Patsy & Kenny’s Story

Site created on December 6, 2016

12/6/16   -- no need to donate to CaringBridge, but thank you all for the tributes.
If you're here, you probably know that Patsy was diagnosed with Stage 4 pancreatic cancer in November 2016. 

You may also know her as the most wonderful and also the most stubborn person in the world -- or maybe that's just my view as her daughter. Her stubborn streak is helpful when it comes to conquering malignancies, and she's prepared to put up a fight. She was in the best shape of her life prior to this diagnosis, went to two well check-ups a year (including one in mid-October that showed nothing wrong) and was asymptomatic until last month. I'm amazed she even went to the doctor for the small symptoms she did develop - a slight nausea and abdominal pain.


https://www.gofundme.com/patsykaelin  to (https://www.gofundme.com/patsykaelin  to) help with things like lawn care, laundry, and some bucket list items. xoxo

updated 08/21/18 -- Patsy's husband, Kenny, has been receiving radiation and chemotherapy for a large sinus malignancy that has spread to his eye-bone, nose and mouth. We didn't want to take over Mom's CaringBridge site, so there is also a MealTrain site for both of them: https://www.mealtrain.com/trains/m8q29l that has his updates

Newest Update

Journal entry by Brigid Kaelin

Thank you all so much for your love and support during the past few years of this cancer nightmare. Dad died peacefully and not unexpectedly. I had known he was in early active dying since April when he came along on my Scotland tour, but he was hopeful and game for an attempt at cure, as the doctors until May 31 said they did believe they could resect the entire tumor. After viewing a mid-May MRI on May 29, the neurosurgeon decided it was too far along for him to comfortable remove so much of the brain. Again -- not a surprise to me, who spent a lot of time with him and who knew my dad very well. 

He's been cremated and we are having a simple 4-hour visitation at Highlands Funeral Home Saturday June 15 from 2-6. We may all go somewhere after to relax after (a few venues have been thrown out there), but Dad did not want a typical service. I suspect we will do another big street party in September to celebrate both of my parents, who were more popular in this town than my 'celebrity' could ever reach. 

I am doing ok. I'm sure I'll lose it at some point, but I'm looking forward to traveling and getting to know my children, who have not seen the best of me since Mom's diagnosis.

Obituary ran in the Courier Journal on Tuesday:
https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/kenneth-kaelin-obituary?pid=193108985
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