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Esther, Scott, Anita, and Brooke,
This is the best explanation of “why” I have ever read. May the strength of its words help you through the new year.
"Tomorrow morning," the surgeon began,
"I'll open up your heart..."
"You'll find Jesus there," the boy interrupted
The surgeon looked up, annoyed "I'll
cut your heart open," he continued,
to see how much damage has been done ..."
"But when you open up my heart, you'll
find Jesus in there," said the boy.
The surgeon looked to the parents, who sat
quietly. "When I see how much damage has been done, I'll
sew your heart and chest back up, and I'll plan what to
do next."
"But you'll find Jesus in my heart. The
Bible says He lives there. The
hymns all say He lives there. You'll
find Him in my heart."
The surgeon had had enough. "I'll tell
you what I'll find in your heart.
I'll find damaged muscle, low blood
supply, and weakened vessels.
And I'll find out if I can make you well."
"You'll find Jesus there too. He lives there "
The surgeo n left.
The surgeon sat in his office,
recording his notes from the surgery, "...damaged aorta, damaged
pulmonary vein, widespread muscle degeneration.
No hope for transplant, no hope for cure.
Therapy: pain killers and bed rest. Prognosis:, "
here he paused, "death within one year."
He stopped the recorder, but there was
more to be said. "Why?" he asked aloud.
"Why did You do this? You've put
him here; You've put him in this pain; and
You've cursed him to an early death. Why?"
The Lord answered and said, "The boy, My
lamb, was not meant for your flock for long, for he is a
part of My flock , and will forever be.
Here, in My flock, he will feel no
pain, and will be comforted as you cannot imagine.
His parents will one day join him here,
and they will know peace, and
My flock will continue to grow."
The surgeon's tears were hot, but his
anger was hotter. "You created that
boy , and You created that hea rt. He'll
be dead in months. Why?"
The Lord answered, "The boy, My lamb,
shall return to My flock, for He has Done his duty: I did not
put My lamb with your flock to lose him, but to
retrieve another lost lamb." YOU!
The surgeon wept.. The surgeon sat
beside the boy's bed; the boy's
parents sat across from him. The boy awoke
and whispered , "Did you cut open my heart?"
"Yes," said the surgeon.
"What did you find?" asked the boy.
"I found Jesus there," said the surgeon
Without Him, I will be nothing .
Without him, I am nothing,
but with Him I can do all things
through Christ that strengthens me."
(Phil 4:13)
Love,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Monday, December 31, 2007 2:55 PM CST
I thought of you and said a prayer at our Christmas Eve church service.
sherri johnston
- Monday, December 31, 2007 8:07 AM CST
I just wanted to say hello and Wish you guys a happy new year! I think about B-EZ all of the time.
Patrick McMahon <pmacgator003@aim.com>
Charlotte, NC - Sunday, December 30, 2007 3:13 PM CST
Anita, Scott, and Brooke
There is not a day that goes by that I am not thinking of all of you and "Bran Man". I know you miss him dearly, but I also know that he is in all of your hearts and watching over everyone that loves and miss's him. He was such an amazing child that touched so many lives. I also don't understand the reason he was chosen to go thru what he and the family had to go thur, but there was a reason that none of us will ever understand. I know the holidays had to be very tough for all of you, but I know because of him you all made the best of it and I am sure he was alot of the topic of conversations.
I just wanted to write to say hello and also for you to know that I think of you every day.
Love to you all!
Lisa
Lisa Selberg <lselberg@harristeeter.com>
Matthews, NC US - Friday, December 28, 2007 7:36 AM CST
anita and scott.[and brooke]
i know this is a hard time in your lives.
honsetly i never knew that it would be this hard for me. i loved brandon soo muchh. i miss him sooo much. but i know that he is where he wants to be. he's happy with alex and dakota :]i talk to brandon all the time. i know he misses you guys, but he's always with you. dont forget that. and just know we are all thinking of ya'll. :]
"live the life you love
and love the life you live"
-bob marley-
brandon always loved life. no matter what God threw at him. he embrraced it as a good thing when everyone else didnt. he could laugh and smile when everyone around him was crying and sad. he truly loved the life he lived. and i dont think he'd change it if he could. i remeber the monday before he died i came n saw him and he remebered times that we had from when we were 7 years old. and it was remarkable for me to hear him remeber it. i could tell in his eyes he was ready to be with him grandpa and Jesus. and no matter what happens remeber that quote, and remeber "life is what you make it"
i love you guysss
Kendall Love <love2singg@yahoo.com>
monroe, NC US - Thursday, December 27, 2007 3:12 PM CST
I signed earlier but I thought I should say a little besides Merry Christmas. But I hope you had wonderful christmas or atleast tried to make the best of it. Macy and I felt like we should visit Brandon's grave often so tonight we went out. We actually found our way HAHA with Macy's driving:] It was good for us I think. Buttt I LOVE the christmas tree and windcime. It's cute. Brandon would like it. But I think we are going to go out there more often. I miss him so much. But before I spill to much I want to say I love you guys and I hope your day went okay. I would like to come visit you guys soon. Hopefully, Macy and I can soon. But just know Brandon probably had the best Christmas possible because he got to spend it with Jesus. But have a good night. I LOVE YOU !<3
Kasey Haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
ITL, NC 28079 - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 7:32 PM CST
Dearest Elam family,
You have been thought of, prayed for, and remembered during this holiday season. Another first has come, and you three have made it through. Someone gave my husband a Christmas ornament this year, (he lost his mom about a month ago) and it says, 'I love you all dearly, now don't shed a tear,. I'm spending my Christmas with Jesus this year.'
Well, we know that is easier said, than done. Just always know, tears are a language that God understands. And always know your family is so loved and cared for. Brandon would not have been the wonderful young man he was, had you not been the wonderful parents you were when he was growing up. It was so obvious to everyone that he was given so much love and knew how to show kindness and real love to everyone.He continues to bless so many. He continues to give, and his legacy continues to live.
Enjoy your getaway and try to relax all you can.!
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 8:47 AM CST
Merry Christmas Elam family. I LOVE YOU ALL!<3
Kasey Haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC 28079 - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 8:33 AM CST
Dear Elam Family,
As I sit here on Christmas Eve, I am thinking of you and your family and how hard this Christmas must be for you. Know that you have a wonderful guardian angel watching over you, wishing you the best for Christmas and for 2008. I think about Brandon all the time and try to remind myself that he is in a better place without suffering. I hope that you have a peaceful, restful holiday and I hope that you enjoy your time with Brooke and her friend in Disney World. All my love, thoughts, and prayers.
Melissa Spegal <Spegal13@uga.edu>
- Monday, December 24, 2007 4:39 PM CST
Thinking of you on this Christmas Eve. You continue to be in our prayers!
josh and lori <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc usa - Monday, December 24, 2007 7:54 AM CST
Just wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you.
I hope you are still going to Disney and have a wonderful time. I just keep thinking that our babies are gonna enjoy an awesome birthday party up there. Hope to see you soon.
Donna (Angel Asa's Mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Monday, December 24, 2007 7:43 AM CST
Dear Scott, Anita and Brooke,
I wanted to say hello and let you know that I was thinking of you all at Christmas.
God bless you all,
Kathy Jaramillo
Kathy Jaramillo <txphinfan@yahoo.com>
La Porte, TX USA - Monday, December 24, 2007 7:16 AM CST
"HI" i am a very good friend of Dana's who who probaly new.
you fought for a long time and never gave up but you were so good that god needed you really bad and did not want you to suffer any longer than you had to and probaly felt really really bad.
A good friend of Dana's Kristen Marossy
- Sunday, December 23, 2007 9:18 PM CST
Hey Elam Family,
I've been thinking about you all lately. I pray you find strength in the holidays this year. I can't imagine how you all are feeling. I want you to know I am here if you need anything. I have watched your family struggle with so many hardships and it just isn't fair for anyone to have to go through that. Remember Brandon is looking down on you all and smiling. Anita and Scott, you are the most amazing parents I have ever met. This world would be a better place if there were more people like you in it. I'd love to come by the house to see you both. It's been to long since the last time I've seen you. Oh how I miss Brandon, that smile, those eyes, and that heart. My what an amazing angel God has with him by his side. We all will get to be with Brandon again. But, for now I know Brandon would want us to live everyday with a big smile on our face and to the fullest. I love you Elam Family, keep your strength up.
God Bless you all
"You feel like a candle in a hurricane
Just like a picture with a broken frame
Alone and helpless
Like you've lost your fight
But you'll be alright
Cause when push comes to shove
You taste what you're made of
You might bend, till you break
Cause its all you can take
On your knees you look up
Decide you've had enough
You get mad you get strong
Wipe your hands shake it off
Then you Stand, Then you stand"
Rest In Peace
Brandon Elam
Brittany Poppa <jrmslvr@aol.com>
- Sunday, December 23, 2007 1:28 PM CST
Dear Esther, Scott, Anita, and Brooke,
I was watching A Christmas Carol on TV last night. The Bob Cratchit family made me think of you all (how much you loved your son/brother/grandson)and Tiny Tim made me think of Brandon (his courage, happiness, and goodness). I could just hear Brandon saying, "God bless us, everyone!" I know Brandon is with us and I am thankful that we all have another wonderful angel in heaven watching over us.
MERRY CHRISTMAS and GOD BLESS US, EVERYONE!
Love,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Saturday, December 22, 2007 11:38 AM CST
You have been on my mind lately. Please know you are in the hearts and minds of many--especially mine.
sherri johnston
- Thursday, December 20, 2007 12:59 AM CST
To Brandon's Family -
We met Brandon at the 3005 LAF Ride for the Roses. Our daughter, Catie, had osteosarcoma. We are so sorry for your loss. Catie truly connected with Brandon. She just lost her fight with cancer on December 16th. I know that they are both in Heaven and cutting up with each other. Please accept our deepest sympathy and know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Summers
Clarksville, TN USA - Thursday, December 20, 2007 3:57 AM CST
hey brandon this Giani and family. We love you. We will miss you. Mom and Dad, you know you are a strong, keep up the strength and faith. We will always keep you in our thoughts and pray. I'm glad that we got to meet going thru the same things. I really didn't know to many people because i was private about it but. i appericate everything you have done for Giani when her and brandon was in the hospital together. While im writing you this Giani is cring. We love you. you can email me or call us when every you like. Here is the information. mamitalove5@hotmail.com and 704-615-1401. Love Ya Ms Keesha and Giani and family.
Ms. Keesha Campbell/Morales <mamitalove5@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, December 19, 2007 4:59 PM CST
Wishing you a Merry Christmas! may God's peace continue to comfort you.
In Christian love,
Paula
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 11:50 PM CST
brandon i heard your voice on the radio and it was the best feeling to my ears. i cant wait to hear you again in heaven. this christmas is gonna be the best one ever for you. you actually get to spend it with Jesus and he is the reason for the season. :) cant wait to get that chance. and you know .. these days everybody thinks christmas is about buying gifts, and i admit that i buy them for people too but nobody really sits down these days and thinks about why we really do have this holiday. its for the birth of jesus and he was so strong that he sacraficed pain for everybody so they could make mistakes and smile just like what you did . i love you brandon. cant wait to see you babe, and your family means the world to me. ill most likely see this over the break. love you 3LAM-N8-CANCER
mia m.
indian trail, nc us - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 6:51 PM CST
Scott, Anita & Brooke -
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this holiday season and ALWAYS. Miss you all...
Sheila, Rob, Steven & Tyler Chaffee <sheilachaffee@charter.net>
Greenville, SC USA - Monday, December 17, 2007 8:42 PM CST
Scott and Anita, We have been thinking about you lately and praying for God to lay his hands on you. I wonder what I would do if I only had 10 minutes with one of my girls? It really makes me stop and realize how precious life is. I know if you could get that one last chance with Brandon, he would tell you you did an awesome job in raising such a sweet and caring young man. Take care throughout the holidays and know that no one will ever forget Brandon. Love, Lori Presley
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc - Monday, December 17, 2007 3:32 PM CST
You are in my thoughts so much these days. Thank you for always checking in on us, I am always happy to see a visit from you in Julia's guestbook. I know how hard this holiday season is for you, but I hope you find comfort in knowing that your family, mosst especially Brandon, is so loved and that Brandon will not be forgotten. So many speak of him so often and the things that are said would make you so proud. You are doing a fabulous job of honoring your son and that too should make you proud. Love, Kathy and Julia www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt
Kathy Nesbitt <LvR3kids@aol.com>
Wesley Chapel, NC - Saturday, December 15, 2007 2:55 AM CST
Anita,Scott and Brooke,
WOW what an powerful interview that was yesterday. Just hearing Brandon's voice on those tapes was heartbreaking but so precious to have those tapes and memories. Thanks for the phone call from Kim to let us know about the live interview as I had been out all day and had not read the web site update. Our love and prayers will be with you always.
Love,
Carol, Dale, Courntey and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Friday, December 14, 2007 4:06 PM CST
We are thinking about your family, as always. It is so wonderful that Brooke and her friends work at PRHS with us!! It is so nice to see the three girls every week. Hope to see you guys Wednesday afternoon. :-) Miss you!!
Chantelle Swanger <chantelle.swanger@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, December 13, 2007 10:23 AM CST
INTERVIEW UPDATE...www.WSOC-TV.COM
Anita and Scott's interview will air TODAY...November 13, 2007 on WSOC-TV - 6PM NEWS
kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, December 13, 2007 9:22 AM CST
Dear Scott, Anita, and Brooke,
You all are doing a lot of great things to keep Brandon's memory alive and to try to fill the empty place that lives within your heart. My Christmas wish for you is..for the hurt to stop hurting and for you to feel totally at peace, even if it is just for a few moments. May God always be with you.
Love,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Thursday, December 13, 2007 9:17 AM CST
Elam Family:
I am praying for you as always and always remembering Brandon. Ya'll are truly amazing and shine with God's love.
Kristie
Wesley Chapel, NC - Thursday, December 13, 2007 7:49 AM CST
Dear Prayer Pals,
¨ Anita and Scott did a follow up interview with Jim Bradley on Wednesday. (WSOC-TV) It should air Monday…I will let you know times as soon as I know.
¨ In honor of Brandon, Anita and Scott are working the Telethon with Tony and Jen – They are scheduled today starting at 4pm and will work until 7pm answering phones for the Telethon. Tune in to Lite 102.9
The Eighth Annual Lite102.9 Our Kids Come First Radiothon, presented by Scott Clark's Toyota City,
will broadcast LIVE from the new Levine Children's Hospital THIS Thursday-Sunday.
collectively, the Lite102.9 Radiothon has raised over $2.1 million for sick and injured children.
100% of funds raised provide lifesaving equipment that benefits children right here in our area.
100% will make sure all kids have the very finest chance at a healthy life, through care at the Levine Children’s Hospital at Carolinas Medical Center. You can make a real difference!
¨ If you visit Brandon’s graveside during this Christmas season, you may want to add personal messages to his Christmas tree. Anita and I cut circles of blue paper to write messages. We put clear packing tape on both sides of the circle ornament to preserve the message. We put a hole in the top of the circle for an ornament wire to hang on the tree. It would be great if you made paper ornaments and added your personal message to Brandon’s Tree.
¨ You could also visit Brandon’s Tree at The Divide Golf Club. You will recognize Brandon’s Tree when you see the Blue Ribbon and His photo Button! It is near the clubhouse on “The Divide” . Feel free to leave messages on Paper Ornaments.
¨ Scott and Anita did not give us any ideas as to how we could Honor Brandon for Christmas. I want to pass along what our family is doing. We are writing a check for $100.00 to ELAM-N8 CANCER. We are shopping for Brooke only per Anita and Scott’s request. They cannot think about gifts for anyone other than Brooke.
¨ We want to be thinking about hosting a Golf Tournament in the Spring to kick-off funds for ELAM-N8 CANCER. The bank account is established and checks can be made to ELAM-N8 CANCER. Funds are designated for the future foundation. As long as paperwork is in process, fundraising can be take place as “advertised” functions. I know from experience, that Robin and I cannot handle all the aspects of a tournament…I personally don’t understand golf. We have a lot of guys who have much more experience…so if you know someone who would like to help…please, please, please, invite them to do so! I believe that “us girls” can handle the food, etc… but not the tournament specifics. Please correct me if I am wrong!
¨ Checks made out to ELAM-N8 CANCER can be mailed to:
ELAM-N8 CANCER
C/O The Brandon Elam Fund
PO Box 2242
Matthews, NC 28106
¨ We have more of Brandon’s ELAM-N8 CANCER buttons and armbands. Just let me know if you need more. All of these donations still go towards the Brandon Elam Fund which helps with (never ending ) medical expenses. Dear God please help us correct this in our world! How can a parent deal with medical expenses when their child battles for their life? And the medical expenses that come rolling in when their child earns their wings? For all of the parents reading this, I pray that you have adequate insurance and life insurance for your children!
¨ Please mark your calendar for March 15th, 2008!
March 15th is the 2nd Annual Birthday Bike Ride for Brandon! Porter Ridge Interact Club, 24-Hours of Booty, HT-Naturals, Hometown Heroes and many sponsors are joining together once again in Honor of Brandon. There will be lots of added activities that you won’t want to miss! Please mark your calendar now and look for more details soon! The attached song was written for Brandon…I believe you will hear this LIVE on March 15th!
Please continue to leave lots of messages for Brandon’s family at www.BrandonElam.com
With much love and thankfulness for each of you as Brandon’s friend and beloved Prayer Pal,
Kim Bellinghausen
Prayer Pal Prayers are Powerful
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for,
it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.
For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them."
Matthew 18:19-20
kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews , NC 28106 - Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:39 AM CST
Dear Prayer Pals,
Your continued prayers and support for Brandon’s family are wonderful gifts of love. Thank you for your faithfulness.
It has been 72 days since our beloved Brandon first danced with Jesus in Heaven. As beautiful as this must be for him, it is equally painful for us without him in this world. Over 138,000 visits to Brandon’s CaringBridge website is just a tiny glimpse as to how much he touched others lives. His joyful spirit, courage, strength, positive winning attitude, sense of humor, determination, sparkling eyes, contagious smile, caring heart, & gracefulness, grounded us with knowledge of what is important in our daily lives. Brandon never met a stranger and he never left anyone feeling empty. We were drawn to him by his smile and his warmth. He was a very bright light shining in this world. He shared God’s love and Grace and gave us every reason to believe that he was completely at peace with his life and that he certainly knew where he was going. He loved deeply and he cared immensely for his family including his beloved CoCo, his friends, and all people. Brandon’s footprints are on our hearts forever. Thoughts of him always brings smiles… …big smiles…even through the tears…there are endless smiles.
Brandon’s friends so eloquently stated these words at the end of his video tribute, http://www.videofiend.com/Brandon-Elam-Tribute-3195949.aspx “In Brandon’s sixteen years, he touched more hearts than most people do in sixty. No one will ever forget you, Brandon. And we will do whatever it takes to… ELAM-N8 CANCER!”
Dear God,
We lift up Anita, Scott, and Brooke and ask that Your Peace will fill their hearts and give them rest. Please fill their thoughts with endless memories of Brandon and joyous anticipation for when they meet him in Heaven with You.
Dear God we pray for Anita and Scott as You reveal to them Your vision for ELAM-N8 CANCER and how their precious Brandon’s journey home paved the way for helping more of Your children.
Dear God, Bless the Elam family and all of Brandon’s friends with Your continued strength. Please continue to give our hands the opportunity to do Your Work and our hearts the Peace and Grace to share Your Love.
Dear God we thank you for Anita, Scott, and Brooke, who are amazing. They continue to do all the things that Brandon loved and wanted them to do. Because they love him so much, they are able to reach out to others even while their hearts are shattered and while it’s difficult to just breathe in and breathe out. They are teaching us without knowing just how much we are learning by their example.
Dear God you know the desires of our hearts as we pray. Help us to trust in You for all our needs. Thank you for hearing our prayers. Amen.
Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:33 AM CST
Your friends at Hemby Bridge think and talk about Brandon and your family often. My hope is that, somehow, you can find something sweet in the holidays together. We are dedicating a brand new PANTHERS book in the media center in Brandon's memory.
Susan Shikany
- Wednesday, December 12, 2007 5:37 PM CST
Scott, Anita, Brooke, & The Elam Family
Just want you all to know that my thoughts and prayers are with each of you every day. I read this website often and am so touched by all the entries. The entry to Brandon from Josh Hill says so much. Brandon left us all with memories that will never be forgotten and he is missed by all of us every day. Even the people who never met him are touched by his life. Know that we are here if you need us for anything. We love you guys and wish you a Holiday Season filled with "Peace". May you find comfort in knowing our thoughts and prayers are with you daily.
Linda, Robert, Justin & Lauren <Linda.kincaid@piedmontng.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2007 3:08 PM CST
Hello Elams,
I just want to take the time to send my wishes to you on the up comming holiday. It's seems odd to me to tell you to have a Merry Christmas when I know it's going to be so hard for you all. But know that you are surrounded by love and prayers. The new pic of Brandon is wonderful. It's good to see that smile. We think of you all often. Please, if there is anything you need let us help. We would be so honored to help you in some way. Take Care of yourselves.
Love, Chrissy
Chrissy Poppa <argm20@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, nc - Wednesday, December 12, 2007 11:33 AM CST
Hello Precious Elam Family,
Just wanted you to know you are not far from my thoughts and always in my prayers. Another first is coming up for you and once again, I cannot imagine what you are going through, but pray for strength for all of you. And what an honor it is to me to be able to say I was one of Brandon's thousands of friends...He blessed so many by just being himself. And you are blessed to call him son and brother.....Keep the faith..keep the strength! Brandon taught all of us the meaning of inner strength.
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, December 11, 2007 7:43 PM CST
Anita, Scott and Brooke,
You are always on our hearts and minds. Our prayer is for you to have peace and be able to get through this holiday season. Brandon will always be a special part of this community and we all know that he was "one of a kind" and truely a HERO. We thank your family for sharing your journey with us and remember he will not be forgotten.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Tuesday, December 11, 2007 4:13 PM CST
I like the new picture. Everytime I write that I think about you each day I wonder if you believe me--but it's true. All of you have made a deep impression on me and many others. You really are in my thoughts each day...
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, December 11, 2007 9:48 AM CST
HI hon, I know words are meaningless right now so I'll just keep praying for you all. I wish I could take the pain off of the family and replace it with a feeling of peace but I can't. but I know God can. And someday he will.
Love you all and hope to see you soon.
Aunt Bernie
Bernadette <msbernadette49@aol.com>
NPR, FL - Monday, December 10, 2007 7:39 PM CST
Dear the Elam family,
I am praying for u even if i was never that close to your family. Have a Merry Christmas and remember the good times.
Kenzie
Indian trail, NC - Saturday, December 8, 2007 1:47 PM CST
Bran.
I miss you so much man, i just cant explain how much i miss you already. Im sitting here trying to think of what to say, but all i think about is how happy you gotta be up there. I cried pretty bad at your funeral, but now i realize those were tears of joy for you man. I miss you so much and wish you were still here, and i think about you every single day. I remember when your dad read my entry at the funeral and i cried and remembered the days we played together and how good of a friend you were. now that alex kahle's gone too, im sure pr's hurtin pretty bad. theres not a day that goes by that i dont think about you and how much of a hero you are for me. you keep me goin man. i love you so much bro.
Josh Hill <hollisterbro24@aim.com>
Mint Hill, NC US - Friday, December 7, 2007 6:28 PM CST
Oh Brandon, how I miss you. Life is so empty without you here. I know you are in Heaven with Papa, and I know you two are so happy, but as Mommy says I am selfish I want you back. You were the light of my life, I find it hard to get up each day without you here. I will always love you my sweet man, I will forever be your proud MamaLou. Give Papa a kiss and hug for me. I love you both.
Esther Miele <mamawuu@coppernet.com>
- Friday, December 7, 2007 5:36 PM CST
Hey Scott, Anita, and Brooke..
Just wanted to drop a line that I'm thinking and praying for you all. Take Care of Yourselves. Love, Chrissy
Chrissy Poppa <argm20@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, December 6, 2007 7:28 AM CST
Dear Elam family,
I have had computer problems lately and couldn't write anything until today, but I wanted you to know that I was thinking of you on the 2nd. I pray for some comfort for you all and the strength to make it through Christmas and the future without your dear Brandon.
God bless,
Kathy Jaramillo
Kathy Jaramillo <txphinfan@yahoo.com>
La Porte, TX USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 6:48 PM CST
Hi Anita and Scott and Brook,
I keep up with your journal entries and read it often. I thought about you all on Thanksgiving and said a prayer. Christmas, I know will be tough this year, but you are doing the right thing. We will be at Disney about the same time Dec. 29-Jan 3, so I will keep an eye out for you. Take Care, you are a true inspiration to all. May God Bless you, always!! Love, Barrett
Barrett Bumgardner <barrybug68@yahoo.com>
Gastonia, nc - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 3:04 PM CST
Everyone who comes into my office is immediately drawn to the wonderful tribute to Brandon that you brought me. I guess you will never know the people that all of you have touched. I cannot imagine how hard this time of year is for all of you. Please, please know how much we all care about you.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:34 AM CST
Someone sent me this today. I thought of you.
Christmas In Heaven
I see the countless Christmas trees
Around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
Reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular,
Please wipe away the tear.
For I am spending Christmas with,
Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs,
That people hold so dear.
But the sounds of music can't compare,
With the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,
The joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
To hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart.
But I am not so far away,
We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas,
With Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift,
From my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory,
Of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift,
More precious than pure gold.
It was always most important,
In the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other,
As my Father said to do.
For I can't count the blessing or love,
He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and,
Wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with,
Jesus Christ this year.
This poem was written by a 13 year old boy who
Died of a brain tumor that he had battled for four years.
He died on December 14, 1997.
He Gave this to his mom before he died. His name was Ben.
Debra Schulze <short1djs@yahoo.com>
Branchburg, NJ USA - Monday, December 3, 2007 3:37 PM CST
2 months today.*sigh*...Merry Christmas Elam Family! God Bless, FROG, and B+!!!!! May Brandon live on forever.....!~*MoRgAn*~!
Morgan Taylor <nagrom12345678@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 2, 2007 3:10 PM CST
hi, you don't know me but i stumbled across your daughter lindsay's myspace. i saw you lost your son and truly am sorry. I've a sophmore at Bishop Dwenger and i lost my brother 6 months ago. It is hard but you have to look to the people you love for support.
Kourtney Simpkins <k182blinks@aim.com>
Fort Wayne, IN - Friday, November 30, 2007 9:50 AM CST
hi. i havent signed in a while. ive been so busy with basketball lately. but i wanted to let you know this past tuesday night we had a home game agaisnt weddington. before we went out on the court the team got together and prayed and told each other this game is from brandon and alex. i in fact got teary eyed. i miss him so much but i continue to tell myself hes in a better place watching over me. i have no idea how you guy have managed to handle this. theres not a second in the day your son is not on my mind. im hoping to see yall soon. i miss you alot! i heard yall came out tonight for a speech at school. im sure it was amazing just like you :) but i love you more than anything in this world.!!!
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 29, 2007 9:15 PM CST
Hey Elam family, I am still praying for your family. I pray that God will give you strength an happiness through the holidays. My husband an I will continue to pray for the family.
With Love
May God Bless
Sheena Aldridge <aldridge_sheena@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, November 29, 2007 11:07 AM CST
Hey Elam Family, I'm am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, as I always do. I miss you all so very much. I pray God gives you strength during the upcoming holidays. Your son is forever missed and loved.
God Bless
Love you
Brittany Poppa <jrmslvr@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 29, 2007 10:40 AM CST
o my god, i get so upset when i think of him he was so special he touched so many peoples hearts. Brandon was a very spacial person to fight all the way. Brandon was sent to us for a reason and someday we will all be up in heaven with him!
samantha moore <samiosa100@hotmail.com>
monroe, nc us - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 8:36 PM CST
Elams,
I am lifting you guys up in prayer today, as I do every day. I know this holiday season will be so hard for you, but just know you have many people praying for you and standing by you. I hope you guys had a good day today.
Leslie <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 7:11 PM CST
Anita, Scott and Brooke, Just wanted to let you know that we are praying for you.
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc 28227 - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 4:00 PM CST
Scott, Anita & Brooke -
We think about you all the time and trust that God will bring you peace, comfort and understanding. We cannot imagine how difficult the holidays must be (and will be) for you...please know that we love you, you are in our prayers, and we think of you ALL the time. Please call or email if you need anything.
Sheila, Rob, Steven & Tyler Chaffee <sheilachaffee@charter.net>
Greenville, SC USA - Tuesday, November 27, 2007 11:01 AM CST
Hello Elam Family,
I just wanted to say hey, and to let you know that your family is still in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you were ablt to make the best of your Thanksgiving, and I will continue to pray for you guys to get through the rest of the holidays!
Love Coach Brown
Catie Brown <catherine.brown@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Tuesday, November 27, 2007 10:57 AM CST
As promised I said a prayer for all of you at our Thanksgiving dinner. I was more grateful for my family than ever before.
sherri johnston
- Monday, November 26, 2007 11:14 AM CST
Dear Elam Family,
Just wanted you to know the Bennett family said grace at Thanksgiving and lifted all of you up and ask the Lord to keep you strong for one of your many 'firsts' you have to go through.
Love you all!
Shirley B <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Saturday, November 24, 2007 3:27 PM CST
I will be thinking about you and praying for you during the holiday season. Coach Helms
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Saturday, November 24, 2007 2:04 PM CST
Brandon,I go to piedmont but I truly respect you and yor family. Thank you for opening my eyes that death isn't scary.The scary part is loosing the ones you love.
Ashley Meer <coolieoxo13@aol.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Saturday, November 24, 2007 7:58 AM CST
Brandon, I think about you often just like many others do. Today must be really tough on your family, but I am sure you are watching over them. Holidays like this are always hard when your missing someone you love so much, but I do know for a fact they are thankful for every minute they shared with you. I am very thankful for you,thankful that you were able to live as long as you did, I know 16 years doesn't seem long, but you accomplished more in those 16 than many people accomplish in a life time. I am thankful for the lessons you taught me, for the joy your brought to your parents and Brooke's life, the way you fought to keep your beautiful smile on your face even when it hurt the most,and the good times we had on the play ground at Hemby Bridge. I don't look back and regret anything..I look back and count the many blessings you brought to some many peoples lives. I will forever continue to pray for your family. I pray that your family finds comfort in their lives just by knowing you are experiencing it all with them because you are in their hearts experiencing every holiday, birthday, family get together, and many other good times. God is watching over them and I know for a fact you are too. Meet me at the gates someday.
Heather
Heather Fisher <heather_fisher09@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC US - Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:58 PM CST
Scott, Anita and Brooke,
We were in Columbia today but our thoughts were with each of you. May God watch over you and comfort you this holiday season. Just remember that you have so many friends that love and care for your family deeply. Brandon is in our hearts forever.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:23 PM CST
Thinking of you and your family today!
So THANKFUL to have know Brandon and to carry his smile in my heart!
Love,
Nicole
Nicole Berkhout <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
Davidson, nc - Thursday, November 22, 2007 4:38 PM CST
Scott, Anita, and Brooke,
We wanted to let you know that we were thinking and praying for you guys today. We are thankful for the opportunity to get to know and love all of you. Brandon made our lives richer and fuller.
In Christ,
Pastor Earl and Kim Bradshaw <earlbradshaw@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Thursday, November 22, 2007 11:51 AM CST
Thinking about you guys today. In my prayers, always.
God Bless
-The Furgurson's
Kelli Furgurson <kefdb582@email.cpcc.edu>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, November 22, 2007 11:41 AM CST
With special thoughts of you today.....you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers each and every day.
Love,
Lisa, John, Erik & Alek Schoenberger
Lisa Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, November 22, 2007 11:01 AM CST
Anita, Scott and Brooke,
Happy Thanksgiving! I have to tell you that one of the things I am most thankful for on this day is that I had the chance to know your amazing son and your family. I can't imagine how hard this time has been for you and want you to remember how many people out here love you so much. I know Brandon is watching down on all of you and would be heartbroken to see you so sad. Remembering his smile makes me feel better on any day when
I am feeling sad. We are all better people to have known him and he taught so many people how to live even when he was fighting to. You hold your heads up high and always keep keep fighting to find your way. Brandon would have wanted it that way, I just know it. The memories you made with Brandon on earth will last forever. I love and adore you all and will keep you in my heart and prayers for always. I love you, Jen Byrum
Jen Byrum <jenniferbyrum@clearchannel.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:47 AM CST
Dear Elam family,
I just wanted to drop a quick line and let you all to know that I was thinking of you on Thanksgiving.
Take care and God bless,
Kathy Jaramillo
Kathy Jaramillo <txphinfan@yahoo.com>
La Porte, TX USA - Thursday, November 22, 2007 7:38 AM CST
Thinking about you all today as everyday. I hope you have a great Thanksgiving. Talk to you soon
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Thursday, November 22, 2007 6:37 AM CST
I am so thankful to have met such wonderful people and to have you in our lives. Brandon is with us each week in clinic, I promise you. We speak of him and sometimes smile, sometimes cry, but he is not forgotten. Neither are you!!! Prayers for this tough Thanksgiving and may you feel Brandon's love for the three of you as you gather together. You are all in my prayers today, as always.
Kathy www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt
Kathy Nesbitt <Lvr3kids@aol.com>
Wesley Chapel, NC - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 11:53 PM CST
I am thankful for having known Brandon. Hope you have a blessed Thanksgiving. Praying that God continues to give you strength.
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 8:45 PM CST
Tomorrow we will be giving thanks that Brandon touched our lives - he continues to be an inspiration in how we live our lives. Hugs to you all from Raineys Gramma and Grampa
Susan & Pat Skinner <justsjs@aol.com>
Ellijay, Ga USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 6:41 PM CST
I imagine this Thanksgiving will likely be the hardest you'll ever have. We're thinking about you, and wishing you peace.
Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 2:45 PM CST
Please know that I'll be thinking about you on Thanksgiving.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, November 20, 2007 1:36 PM CST
Anita, I can't begin to understand your heartache, so I can't say I know how you feel. No one knows unless they have been through it. All I can do is continually to pray for you and Scott and Brooke to get through another day and get stronger with time. No one can understand why Brandon. No one can understand why Alex. God's reasoning is totally beyond ours. We know HE knows best....but again.....why them?
Again...the prayers never cease, and Brandon's sweet face is always close by for all to see. And you are all loved.
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 10:07 AM CST
Hi Elam's! Just wanted to say Hello and let you know how much we are thinking of you all! I know this is going to be a hard time for you guys, so I wanted to tell you we will be praying for you! I know you have wonderful memories of your precious son, try to focus on those during the Holidays! When my grandfather passed and I was grieving so hard someone said to me, not to wish him back, because he wouldn't want to come. I try to think the same about your wonderful son. I catch myself smiling sometimes thinking about how healthy and happy he is now. I know how great your pain must be, I pray God will continue to give you comfort. As always, thank you for sharing your son with us! WE love you all SO MUCH!!! I hope we can get together soon, if I don't talk to you before, have a wonderful Thanskgiving!!!
Chad & Ashley Lewis, the kids too!! <calewis@american-broadband.com>
Indian Trail, nc us - Monday, November 19, 2007 3:02 PM CST
Hi Elam's,
Anita, You all are so brave. I believe you are going to make it through these tough times. You are so gracious to everyone, and so open about your thoughts. I really admire you for that. I am not sure how I would handle it. You are so blessed to have such wonderful friends, and community support. Please know that I think of you all often and pray for your peace. Keep up the good work, you are a true inspiration to all. <>< Barrett
Barrett Bumgardner <barrybug68@yahoo.com>
Gastonia, nc gaston - Sunday, November 18, 2007 10:48 PM CST
Scott, Anita and Brooke-
Just want you to know we are still thinking about you each day and the wonderful memories of Brandon. It makes us proud to wear our braclets and talk about our strong Hero when people ask what they are for. Stay strong for each other and lean on God to help you through. Take care.
Kim & Cameron Justice <Just4Cameron@msn.com>
Mint Hill, NC - Sunday, November 18, 2007 9:15 PM CST
Anita when I saw this I thought of you and your family,
Logan is a 13 year-old boy who lives on a ranch in a very
small town in Nebraska. Logan listens to Christian Radio station 89.3FM KSBJ which broadcasts from Houston, TX. Logan called the radio station...well you have to hear it for yourself, his words have wisdom beyond his years.
Since airing the audio of the phone call and now the making of the video clip, it has taken on a life of its own. People are forwarding it all over the world. We encourage you to share the love of Christ with anyone you can.
Kim <dvandermast@yahoo.com>
Rockingham, NC - Sunday, November 18, 2007 8:05 AM CST
Dear Scott, Anita, and Brooke,
Each year as my mom and Bill's parents get older I find myself getting sadder and sadder around the holidays. I begin projecting what our holidays will be like in the future without them and wondering if this will be the last one we spend together. The sadness you feel when you lose someone you truly love is so deep that it goes to your very core. There is no other pain like it.
Last week I was down at my mom's house for a few days; during that time I helped her get out her extensive collection of Christmas decorations. As I brought the boxes down from the attic I found myself thinking about having to go through all of her Christmas treasures when she's gone. I broke down in front of her, and then so did she when I told her why I was crying. On my 1 1/2 hour drive home I cried the whole way. I was still crying when my husband got home. He understood why I was sad and crying but he told me, "We have to look for the good in things." I know that he is right.
This will be an extremely hard Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year for you this year; but, Brandon will be there helping you to get through it.
I told Esther that this Thanksgiving I am going to focus on how thankful I am that you all and Brandon crossed my path. Because of you, I am a little bit better person...and that is a good thing.
My heartfelt love,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Sunday, November 18, 2007 7:58 AM CST
While I have never met Brandon, my children, the Andrejchak's are around the neighborhood when visiting their father. I heard from my daughter they may have taken him brownies a while back. I, like the other guest book visitors, wish I knew what could ease the pain of the loss of child, brother and friend for your family and his friends. I pray that Brandon knows the outpouring of love that is still coming for him and you, including the tree planting on Saturday in his honor. There is a country song about the holes in the floor of heaven where our loved ones can watch down. I can't imagine that they can't and that Brandon is now watching out for his sister and his family. God Bless all of you and I pray for God to help give you strength and courage to continue on despite the struggles and pain that have been dealt upon you.
Elizabeth Oates <eoates@centurionpartners.net>
concord, nc - Friday, November 16, 2007 1:15 PM CST
Scott, Anita & Brook - I am a Shannamara neighbor who has prayed in the background, but I've always kept up with Brandon's journey. As a mother myself I am so encouraged by your strength Anita. You're hurting I can tell but you are so courageous as you make yourself vulnerable to others in sharing such touching reflections of your son. As you share I find it hard to read sometimes because I imagine how it would feel to lose our son or daughter. We too are a 1 boy and 1 girl family. I still wake up daily and think of you and your family, what you're doing that day, how it went when Scott had to return to work and everything you've known about your day for 3 years has suddenly changed, how Brook is holding up, how Scott is feeling as he holds his family together. It is apparent that God has not taken His hands off of your family. You are courageous, faithful to each other and unendingly grateful to others. My husband and I have lost 4 babies through miscarriage and when people hear that they tend to feel sad for us but I always say this...I'm honored to have the Heavenly Father raise 4 of our children. He's now got a great helper in Brandon- he was a fine gentleman and he immulated Jesus to others in everything he did! Thank YOU for sharing Brandon's journey with us and thank you for continuing to journal here so that we can all know how you're doing. You are all loved and cared for in a very special way. The Brandon Elam Tree ceremony is the highlight of my Saturday!
By the way - Mark Schultz also wrote a song A Cloud of Witnesses. If you don't have the song on a CD I would be glad to share it with you. I truly believe Brandon welcomed the PR student this past week! This song reflects God's heart for that.
I'll continue to be faithful in praying for you all!
Patti Weirich <pweirich1@yahoo.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, November 15, 2007 9:16 PM CST
Elam Family,
I just wanted you guys to know that I am still praying for you guys and thinking about you all every day. I am so sorry that you are all going through so much pain. Anita, I am sending you a hug right now. Please let me know if there is ever anything you need.
We would love to have you guys visit our church some time, too. I have talked to Scott about it in the past, and I just wanted to put the invitation back out there for you. We go to Charlotte South Fellowship right down the road from where you guys live. Brandon wouldn't have been such a great kid without an awesome family, and I admire each of you as much as I did him. I pray for your pain to ease just as I prayed for Brandon's to improve.
Leslie <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, November 15, 2007 8:37 PM CST
Scott, Anita and Brooke,
Just reading the update makes my heart ache so much for ya'll. We know Brandon is not in pain any more but we do ask why him? I just wish we could help take away some of the hurt for each of you. I think of you all the time and have Brandon still close to my heart. People still ask about the bracelet and the button for Brandon. We are wanting to carry on his memory and keep his spiirit alive. When you are ready we will be there for you to help with the foundation for ELAN-N8 CANCER. Just remember we love ya'll so much. Our prayers are with you each and every day.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, November 15, 2007 12:39 AM CST
Hi Anita, Scott and Brooke, Don't ever feel bad about the sharing feelings with anyone. Whether they are positive or negative does not matter. The fact that you share is all that is important. God has us here for each other to lean on and you have so many friends and family members for just that. I totally agree with you about the "10 minute" plan but from our faith comes the peace knowing you have the best GUARDIAN ANGELS doing that for you. Henry and I think of you and keep you in our prayers. We love you guys and you will definelty be at our table on Thanksgiving Day right along with Brandon.
Kim & Henry Myers <kim@hhrnc.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, November 15, 2007 12:37 AM CST
Hi Elam family,
It's always good to hear from you. Everytime you post a new entry I always take the time to read it. It does mean alot to me as well. But I read about how hard it is for you right now. And I just want to say I admire you guys for all you have been through. Brandon was very brave and he put up a good fight until he couldn't no longer. I was talking to someone the other day about Brandon and Alex. I remember saying to them, you know God took them for a reason. He apparentlly has a different plan for the two of them. But you know if they had to the choice to stay in Heaven or come back I do believe they would stay. Not because they weren't happy here don't get me wrong but only because well Brandons finally content, hes free of pain, free of worry. He knows and you know you'll be able to unite again one day. I do realize Thanksgiving and Christmas will be tough for you guys but you will continue to be in my prayers. Stay strong and I love you all so much.
Kasey Haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 9:36 PM CST
Anita, Scott and Brooke,
We still think of you and only wish we could make the hurt go away. I know the holidays are going to be very hard for you. Brandon, our angel in heaven, will surely be looking down on you during this time. I'm glad we have this website to check in on you. You're in our prayers!
Janice Rappleyea <jrappleyea@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, nc - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 4:17 PM CST
Anita, Scott and Brooke,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you always. I never met Brandon however my son and daughter knew him. I want to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving and A Merry Christmas. The 1st ones are hard.
Tony & Lisa Faulkenbury
Monroe, NC USA - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 3:33 PM CST
Thank you for sharing your updates with us. I never had the pleasure of meeting Brandon personally but my daughter knew him and I can't imagine what you and your family have gone through. I too was at the funeral of another teenage last week and I cried the whole time because it was so heartbreaking. It is hard to understand where you get the strength to carry on after such a tragic thing happens. I just pray that you and your family will find comfort and peace and that you feel God's presence with you surrounding you where ever you go. My family will keep you in our prayers. God bless you.
Judith Cox Lee <sportzmom09@carolina.rr.com>
- Wednesday, November 14, 2007 12:16 AM CST
Your updates are poignant and touching--they help us understand, in a miniscule way, how you, Scott and Brooke are feeling. I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say we all wish we could ease your pain in some small way. I promise that I will say a prayer at our Thanksgiving table. It will be a prayer that gives thanks that I know all of you, including Brandon.
sherri johnston
- Wednesday, November 14, 2007 9:30 AM CST
I wish I had the right words to say. But nothing I say will bring your precious baby back, and I can only imagine how tough the holidays are going to be for you. Just please know you are ALWAYS in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 8:43 AM CST
Anita, Scott and Brooke, I just wanted to let you know that we are praying for you everyday. I know that the upcoming holidays will be so hard, but I hope that the memories you have of Brandon will bring a smile to your face. Keep your faith and know that Brandon is always looking down over you. Love, Lori, Josh, Catelyn and Alli
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 7:42 PM CST
Hey guys, Just want to let you know we're still thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.
Tara
- Tuesday, November 13, 2007 11:14 AM CST
There will be a tree planting in celebration of Brandon this Saturday, November 17th between 8:30 - 10:00am at The Divide golf course. If you would like to come, please do! If you need additional info, please contact Kurt or Nicole Pearson at 704-882-4127 or nikkimo5@aol.com
Nicole Pearson <nikkimo5@aol.com>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 7:02 AM CST
There will be a tree planting in celebration of Brandon this Saturday, November 17th at The Divide golf course between 8:30 - 10:00. If you would like to come, please feel free to do so. If you need additional info, please contact Kurt or Nicole Pearson at 704-882-4127 or nikkimo5@aol.com
Nicole Pearson <nikkimo5@aol.com>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 6:45 AM CST
Elam Family,
We never had the honor of meeting Brandon but shared in his Journey through your website and Pastor Earl Bradshaw. On Nov. 3rd my daughters age 9 and 5 had a Lemonade stand for Alex's lemonade and raised $120. The donation was made in honor of Brandon. We would love to know how we can help with raising funds for Elam N8 cancer. Not a day goes by that you are not in mine and my familys prayers.
Tracy Jollie <tjsfyi@gmail.com>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Monday, November 12, 2007 4:00 PM CST
Hi everyone. I've been thinking about all of you. My boss was in my office on Friday and she was looking at the postcard from Brandon's 16th birthday party. It's taped up in my office. We all miss him.
sherri johnston
- Monday, November 12, 2007 3:27 PM CST
Whispers From Heaven
by Marilyn Ferguson
They say that life is fleeting
I know that this is true
I left this world so quickly
With no goodbye to you.
I know how much you miss me
Your tears fall ever light
The pillow where you lay your head
Is wet with them at night.
I know your heart is hurting
The words we left, unsaid
I love you’s left unspoken
Are spinning in your head.
The strength that I have carried
That served to make you whole
Remains to make you stronger
Within your grieving soul.
For you see, while you were weeping
On the day I passed away
At the gravesite near the flowers
Where my loved ones knelt to pray.
An angel came to see me
She took me by the hand
She led me to a kingdom
In a very distant land.
As I look down from the heaven
And see you standing there
Your heart so ever burdened
With more weight than it can bear.
I long to bring you comfort
I long to give you peace
I long to hold you closely
Cause all your tears to cease.
The joy I’ve found in heaven
Goes far beyond compare
The love that’s so elusive
Can be found here everywhere.
The light is softly shining
There’s no storm clouds here or rain
There’s no teardrops found in heaven
There’s no suffering, there’s no pain.
You needn’t be so troubled
Stay close to God and pray
That someday we’ll be together
One bright and glorious day.
So my love, you shouldn’t question
My dear you need not cry
I’ve gone to be with Jesus
I really didn’t die.
©2004 Marilyn Ferguson
With heartfelt condolence.
Millie- nurse & grandmother of a grandson in heaven with Brandon
Huntersville, NC U.S. - Monday, November 12, 2007 12:56 AM CST
Just letting you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rhonda Lisk <teamlisk@aol.com>
Matthews, NC 28104 - Monday, November 12, 2007 10:44 AM CST
Never far from our thoughts - today and everyday.....
Lisa Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC 28104 - Monday, November 12, 2007 7:57 AM CST
Anita, Scott & Brooke,
Just wanted to let you know that I continue to think of Brandon & all of you often. Thank you for sharing your journey. You are in my prayers.
Attie Vogler <atbelle@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, November 10, 2007 6:33 PM CST
Hey guys! I just wanted to let you know that there isn't a day that does't go by where, Scott, Anita, Brooke and Brandon, don't cross my mind. I know things are so hard for you guys right now. And i pray everyday for y'all to have just a little bit of brandon's strength to make it through. I love you y'all and I hope I see y'all next time I make it home!
Courtney Averitte <c0urtn3yb3th@hotmail.com>
Wilmington, NC USA - Saturday, November 10, 2007 12:20 AM CST
Good morning everyone...I hope you a great day.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Saturday, November 10, 2007 7:26 AM CST
Scott and Anita,
It was so good to see you guys this evening. I know it was unbelieveably difficult for you guys to walk into that church again, but I also know Brandon was there with you to strengthen you. The courage and grace you guys extend are evidence that Brandon's greatest attibutes were learned at home. You guys continue to be in my prayers. Know that Brandon lives on in all of those who love him and you guys. We are better people because we knew him and because we know you both.
Much love,
April
April Butcher <april.butcher@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Thursday, November 8, 2007 9:22 PM CST
Anita, Scott and Brooke,
I just wanted to write and let you know I find myself thinking of Brandon often. I have his picture from the Hope Ball on my desk and look at it and say a prayer every morning for you all. Anita, I especially wanted you to know what a strong person you are and what inspiration you and Brandon brought into my life. I hope to see you all again at a Hometown Heroes Event so I can give you a big hug. Kailey and I pray every night for your family to be able to enjoy the many years of good times that you all deserve to enjoy. All our Love
Kailey Miller and Family
Jocelyn Westervelt <jwestervelt@familydollar.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 7:01 AM CST
Scott, Anita and Brooke,
I often think about Brandon. My 8 yr.old son (Mateo) and I came to the funeral with Chrissy & Brittany P. Since then my son has been wearing this one particular shirt often. When I asked him why he has chosen that as his new favorite shirt he replied " Brandon Elam had the same one on in one of his pictures". Which he did. My son talks about Brandon a lot. He wants to bring flowers to his grave site. We plan on visiting soon. I know it hard sometimes, but stay strong. God bless you!! Love Arin Jackling and Family
Arin Jackling
Kannapolis, NC USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 8:15 PM CST
Anita and Scott,
I read what ya'll posted and yet again it brought me to tears. Theres not a day that goes by that your son is not mentioned by me or thought of. I miss him so much. Watching ya'll stay so strong amazes me! I love you guys so much and it was very nice seeing ya'll are the Piedmont game.
Brandon,
This is still very hard. Having to lose you, Brandon Withers and now Alex Kahle has been so hard. But yet, its made me stronger as a person. I know I'll see all of you again and I can't wait. I love you baby! And I'll see you soon! Remember, wait for me at the gates of heaven!? :]
Kasey Haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
Indain Trail, nc - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 5:50 PM CST
Anita,
I think of you and your family so often. I can't even begin to understand the feelings you are going through. I know you have such a wonderful network of support but please know if I can do anything just give me a shout. There is nothing I can say that you haven't already heard I am sure...just know that we are praying for you guys and will always remember what a great inspiration Brandon was/is to us all.
Love Sarah
Sarah Alexander <sarahssoaps@earthlink.net>
Indian Trail, NC - Monday, November 5, 2007 11:22 PM CST
I love to write but I just can't find the right words to offer you inspiration - just picturing Brandon's face and remembering his determination makes whatever small problems we have seem so insignificant. What an awesome legacy is his gift to all.
Hugs from Raineys Gramma & Grampa
Skinners <justsjs@yahoo.com>
Ellijay, Ga USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:27 PM CST
Scott, Anita and Brooke, You guys continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I keep Brandon as the background on my office computer as a reminder to myself and others of what an inspiration he was to us. I pray for you to continue to move forward as difficult as that may be. I also found out at the visitation that we have a mutual friend in John & Kim Frizzell and their daughter. They are waging war against cancer as well. Brandon will always be a part of our Porter Ridge family. Thanks again for sharing him with us. God Bless You!! Coach Helms
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Monday, November 5, 2007 3:33 PM CST
Elam Family,
You are still in my prayers daily, only now I don't have to pray for Brandon's pain to get better. I cannot imagine how hard this is for you, and I know that the upcoming holidays will be even harder. I have prayed for God's love to surround you all during this time. Anita, I know you must be at a loss right now with Scott back at work. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for you from one mom to another. I know Brandon would be happy that you guys are moving forward with life, and I know he is in a pain-free place!
Leslie Southerland <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 12:11 AM CST
Dear Elam Family,
For whatever reason, I couldn't post on the 2nd, but can now. I just wanted you to know that I hadn't forgotten the second and was thinking of you all.
Take care,
Kathy Jaramillo
Kathy Jaramillo <txphinfan@yahoo.com>
La Porte, TX USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 11:42 AM CST
HEY JUST WANTED TO LET YOU GUYS KNOW IM THINKING OF YOU AS I DO EVERY DAY. SOME ARE SAD THOUGHTS BUT SO MANY ARE GREAT. THOSE ARE THE ONES I TRY TO KEEP IN MY MIND. THEY KEEP A SMILE ON MY FACE LIKE BRANDON ALWAYS HAD ON HIS.BROOK WHEN EVER YOU AND JORDAN WANT TO GO FOR ANOTHER BIKE RIDE JUST LET ME AND CHRIS KNOW.SCOTT AND ANITA WE LOVE YOU ALL AND PRAY FOR YOU TO KEEP THAT BRANDON SMILE ON YOUR FACE. SEE YOU SOON.
ROBBY STRINGER <RSTRINGER@CAROLINA.RR.COM>
MONROE, NC USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 8:05 AM CST
Guys,
Just wanted to let you all know we are still thinking about you and Brandon. I can't imagine the strenght it takes to go forward, but amazingly you all are able to do so. These holidays will be tough, as I lost my Dad last November, but with our faith and the love of our family around us, we will all make it.
Scott, sorry I couldn't catch up with you, Jimmy and the boys the other day. Wish I could have. Maybe we can get togeher for lunch before the year is over.
You guys take care. I know you have a lot of help, but if we can ever do anything to help out, we are just a call away.
God bless!
Marty, Sunny, Colby & Cammy Grier <martygrier@yahoo.com>
- Monday, November 5, 2007 7:44 AM CST
Anita, I have read your joural entry everyday since Halloween and my heart breaks everytime. Even though I know Brandon is in a better place he is thought of and missed everyday. I can't imagine ALL that you must be going through but you are and have been an inspiration to everyone. I would have never guessed in the 20 plus years we have know eachother that you would have been such a STRONG person. You have truly been a great mother, daughter, wife and friend through all of this. Keep your head up and remember there are so many of us that are here to help you through these times. Please lean on us. We all love You, Scott and Brooke.
Kim Gustina <skgustina@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, November 4, 2007 8:28 PM CST
Scott, Anita and Brooke,
I just need to let you guys know I am thinking about you, not a day goes by at our house where Brandon or you guys aren't mentioned.
Tell your new Daughter Jordan that her Uncle Ben, and Aunt Kerry said "Hello"!. We're glad she and Brooke are such good friends.
Ben and Kerry Thomas <trukselr@carolina.rr.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 8:20 PM CST
Scott, Anita and Brooke,
I just need to let you guys know I am thinking about you, not a day goes by at our house where Brandon or you guys aren't mentioned.
Tell your new Daughter Jordan that her Uncle Ben, and Aunt Kerry said "Hello"!. We're glad she and Brooke are such good friends.
Ben and Kerry Thomas <trukselr@carolina.rr.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 8:20 PM CST
hi sorry to hear about brandonif you have some kind of address i would love to send you a peom that i found can you please email me and let me no thank you and were can i get a bractlet my email is ashleydavidferlin@yahoo.com
michelle <ashleydavidferlin@yahoo.com>
gastonia , nc 28052 - Sunday, November 4, 2007 7:21 PM CST
When I was in the clinic yesterday my mind kept going to you and Brandon. There is a huge empty space where you two should be and you are greatly missed. Brandon, I asure you, is too dynamic of a soul to be gone or forgotten. I wish there was something I, or anyone, could do right now to make you feel stronger but I know you are going through your own hell that you need to get through. We are all here for you now or later. Your family is always in my prayers. Please let us know if you need anything!!! I have a box of kleenex, a bottle of wine, a pot of coffee, a ton of pillows you can beat on and a shoulder that is available anytime. Take your pick! :)
Love, Kathy and Julia www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt
Kathy Nesbitt <LvR3kids@aol.com>
Wesley Chapel, NC USA - Saturday, November 3, 2007 8:40 AM CDT
Hi!! Thank you very much for sharing your Halloween with me. Those pictures are absolute treasures and I am so thankful to have seen them. The pumpkins had to be the best I have ever seen. Brooke's room is going to look AWESOME!! I am looking forward to seeing it once it is all done - it's a dream room come true!! Hope to see you guys soon!! :-)
Chantelle Swanger <chantelle.swanger@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC 28209 - Saturday, November 3, 2007 7:47 AM CDT
hey brandon, and family i love you and miss you dearly. you will always have a place in our hearts and mine.we love you and well see you soon.love you!bye
ashton mcclendon <cocobeanam@yahoo.com>
monroe, nc - Friday, November 2, 2007 7:47 PM CDT
Elam's-
Thinking of you always.
Love always,
Kelli,Dana & Steven Furgurson
PS: Could you please let me know where I could get an ELAM-N8 CANCER braclet and shirt? Thanks:)
Kelli Furgurson <kefdb582@email.cpcc.edu>
Matthews, NC - Friday, November 2, 2007 6:51 PM CDT
Anita,
As I read your letter to Brandon, I could not stop the free flow of tears. The reality of Brandon's passing hits me so hard at times I can't breathe. I find myself having conversations with him in my car. There are so many things I want to ask him. Things I didn't get to ask before he left us, like what his favorite music is. Silly, inconsequential things that suddenly seem so important that I cry because I never asked. If my pain is so great, the depth of your pain is unimaginable. I feel utterly helpless, and I so wish that I could find the words to ease your pain, but I'm not sure those words exist. Know that I love you. Know that Brandon will never be forgotten. Know that I am here for you always. My life is so much better for having you in it, but I would give it all up in a minute if it meant that our children would never have had cancer and that your sweet boy could be back in your arms where he belongs.
Brigette
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 2, 2007 10:16 AM CDT
Anita, I can only say that you are in my daily thoughts and prayers. My heart aches when I think about the pain you are in. I can't even imagine but I do know that God is in control and He will carry you when the pain is too much. Like your mom said in her precious entry, let people know when you need them. You are loved by so many. Let God use these people to be HIS arms around you and HIS ears to listen to you. If there is anything that you need, I would be honored to help in some way. Love In Christ,
Rhonda Lisk <teamlisk@aol.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:52 PM CDT
Dear Scott,Anita,Brooke,
Just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I can't believe tomorrow is a month. I can only imagine how you are feeling. I miss Brandon soo much. I think of him all the time. I came across some pictures the other day that made me laugh. I had Brandon in the blue and yellow car running down the hospital halls . Brandon always knew i was a little crazy. I love you all and will continue to pray for God to comfort you and to give you strength for each day to come. Love Always,Kristen
Kristen Brandwood <Nurspeds@aol.com>
charlotte, nc usa - Thursday, November 1, 2007 7:42 PM CDT
I wish I had words that could bring you even the smallest amount of comfort. All I know is that we all love you.
sherri johnston
- Thursday, November 1, 2007 3:15 PM CDT
Still praying for you all in TN. God will carry youns thru the tough times.
Shelia Smith <sdonepooh@aol.com>
Soddy-Daisy, TN USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 2:27 PM CDT
Scott, Anita and Brooke,
Just wanted ya'll to know that we think of ya'll every day. Our hearts are filled with love for each of you. Reading all the updates makes our heart ache and wish we could take the pain away. I know Brandon is watching over ya'll and spending time with his PaPa. Just remember Brandon will not be forgotten.....he
is still our HERO!!!
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@realty1000.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:40 PM CDT
As a mom my heart aches for you. You and your family are in my prayers.
Kristie
Wesley Chapel, nc - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:34 AM CDT
Thinking of you!
Kelly Cooper <kcooprn@carolina.rr.com>
Concord, NC USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:26 AM CDT
To Brandon and the Elam Family,
We thought of you with love today.
But that is nothing new
we thought about you yesterday
And days before that too
We think of you in silence,
We OFTEN speak your name
Now all we have is memories
And your picture in a frame
Your memory is our keepsake
With which we"ll never part
God has you in his keeping
And we have you ALL in our hearts!
I love you Elam Family More than you will ever know!
Jennifer Gaddy <JTisdell23@aol.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:30 AM CDT
Oh my sweet child,
How can I ever help ease your pain when my pain is deep. I have no words to give you that can take it away. I want you to know how much I love you, how proud I am of you, Scott and Brooke. Just remember how you took care of Brandon 24/7, you were always there for him though everything. He knew your undying love, he never had a moment he would have doubted that. I have prayed so long asking to take Brandon's cancer, and allow him to live his life as it should have been. That prayer could not be answered as God had/has a plan for Brandon and all of us. I am praying now that your pain will ease, you will be able to face each day with just a little less sorrow. Just know I am here for you, I will do anything you need, just ask, please ask. I cannot know what you need at the moment, so please reach out to me. I know many probably say this, but we KNOW Brandon is in Heaven with Papa, this gives me some comfort, I hope it does you. Take time for just you, don't always feel you need to be doing something. Maybe you and Scott can take a couple weekend trips away, I will be more than happy to stay with Brooke, maybe she, Jordan, and I can take a couple day trips, just getaway for the day?? Remember always, I love you more than I can say. Just as Brandon is your child, you are mine, and my heart hurts for you.
I am here for all of you.
Mom
Esther Miele <mamawuu@windstream.net>
- Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:01 AM CDT
hello my dear friends~
wow! anita a heard and felt every word in your update. tonight, last night for the rest of the world but still tonight for me since i have not been to bed yet, has been a tough one to say the least! as i stated in my last post on Dakotas site i hate SO much about this life we have lived but then there is so much i am thankful for and "one" being without Dakotas illness would i have had the GRANDE party that i had for him last year??? not sure however i DO know it was so much more important because of his illness. sweetie~~we have talked so many times on how "i" was always a few steps of the same path you are on and also our boys have traveled just steps apart~~~and although i SO know your pain is so raw and so fresh, i find it kinda "strange" for the first time you and i are traveling on a very similar path with sharing so many "first" that are coming up. we have now in a kindered spirt kind of way shared "our" first halloween without our SWEET boys...then comes THANKSgiving...then CHRISTmas...then the new year~~~~then again i will be "one" step in front of you with Dakotas one year in heaven mark. i guess what i am trying to say is sweetie i feel so deeply your pain and like i said when Brandon passed, it was not his going to heaven that made me sad...it was KNOWING what you, scott, and brooke would now face. all i can say is from the depth of my heart, i am so sorry for the pain you (we) feel.
i love you guys and you are ALWAYS in my heart and prayers.
with SOOOO much love through caring~
love lannette~the FOREVER PROUD momma to Dakota
lannette conder <nutchale@aol.com>
www.caringbridge.org/sc/dakota, - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:37 AM CDT
Scott, Anita, & Brooke,
I read your update. It is so good to hear from you. In your entry you said it's hard sometimes to get up and go. On those days take time for you. You all have been thru so much these past years and what you may need right now is just time for you. I'm sure you will have your ups and downs and that's ok. Brandon will see you thru. In time the pain will ease. It may not ever go away but it will ease. Just take it day by day. Draw in the strength of others. We are here for you all. I have been blessed to be a part of your lives and I thank you so much for that. Brandon will NEVER be forgotten. His legacy will live on forever. That is a guarantee! He was adored by so many. His smile will forever be inbedded in our hearts. We love you all and pray for you everyday. Love, Chrissy
Chrissy Poppa <argm20@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, nc - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:04 PM CDT
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/trentybug
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/isabellasantos
Please visit these websites. I just found out from a friend about these 2 little kids, they are friends of a friend of mine. Trent has the same thing that Brandon did. I thought you might find some comfort in their stories. Hope you guys are doing ok. You are in my thoughts and prayers every every day!
Michelle Horne
Michelle Horne
Monroe, NC - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 12:27 AM CDT
Hi Anita, Scott and Brooke,
Just a quick note to say hello and let you know that we are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Rita and Mickey
Rita McCutchan <RitaofKY@aol.com>
McColl, SC USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:40 PM CDT
you are all in my thoughts.
kris <mhanes1@carolina.rr.com>
- Tuesday, October 30, 2007 8:46 PM CDT
Scott and Anita,
I think of you so often. Charlie and I went out to visit Brandon's grave last Saturday. It is such a peaceful spot. Everytime I hear Amazing Grace played on the radio I think back to that night on your front lawn. Brandon has made such an impact on our community. I hope your pain eases as the days pass but know he touched each of us and lives on in our memories too. Take care and call us if you need anything.
Janice Rappleyea <jrappleyea@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 12:33 AM CDT
I am thinking of you today more than ever. My prayer as always is for peace and comfort for you all.
I love you.
Brigette
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 30, 2007 11:08 AM CDT
Hello everyone. I hope today has been a good day. Brooke, it's about time for another motorcycle ride. Just let me know when, before it gets to cold. I think of you guys so many times a day. I find myself riding up the road and a thought of Brandon will come to mind. I find myself either crying or smiling, but either way it is such a special time. Thanks for giving me that opportunity to know the "bravest little man" that will ever be. I'll talk to you soon.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Monday, October 29, 2007 9:23 PM CDT
I never got to meet Brandon. But alot have my friends had, and were great friends with him. He has changed my life in so many ways. He was so strong and brave. I am sure right now he is looking down at us telling us not to cry. My Prayers are with the Elam faimly. R.I.P Brandon Elam, you are my hero.
Tiffany
- Monday, October 29, 2007 5:04 PM CDT
Thinking about you today, and every day.....
Lisa, John, Erik & Alek Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Monday, October 29, 2007 1:59 PM CDT
Thanks for sharing the family update with us. We pray and think about you guys everyday. Your family is such an insperation.
Chuck, Suzanne, Hunter & Austin Jones <sjones@mcwhirtergrading.com>
Indian Trail, nc union - Monday, October 29, 2007 1:46 PM CDT
Thanks for the update Anita, I imagine it is tough to come out to the site. I still think about you daily, and hope and pray every day gets a little easier for you all.
Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, October 29, 2007 12:22 AM CDT
Just a quick hello. We miss Brandon so much. I hope you do well. I read the website every day to check in. We love you guys!
Michelle and Chris Horne
Monroe, NC - Monday, October 29, 2007 11:28 AM CDT
My heart is breaking for you after reading your most recent entry. I cannot imagine all the thoughts and emotions you all are having now. Please know we all love you and think of you.
sherri johnston
- Monday, October 29, 2007 8:17 AM CDT
Brandon ELAM. i love youu so much. I just got done staying with brooke and mann let me tell youu.. that girl is so strong! she is my best friend. she has been for a longg time. and Anita and Scott.. wow i love them so much. They mean the world to me. There my other parents. your my other brotther. we both told eachother that :)
i love you so much & i feel so good waking up and looking in the skyy waiting for my bus to come.. and i just look up and smile and take a deep breath. Cause i know that im gonna see you one dayy annd i know your lookin down at us and smileing cause you realize how many people care about you my lov33. i can't wait to see you bro.
I LOVE YOU & YOUR FAMILY!
ELAM-N8-CANCER
10-2-07
<3
Mia Meadows
Indian Trail, NC US - Sunday, October 28, 2007 8:38 PM CDT
A simple "HELLO" to a very special family.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, - Sunday, October 28, 2007 12:39 AM CDT
OUR thoughts,love, and prayers are with you. God Bless your family and all that you have been through. God WILL watch over you and your family.
Love,
The Turner Family
Turner Family <tturner2032@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, October 28, 2007 10:26 AM CDT
Elam Family,
It was so wonderful to finally meet you in person briefly this afternoon at PRHS Band Contest. I've heard so many wonderful things about you from Kathy and Julia. Please know that your family continues to influence and touch many of our lives...we thank you for that!
Karla Worley <karlarw@aol.com>
- Saturday, October 27, 2007 4:46 PM CDT
i love you all!!! soo much.
<3
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
indian trail, nc - Saturday, October 27, 2007 12:12 AM CDT
I didn't get to meet Brandon in person, but he changed my life 100%. My sister, Kayla knew him somewhat. she had told me she went out with Brandon in 7th grade. He has done some many wonderful things to show how much he cared so much for just about anything and everything. He is my hero,faith, and inspiration. One day I will get to met him in heaven,, and I'm so ready for that day. Brandon has made differences in so many people's life it's incredible how much work he's done, going through the pain he went through. He held strong till the end and I know he was just ready to be set free and he pain-free. I hope everything is going okay with yall. Love always, Kristi
Kristi Dayton <www.krissaidwhattt@aim.com>
Monroe, NC United States - Saturday, October 27, 2007 0:02 AM CDT
Anita,
Just wanted you to know I was thinking about you today and keeping you in my prayers. I have found that days like today--dreary and rainy are always hard. I hope your day is filled with precious memories of Brandon.
Love,
Tricia
^Jenna's^ mom
Tricia Witherspoon www.caringbridge.org/sc/jennawit <triciawit@hotmail.com>
Fort Mill, SC - Thursday, October 25, 2007 10:43 AM CDT
Hi Elams, I just wanted to let you know that we continue to pray for you. Brandon taught each of us to live each day to the fullest...It makes each day more precious than the last. Keep your faith and know that so many are praying for you! Love, Lori, Josh, Catelyn and Alli
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 25, 2007 9:57 AM CDT
BRANDON, we all love u and u will always be with us and we r all thinking about you and keeping u in our prayers
Zach Blalock <z33man@aol.com>
Monroe, NC United States - Wednesday, October 24, 2007 7:47 PM CDT
Brandon will NEVER be far from our thoughts - and you all are in our prayers daily...
~Pat & Susan Skinner (Rainey's Grandparents)
Pat & Susan Skinner <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Ellijay, GA USA - Wednesday, October 24, 2007 7:25 PM CDT
Hey Elam family.
I still can't believe everything that has happened, but your in our thoughts and prayers everyday. I think of Brandon and how he didn't deserve this but i know he's in a better place now. Stay Strong, WE LOVE YOU, Elam-N8 Cancer
Nicole Belcher <magirl224@yahoo.com>
Stallings, NC 28104 - Wednesday, October 24, 2007 5:12 PM CDT
Just wanted to say hello. And let you know we are thinking of you today & everyday!! If you ever need anything just let us know! we are here for you Scott, Anita, & Brooke.
Mark & Lynette Howell
lynette howell <mhowell004@carolina.rr.com>
matthews, nc usa - Wednesday, October 24, 2007 3:56 PM CDT
After reading about Brandon and his fight against cancer I wanted to say as a mother you must of been so proud of your son for he handled himself with dignity. I know that your hearts are broken. Please remember to always keep Brandon alive by spreading his name and fight across the country. Also Remember Brooke has also lost a brother and in away part of a mother and father. May god help you now more than ever.
Rosann <rhorist@aol.com>
- Wednesday, October 24, 2007 8:46 AM CDT
Hey Scott Anita and biker chick Brook just wanted to let you know I think of you every day and hope you all are doing as well as possible hang in there and be strong after all the toughest kid I know got his strength and courage from all of you.love you and want to see you soon
Robby Stringer <rstringer@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Wednesday, October 24, 2007 7:48 AM CDT
Elam family,
Brandon was such an shining light at Porter Ridge but at Piedmont as well. Everyone who new him was on their feet twenty four seven trying to do things for him and your family. I hope that our ( Piedmont ) donation to you will help you with anything that you need. Your family is in my prayers!! God Bless!!
Sydney Sanders <x4hollisterbabii@aim.com>
Monroe , NC USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2007 11:21 PM CDT
you are being thought about!!!!!!!!!!!
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Tuesday, October 23, 2007 10:34 PM CDT
Anita,Scott and Brooke,
I just wanted ya'll to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers every day. Whenever you are ready to continue the Elam-N8 Cancer we will be there for ya'll. If there is anything you need please just ask. Our Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol@realty1000.com <Carol@realty1000.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Tuesday, October 23, 2007 1:26 PM CDT
Anita, Scott, and Brooke,
You are in our prayers today and always!
We love you!
Kim, Ron, and Brent
Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2007 11:25 AM CDT
Scott, Anita and Brooke,
I read about your dear Brandon in a news letter from The Lighthouse for employees of Sellsethic in Matthews, N.C. I immediately went to get a card to send to you but I wasn't able to find an address for you! Then I saw I could call up this website for Brandon and I have read it! Everything is so familiar to our family! You see we also lost a child at 16 to cancer! She fought it for 3 years. I have tried to send cards and books to other people that have lost their children and siblings since we lost our Courtney. It has been 6 years, which sounds probably to you a long time, but it seems like just yesterday. I want to tell you that as a parent and speaking for my other two daughters that the pain never goes away, but it does get a little bit easier!! The holidays, birthdays, anniversary of his death will always be hard, you will find yourself down before you even realize what the month is. Please know that you will have many, many questions and very few answers. Our mission in our family is to walk with the Lord so we can be with our Courtney again one day. Our children were chosen, I truly believe that, for this purpose. And they touched so many lives, you will continue to see this throughout the years!! I will pray for your comfort and for your strenght. I know how you feel. I am soo very sorry for your loss and the suffering of you child. He is now in heaven as my child and they are waiting for us where there is no time!! We will be with them again soon and they will not even know we were separated for any length of time!!
Sincerely,
Debi Matthews
Gulf Breeze, Florida
P.S. Read grief books. They helped me soo very much. James Dobson has some great ones, O.C. Lewis etc. May God comfort you in you time of healing.
Debi Matthews <dmatthews@mchsi.com>
Gulf Breeze, Fl U.S.A. - Monday, October 22, 2007 7:15 PM CDT
Hey there Anita, Scott, and Brooke...
I haven't left anything on the site in awhile, because I was so unsure of what to put. It was nice seeing you last week Anita and Scott, I just love seeing your faces. I've been thinking about Brandon alot lately, it's hard when I find pictures of us together and the notes he had written me from 7th grade. I am so amazed at your strength, you've been so strong for your son. I know he is watching over you all and smiling that beautiful smile of his. It's nice to know he's free of pain, that's all anyone wanted for him. I would love to come by the house, but I don't want to intrude. Your whole family is so polite and warming, it almost feels like you calm the soul. I love that feeling more than anything in the world. Oh, how I miss Brandon... I loved him so very much. I saw pictures of him when he was little, how proud your family should be. He was the cutest thing I've ever seen, that smile, those big brown eyes.. they could just make you melt; haha. I know he's having a blast in heaven and loving those front row seats at the panther games. It's also nice to know that one day we all will see him again. I love you all Elam Family. And I promise to have my mom call and see when we should stop by. Until then God Bless!
may Brandon rest in peace
and fly with ease...
[ELAM- N8 CANCER]
always and forever
Brittany Poppa <jrmslvr@aol.com>
- Sunday, October 21, 2007 4:42 PM CDT
Anita, Scott, and Brooke,
When the time is right for Elam-N8-Cancer to become a household slogan,(As it almost is now and will be more so later) you just say the word on what you want others like myself to do and consider it done. It would be an honor to help with the fight against this evil disease that takes away true angels on earth like ^Brandon^ and ^Dakota^ and so many others. In the meantime, prayers are always going upupup for each one of you!!!!! You are all truly loved, admired and prayed for every day.
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, October 21, 2007 10:12 AM CDT
I am so very sorry for your pain,I was searching facebook for something else and came across your story and had to read it.Your life has changed forever,but could it not? But as time goes by and the good memories help heal your heart a little bit,it will make it bearable.Bad things happen to nice people and sometimes there are no answers to your questions.As a Mother I feel your pain.
Deborah Brown
Canada - Sunday, October 21, 2007 9:51 AM CDT
Dear Scott,Anita, & Brooke.
Thinking of you all everyday.Brandon, is the topic of conversation in the Gift Shop with all the Staff and friends of mine who kept up with the the Web-site,I sent on
all the Prayer Pal Updates to them. Brandon, touched so many lives, he was so wise beyond his 16 years and such an inspiration to us all. You are in my Prayers and much love comes your way. Love Granny Peaslee
Dee Peaslee <WVGFT2GO2@cebridge.net>
Beverly, WV USA - Friday, October 19, 2007 7:38 PM CDT
On 10-2-07 at 11:37 PM; I lost my best friend but yet gained a guardian angel. I know you are looking down on me right now. Brandon baby; I miss you so much and I love you more than ever. But I know your in good hands now. You're finally happy and that's all I ever wanted for you. You didn't deserve this at all. But you managed to hang in there till you couldn't no longer and you kept a smile on your face the whole time no matter how much pain you were in. I don't think I ever saw you without that smile on your face:] Brandon, you were the only guy I've ever loved and actually meant something to me. Those 7 months meant so much. I wear the necklace you gave me everyday! I'll cherish all the pictures we took and all the notes we wrote. This is really tough B. I didn't know losing a friend was so hard. I'd give anything to see you one more time. Anything. I know you're in heaven right now playing baseball and football happier than ever but I really do need you here with me. I keep telling myself your in a better place now but its so hard to accept the fact that yo