don't. You have no idea of what you are talking about and you can't until you have walked in my shoes or any other parent that has lost a child. I again ask you to not read or write anything else on this website. If you continue to do so and make Livi and Terri's life hell I ask all of the people that read this journal and love Terri, Larry and Livi to email this woman and make her life hell. If you do not get comfort from this site stay away. If you cause Terri to stop sharing you are taking away comfort and support that others get from her writings. Just stay away no one is interested in what you have to say.

Brenda Steele <bsteele@aref.org>
North Little Rock, AR Pulaski - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 11:50 AM CST

Olivia � Lorraine was always so proud of you. And it's always been easy to see why.
Meghan Harris <meghanh@nwanews.com>
Fayetteville, AR USA - Monday, March 27, 2006 11:01 PM CST

Ok....I have had just about enough....First off Rose let me tell you sumthin, How dare you say such things to me and my mother! You have NO RIGHT to talk to us like that! NONE WHAT SO EVER! Got it? ok.. well i just want to say how sad for you i am that you seem to live in this shell and not know whats going on in the real world, i mean who does not know a love one or close friend who has commit suicide? that group is the luckiest group of people ever and im guessing you are in that group as well... But i have been through this.. my best friend that i have ever had in my entire life commit suicide 3 weeks before i lost my sister. The death was a shock to me and everyone else. This person was always sooo happy and a complete joy to be around. Now you tell me that someone like that a christian, good, loving, funny person can go to hell for one mistake? i dont think so, in fact i know thats not true. i know he's in heaven otherwise noone would be in heaven because everyone has done something wrong, even you Rose. Well anyway this person held my head high all through lorraine's coma and never let me get to upset, he always kept me laughing and trying to enjoy as much of life as possible. In other words, He saved me. Now you tell me Rose that these are the actions of someone that would go to hell? I dont think so. I know that when i go to heaven i will be greeted at the gates by those 2 goofballs that i can hardly stand waiting to see, He and Lorraine will be laughing and goofing off as i come running through to see them IN HEAVEN! As for you, i hope to see you there, but ill let you know right now that you best well NEVER speak to my mama like that again, ok? That woman has been through more than you can dream in that closed minded head of yours Rose and she deserves your respect wether you agree or not, i gave you mine till you went to far. You have now insulted me, my mother, my best friend, my other friends and anyone who has faith in that loved one that just couldnt take the pressure anymore. So i think its about time that you learn to SHUT YOUR MOUTH! bottom line- if you havent been through it then shut up b/c noone cares what you have to say about it.
Olivia Root <Akcomanniwayol@aol.com>
LR, Ar - Monday, March 27, 2006 8:04 PM CST

The one thing that needs to be pointed out to people who post comments here is that it is a "GUEST BOOK" not a "common web site" where all people should come an shoot off their opinions. This is the area to respond to a personal journal. If you really want to have a debate about your religious opinions, email the author directly, but do not make an entry herein. This is NOT the place to debate and it would not be welcome if I were the author, not because people would generally disagree, but because it is not appropriate. This is not a forum for religious debate in general. And, specific comments (attacks) on indivials mentioned in the journal entries are totally inappropriate and insensitive. Geeez!
Celia <cblasier@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Sunday, March 26, 2006 11:49 PM CST

Until about four years ago I too had the misconception that if you take your own life you are automatically going to hell. This all changed when I attended the funeral of a cousin of mine that took his own life. The preacher made a very good point that will remain with me forever. He basically said that the cause of one's death does not determine whether or not they go to heaven or hell, it is how they have lived their life up until that point and whether or not they accepted Jesus Christ as their Savior. For example, if someone dies of cancer this does not determine whether or not they go to heaven or hell. Just because someone commits suicide does not mean they are necessarily going to hell. As someone posted earlier, there is usually an underlying problem or illness that leads to suicide.
Leslie
Maumelle, AR - Sunday, March 26, 2006 7:29 PM CST

sorry i used the wrong write. i said right and how you feel when i meant WRITE. haha i get carried away sometimes.--sara
sara <lilhughzie@aol.om>
- Saturday, March 25, 2006 6:06 PM CST

thank you Mrs. Root. i liked reading todays entry because it is so very true and well said. so my say in all of this is: do as you please, you have the right to do so. i know whoever keeps on righting in the guestbook is TRYING to shift opinions but the fact of the matter is, i dont think you are the person to be critiqued (is that spelled right?) on how you right what you feel. i love you guys. youre all so nice!!! --sara
sara <lilhughzie@aol.com>
hs, ar - Saturday, March 25, 2006 6:04 PM CST

No where in your entry do you ACTUALLY quote what the Bible says about suicide. you quote scripture then you interpret it to fit suicide. big difference. please quote me the scripture that LITERALLY says if you are a Christian and you kill yourself you are going to Hell. its not there. God is a God of grace who saves us from our failures. He is the God of the 2nd chance...and the third...and the fourth. He saves us from eternal death and also from a defeated life. the greek word for grace means: "undeserved care, enearned favor." THIS is what i believe. I had a son who was raised Catholic, a very spiritual young man... for a brief minute he forgot Jesus was with him, he forgot Jesus was there beside him through whatever tribulations he was facing and he ended his life. my son is a Christian and i believe with every breath within me his soul was redeemed because i believe God forgives us and he LOVES us in spite of our sinful human nature.
linda <cindystwin@aol.com>
hot springs, ar - Saturday, March 25, 2006 5:41 PM CST

But what does the Bible say about taking your own life?

1. God has a great plan for your life. God has created us in His image (Genesis 1:26-27). He created us for a purpose. God has a specific plan in mind for everyone.
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)

2. God's plan is for life, not death. The Bible teaches that both physical and spiritual death are the result of our sin and disobedience to God, but eternal life is a gift to those who receive it.

For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 6:23)

3. Jesus taught that death and destruction are the work of "the thief" (Satan). He said, "The thief comes only to steal and destroy;" (John 10:10). John 8:44 says that Satan is a "murderer" and the "father of lies". The feelings of despair that lead to suicide are caused by some of his lies.

4. Jesus wants us to have life. He said:

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
(John 10:10)

5. Life belongs to God. It is never our place to take our own life or someone else's life.

Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own, you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)

Rose <RoWeKe@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Saturday, March 25, 2006 12:47 AM CST

i think little rose needs to read a little deeper in the bible. Jesus paid the price for our sins dear little rose. i believe in God who is forgiving of my sins just as i as my childrens mother forgive my children for the mistakes they make in life. are you REALLY saying our omnipotent God does NOT forgive us for our sins including suicide? dear little rose....he does forgive us... it says that VERY VERY clearly in the bible. what a lively discussion this message board is having. don't you know nothing gets more people riled up than politics and religion? by the way are you from texas?
linda <cindystwin@aol.com>
hot springs, ar - Friday, March 24, 2006 11:29 PM CST

Little Livi's mother should not have even posted anything about suicide on here. And, especially, she should not have posted anything negative about our Catholic schools. I as a Catholic would never even think of posting anything negative about any other faith, esp. Presbyterians. I find it awful that there are so many "bickering" posts on this site!!!!
Rose <RoWeKe@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Friday, March 24, 2006 10:57 PM CST

Livi,
Brenda said is best. Stand up for what you believe. There is One and only One who can judge and decide what is right and what is wrong. I for one would never second guess the One and wonder who would feel like they had the power to do so. You make all of us who know you proud to say that we do and I know that Lorraine is proud of her little sister.

I hope you all have a great spring break!
Candy Wilkerson
Little Rock, AR 72212 - Friday, March 24, 2006 8:43 PM CST

Well, I don't really put anything on the guest book because I talk to Terri one on one because of my loss. This is to Livi. Livi you rock and you are very brave for standing up for people that have taken their life. Many of you may think it is not God's teaching to take your own life. Well, you may think that until you have a loved one take their life one day and then you will change your mind. I lost my baby 3/11//2005 at the age of 22 from a gun shot with a 30/30 rifle to the head. Terri has been a rock for me this year. My child had bipolar disorder and in her mind she didn't think she could live with that illness. She fought hard for 3 years and had many a dark day but tried hard to get through this life. You people out there that think suicide is just taking your life don't have any idea what it is all about. Why don't you Ms. Rose come with me to one of my support meetings and get to know all the parents, brothers, sisters, friends that deal every day with the loss of their love one because they were sick and they thought that was the only way out. You say we should have prayed. Well, we did pray we believe in the power of prayer but our child was sick just as if she had cancer. If this illness has not hit your family or someone you love you are very lucky. It is one of the most awful things a person can get because there is no sure way to treat it. I watched my child die a little each day. I have family and friends that are Catholic and I have talked with several of your Catholic teachers and they don't beleive that suicide is a sin. I dare you Ms. Rose tell Livi and Terri to rethink their thoughts about this matter. This is to anyone out there that believes that it is a sin. You may come home one day and find your child, husband, wife, sister, brother or any family member or friend and they have taken their life. They do not do this just because. There is always something else going on. You may not even know it until the act happens. But let me tell you your ideas and everything you believe will change. Livi girl you keep right on going and standing up for people that can't stand up for themselves. Terri we have had several talks about our girls and what not having them has done to us. I have a daughter still alive and she takes up for Emy and people like her. You have nothing to be ashamed of about the way you taught Livi. She is the one that should be teaching the class not someone that hasn't been in the shoes of a mother that lost her child by suicide. I'm so mad about some of the entries to Livi and Terri today I want to stand up from my desk and just scream. God does not judge that way and I'm sorry for you all that thinks he does. I know my bady girl is with God because she knew God and her Lord Jesus. She just couldn't help that she was the one that got sick. I hope you Ms. Rose never get an illness like my child did and find yourself at the wrong end of the gun. Livi continue to do what you do and Terri continue to be proud of her. She will make a difference in this world she will not be sitting back being a judge of people.

Love you Livi and Terri,
Brenda Steele mother of Emily Marie Steele 8/29/82 to 3/11/05. She was a wonderful person that loved all people and never judged anyone she came in contact with. When she was so ill and was in the hospital she always tried to help others around her. She is in heaven doing what God wanted her to do she had a special place here on earth and was special in many ways. How could God put someone so special but so ill away from him. People rethink your judgement on people that complete suicide.

Brenda Steele <bsteele@aref.org>
North Little Rock, Ar Pulaski - Friday, March 24, 2006 1:58 PM CST

You taught your daughters well! Way to go Livi! I'm a Baptist and I know my husband that passed away 2 years ago and my Dad in December are both in Heaven with Lorainne!
Patty Plough <patty.plough@daltile.com>
seagoville, tx USA - Friday, March 24, 2006 12:17 AM CST

Maybe the Theology teacher and others should re-read the Bible! The only unforgivable sin is blasphemy! I personally know the friend Livi lost and he never turned his back on The Father or The Son. I feel NO ONE on this Earth has the right to judge anyone else! Let he who is without sin and judge not lest thou be judged. Funny how certain people only remember the parts they WANT to remember.

I applaud you Olivia!
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
Benton, - Friday, March 24, 2006 8:48 AM CST

Good for you, Olivia! Reading this, I wanted to stand up behind my desk at work and applaud.
Meghan <meghanh@nwanews.com>
Fayetteville, AR USA - Thursday, March 23, 2006 11:08 PM CST

I applaud the teacher that teaches Moral Theology! Our Catholic schools teach what was given to us by Jesus Himself. So, how can it be wrong? Well, it isn't. Suicide is contrary to love for the living God. It is seriously contrary to justice, hope, and charity. It is forbidden by the fifth commandment. The Catholic Church is the One, Holy, catholic (meaning universal) and apostolic church. I think little Livi and her mom should study Church History and Catholicism!!!
Rose <RoWeKe@aol.com>
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, March 23, 2006 10:57 PM CST

Please do not fault our Catholic schools for teaching Moral Theology! And, we are NOT judging anyone because our teachings were given to us by Jesus Himself. So, how can they be wrong? Well, they aren't!!! The Catholic Church is the One, Holy, catholic (meaning universal) and apostolic church. How can a church established by Jesus Himself be wrong? It isn't!!!! Suicide is contrary to love for the living God. It is seriously contrary to justice, hope, and charity. It is forbidden by the fifth commandment. Why put a child in a Catholic school if you don't want them to hear the Truth? I applaud the teacher for teaching Catholic Truth and standing up for what we know are God's teachings. Catholicism is NOT an "I'm ok, you're ok" church. Our teachings are a guide to help us live a good, moral life, but we all are sinners and there are consequences for our sins, especially Mortal sin. Maybe Livi and her mom should study Catholicism a little deeper!!!!
Rose
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, March 23, 2006 10:39 PM CST

I'm soooo proud of Livi! Not much else can get me this riled up! That territory is stomping grounds for me! People do what they need to do in this life and it is not for anybody else's judgement!
cherryl hall <chall94782@sbcglobal.net>
little rock, ar - Thursday, March 23, 2006 9:53 PM CST

way to go livi....i have a problem with anyone telling me who's going to heaven or hell and who's not. unless you've been there to see who's there and who's not then you don't know. i am so proud of you for standing up and speaking your mind.
linda hughes <cindystwin@aol.com>
hot springs, ar garland - Thursday, March 23, 2006 8:06 PM CST

Just to let you know, not ALL Catholics are like that. We're not all narrow-minded, I promise!
Jess
- Thursday, March 23, 2006 7:40 PM CST

I am glad the auction was successful! I am sorry to hear about the paperwork though.

I wanted to let you guys and all the readers of the journal know about a special family needing prayers. The Sims family is facing the loss of a child. You can visit their caring bridge site at http://www.caringbridge.org/ar/caleb/. Please keep this family in your thoughts and prayers.

God Bless you all!
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
- Tuesday, March 21, 2006 1:48 PM CST

Still Praying.... Always here

Blake Wilkerson <bmwilke@uark.edu>
Fayetteville, AR U.S. - Thursday, March 16, 2006 6:32 AM CST

those "clothes" quilts are so special. my mom had one made for me from all my sorority t-shirts from college--not things i wanted to wear anymore, but things i couldn't bear to get rid of. snuggling under my quilt, i am reminded constantly of a certain dance or formal or bid day and the people i shared those memories with.

i'm so glad you have this quilt for lorraine. i know your memories are even more cherished and precious. there's just something so comforting in having a tangible memory to cling to, isn't there?

i read your journal daily, and still pray for your family. lorraine taught me a lot, and i think of her often.

casey brown (ach teacher) <browncm@archildrens.org>
little rock, ar us - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 8:51 AM CST

I bet the quilt is just perfect! I can only imagine the stories each peice holds. I hope everytime you are able to enjoy it, all of those wonderful memories unfold.

God Bless!
Leah <leah.golleher.ns7c@statefarm.com>
- Wednesday, March 1, 2006 8:34 AM CST

thank you terrie for sharing your very soul, inner most thoughts, feelings, beliefs and memories of your childhood and of lorraine. you have bared your soul to all of us in such a public way through this journal that i feel it is inappropriate for others to judge, criticize or critique.
linda <cindystwin@aol.com>
hot springs, ar - Monday, February 27, 2006 10:41 PM CST

just remember that sunday is the lords day. the first day of the week in which we are to remember christ's death till he comes, we do this through the lords supper, and giving back to him. we are to worship him on the first day of the week as well as through out the week.
mh <crcstudent2000@hotmail.com>
- Monday, February 27, 2006 9:18 PM CST

Fried pies.....what a wonderful memory. I can still taste the ones my granny stacked between paper towels in that big brown paper bag. I haven't had a fried pie like granny's since she went to heaven. That was 15 years ago.

I don't know any of you personally but I used to be from Cabot. Thank you for sharing Lorraine. Thank you for sharing your family. Thank you for sharing the girldogs. I look forward to their "adventures" every week. I have girldogs of my own although not of the doxie variety. Thank you for sharing you. Loving thoughts and prayers from Texas.
Mindy Hollingshead <mindyh74@yahoo.com>
Little Elm, TX - Saturday, February 25, 2006 9:56 PM CST

My dear husband will always be my valentine, but the one who comes to mind first is my daughter...sorry, Dale. Girls like Valentine's Day more than guys anyway. I can understand you missing Lorraine today, and everyday.
Cecelia <cblasier@aol.com>
- Wednesday, February 15, 2006 0:11 AM CST

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