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Wednesday, November 15, 2006 1:34 PM CST

We are thrilled to say we had another positive trip to St. Jude's for Luke's check up. Luke's tumor remains stable, there has been no change since our last visit 6 months ago. (Remember as long as it doesn't get bigger it's good news.) All of his other testings were positive as well. His vision was stable. The dryness was under control but he now has developed a vision problem that requires glasses (he is not thrilled about this). His hearing was stable and his diabetes was stable and all labs normal. These were the big things. All other testings were normal. We had two days of non stop testings but as always Luke handled it like a trooper. The doctors always seem refreshed with his status. Our next visit will be in six months.

Thank you all for your prayers and concern. We STILL need them as we fight this battle!!!

In HIS Grip,
The DeAndrea's

A special thank you to Jen and Sharon for their love, laughter and support which made this trip so much easier for not only Luke but me too. I love you guys!!!


Thursday, November 9, 2006 7:59 PM CST

It's hard to believe that 6 months have come and gone!! We are leaving on Sunday (November 12th) for Luke's check up at St. Jude's. This will be his usual MRI and lots and lots of testing. We will return home on Wednesday November 15th. Please pray that the tumor is smaller or better yet gone and that all reports are postive.

Luke is doing GREAT!!!

Thank you for your continued prayers!!

In HIS Grip,
The DeAndrea Family


Tuesday, May 2, 2006 10:36 PM CDT

Dear Friends-

It's almost midnight and we have just returned from St. Jude's with awesome news. Lukey's tumor is SLIGHTLY smaller!! HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY!!! His tumor has not decreased or had any change in almost two years so this was amazing, awesome, incredible news for us. His hearing loss remains the same. He has had some labs come back out of range regarding his tyroid so we are going to either have them redone here at home or watch him closely for certain symptoms and notify our doctor's at St. Jude. The only "not so good" news was his eye and vision. His vision was terrible in his left eye. The dryness is very severe and we are going to have to be very aggressive AGAIN with the patchings, eye drops, ointment (etc). All the things he just loves-not!!

THANK YOU so much for your prayers and thoughts. Please continue to pray for Luke's complete healing and that his eye will respond well to this treatment and his sight will be restored.

Say a prayer of "thanks" for this great report!!!

In HIS Grip,
The DeAndrea Family


Saturday, April 29, 2006 3:18 PM CDT

It's that time again. Another 6 months have passed and back to St. Jude's we go!! We will be leaving tomorrow, Sunday April 30th. Luke has two full days of testing and the big MRI. Please keep us in your prayers specifically for a clean MRI and positive results at all his appointments.

Thank you for your continued love and prayers.


Stop Now and Pray for LUKE!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea Family


Tuesday, February 14, 2006 8:20 AM CST

Three years ago today, Damian and I traded a romantic Valentine Dinner for spicy curly fries in the hospital cafeteria. We traded fine chocolates for the waiting room vending machines peanut M&M's, we traded butterflies in the stomach over romance for butterflies in the stomach over a report from a surgeon. We weren't able to call each other with valentine wishes but instead waited on a call from the operating room that Luke's surgery was complete. We traded a movie date for a ventilator and instead of whispers in each others ears, we whispered (and screamed) prayers to our FATHER!! You may think this wasn't a very romantic day for us but what is romance?? Webster says romance is a love affair with EXCITEMENT, ADVENTURE and HAPPINESS. Sounds basically like our day!! I remember journaling that morning telling GOD what an awesome day for Luke's surgery to be on- Valentine's Day- and how appropriate for HIM to continue to pour his LOVE on Luke by answering my plea for my baby to not only live through his brain surgery but it be successful. That evening I prayed with relief feeling more LOVE than I had ever felt on any other Valentine's Day. It may not be your definition of a romantic day but it truly was.

Three years have come and gone. Luke is now 6, doing great in kindergarten, passionate about skateboarding and quoting Napolean Dynamite, begging for a "motorcross" motorcycle, is a great artist, loves church,loves aggrevating his sister and most importantly a sweet spirited boy who loves Jesus and his family and truly is a miracle. As I watched him leave for school today- Valentine card box under one arm and a print out of the dirt bike that he wants under the other-I was overcome with memories of how only three short years ago he was undergoing brain surgery almost at the exact moment. He has been through a tough journey but ....WOW!! God is good.


Luke's tumor remains stable. He still suffers from his eye not closing from the paralysis, it is a constant battle with eye drops, ointment and taping it closed. He is such a trooper!! His diabetes (insipitous) is really not a problem-he is thirsty alot and drinks alot (if you see a crazy woman and child running through Wal Mart that's us trying to find the bathroom.=) His hearing loss remains the same. His motor skills are amazing-it's hard to believe we were told there was a chance of him not walking you should see him skateboarding on his half pipe. That should make a neurosurgeon smile!! He is thriving in school and LOVES his teacher, Mrs. King and loves making his friends laugh! (yes, usually with more Napolean Dynamite quotes=)

We continue to treat everyday as a Valentine celebration!! We continue to trust God for a complete healing for Lukey. Our next appointment at St. Jude's is May 1st. Thank you all for your continued love and prayers.

Wishing you all a Valentine's Day filled with GOD's LOVE!!
Share your love... who know's what three years will bring.

Stop NOW and Pray for Luke!!

In His Grip,
Damian, Amanda, Payton and Luke

Jer 29:11


Wednesday, October 12, 2005 12:04 AM CDT

Dear Friends,


Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for your thoughts and prayers for our recent trip back to St. Jude. I'll jump right to the most important news....Luke's MRI revealed no change since our last visit six months ago. Yes, this is great news. As long as his tumor is not growing it is positive results. Would we like to hear "The tumor is gone" well, of course but.... we have learned through this journey that being told "no growth" is absolutely a reason to celebrate!!!
The other "BIG" deal was that Luke was able to do his MRI without sedation. WOO HOO!! This changed the dynamics of our entire trip. Instead of being sick, grouchy, irritable (and all the other side affects that may come from sedation) he was able to eat and enjoy the rest of his afternoon. I was completely surprised. Damian went back with Luke to sedation and normally this process takes about 30 minutes (inserting the IV, starting the sedation etc). After about 50 minutes of Damian not returning to the waiting room, I started to wonder what was going on. I had the receptionist check and Damian was in the MRI room with Luke and almost half way complete. Yes, I cried!! My baby is growing up!! This was the hot news around the hospital as every nurse that knew us came up to tell Lukey how proud they were of him. One of the anesthesiologist saw Luke and said "Hey, are you trying to put me out of a job?" It was very exciting that Luke made it through. (I'm not sure if mom could have done it!! They put a mask/shield over your face and then you must lay perfectly still inside the "coffin" (as one child described it) for about 30 minutes. If you move, they have to retake those films. It's not an easy thing) And of course, as soon as Luke saw me he said "Mommy, are you proud of me.....am I going to get a BIG treat?" Guess what the answer was.

The rest of his testings were stable- no changes with his hearing, speech, vision etc.(Luke's eye looked good this time. We see our local opthomologist monthly and we still do drops every 2-3 hours and tapings.) He has developed a bit of tortecolus (I'm sure that is spelled wrong) His head is leaning slightly to one side. This could be from the muscles not developing in his neck where they were first cut for surgery and then radiated. It may also be from him compensating for his eye sight. So, we are going to see a physical therapist here at home. All good news from the testings!!

We ended our trip with some delicious Memphis barbeque at the airport and headed home!!! Our next visit will be in 6 months.

I felt a little disconnected from the hospital this time. So many different people, different families, different children but still every one with so much in common, "our kids and their "illness". Again, I felt like Luke doesn't really fit in-he's not sick!! And as we receive favorable news, the child in the next room isn't as fortunate. It's a very odd struggle of emotions for me. It's also hard to hear of the friends we have lost.

We feel so incredibly blessed!!! To each of you who continue to check on us and pray for us-we are deeply grateful. Please dont stop!!! We will continue to "NAG" God for a complete healing for Lukey=)!! We trust God in all things.

Please pray for all of the children and families fighting these unfare cancers and illnesses!!

We cherish each day with each other!!

Stop now and PRAY for Luke!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea


Saturday, October 1, 2005 9:58 AM CDT

Dear Friends-
Things are going well around The DeAndrea Home. We are getting ready to head back to St.Jude's for Luke's check up. We will be leaving Sunday, October 9the for three days. Please keep us in your prayers for positive results. I will update the page when we return.

Thanks for your love and prayers.

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea Gang


Thursday, July 7, 2005 8:53 PM CDT

Dear Friends-
Shame, Shame on me for not updating in such a long time!! Boy, time flies, no matter if you're having fun or not!! Fortunately, we are having FUN!!! Our summer has been busy and not to mention HOT (hey, we live in Florida). The kids are either in the pool or somewhere with airconditioning (yes, that usually means Wal-Mart or the mall=) Luke and Payton are both having a great summer. Vacation Bible School, Day Camp, Beach, Playdates-you name it!! We have exciting news!! Luke officially swam today! No floaties , no life vest!! This has been such a challenge for him because of his eye. He has had so much fear- mainly because he just didn't want to get his eye wet. He has been in a life vest for the past few weeks and this really increased his confidence. Today, Damian and I got in with him (I hate to use the word forced so how about strongly encouraged) we strongly encouraged him to take his vest off and within minutes he was swimming everywhere!! He was so proud of himself. YES, I cried!!!
He is still struggling with his eye. We continue to do drops and ointment hourly. We have seen our local eye doctor and are now having to patch Luke's good eye closed for 4 hours a day! Boy, what a struggle.(We are taping the good eye shut to force the bad eye to start seeing again) He also has become allergic or sensitive to the tape. So, how do you tape when you are allergic to the tape!! Yes, that's hard. We have to use a paper tape which usually doesn't stick. The taping really affects him emotionally-first of all, he get embarrassed for anyone to see him. Yes, we have done all of the psycological stuff "It's cool" "You look like a pirate" etc etc. He could care less-he just counts down the minutes to take it off. Then there's the factor that he just can't see well-his depth perception is off so he may trip or fall, everything is blurry and he becomes very frustrated!!! So, this is a challenge but he is starting to handle it better. We will see the local eye doctor next week and hopefully get a positive report.
Other than that he is doing incredible. We count our blessings each and every day. For those of you who don't know Luke personally-He has such a sweet and loving spirit. God has blessed him with a kind heart and he truly makes you feel happy just looking at him. You can often expect a surprise hug from behind or a whisper in the ear of "I just love you" he'll say. Then get ready to laugh as the "boy" comes out in him (maybe a phrase or gesture-he is really good at the "gas under the armpit" sound! He's very proud of that) I wish each of you could spend an hour with him to see how God has touched his life, brought him through so much and allowed him to continue to be a normal boy. We continue to thank God for the gift of our son and pray for a complete healing and a long and blessed life for him.
Thank you all for continuing to check in on us (even when I don't update) Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers!!

Count your blessings, treasure your days (even the bad ones)!!

Stop Now and Pray for LUKE!!!And for all the other children and parents fighting cancer and illness.

In His Grip,
Damian, Amanda, Payton and LUKEY!!

P.S. Luke will be repeating Kindergarten this year. He will be starting August 4th!! He also has a birtday coming up-August 26th!! He'll be 6 years old.


Wednesday, April 27, 2005 12:08 AM CDT

Thank you for your prayers for Luke's check up at St. Jude. We left early Sunday morning (April 24). We rented a car and went to Cordova (suburb just outside of Memphis). We were able to have a fun day eating Memphis BBQ and went to a movie. Monday started off well for Lukey. Speech testing was good. He then received his IV needle with ease (the numbing cream is a miracle drug). He had his "sleepy medicine" for his MRI and was looking forward to waking up and going bowling. It took him awhile to come out of anesthesia but his first few words were "Are we still going bowling?" He seemed to be waking up fine so we set out to find a bowling alley. (Did I mention he had a few Cheetos and Sprite?) After about thirty minutes in the car a little voice says "My head hurts" followed by "My throat hurts" followed by another voice yelling "Mom, he puked Cheetos everywhere!!" So needless to say we didn't go bowling but Luke went to sleep and woke up about 2 hours later feeling GREAT!!!! Tuesday was filled with appointment. First the endocrinologist. All tests look fine except they feel Luke may have diabetes incipitous. This is a side effect from the radiation. The symptoms are constant thirst and urination which he definately has. They did a blood and urine test and we will find out the results in about a week. If it comes back positive he may have to go on a hormone to control this. The next whamy was his eye test. Due to the paralysis on the left side of his face, his eye does not shut, he has a gold weight in his eye lid and we are constantly giving him eyedrops for lubrication. Well, the eye drops are not enough and he has several corneal abrasions which lead to loss of vision. I just cried when they were giving him the test and on the biggest letter he couldn't read it. The doctor recommended that we have another procedure that will suture the outside of his eyelid slightly closed and they can also puncture his tear duct to provide more lubrication. Damian and I really do not want to do that (at this point). As of now we have to increase the eyedrops to every hour, patch his eye shut at night and after these abrasions heal we must patch his good eye shut 2 hours a day because the brain will stop sending a signal to the bad eye if it is not being used. Sounds crazy huh??
Well, on to the exciting news.......as for the results of the MRI, the tumor is stable and a tiny, tiny, tiny bit smaller than last visit!!! WOO HOO! YEAH!! We are so thankful for this positive results. And we know that with God's help we will be able to handle all of the other issues.
We are returning home feeling so blessed and thankful. I sometime let my self forget the most important thing which is the tumor is not growing. All of the other things are secondary!!!!
Thanking you all again and again and again for your prayers. We have been so blessed to walk this journey with faithful friends and support.
Take a moment to thank GOD not only for Lukey's report but for all of the blessings in your life. Continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke and for all of the families that are fighting for their children.

Stop Now and Pray For Luke!!

In His Grip,
Damian, Amanda, Payton and LUKE


Saturday, April 23, 2005 11:47 PM CDT

We will be leaving bright and early tomorrow for St. Jude's. Our plane leaves at 6:30 a.m. (YIKES!) Luke is very happy that his Daddy and sister will be going with us. It's always comforting for him to have all of us there. His MRI is Monday afternoon. He will having lots of tests as usual (hearing, vision,(etc) therapy along with an extensive visit to the endocrinologist to make sure his hormones have not been affected by the radiation. We will receive the results from the MRI Tuesday afternoon.

Please join us in praying for positive results in all testing and that Luke will be calm and at peace with everything.
We will be returning home Tuesday evening.

Thank you for your continued prayers and concern.

STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!

In HIS Grip,
The DeAndrea Family


Friday, April 8, 2005 9:41 PM CDT

Just a quick note to Thank you for your continued prayers! Luke is doing Great!! He is busy with school, church and karate. He passed his first karate test and earned a stripe on his belt. (yes, this is a very big deal!!) He started swim lessons, this is a bit hard due to the fact that the paralysis on the left side of his face does not allow him to shut his eye or his mouth. It's challenging to swim with a mouth full of water, but he is adapting and doing well. Payton is busy with school and Irish dance. Life is good and we treasure each day with our precious children.
We will be returning to St. Jude's on April 25th. Please keep us in your prayers for a clear scan with NO GROWTH and all of his testing to be positive. This journey would be impossible without your prayers to sustain us!!

Counting our Blessings,
The DeAndrea Family
Damian, Amanda, Payton and LUKEY

Stop Now and Pray For Luke!!!


Wednesday, February 2, 2005 10:59 AM CST

WE'RE HOME!!!!!! For this to have been such a "short" trip, it sure did take a "LONG" time!! We had a very positive check up at St. Jude's. Luke's tumor is remaining stable-this means it is not growing. (PRAISE THE LORD!!!) Luke did great receiving his needle for his IV for sedation-not one tear (unless you count mine=) This time he wanted to watch them actually put the needle in his arm-YUCK!!! But he did great. Although....coming out from the anesthesia was another story. Luke was SO misearable and groggy for hours. He was mad at the world and at me and at Nanna. Nothing we could do would satisfy him. Poor baby, he just cried and cried for hours asking "Why everybody was being so mean" and "He wanted his Daddy and Sister" and "Why do I have to have this brain tumor anyway?" Other than feeling so sorry for him he actually provided us with comic relief for awhile. He was much better by Monday evening. We are not use to Memphis weather in January. Needless to say it's not like Florida. It was very cold so going out was not an option. On Tuesday our eye appointment got canceled so we ended up just having a hearing test, which his hearing loss remains the same, then we saw our oncologist and then we....sat and waited for our ride to the airport. There was a lot of down time , which we are not used to. Nanna had a great time seeing St. Jude's and meeting all of Luke's favorite nurses and doctors. Overall, we had a wonderful trip with wonderful results.

Luke is excited to be home and is going to karate tonight!!!

Thank you all for your prayers and emails!! You have no idea how they comfort us. Continue to pray for us and a complete healing for Lukey. Our next appointment is April 25th.

Please say a special prayer for all the children fighting these terrible diseases.

Blessing to you all,
In HIS Grip,
The DeAndrea's
Damian, Amanda, Payton and LUKEY


Thursday, January 27, 2005 8:02 PM CST

Another three months have flown by and we are preparing to leave for St. Jude's in Memphis. We will leave Sunday afternoon. Luke's first appointment is bright and early Monday morning. His MRI is scheduled for 9:00a.m. That's actually all we have on Monday and Tuesday is packed full of the normal tests (hearing, speech etc) Lukey is usually very excited to go to St. Jude's but this time he has said he doesn't want to go anymore. Damian is staying home with Payton (this is part of Luke's reason for not wanting to go) and my mom will be going with us. This will be fun for Luke to show Nanna around. Luke has been asking alot of questions....Will I get a needle? Are they going to cut me? And the questions get more detailed. I guess he is getting older and starting to understand some things more.
Please join us in praying specifically for a clean, clear MRI and that all of his tests will go well. Pray for peace for Luke and a safe trip.
Thank you all for your continued love and support for us.
Looking forward to GOOD news!!

Stop now and pray for LUKE!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea


Wednesday, December 29, 2004 3:57 PM CST

Dear Friends-
We have had a wonderful "BUSY" Christmas!!! Luke asked Santa for drums-YIKES!! And Santa must have been delirious and brought them!! He has had a great time playing and I have a great time with a migrane!!=) Payton got shoe skates and we all had a wonderful time with family and friends. But most of all we took time to recognize the "reason for the season" and spent lots of quiet time each night over our advent candles and reading the bible together as a family. It has been a very special holiday.
We are so thankful to have another Christmas together. We feel blessed with each day that we are given. We will never forget all that Luke and our family has been through and how we have seen the hand of God deliver us through so many trials. We are looking forward to another year to grow closer to each other and deeper in our faith.
Our next appointment at St. Jude's is January 31st. Please continue to keep us in your prayers as we continue to fight the battle over Luke's illness.

Wishing you all a blessed New Year!!

Stop Now and Pray for LUKEY!!
In His Grip,
Damian, Amanda, Payton and Luke


Saturday, November 20, 2004 8:48 AM CST

Just a note to let you know that things are good here. Luke is busy at school. He just had his Thanksgiving play where he was an Indian (with a speaking part, I might add). He is slowly overcoming his shyness. After Christmas he will start karate and is very excited. Payton is doing great as well. She has started "Irish Dancing". Look Out!! She likes to say she is an "Italian-Irish Dancer". She loves school and is enjoying being a "Brownie" with girl scouts. The kids are looking forward to the holidays. We will be staying home for Thanksgiving. We definately have so much to be thankful for and count our blessings one by one!!!
Luke's eye is....the same. Red if you are minute late with the drops. We had a conversation on the way to school one day that broke my heart. It was picture day and I said to him "Make sure you smile for your pictures" and he replied "Mommy, I wish my face wasn't like this and my smile worked right." He has mentioned his face several times since then which is something he's not done before. I guess as he gets older he will start to notice things more. We are still researching surgical procedures that would restore the paralysis in his face. So far, they are VERY invasive. Our plan was to wait until he was older. Of course, he is just perfect to us. These are the little things you deal with.
Thank you for checking on us. We thank you for your thoughts and prayers. Please continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke (his face and all=). Our next appointment at St. Jude's is Jan 31, 2005.
Wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving!!

In HIS Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea


Thursday, October 28, 2004 8:15 PM CDT

Dear Friends- There isn't a word to describe how.... brave, wonderful, strong, courageous, funny, sweet that Luke was at his visit to St. Jude's. We arrived Sunday evening and the fun began bright and early Monday morning 7:00a.m. to be exact with a full day of testings. He had two scans, mainly to make sure that the radiation has not affected his bone density (etc). His eye appointment went very well. His cornea is healing nicely!! WOO HOO!! His vision is a double edged sword-as you know his left eye does not shut-if his eye is too dry, he can't see-if his eye is too wet, he can't see. So, we are basically fighting a tough battle. It's better to be too lubricated as this will not cause damage to his cornea. We will continue the drops and ointment every 2-3 hours but no patching his eye shut. No patchings make Lukey very happy!!! We continued with the hormone specialist which seems to think that the radiation so far has not affected his growth. This will be monitored each visit. On Tuesday Luke had a blood test at 7:45a.m. to check his hormone levels, As I have shared before, each visit Luke gets a little more use to the routine but this time he completely amazed me. Not one tear with the needle and he wanted to watch!! YUCK!! I begged him not to look but he informed me "Look, my blood is COOL!!" God continues to amaze me with the peace HE can give these kids as they have to go through these unfair battles.
On to the big news........The tumor remains "stable." Yes, stable is GOOD!!! Anytime, it is not growing that is good. We are thrilled with the news and continue to pray that GOD will allow a complete healing for Luke.
This trip was especially hard for us, as we found out one of our little friends, Bret Brady, has had multiple tumors reoccur. Please visit his web page and offer a prayer and a word of encouragement to his parents www.caringbridge.org/mo/bretbrady. A moment of your time makes a big difference. You become like family with people and these relapses affect us all.
We can't try to understand WHY?? It only confuses things, we must continue to trust and HOPE and believe.

Thank you again for your prayers and emails. Stop and thank GOD for another blessing in Luke's life. Our next appointment will be in January.

Your prayers for our son are such a gift!!!

Stop now and pray for Luke (and children fighting this cancer beast everywhere!!!!)

In His Grip,
Damian, Amanda, Payton and Luke


Friday, October 22, 2004 3:26 PM CDT

I could give you a dozen excuses for not updating sooner but other than.....LIFE and a few hurricanes-that's all I've got!!! God is good and so is Lukey!! I sit in awe as I watch my baby grow and watch the progress that he makes everyday. He is still enjoying kindergarten (although girls have cooties!!!)He still struggles daily with his eye, we continue to do drops and it is tolerable.
We will be returning to St. Jude's on Sunday, our appointments are Monday 10/25-Wednesday 10/27. Please keep us in your prayers for a safe trip and that we will receive positive results about Luke's tumor. As each visit, Luke will endure multitudes of testing to make sure the radition has not affected him. I promise to update upon our return. We truly appreciate your prayers.
We continue to claim a complete healing for our son!!!

Please STOP NOW and PRAY FOR LUKE!!!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea Family


Monday, August 23, 2004 11:38 AM CDT

WOW!!! It has been such a busy month around here!! Luke is doing GREAT!! He started Kindergarten and is absolutley loving it. Yes, my shy little boy has "left the nest" (with not much sympathy for me I might add.) As I turned to leave him on the first day, I bent down to kiss him (only on the cheek) with tears in MY eyes he lovingly said to me "Mom, don't get emotional!!!" Do you think he may have heard that before?=) He is adjusting far beyond what I could have imagined. He really likes his teacher and she has such a sweet and gentle spirit about her that makes Luke feel comfortable. He goes to a Christian Kindergarten and is already learning his bible verses. This adjustment has been far harder on.....ME!!!! After all Luke has been through I tend to over protect him-that's so hard not to do. I want him SAFE and HAPPY!!! So, needless to say I am trying NOT to drive the teacher crazy by having a conference with her EVERYDAY (although....that's not a bad idea). Not only did Luke start Kindergarten but his big sister Payton started a new BIG school and is in 1st grade!! How much more can I take??? My babies are getting big!! Payton is mad at me today because I STILL won't let her walk to her classroom alone. I told her to be patient with me. These are big steps!!! So, the first week I watched the clock all day long to see when I could go pick them up but I'm slowly adjusting to being ALONE =) and have strated a new routine and volunteering at their schools. ( How will I ever handle college? They aren't allowed to move out!!!=)
Luke is really doing great. His eye is still an issue. His teacher puts the drops in while he is at school and we continue to be on an every 2-3 hour schedule between the drops and ointment.
Our next appointment at St. Jude's is October 25th. We continue to praise God for the miracles and blessings that we have seen. We also continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke. Our prayers are with the children and famililes of all who are fighting these unfair diseases.

Although we are hopeful about the future we will never forget all that God has seen us through!! We live each day happy to be alive, happy to have our children and each other.

Luke will celebrate his 5th birthday on Thursday, August 26th!!! Now that's a praise!!!!


Thank you for your continued love and support!!

Stop NOW and Pray for LUKE!!


In HIS Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Thursday, July 15, 2004 6:46 AM CDT

We returned from St. Jude's late Tuesday night with "favorable" (that's medical lingo that we like to translate to "AWESOME")results. Luke's tumor is stable. It is the same size that it was three months ago at our last visit. Yes, this is good news, anything other than bigger is good news. It took me a few visits to understand this -because the "Mama" in me wants it gone or smaller everytime but stable is GREAT!!! WOO HOO!! Poor little guy had two very hard days. The psycological evaluation went well, no problems but it was over two hours long of him answering questions and putting puzzles together. He was wiped out and did I mention a bit cranky? We then headed for his eye visit. The weight in his left eye lid looked great but his vision was extremely impaired. He could not even see the picture on the 20/100 line. They still feel that Luke does not have a vision problem that requires glasses that his is all coming from the dryness of his cornea. Basically, if he is having a bad day with his eye (red, dry, etc) His vision will be impaired. Then when we add ointment on top of that his vision is ever more blurry. At this point, there isn't a lot more we can do-drops, ointment and patching it shut at night. Although they did add an additional patching to the good eye atleast one hour a day so that the left eye will receive the full signal from the brain and not get lazy on us. We then headed for an EKG (Lukey had an extra heart beat during his eye surgery last time so they wanted to do an EKG to make sure everything was okay) He does have an irregular heartbeat. At this point, we will just monitor it. No one is really sure why and they don't feel it is something to be concerned about at this time. Then it was on to our speech testing -which we rescheduled because Lukey was having a melt down. No big deal we will do it next time. After a little break and some chocolate he was recharged and ready for his hearing test. His hearing loss remains about 30-35 percent.We were made aware of how important safety is with this type of hearing loss-when Lukey hears a car on his left side the sound will first generate out of his right ear and he will think the car is coming from the right. Also, surrounding sounds interupt his hearing (For example loud busy noises in a classroom may cause him not to hear the teachers voice, loud traffic sounds may cause him not to hear detailed close sounds) This is all manageable with lifestyle changes and making him more aware of his surroundings. I think that was it for Monday. We then headed over to The Ronald McDonald House for "CAMP!" We had a great night building toolboxes and having dinner from Corky's (Memphis's BEST BBQ) We had a geat time visiting with old friends, catching up on good news and sadly hearing about the friends who have earned their angel wings. It is always nice to see Ms. Sherri (manager of RMH) and we got to spend alot of time with a little super hero-Aaron Hunter (www.caringbridge.org/il/aarondhunter)and his family. It is hard to explain the feeling of "family" that you have at St. Jude's. We are so blessed to have wonderful bonds with the doctors and nurses.
Tuesday was another hard day for Luke. We met with the oncologist first then on to ...needles, IV's and sleepy medicine. You know how much he loves needles. He actually did so well. Only a few huge crocodile tears. His heart beats were monitored during his MRI with no problems. He woke up in an okay mood but complaining he didn't feel well. He really was feeling sick because chocolate wouldn't even work. We had to take him back to the doctor to get him something for nausea and he stayed "SICK" for several hours. He has never had any affects from his anesthesia and he received it everday for 7 weeks. We then left for the airport and "HOME SWEET HOME" as Lukey said when we walked in the door.
So it was another great trip. Thank you all so much for your support and prayers. We continue to ask you to pray specifically for Luke's complete healing and that he will adapt to his few lifestyle changes. Please pray specifically for his eye.
Say a prayer of Thanksgiving for all God has blessed you with and all that HE has protected you from. Always remember the families and children fighting cancer and other illnesses. There are people at St. Jude's who have been there for over two years. Leaving everything behind to fight for their kids!! Pray for the parents who have been left behind.

Thank you for your love and friendships.

Stop Now and Pray for LUKE!!


In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea
Jer 29:11


Friday, July 9, 2004 8:44 AM CDT

Someone tell me where the past three months have gone? It's hard to believe that it's that time again. Back to St. Jude's. Lukey told me that he was excited to go to "His" hospital when I asked him why he said in a frustrated voice "Mom, you know why because of all the toys!!" How silly of me to ask. It is such a blessing that St. Jude's is a place of fun for him and not a place of fear or even scary memories. We are very excited that Damian and Payton will be going with us. WOO HOO!! Our flight leaves on Sunday and our appointments begin bright and early Monday morning. Lukey will be having an extensive psycological evaluation (a 4 hour test with a 4 year old-Good Luck!!)This is to ensure that the radiation has not affected him psycologically-(Wait!! That's me that it affected=)He will also have an EKG before his sedation for the MRI becasue he had extra heart beats during the sedation last visit during his eye surgery. So, they want to make sure that everything is okay with his heart. Other than those two extra test everything else is the norm-hearing test, vision test plus check up for the weight in his eye lid, speech, occupational therapy, physical therapy etc and then the MRI. A piece of cake!!! Then we fly home late Tuesday night. Actually, his MRI is the last test on Tuesday so they might have to call us at home on Wednesday with the results.
Please pray specifically for safe travel, positive test results in all areas, that Luke's tumor is smaller, and that God will grant Lukey peace and courage to endure these busy days. Luke has shared lots of memories of his surgery lately, which he has never talked about in the past year. He told me last week about after he had his brain surgery he couldn't swollow so we had to put medicine in all his food. It's actually nice to hear him talk about such a bad time in his little life with such innocense and "a no big deal" attitude. He'll also be glad to show you the scar from his pic line in his arm where he got his "sleepy medicine" everyday for radiation. He is our hero!!
Thank you all for the emails, love and continued prayers. Please think and pray for us as we go to find out the "good news". Lukey's MRI is Tuesday at 11:00a.m. Please remember him and ask God to continue the healing in Luke's life.
I'll try to update from the hospital!!!

Stop now and pray for Luke!!!

In His Grip,
Amanda and Damian DeAndrea
Jer 29:11


Friday, June 18, 2004 6:10 AM CDT

Dear Friends-
It's hard to believe how quickly the summer is passing. Luke and Payton are having fun and staying busy. We are going to the beach tomorrow so they are very excited. Lukey is doing very well with his swimming. Well, he is at least in the water with "floaties" on his arms. That is big progress!! We have decided not to give him swimming lessons right now and try to work with him ourselves just for the mere fact that he is absolutely terrified. As I shared with you before he has gone over a year not being able to get his face wet because of his eye not shutting so all of a sudden to expect him to go under water and splash around-just isn't his cup of tea!! That's okay, slowly but surely he is getting adjusted. His eye is doing very well. We are still putting the ointment in about every 4 hours. Some days he won't have any redness and some days you could put the oinment in every hour and his poor little eye stays so irritated. But he handles everthing like a trooper. The doctor wants us to start teaching him how to put the medicine in his own eye. He says since this is going to be a way of life for him he needs to know and always carry his drops with him. (That should be interesting=) Other than that he is really doing well, growing like a weed and still loving basketball-he has decided that he may like "The Ninja Turtles as much as he likes the Hulk" - Now that's big news!!!! He is still not sure about the whole kindergarten thing-he says he may not feel like going EVERYDAY. He is a hoot!! Ms. Payton is doing great-swimming like a fish and she is excited about 1st grade.
We have booked our next visit to St. Jude's. We will leave Sunday July 11 and return on July 13. Lukey has a big psycological evaluation this time to make sure that the radiation has not affected him. The other appointments and test are routine for him now-eye (to check the gold weight in his eye lid and to make sure he isn't losing more vision) Hearing (to make sure he isn't losing more hearing) the MRI of course to monitor the tumor and he will be having an EKG this time because during his eye surgery they noticed an extra heart beat. This may be nothing but they want to be sure before putting him to sleep for his MRI. We are still trusting in the Lord for Luke's complete healing. Everyday we cry out to God asking him to "finish" healing our son. Everyday we realize how precious time is and how precious life is. We continue to draw strength from God as we walk this journey.
Thank you all for your prayers, love and support.

Stop Now and Pray for Luke!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


We have lost a very special friend that we met at St. Jude's. Please stop and pray for SAMUEL's family and visit his webpage with a word of support www.caringbridge.org/europe/samuel


Friday, May 21, 2004 2:04 PM CDT

All is well at The DeAndrea home (still missing our computer though) WELL, we are the proud parents of two graduates!!! Luke graduated from preschool yesterday morning and Payton graduated from kindergarten last night!! What a special day for us. What an emotional day for "Mommy". I fought back the tears as I watched Luke march on stage, sing (yes, he actually sang) and receive his diploma. This time last year we found out the tumor had begun to grow back and we were preparing to leave for St. Jude's for radiation. We Praise God for all the miracles in Lukey's life and that we were able to watch him mark the beginning of many other memories and special days. Payton had a wonderful ceremony. She said The Lord's Prayer in Italian. WOW!!! What a great job she did (More tears for me!!) She is ready for 1st grade, Luke on the other hand could take or leave kindergarten (more like leave) I have been trying to prepare him and get him excited about school next year, his big question is "Why do I have to go EVERYDAY? That's too much!!"
His eye is doing well. We are still doing the ointment and drops every 3-4 hours. As far as the swimming is going- Well, "tramatic" would be a word for it. Poor little guy, it has been a year and half of him not getting his face wet because of his eye and now all of a sudden we want him to wet it. Not happening!! I know in time, he will get use to it (but it is still uncomfortable for him because his eye does not shut).
We were very honored to be apart of "Fore The Children" golf tournament. Luke was honored last Saturday after their golfing and was given a remote control hummer along with a real "Hummer limo ride" for his birthday in August!!! WOW!!! He was so excited. Thank you Mark and Dana Clements and everyone who was a part of this special day. We feel so honored and grateful for your kindness!!
Well, school will be out for Payton next week so we are headed into summer fun!!! Our next appointment at St. Jude in Memphis is July 12th. Thank you for checking in on us and please continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke.

May God Bless you for your thoughts and prayers for Luke and our family!!

Stop Now and Pray for Luke!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea


Thursday, May 6, 2004 6:22 AM CDT

You don't realize how much you use your computer until, it's not there. So sorry it's been awhile since our last update but our computer still has a bad virus. We are working on getting it fixed.
Well, we are all doing great!! Lukey's eye looks wonderful. have an appointment this Friday with a local eye doctor to see if his cornea has healed. If it has, I believe they will tell us we can stop putting the ointment in as often so we can see if the weight will actually help lubricate his eye. What a blessig that would be!! He handles the ointment well but it is a lot of work to put it in every 2-3 hours. The symetry in his face is so much better with the weight. His eyes close at the same time now. We are waiting for the clearance from the eye doctor and then we will start.....swimming lessons. Luke asked me how you learn to swim without getting your face wet. (he he) He missed out on swimming last summer because of his radiation and since then he could not get his eye wet so we are very excited to get started!! (or should I say "Mommy is excited to get started. Luke is too worried about how to stay dry) He will have to wear goggles but hey that's okay. Luke is doing great in school. It's hard to believe that summer is almost here and he will be startig Kindergarten. WOW!!! Payton is enjoying school and looking forward to summer. Damian is busy with work. (We had a death in our family, our 20 year old nephew, so things have been a bit hectic around here. We had to go to Philadelphia for a week for the funeral. THe kids have handled things well)
Our next appointment at St. Jude's in in July!!!
THank you all for continuing to check in on us. I promise to update more when our computer is fixed!!!
Don't stop praying for us and a complete healing for Lukey!! Pray specifically for his eye to heal. Thank you for the constant love and support!!

Stop now and pray for Luke!!

In HIS Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea

P.S.
Welcome home HENRY THOMAS-who has been away for 6 months serving our country!!!


Sunday, April 11, 2004 2:18 PM CDT

Finally....an update from us!!! I am so sorry but our home comupter has a virus and I have just now made it to another computer!! Thank you all for your continued "love notes" and prayers. Where do I begin? Well, needless to say we made it home safely. Luke did awesome with his eye surgery. And yes, I made it through it, too!! (thanks to your prayers.) I was more involved with this surgery than his brain surgery, they let me robe up and accompany him into the surgical room. (Boy, my knees were shaking and I just fought the tears back while biting my lip and PRAYING, Lord, keep my baby safe and help me not to pass out in front of him=) Luke was such a trooper, he gave me a kiss and said he'd see me after his "sleepy medicine". The surgery was about an hour, all things went well, he has disposable sutures and there has been very little swelling (the second day he looked like he had been punched in the eye but now all you can see is a tiny incision in his eyelid) He has to wear his glasses when at school or play for protection and we have to continue the ointment until his cornea is healed. We will be checked in two weeks. Already we can see a difference in his eyelid closing and it really adds some symetry to his face.
Now for more "AWESOME" news!!!! We got the results from the MRI and tumor is "SMALLER"!!!!!!!!!! Almost half the size that it was three months ago. We are praising the Lord for this awesome report and continue to claim a complete healing for LUKEY. Over all, our trip was so good. We were able to see some of our "St. Jude" family. (Aaron, EmmaGrace, Samuel and more, please say a special prayer of healing for them) and of course all of the the Doctors and nurses who make this whole journey easier by their love and dedication to our children. We are so lucky to be apart of this hospital.
We are very glad to be home. Damian and Payton did quite well without us (I believe Chuck E. Cheese, Checkers, McDonalds and a few other fine dining establishments were a part of their evening agenda.) We were welcomed home at the aiport by them with a big "WELCOME HOME MOMMY AND LUKE" sign and roses!! WOW!! Well, I thank you all for the prayers that helped me travel with Luke alone (I know I'm never really alone and GOD continued to whisper that to me)
Wishing you all a blessed Easter. Celebrate life and your blessings.

STOP now and PRAY for LUKE!!!

In HIS grip,
Amanda


Tuesday, April 6, 2004 2:09 PM CDT

Well, things have definitely been busy here. Luke has had non stop appointments for two days. He is now in MRI (after a big battle with a needle that didn't want to cooperate) Poor little guy cried so hard, OUCHIE!! OUCHIE!! Please make them stop!! But finally they were able to sedate him and he drifted off with a big SNORE!! Yesterday we got some distrubing news about his eye. His cornea is very affected (again) The doctor feels he may have permanent scaring and wants to schedule surgery immediately to insert the gold weight in his eyelid (which will hopefully alleviate some of the dryness because his eyelid will shut more) The surgery is scheduled for tomorrow (wednesday) morning at 11:00a.m. Although, this was not expected I feel good that it can be done here where they do many of these procedures. Luke will have to stay overnight, which means we will have to extend our trip another day. If this surgery (along with continued ointment and drops) does not help, Luke is at jeopardy for losing the sight in his left eye. This is why it is so important to go ahead and do it.
Thank you all for your prayers!! Luke has been such a brave boy (his daddy would be proud). He has indured everything with a calmness and of course his "silly sense of humor" which keeps me going. I had no idea how tough this would be without Damian, but the prayers of others have sustained me. (I actually waited to have a melt down until after he was sedated. That is progress for me!!=) PLEASE continue to pray for us. Luke really misses his Dad and Payton. Every toy he sees he wants to bring one back for his sister. Well, the MRI should be almost over so I will return to see what mood he awakens in (usually a bit grouchy plus he went under very hungry -who wouldn't be after no food all morning.) Thank you for your continued prayers and support.
As you pray remember to thank God for the blessings in your life and the health and protection of yourselves and children. There are so many hurting families here, count your blessings!!!

Stop now and pray for LUKE!!!

In His Grip,
Amanda

I will try to update after his surgery!!


Sunday, April 4, 2004 8:51 AM CDT

Well, another three months have come and gone and we are headed back to St. Jude's!! Luke and I will be leaving this morning. Please pray for a safe trip and specifically good news!!! WE are claiming an awesome adventure!! This is the first time I have gone alone- (Have I mentioned that a few hundred times over the last few weeks??) Thankfully, God has blessed me with a peace today. We will update the webpage from St. Jude's.

Thank you for your prayers!!

Stop now and pray for LUKE (and his mommy!!)

In His Grip,
Amanda


Monday, March 22, 2004 1:42 PM CST

A quick update to let you know that all is well at the DeAndrea home. Payton and Luke have both been sick. Payton with ear infections and Luke with the croope but they are both much better now. This week is Spring Break so the kids are out of school. Hopefully we will make it to the beach!!
Our trip to St. Jude's is quickly approaching. (April 4-7)We are awaiting the good news of a clear scan. Please keep us in your prayers as we go, praying specifically for peace for Luke (this trip will be a bit different for him since Damian is not going)and that all tests and scans will be favorable.
Thank you for continuing to think of us.

Stop NOW and pray for Luke!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea


Wednesday, March 10, 2004 12:19 AM CST

(Sorry, but we are having major computer problems and currently can't put any of our pictures from Luke's "Make A Wish" Disney cruise on line yet. We're working on it)

First of all we would like to say THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU to the "Make A Wish" Foundation for arranging such a special trip for Luke and our family. We left for our Disney cruise to the Bahamas on Sunday morning. Luke was treated like "royalty"!! Disney did such a great job of adding little extras that thrilled Lukey!! We arrived in Nassau on Monday, we took a tour (with a crazy man as our taxi driver) of the island (No seat belts and I think I prayed the entire time that we would actually return ALIVE!!) The next day we went to Disney's private island Castaway Cay-WOW!!! Payton and Damian snorkled while Luke and I built a sand castle. We rented a paddle boat, caught some sun and had a blast!!! Wednesday we were at sea all day. Each day was packed with things to do. Characters everywhere, signing autographs and taking pictures. Each night we saw phenomenal shows- and did I mention the FOOD???? That of course was the best part for Damian and I. You name it-we ate it!!! They had an area called Oceaneer Club where the kids would go each day to play. They would give the parents a pager if your child had a problem or wanted to leave. (It was very safe only one way in and out and you had to have wrist bands and a pass word to leave. Yes, I am neurotic!!)They had a blast!! A tea party with Snow white, arts and crafts, games. We had to beg them to actually leave and come with us.
Alexa and Geo had fun running all over the ship,too!!
Something special was delivered to our room each day for Luke. From a tray of cookies with a note from "Mickey", to an invitation to meet a special guest-which was just the "Make A Wish" families and "MICKEY MOUSE!" We got front row seats to one of the shows, an autographed picture of the characters and the list goes on.
We got to spend 5 days watching our son have the time of his life!!! And got to enjoy some down time with the entire family. It's amazing how things can change in just one year-this time last year Lukey was recovering from his brain surgery and we had not yet learned that the tumor had grown back!! Thank you Lord for your continued blessings upon Luke and our family!!!

Luke's eye is okay. We continue to do the ointment and tapings. Actually Luke got a Captain Hook costume on the cruise to match his eye patches that he wears!!!!

Our next appointment at St. Judes is April 5-7. W have to leave on Sunday April 4th and it looks like Luke and I are going alone. PLEASE keep us in your prayers. I am a bit nervouse about going without Damian, but situations don't allow him to go. He and Payton will have fun at home while Luke and I go get the good news!!!!

Thank you all for your continued love and support and interest in Luke and our family!!!

Stop NOW and Pray for LUKE!!!

IN HIS GRIP,
The DeAndrea's


Sunday, March 7, 2004 9:24 PM CST

We are having computer problems. We will update about our wonderful Make A Wish cruise on Monday.


Saturday, February 28, 2004 9:37 PM CST

What an exciting day we had!!! Luke had a great basketball game. With each week we see such a change in him. Normally he is such a shy little guy but on the court he is "an animal" (laugh out loud) Not quite an animal but definately building confindence and becoming more aggressive. Which is a good thing. Today at half time Luke was named "Athlete of the Week". I sat with tears (of course) running down my face as he ran over with his certificate. He was so proud of himself and there are no words to express how we felt. What a blessing to watch him play and enjoy himself.

Well, we are all packed and ready to leave for Luke's "Make A Wish" Disney cruise. We will head to Port Canaveral in the morning and board the ship around 1:00p.m. We will go the Bahama's and then to Disney's private island. It will be a 4 day cruise. The people and volunteers at "Make A Wish" have been incredible. This is another wonderful establishment helping spread a little joy to children fighting unfair illnesses. We are so thankful to be given such a special gift for Luke and our family. Keep us in your prayers for a safe trip. We'll update when we return.

Thank you all for your continued prayers. Luke's eye is about the same. We are continuing to tape it shut at night and 4 hours a day. Continue to pray for his complete healing.

Stop Now and Pray For Lukey!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Friday, February 20, 2004 12:23 AM CST

Dear Friends-
Monday's appointment at the eye doctor went very well. The doctor said that Luke's eye was 99% better (WOW!!) and that his vision in his left eye went from 20/400 to 20/50. His cornea still has a few abrasions but nothing like it was last week. The best news was that the doctor doesn't feel that Lukey has any neurological problems with his sight (basically meaning the brain is still sending a signal to his left eye and recognizing that even though the left side of his face is paralyzied that his left eye still needs to see)So, the plan at this point is to continuing patching his left eye (nightly and 4 hours a day)The doctor feels that the patching will be a way of life for Luke and that he will have to do this...forever. He also wants Luke to learn how to pull his eyelid down to make his eye shut-he should do this several times of day to promote lubrication and protect the cornea. We thought all of this was great news (we have already started nagging God with our prayers about the tapings being permanent!!!) The tapings have been difficult for Luke. He feels very embarassed for people to look at him with his eye taped shut. He said "Mommy, everyone thinks I'm weird." We looked North Tampa up and down and could not find a pirate patch but.....Pops Killeen came to the rescue finding not only one but about 8 or 9 cool patches. This really helped Luke, he now doesn't mind the taping as much due to the fun patches!! It helps that Payton wears one too!!!
We got our next appointment date for St. Jude's. It is April 5th-7th. We have a VERY busy schedule. Luke has a big psycological evaluation (suppose to take 4 hours to see if the radiation has affected his IQ) He also has to meet with an endocrinologist (to make sure he is growing properly and that his hormones are not affected from the radiation) So...we'll be busy. We are hoping that Payton will be able to come with us (she is alot of comfort and fun for him)
Please continue to pray for Luke as he fights and wins over this illness. Valentine's Day marked one year from his brain surgery. He has gone through SO much but is still just a normal 4 year old boy. We are celebrating life!!!!Thank you all for your faithful prayers and concern for our family.

Stop now and pray for LUKE!!!

In His Grip!
The DeAndrea Family

P.S. We are getting excited about our "Make A Wish" Disney cruise!! Only one week away.


Tuesday, February 10, 2004 10:19 AM CST

Where do I begin? Things have been very busy since last Thursday. First of all, the radiothon for St. Jude's was awesome!!! What a priviledge to have been a part of it. WQYK was so dedicated and sincere about getting the word out about St. Jude's. They raised over $320,000.00 for St. Jude's. WOW!!! Thank you ro all who became Partners In Hope. If you are interested in donating to St. Jude's log onto their web site at www.StJude.org. It doesn't take a big amount to make a difference in a child's life. With your donation you offer hope to Luke and many other children facing life threating illnesses.
Now on to LUKE-We saw a surgeon on Thursday about placing a weight in Luke's eyelid (as you know Luke suffers from facial paralysis on the left side and his eye does not shut. He has to have drop and ointment several times a day for irritation and dryness.) We got distrubing news at the surgeon's office. Luke's vision in his left eye is being affected. The doctor thinks Luke's brain may not be sending a signal to the left eye (since the left side of the face is paralyzed) He recommended that we see a pediatric neuro-optomologist. I can't tell you how my heart sank as Luke said "I can't see the pictures". It is hard to give a 4 year old an eye exam, since he can not read they do pictures. At first, I thought he was acting silly and just not participating but he could see everything perfectly with his right eye. Well, we were blessed to get an appointment with a specialist on Monday. The doctor told us that Lukey's cornea is VERY VERY disturbed, affected, aggrevated (pick a word). They did a very interesting exam that showed Luke sees everything opposite in his Left eye (how irritating that must be for him-although he NEVER complains) The plan is that the cornea needs to heal and the only was to do that is by it being closed. So, Luke is officially a pirate!!! He wears a patch all night and 4 hours a day. We will be seen next Monday to see how much improvement he has made and then we will take the next step to see if there are any other problems. The cornea has to be healed first. Luke did very well with the patch yesterday (although it itches and became bothersome at times)
Please continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke. Pray specifically that his cornea will be completely healed and that he will have no other complications with his sight. Pray that he will handle these challenges with ease.
I almost forgot....he scored two points at his basketball game on Saturday. WOO HOO!!!
Thank you all for your continued love and support. We still need each of you!!!

Stop now and pray for Luke!!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Wednesday, February 4, 2004 4:54 PM CST

Just a quick note to let you know that WQYK (99.5 our local country station) will be having it's annual radiothon to help benefit St. Jude's, on Friday February 6th. We are very excited because we are going to be able to share about St. Jude's and the wonderful blessings this hospital has done in Luke's and our families lives. If you are able to tune in, we should be speaking around 11:15 (or near the noon hour). Please keep us in your prayers that we will be able to help people clearly understand all that St. Jude's does and hopefully raise awareness and funds that will not only help our son but other children suffering with these horrible illnesses.

Stop now and pray for LUKE!!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Monday, January 26, 2004 3:40 AM CST

Well, it was a very exciting weekend around the DeAndrea home!! Payton and Lukey had their very first basketball game at the YMCA. Luke played the whole game, running back and forth (sometimes the wrong direction) He even scored a goal!! Payton did GREAT as well and was chosen "Athlete of the Week" and received a t-shirt and chicken wings from Beef O' Brady's (you would have thought is was a million dollars!!) I'm not sure I can handle my kids and "SPORTS" or should I say my husband, my kids and "SPORTS" -what a combination. It's very nerve racking to watch as your child plays (and of course the other team always cheats-SMILE!!!) We had a wonderful day and I just praised the LORD for the priviledge to watch my kids enjoy their day so much. It's hard to believe that this time last year we had just found out about Luke's tumor and were being told he may never walk again ( let alone play and run!!) God has truly blessed us!!
We have more exciting news!! The Make A Wish foundation has contacted us and they want to grant Lukey a wish. We will be going a Disney cruise at the end of February. He is very excited!!! He also told them that he wanted to ride in a "limo" (he is quite fascinated with them). We are not sure about that wish yet.
Luke has had a tough week with his eye. It remains red and irritated. It seems as if the eye drops and ointment aren't relieving it as much. I am contacting the local eye doctor that we saw last year about placing the weight in his eyelid. It looks like we will need to do that soon. I'm not sure if we can wait until we go back to St. Jude's in April. Other than his eye-he is doing GREAT!!! He is enjoying school (although he doesn't want to kiss me goodbye in front of the teachers anymore. I'll admit it-I cried all the way home. Now he kisses me in the car quickly before anyone can see. Well, that's better than nothing!!!)
Thank you for reading about Luke. He truly is a remarkable four year old boy who has endured a tough year. He is our "HERO". It's hard to wrap my mind around all he has gone through. As I tuck him in bed at night and rub his hair I often think "How can this little head have 8 screws and two plates in it?" God has given us many blessings and continues to give us the strength to fight this battle. Thank you for the CONTINUED prayers and concern for Luke and our family. We truly believe that PRAYER DOES CHANGE THINGS!!!

STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, January 14, 2004 8:56 AM CST

GREAT NEWS!! GREAT NEWS!! GREAT NEWS!! GREAT NEWS!!

It's amazing what all you can do in 48 hours, which was the length of our trip back to St. Jude's. Let's skip right to the good part. The MRI revealed that Luke's brain tumor is slightly smaller!! The physician said "a few millimeters smaller than it was at Luke's last MRI", three months ago. Bottom line, anything smaller is GOOD!!! It was such a fast trip. Luke did awesome getting his IV for sedation. They put a numbing cream on his arm and honestly if he had not of seen the needle (we learn something new everytime-next time we'll make sure no needles are in sight) he would not have even known he was poked, that is how great this numbing agent worked. Monday was a LONG HARD day for him. It started at 5:00a.m. and remeber he couldn't eat. The MRI didn't start until after 2:00p.m. so needless to say he was "hungry". But as always such a little trooper!! Monday night we went to "Corky's", our favorite barbeque place in Memphis. It was really nice because our friend, Alex Schaller, was actually in Memphis on business (and was on our connecting flight from Atlanta to Memphis) so he was able to come over and see St. Jude's and go to dinner with us. It was great. Lukey thought he came all the way from Tampa just to eat with us in Memphis. How Cool!!
Tuesday started early with a physcial therapy appointment which revealed Lukey has no deficits (duh-we watch him jump from the back of the couch to the floor daily and chase his sister up the stairs, the list goes on and on). Our speech appointment got canceled, but being the great physcians we (the parents) are his speech is fine. We then saw Dr. Kunn for the results of the MRI and then left St. Jude's for our appointment with the neurosurgeon regarding Lukey's facial paralysis. The surgeon explained due to the length of time that Luke face has been affected before surgery (remember we noticed his crooked smile etc in pictures for atleast a year before he was diagnosed) that this procedure may not help Luke. He recommended an exploratory surgery to see if the nerve was repairable and if so do the procedure. He said it would have a 20-25hance of working. Working does not mean his face is restored it may only mean partially restored. It could take up to a year after surgery to see if it may be working along with speech therapy. There is a partial loss of your taste. SO......saying all that we are still undecided about what we are going to do. We are going to look into other procedures and options.
All in all, it was a very successful trip. It's always emotional returning. It's great to see the nurses who helped you through each day and we are connected to many of them. It's hard seeing new families start their journey and see old friends who are still there or have returned due to relapses. It's hard not to let yourself say "WHY?" I think I just sat and cried for about an hour watching eveything and everyone, not just for my son but for ALL these precious children fighting. We continue to rely on GOD for our daily strength and for our future.
Please continue to pray for Luke as he fights his batlle with this terrible disease!!!Our next appointment will be in three months.
Thank you all for the prayers, well wishes and notes of support and love! Please take a moment to thank God for our great news and praise him for what he continues to do in Lukey and our entire family's life.

Stop Now and Pray for Luke!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, January 14, 2004 8:56 AM CST

GREAT NEWS!! GREAT NEWS!! GREAT NEWS!! GREAT NEWS!!

It's amazing what all you can do in 48 hours, which was the length of our trip back to St. Jude's. Let's skip right to the good part. The MRI revealed that Luke's brain tumor is slightly smaller!! The physician said "about 2mm smaller than it was at Luke's last MRI", three months ago. Bottom line, anything smaller is GOOD!!! It was such a fast trip. Luke did awesome getting his IV for sedation. They put a numbing cream on his arm and honestly if he had not of seen the needle (we learn something new everytime-next time we'll make sure no needles are in sight) he would not have even known he was poked, that is how great this numbing agent worked. Monday was a LONG HARD day for him. It started at 5:00a.m. and remeber he couldn't eat. The MRI didn't start until after 2:00p.m. so needless to say he was "hungry". But as always such a little trooper!! Monday night we went to "Corky's", our favorite barbeque place in Memphis. It was really nice because our friend, Alex Schaller, was actually in Memphis on business (and was on our connecting flight from Atlanta to Memphis) so he was able to come over and see St. Jude's and go to dinner with us. It was great. Lukey thought he came all the way from Tampa just to eat with us in Memphis. How Cool!!
Tuesday started early with a physcial therapy appointment which revealed Lukey has no deficits (duh-we watch him jump from the back of the couch to the floor daily and chase his sister up the stairs, the list goes on and on). Our speech appointment got canceled, but being the great physcians we (the parents) are his speech is fine. We then saw Dr. Kunn for the results of the MRI and then left St. Jude's for our appointment with the neurosurgeon regarding Lukey's facial paralysis. The surgeon explained due to the length of time that Luke face has been affected before surgery (remember we noticed his crooked smile etc in pictures for atleast a year before he was diagnosed) that this procedure may not help Luke. He recommended an exploratory surgery to see if the nerve was repairable and if so do the procedure. He said it would have a 20-25% chance of working. Working does not mean his face is restored it may only mean partially restored. It could take up to a year after surgery to see if it may be working along with speech therapy. There is a partial loss of your taste. SO......saying all that we are still undecided about what we are going to do. We are going to look into other procedures and options.
All in all, it was a very successful trip. It's always emotional returning. It's great to see the nurses who helped you through each day and we are connected to many of them. It's hard seeing new families start their journey and see old friends who are still there or have returned due to relapses. It's hard not to let yourself say "WHY?" I think I just sat and cried for about an hour watching eveything and everyone, not just for my son but for ALL these precious children fighting. We continue to rely on GOD for our daily strength and for our future.
Please continue to pray for Luke as he fights his batlle with this terrible disease!!!Our next appointment will be in three months.
Thank you all for the prayers, well wishes and notes of support and love! Please take a moment to thank God for our great news and praise him for what he continues to do in Lukey and our entire family's life.

Stop Now and Pray for Luke!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Damian


Monday, January 12, 2004 4:18 AM CST

It's hard to believe three months have come and gone and we are headed back to St. Jude's. I'm a bit emotional this morning ( I just kissed my beautiful daughter goodbye as she slept like a little angel. We are hoping that she can go with us next time. This is all very hard on her as well. I know she is in the BEST of care with my mom and my friend Kelly BUT...we (ESPECIALLY LUKEY) miss her) Payton was so kind yesterday. We were explaining to Luke that he could not eat or drink anything today (because of his sedation) and he started to cry, Damian explained to him that "Mommy and Daddy were not going to eat anything either so we could be just like him" and Payton said "i'm not going to eat either Luke until you can" (which works out to be her lunch time). I thought her heart was so open and kind by this gesture (although she did ask me later if she gets hungry can she have a little snack. LAUGH!!)

Well, this is the part that you "GO BACK INTO HOSPITAL MODE" as Damian says. You reach down and get that bit of strength you have left, the part that reminds you your child has an illness but gives you the courage to watch him go through pain knowing it is for his best and above all knowing that GOD is in control and goes with Lukey when we no longer can. Returning to St. Jude's was very emotional for me last trip BUT we are embracing this and know GOD has big plans for our sons life.
Please pray for us today as we travel (Remember I'm not the best flyer =) Pray for Payton to have a wonderful two days at home. Pray for Luke to find peace and courage as he undergoes the IV, his sedation, the MRI and every single test he will endure. PRAY SPECIFICALLY FOR A CLEAN CLEAR SCAN. Pray that we will be a witness to others about our son's journey. We are claiming victory over this trip.
Thank you all for your prayers, thoughts, call, notes. You continue to amaze us with your concern for your son and family.

Stop Now and Pray for Lukey!!

In HIs Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Sunday, January 4, 2004 7:57 PM CST

Picture this.....7 total passengers in one car (4 being native Floridans, 3 out of those 4 never have seen snow-the other 3 passengers native Philidelphians but have been in Florida about 12 years now so their blood is thick or thin whatever makes you COLD!!) We arrived in Gatlinburg after many, many , many hours of driving (did I mention the 7 people in the car?he he) What a sight to behold as it had just snowed several inches!! I believe I rode for miles with my mouth wide open never seeing a sight quite so gorgeous, it looked as if God has just placed every speck of snow on the tip of each branch, on the rocks in the stream, everywhere perfectly. There was only one problem....it was COLD!! I have never been in 21 degree weather, but I was a "trooper". After actually being able to get out of the car (although my lips were completely frozen) I headed straight to Wal-Mart for long johns!!! I figured out there is no such things as fashion at those temperatures. After coming to grips with "it ain't getting much warmer here and I will probably never feel my feet again" we all had "The Best Christmas EVER!!" Payton and Luke were amazed at the snow and I can't tell you how many times we pulled over to make snowmen. But I think the person who enjoyed himself the most was my husband, Damian. Growing up in Philly, the snow brought back so many fun memories for him and he wanted Payton and Lukey to do everything he did!!! He would pull over anywhere possible that he thought would be a good hill to sled on, (I stood patiently praying for their saftey and that my feet would not be frost bitten. Okay, one more tiny issue I forgot to mention...how is it legal to drive on a mountain rode that you could just fall off of?? I have never squeezed an arm rest so hard- lot's of "OOH's and Watch out Damian". How can a road just turn and turn and turn with no guard rails--we don't have those roads here in Floria!!!) Well, along with the snowmen and sleding they went mountain climbing and skiing and we woke up to a beautiful surprise on Christmas Eve-it was snowing. We even put up a tree and strung popcorn and made our own ornaments (Can you say Little House on the Prarie?) It was awesome!!! No phones, no interuptions-just celebrating the birth of our saviour and the wonderful blessings he has given us this year!!! My in laws and my mom and brother had a wonderful time as well. It was perfect!!

We are looking forward to our trip To Memphis on Monday Jan 12. Please pray specifically that Luke's tumor is decreasing-Wait!! Pray that it is GONE!!!!!!!! Pray for travel mercies for us and that Payton will be safe here with Nanna. I tend to let my emotions get a bit carried away as I anticipate these trips and now I am suffering from a bad asthma attack (probably triggered by the cold and altitude from Gatlinburg or the mountain roads (smile)) So please pray for my health to improve FAST!!!!

Thank you all for continuing to check in on us and pray for the healing of our son!! What a year 2003 was, we are looking forward to seeing continued miracles in 2004. I will update before we leave on monday with our specific schedule. Our hearts are filled with love and gratitude for you all.

Stop now and pray for LUKE!!!!!

In His Grip,
Amanda


Thursday, December 18, 2003 11:24 PM CST

Sorry it has been a while since our last update. Things have been busy preparing for Christmas and our trip to Gatlinburg. We will be leaving tomorrow to hopefully spend a "white christmas" in Tennessee. (Can you believe I have never seen snow? I'm a native Floridian!!) The kids are quite excited about our trip. Damian parents, my mom and my youngest brother are going. (should be interesting =) togetherness is good for a family right?) We will return home Saturday after Christmas.
Luke has had a busy few weeks at school. By the way, he did great in his school performance (he was a Christmas tree). He actually sang about two words of "Rockin around the Christmas tree" before he totally froze. Hey, atleast he didn't run off the stage!! His eye remains the same, sometimes worse with the cold weather and wind. He asked me today when he was going back to St. Jude's. I told him in a few weeks, he said "Good, I can see my friends BUT am I going to get a needle again?" He is at a hard age to explain things to without it turning into complete fear for him. We will leave for St. Jude's on Monday, January 12th at 7:00 a.m. Our appointment for the MRI is at noon. Tuesday morning is packed with testings and we will find out the results of the MRI, then we will meet with the surgeon about his face. It's a quick trip, we will be returning home Tuesday evening, January 13th.
Please continue to pray for a complete healing for LUKE. Pray specifically for our appointment and good test results.
We wish you all a blessed Christmas and will update when we return home.
Thank you for the love and support you have shown to us.

Stop now and pray for Luke!

Merry Christmas!! Happy Birthday Jesus!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Monday, December 1, 2003 7:15 PM CST

Well, we had a great Thanksgiving!! Everyone survived eating my cooking (so far). Payton and Luke enjoyed a special day playing with their cousins. Lukey enjoyed the turkey but refused to taste the pumpkin pie, "Maybe I'll try it when I'm five" he said.
We will find out the detailed times of our trip back to St. Jude's this week (appointments are January 12-13). We have received the appointment schedule and once again Lukey is packed with two days of busy testing (physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech, hearing test etc)and of course the MRI. We will also see the surgeon regarding the procedure on Luke's face (connect the nerve to help with the paralysis and his eye closing.)
Luke has had a good week. His eye is the same-red, irritated requiring drops and taping it shut. So far, he has had only minimal side effects from the radiation!! This is such a blessing after hearing all that "COULD" happen. We live each day praying that his tumor is continuing to shrink and that he will be healed completely!! Payton NEVER ends a prayer without saying "and help my brothers brain tumor to never come back!!"
Exciting news....Luke will be in his schools Christmas program this Friday night. He will be a Christmas tree and has to sing two songs with his class. As I was helping him practice this weekend he said "Mom, why do I have to practice when I'm not even gonna sing? I just want to stand there." Hopefully I have convinced him to sing. We'll see.
Continue to pray for Luke and our family as we face each day with FAITH and trust in the Lord.

STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, November 23, 2003 5:52 PM CST

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!! HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!


Each year at Thanksgiving right before we eat, as we all gather around the table, we each name things that we are thankful for. Needless to say, our list is much longer this year and truly more heartfelt. I think in past years that I probably rattled off....I'm thankful for family, friends, health, that we are all together etc. etc. without truly stopping to realize the importance and the real blessings I have to cherish in my life. There are no words to tell you how thankful that Damian and I feel about how GOD has truly blessed our family this year. What a roller coaster we have been on, what challenges we have face but BOY O BOY....we are thankful that we are here, right now, in this place, in this moment with our PRECIOUS children, family and friends. As I prayed the other evening I asked to forgive me for not realizing the protection and mercy and blessings that he has given me. Why do we usually have to face or see adversity to realize our blessings or how truly protected our lives are? I guess that is human nature. Point being..Don't wait to hit a bump before you realize how smooth your ride is.

We will be staying home for Thanksgiving. My mom (aka: Nanna Dorothy) is going to see my brother at college in Tennessee (that means our dinner will not taste near as good. BOO HOO!) Payton is busy making pilgram hats for everyone to wear. Both Payton and Luke had harvest fest lunches at school last Wednesday. Payton's class prepared their entire meal. Very impressive, hopefully she can help me out. Lukey had a fun day as well. He on the other hand was an Indian and is making Indian hats for us to wear. It will be interesting to see who wears what.

Luke has had a great week. His eye is still red but the drops and ointment have been controlling it. Remember our next appointment at St. Jude's will be January 12th.

Please continue to keep us in your prayers. We are continuing to claim a COMPLETE healing for our son. We pray that the tumor is being destroyed with each passing day and that Luke will not have any complications from the radiation.

How do we say THANK YOU for your love and prayers? Our lives have been surrounded by people who have wrapped their arms around us and squeezed strength, hope, help, encouragement, love and kindness into our lives. As we name the things we are thankful for this year, you all are apart of it.

Please remember people who are less fortunate or who may be going through hard times. Pray for all the children who can not be home at Thanksgiving, who are receiving treatment. Pray for the families who have suffered loss.

Be thankful for the moment!!!!!!

Thank you for blessing and touching our lives.

Stop now and pray for Luke!!

In His Grip!
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, November 11, 2003 6:41 PM CST

CHECK OUT THE NEW PICTURES!!!!!

What an amazing weekend we had. We were overwhelmed at the outpouring of support at the CRAFT and BAKE sale this weekend. What a special day for us. As I drove up in front of Publix there was a HUGE (and I mean HUGE) beautiful poster size picture of Lukey and a big sign that said "FOR LUKE". I could not fight back the tears (and once again the reality of this journey). The day was GREAT!! I have never seen so many beautiful crafts and yummy baked good. We would like to thank everyone who helped with this event. We are in awe at the generosity and kindness of our friends and even complete strangers. A special thanks to Michelle and Sabine Schaller (and their husbands Peter and Alex) who worked many long hours planning this. Your actions speak loudly at the true friends that you are to our family!!! We will never forget all you have done.
Another nice suprise was "Lukey's cookbook". It is absolutely beautiful. (More tears from me as I read through it and saw Lukey's face in it.) Elizabeth and Amy have already had to order more. Thank you everyone for purchasing these.
Luke is doing well. His eye is still a bit irritated this week. More drops and ointment. He has handled the hearing loss extremely well. Actually, people don't realize he even has a loss. We are curious to see in January if this has changed any.
Thank you for the prayers for Damian's father. He is doing very well and recovering at home. Doesn't look like he will have to have any further treatment for the cancer.

I have had a very heavy heart this week as we learned that a special little girl that we met at St. Jude's and stayed with at the Ronald McDonald House, passed away. Her name was April Currier and she was 6 years old. The last time we saw her, she and Payton painted each others fingernails and played without a care in the world. I ask that each of you pray for peace for her parents and family. Her web page is www.caringbridge.org/fl/aprilcurrier. PLEASE PLEASE take a moment to offer a word of encouragement. I believe that GOD sends his people to relay "HIS" words, words of peace, comfort, strength, hope. Allow yourself to be a vessel of peace for this family. God has sent so many people into OUR lives who have done just that for us, shared a word that helped us get through a day, an hour, a minute. It is very hard to understand when something happens to a child, we can't wrap our minds around it but we still must trust and have faith in God. Without that what do we really have?

Thank God for your blessings and for his mercy in your life.

Stop now and pray for Luke and for April's family.

In His Grip,
Amanda


Thursday, November 6, 2003 9:22 PM CST

CHECK OUT NEW PICTURES!!!!

A quick note to say "Hello" and let you know that God has blessed us with another great week. Lukey has been in great spirits!!! I was so excited to see his new hair cut (that Damian gave him)!! Most all of his hair has grown back and he was able to have his "SPIKE" again!! This is a big deal because Lukey use to be know for his "SPIKE"!! Since his surgery we have kept his hair very short and then after the radiation it fell out in spots so we cut it even shorter but now he's sportin' a cool cut!! What a cutie!! (If our computer ever starts working right we will get new pictures up) We had a great evening tonight. Our friends, The Bitter's, treated us with tickets to see the Tampa Bay Lightning play hockey. The kids had a ball (although Lukey fell asleep before the game even started and woke up as we were leaving-we asked him if he had fun and he said "Oh Yeah!")
Lukey's eye continues to be irritated this week. We're still doing the drops and the whole nine yards with that. Again, keep us in your prayers as we see the surgeon in January about the procedure on his face.
Thank you for continuing to pray for Luke and our family. Pray specifically for a complete healing for Luke, that his tumor is shrinking everyday and that he will have NO complications appear from the radiation. We would have never made it through this without your prayers and love. We feel blessed beyond words at the out pouring of support and love you have shown us.

Stop now and pray for Luke!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, November 6, 2003 9:22 PM CST

A quick note to say "Hello" and let you know that God has blessed us with another great week. Lukey has been in great spirits!!! I was so excited to see his new hair cut (that Damian gave him)!! Most all of his hair has grown back and he was able to have his "SPIKE" again!! This is a big deal because Lukey use to be know for his "SPIKE"!! Since his surgery we have kept his hair very short and then after the radiation it fell out in spots so we cut it even shorter but now he's sportin' a cool cut!! What a cutie!! (If our computer ever starts working right we will get new pictures up) We had a great evening tonight. Our friends, The Bitter's, treated us with tickets to see the Tampa Bay Lightning play hockey. The kids had a ball (although Lukey fell asleep before the game even started and woke up as we were leaving-we asked him if he had fun and he said "Oh Yeah!")
Lukey's eye continues to be irritated this week. We're still doing the drops and the whole nine yards with that. Again, keep us in your prayers as we see the surgeon in January about the procedure on his face.
Thank you for continuing to pray for Luke and our family. Pray specifically for a complete healing for Luke, that his tumor is shrinking everyday and that he will have NO complications appear from the radiation. We would have never made it through this without your prayers and love. We feel blessed beyond words at the out pouring of support and love you have shown us.

Stop now and pray for Luke!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, October 29, 2003 1:59 PM CST

It touches us to see how many people still log onto Lukey's website and follow the progress of our son. Although lately I feel I am not relaying anything too exciting to you and just when I go over a week of not posting an entry - I get an encouraging word from a friend (Thanks Ann!!!) to let us know how important Luke and our families day to day progress is to you. What an awesome gift of friendship and concern you all show our family and many other caringbridge families when you simply read, maybe post a note and hopefully take a moment to pray.
Luke has had another week of improvement. He is "going strong" three mornings a week at preschool. No afternoon naps and a great appetite. We are struggling at times with the "eating healthy" thing, especially with all of the candy that goes along with this time of year but we have eliminated some important things from our diets and are slowly replacing them with other good things. He is taking two different things from the health food store (Payton is as well) as they both say they taste....YUCKY!!! His eye has been worse lately, it seems to be dry and red a lot more than usual and for some reason he says the drops and ointment and burning now.(His eye does not shut and only blinks once to every three blinks of his good eye, he also can not go in the sun or wind without glasses because of the discomfort) We will be curious to see the dynamics of the surgery (reconnecting the left part of his face). At times I think - We can live with this!! It's not that bad- so what if we have to use drops and that his precious smile is lop sided-that's just "LUKEY" now. Cute as ever with the charm of a prince and no matter what he is beautiful and then in a moment he smiles or as he blinks his little eye rolls back and I think is he really going to be able to live like this and how is this going to affect how others treat him? If this surgery gives him a corrected face and frees him from the aggrevation of drops and discomfort, well......
Needless to say we have a lot of questions and no matter if we decided not to elect this surgery we will probably have the surgery to implant the gold weight in his eye lid to allow his eye to shut properly. We have lots to research, think about and PRAY about. I can't imagine him going thorugh another surgery but if that's the plan- we'll get through it. His moods have really improved lately he's back to his sweet ways. Payton is still loving kindergarten (Did I mention she is the smartest kid in the class?? he he!!) Damian is busy working and actually I have been working part time for him over the last few weeks so we have been BUSY!!
We got some upsetting news about Damian's father-he has been diagnosed with cancer. He will be having surgery on Friday, October 31st. This has been a crazy year of ups and downs but GOD is in control. Please keep him in your prayers.
Please continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke. Pray that everyday his tumor is shrinking!! Our next appoinment at St. Jude's is January 12th and 13th.
Thank you for the love, prayers and support you have extended to Luke and our family. We are blessed!!!

Stop NOW and pray for Lukey!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda

I promise new pictures and Luke's song will be coming soon. Our computer is acting up!!!


Monday, October 20, 2003 5:32 AM CDT

Dear Friends,
It is so exciting to see Luke gain more and more energy everyday. With each day we see him becoming "Lukey " again. He is eating up a storm. We are in the process of changing the way our entire family eats. This is quite a....challenge. I am reading a book titled "How to prevent and treat cancer naturally." Don't worry, by no means are we dropping modern medicine but we really feel if we can do anything else (like change our diet and add supplements) to give Lukey (and ourselves) more power over not only this tumor but a healthier life then it's worth it. We are going to see a nutritionialist for some advice because it definitely becomes overwhelming.
We had an awesome weekend. The weather is fabulous, it is around 86 degrees here (that's a cold front to a Floridian!!!) We had a picnic on Saturday, Payton and Luke had so much fun running and playing soccer with Dad (Luke was as able to keep up almost the entire time! WOO HOO!!) We continue to take one day at a time.
We got our paperwork from St. Jude's and we will return for another MRI and series of tests on January 12th and 13th. We will also see the surgeon about the procedure to be done on Luke's face (to connect a nerve from his tongue to the left side of his face hopefully to help with the paralysis and to help his eye shut). We were told we would have to make a decision regarding the surgery fairly quickly as you only have a window of a year (from the brain surgery) to do this procedure with maximum results. It will be one year on Valentine's Day-Febrauray 14th!! WOW!! I look at Luke and think how much he has gone through and how good GOD has been and continues to be to him and our family!!
Continue to pray for LUKE!!! Pray that he will have a complete and total healing!! My prayer for Luke is that he will have a long and blessed life and be able to share his story for years to come of what God did in his life. Pray for peace, protection, favor and abundant blessings.
Thank you for your prayers and concern.
CELEBRATE LIFE!!!!!!

Stop now and pray for LUKEY!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, October 8, 2003 5:56 AM CDT

Where is the time going? Things are movin' right along here!!! Luke is feeling much better. His appetite is increasing and his fatigue improves daily! We have even had a few days with no naps. His over all mood is becoming "normal" again. (Did I say normal? Thought I may never use that word again!!)Although he still requires ALOT of attention. He likes to be held and often just finds me during the day for a "BIG HUG" (Hey, I like these side effects!!) He is still not thrilled with the whole "going to school" thing. But once he gets there he really enjoys it. He only attends 3 mornings a week for 3 hours and today he has a field trip to the fire station. Thank you to all who posted the encouraging words about the results from St. Jude's. I really didn't understand exactly how "GOOD" our news was until others shared their experiences with tumors and radiation. (Thank the Lord for others who pave the way through difficult times!!) Luke's eye remains the same. Every now and then I think it might be closing more but that's the "Mommy" in me! It still becomes irritated at times but with drops it is under control. We will meet with the surgeon (regarding the procedure to reconnect his facial nerves to make the left side of his face function) when we return to St. Jude's in January (we do not have a date yet) We are all doing really well. Payton continues to enjoy school and Damian is busy working. We find ourselves appreciating the small things, trying to focus more on what really matters in this life. I'm finding out that Payton's hair doesn't really have to be perfect when we leave the house and Lukey finding his way into our bed every night is a BLESSING not a burden and "MOM AND DAD- Watch me do this" (for the tenth time) Well, needless to say-we watch and watch and watch again thinking what a priviledge!!!

Please continue to pray for a complete healing for Lukey and protection and blessings over our family. Thank you all for walking through this journey with us. Thank you for your prayers and emails which brighten our days.

Stop now and pray for LUKE!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda

(We are working on getting "Lukey's song" on the web site and we will get some new pictures soon!!!)


Wednesday, October 1, 2003 8:57 AM CDT

The "Same" News....is "Good" News!!! I'll start with the results-Luke's tumor is the same size that it was when we left St. Jude's 6 weeks ago after radiation (the doctor said it may be a slight bit smaller but not anything of significance) At first I did not know how to respond to this but as we sat there and listened to the doctor we began claiming the good news. The doctor feels Luke is right on course. Basically, anytime a tumor is NOT growing that is good!! Often a tumor may increase in size initially after radiation-so, it is good that Lukey's has not done that!! It was an extremely busy two days!!! Every test came out great. He had his hearing retested in which his hearing loss is exactly the same as 6 weeks ago also-that's good at least it is not worse!!! We had a great time seeing the doctors and nurses (although we missed a few special people. Sorry Ann and Ms. Sherry at RMH) Tommy (who is a nurse that kept us laughing all summer long) payed tribute to Luke by spraying his hair green like the HULK!! "He is a CRAZY man" Lukey said!! What a priviledge to have met such wonderful people who become like your extended family!! I have to say the first day was a bit emotional returning to the hospital seeing "new" faces of families just starting their overwhelming journey. I remember being in that same moment thinking "Is this really happening?" God placed us in the path of people on this trip to encourage and pray for!! Again, God brought to my realization all my many blessings and that even though we are going through this, we are "SO" protected and blessed!!
Lukey did well overall. He loved returning to the hospital but getting the IV was not fun!! It was a very long day because he could not eat and they were running a bit behind for the MRI so he finally went in at 2:45 p.m. (that's a long day for a hungry boy!!!) Other than that, Lukey really "LOVES" St. Judes and remembers the fun times he had!! What a blessing that God could give Luke these feelings about a place that could be very scary for him!!
It felt like a family reunion as we saw our friends Tyler, Jared and Garrett (whom all got great news from their visit!!WOO HOO!!!) Well, we are considering this a successful trip!! Thank you for all of your prayers and concerns!! Oh Yeah!! Payton had a great time with Nanna and at Ms. Kelly's after school!!
Please continue to pray specicially for a total healing for Luke! Pray that everyday his tumor will get smaller and smaller and that no other side effects will occur. Pray that his energy level and appetite will be restored!!
Pray for children and families going through any health issue!!!
Thank you for all the support and love you have shown our family!!
One more bit of encouraging news-we do not return for three months (instead of 6 weeks like we thought!!)

Stop NOW and Pray for Luke!!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Sunday, September 28, 2003 9:55 PM CDT

Well, we are all packed and ready to go!!! St. Jude's here we come!! It is hard to believe that 6 weeks have passed since Lukey finished his radiation. We are anxioulsy awaiting a GREAT report!! Our plane leaves at 5:40 a.m. and we will arrive in Memphis (after a lay over in Atlanta) at 8:30 a.m. (Remember there is an hour time change). Our day is busy with lots of testing. Luke will have his anesthesia at 11:00 a.m. and the MRI is scheduled for noon. That means nothing for him to eat in the morning. We will get the results of the MRI on Tuesday at 2:00 p.m. Please continue to be in specific prayer for a clean MRI and that Lukey will have no serious side effects from the radiation. Pray for travel mercies (I'm still not a great flyer!!) Pray that Lukey will handle returning to St. Jude's with peace and excitement. Pray that Payton will be safe and happy while we are away. She had a tough time going to sleep tonight between the big tears and begging us not to go. I know she will be fine but it is very hard seeing her like this. We will leave Memphis Tuesday evening and be home around midnight.
Luke has had a very tiring week. He remains drained with little energy and still no appetite. He has lost a few pounds but these side effects are only temporary.
Thank you all for your faithfulness and prayers. We are so touched at how many of you remember our trip and have sent your well wishes and prayers. We continue to stand on "the promises" and believe in a total healing for our son.

Stop NOW and PRAY HARD for our Lukey!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda

(P.S. As you know several of our St. Jude's freinds will be there with us receiving MRI and CT scans as well. Please lift these children up to the Lord for "good news." If you have a moment visit Tyler's web page at www.caringbridge.org/ok/tylermartin. A word of encouragement and love goes a long way!!)


Monday, September 22, 2003 10:26 AM CDT

Well, it's been another busy but blessed week!! As you know Payton's birthday was Tuesday (Sept 16th) She had a great day!! I think this was the most exciting birthday (#6) for her! She woke up early with a huge smile and giggled "I am SO excited for myself!!!" She is a hoot!! We now have an addition to our family-"ELVIS" the hamster (or rodent as Damian says!!) Payton got this for her birthday (from Morgan our neighbor) It is a boy and Luke wanted to name it "HULK" but Payton said...."Negative." We all know the meaning of nocturnal now, thanks to "Elvis!!"
What an AWESOME weekend we had. Our wonderful neighbor, Donna (Morgan's mom) organized a "Rummage Sale" to benefit Luke. Never in our wildest dreams could we imagine the out pouring of kindness from family, friends, church, community, and total strangers. We had so many people who read about Luke in the paper and stopped by to support us and just to say "We are praying for Luke!!" Thank you to everyone who helped organize this, who volunteered to worked (in the Hot Florida Sunshine!!)who donated items, who stopped by!! It was a HUGE success and we are grateful beyond words!!! Thank you to "Hearthstone Living" for hosting the sale!!! Sometimes it is still hard to believe that MY baby is going through this journey!! And as I was standing there on Saturday looking at all of the people pour in to help I almost pinched myself to see if this was real!! And as I saw Lukey's beautiful picture on a sign that said "Fundraiser For Luke!!" it took my breath away!! But again, God placed special people in our lives to help us through this. To love us, pray for us, and let us feel the extention of Christ's love!! We will never stop believing and praying for another miracle-a complete healing for our son!!
Luke continues to be extremely tired, taking long naps each day. His appetite is slowly increasing. He was dehydrated one day last week so we are really trying to push the liquids.
We will be preparing for our trip to Memphis!! We are excited to see some of the St.Jude's families that we met there-they have managed to schedule the same appointment days!! We can't wait to see the special nurses, staff, and doctors (You too, Ms. Sherri at RMH!!) who made our stay easier by their help and love!!! Look our Memphis here we come!! WOO HOO!!!
Have a blessed week!! We will update Sunday before we leave. Please continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke , for travel mercies, for Payton (who will be staying home with Nanna although she really wants to go) for strength and courage for Luke and our entire family!!
Thank you again for blessing us with your prayers and constant words of encouragement!! You will never know (unless you have experienced something like this) how even the smallest things (your emails, notes, smiles, hugs!!) mean so much!!!

STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKEY!!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda

(Ann, Sorry I was late on the update!!he he)


Monday, September 15, 2003 4:05 AM CDT

Dear Friends-
Well, the weeks seem to be flying by. Lukey has been extremely tired!! Over the last week, he has taken a nap almost everyday and has had NO appetite. As I was looking over his discharge papers from St. Jude, they clearly stated these side effects (exact wording-"Extreme fatigue and loss of appetite 2-4 weeks after radiation, lasting approximately 2-4 weeks) So...we're rollin' with it!! He likes to drink protein shakes so we try to give him a sip here and there but he is really not interested in eating anything!! He has been in a great mood, his anxieties are improving each day. As you know, we are returning to St. Jude's on Sept 29th & 30th. We were meeting with a surgeon on the 30th to discuss the procedure to connect the facial nerve to help with tha paralysis on the left side of Luke's face. Well...the surgeons office (which is not a part of St. Jude's) called to reschedule the appointment. So, the plan is now that we will not be able to see him until we return to St. Jude's the next time, (6 weeks after our September appointment) This is fine with us. We are in no hurry and Lukey's eye has been fine lately (Still lubricating with drops. Sun glasses are a MUST because he can't shut his eye) EXCITING NEWS!! I journaled before that Luke was chosen (while staying at the Ronald McDonald House) to have a song written especially for him by "Songs of Love". They write songs for children with catastrophic illnesses. We got the song in the mail and it is so awesome!!! We will try to put in on the web page so everyone can hear it!!
Tomorrow is another special day around our home. PAYTON will turn 6!!!! (How did this happen so fast?) She has been such a trooper through all of this. I know our journey has molded her character in such a special way. She is such an incredible sister to Luke. They have such a bond with each other. There is only so much we can protect her from because Luke's illness is a part of her life and our prayer is that GOD uses this experience in Payton's life to mold her into a person of compassion and strength. Knowing that GOD is in control. She has such a loving heart and we are SO VERY PROUD OF HER!!!!
We all had a very nice weekend. I went to a womens retreat with the ladies of my church. Damian played "MR. MOM" (which he is quite good at). I came home to a clean house and he had even done laundry!! WOW, now that's impressive!!
Please contine to pray for a complete healing for Luke. Pray these minor side effects will decrease. Pray for a clear MRI!!!!
Thank you all for your love and prayers!!

STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!!
In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's

(Debbie and Elaine-I know you are reading this!!!he he)


Monday, September 8, 2003 5:54 AM CDT

It's been another good week around The DeAndrea household. Luke is enjoying school. He loves Ms. Dottie and Ms. Tracy (his teachers). He still has his days that he has to be talked into going but after he is there he's having a ball!! He cracks me up as he tells me "Mom, I think I'll stay home today and run errands with you!!" (This coming from the child whom can't get near a Walmart or Target without screaming "NO!! Not again!!") We booked our tickets to go back to St. Jude's. We have a 5:30a.m. flight (YIKES!!) leaving Tampa on Monday, September 29th!! Our two days at St. Jude's are packed with appointments. We continue to get "schedule changes" where they have added another test BUT that's okay then we can rejoice even more as we hear good news about EVERYTHING!!!
We had a fun weekend. Our neighbor, Morgan, celebrated his Bar Mitzvah!! Payton was the life of the party (and dance floor)!! She is an expert at the electric slide and "the YMCA". Yesterday was a fun day at church and with our friends, The Schallers!! (Although Luke had a major melt down about going into his Sunday School class without Payton. It wasn't pretty!! You know how your kids pass the point of no return-that's how far his melt down went so then Damian had to stay with him. We continue to pray that God will blanket Luke with SECURITY and peace!!)
Thank you for your prayers on Luke's behalf. Please continue to pray for a CLEAR CLEAN MRI and that this tumor is gone- never to return!! That Luke will stay cancer free forever and that he will have no complications from the radiation. Please pray for a clear direction for Damian and I as we research and hear details (On Sept 30th) from the surgeon regarding the procedure to connect his facial nerve. Pray that God will restore his hearing!!! Pray that Luke will overcome his anxieties and fears. Ask GOD to BLESS our baby.
Another great week with our children-what a blessing!!! (count your own!!!)
Stop NOW and pray for LUKEY!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda

P.S. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MARY RUDE!!! (aka Crazy Mary-Thank you for being such an awesome friend!!)


Monday, September 1, 2003 8:52 PM CDT

As our 5 year old (soon to be 6 year old) daughter, Payton, prayed with my mother this weekend she said "Dear God, please let my Mommy know that you took Lukey's brain tumor away so she will feel better." As I sat with tears streaming down my face, I actually do feel better. Sometimes you need a reality check to put things into perspective. I have come to find out through these past 7 months that you can't look to others (even doctors) to make yourself feel better but only to GOD. (Just as Payton's prayer was for me). I find myself jumping ahead, wondering, thinking (the old "what if's" creap in)but it became very clear to me that just because you don't have a brain tumor you are still not guaranteed tomorrow. A diagnosis can't rule your life but it can change the way you are living it!! We are so blessed to have another day, hour, minute with our children, family and friends. Don't sweat the small stuff-that's our newest motto around here (Believe me, it takes practice!!)
Lukey enoyed his Labor Day weekend! He spent the night with Nanna on Friday while Damian and I went to a movie(as Luke teased us about having a date-"Are you gonna kiss each other?" he said followed by "Yucky, kissing!! Isn't that just a typical boy?)This afternoon we had a cookout with our friends and he got to play with his buddy, Christopher! (Sabrina and Rebecca too)FUN!FUN!
Please take a moment and visit a special website of Matthew. (www.matthewsmiles.org) Matthew has the exact same type of tumor that Lukey does. He was diagnosed at age 7 and is now celebrating his 10th birthday as his tumor still decreases. PRAISE!!! In honor of this blessing his family has organized a walk with proceeds going to brain tumor reasearch. His family has been faithful in praying for us and has posted a picture of Lukey on their page. Please visit their site, say a prayer and maybe leave a message.
Thank you for your continued prayers for complete healing. We will return to St. Jude's on September 29-30 for the first MRI since the radiation and to speak with a surgeon regarding surgery on Lukey's face to reconnect the nerve to hopefully make his eye shut and mouth function properly. We have a lot of questions regarding this procedure. He will also have his hearing retested along with occupational and physical testing (eyes, teeth the whole enchalada!!)
We are amazed at how faithful and committed you all have been to our family. You will never know unless you have gone through something like this how much your words of love and encouragement mean to us!!

Stop Now and Pray for LUKE!!

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda
(Another Thank you for making Lukey's birthday special with your emails, calls, notes and gifts!!)


Wednesday, August 27, 2003 12:42 AM CDT

Payton woke up very excited yesterday screaming "He's grown!! He's grown!! Last night while my brother was sleeping and turning 4 he grew taller!!!" This made Luke feel on top of the world (and caused him to walk on his tippy toes most of the day). Luke had a GREAT birtday!! He got a very special HULK costume (from Pops and Barbie) and we have not been able to pry it off of him!! As my mom and Damian's parents came over yesterday Luke would hide and then jump out with his costume and HULK hands to scare them!! He had a ball doing this!! (it was funny because he looked in the mirror and scared himself!) He got a great robot from Nanna and Aunt Chelle and Uncle Mike got him more track for his trains!!! And yes he enjoyed devouring (or should I say licking enough icing off the cake that no one else wanted a piece) his HULK cake! He had a very special day!!
Thank you for the emails, calls and notes to help celebrate Lukey's birthday!!As our friend from St. Jude's wrote "We're celebrating Luke's first year of being tumor free!!" Now those are partying words!!!
Continue to remember us in your prayers as we face the day to day issues and regain our lives!! We continue to believe in our miracle and are trusting in God for a complete healing for Lukey!!

Stop now and pray for Luke!!

In His Grip,
The DeAndrea Family


Sunday, August 24, 2003 5:55 PM CDT

LUKE CELEBRATES HIS 4TH BIRTHDAY AUGUST 26TH!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY LUKE!


A quick note to let you know that Luke is doing GREAT!!! He is getting better each day with his anxieties about leaving the house (read last update). He even asked me on Friday to ride with me to pick up Payton from school. BIG IMPROVEMENT from screaming not to get in the car. He is losing more hair. As I said before it is breaking off in spots and it looks like a bad hair cut but we "don't sweat the small stuff!!" His 4th birthday is on Tuesday. We are taking cookies to his school tomorrow to share with friends. We are having a very low key birthday this year, but our hearts are celebrating BIG TIME!!(for we have learned the importance of life and living and see what blessings God has poured out upon our son and our family!!)
It has been so awesome to stay in touch with our St. Jude friends!! Several of the families are going to return for check-ups the same time we do (September 29th). We are very excited about this!!
Continue to pray for a complete healing for our little guy!! Thank you for loving us and checking in on us!!

(P.S. Can anyone guess what kind of cake Lukey wants for his birthday???)

Stop now and pray for Lukey!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, August 20, 2003 8:48 PM CDT

It's hard to believe we have been home a week!! We are SLOWLY returning to a routine. Payton is LOVING kindergarten. She has a great teacher and enjoys her classmates. Where do I begin with Lukey? Overall, he is adjusting well. He has had several episodes ,almost like panic or anxiety attacks, that happens when we have to get in the car to go somewhere. He doesn't want to leave the house. The only place he wants to go is school and church. I have heard that after going through something like he has gone through that it is normal to have a fear of ....leaving home for a long amount of time again. He also questions me about "Am I going to get my sleepy medicine again?" and then asks "Am I going to have to get a shot since I don't have my pic line?" I'm sure this is just a process of returning to "normal".But physically he is feeling GREAT. His hair is breaking off in spots but not completely falling out (he just looks like he got a bad haircut)He is enjoying seeing all of his friends and gets excited about going to school (he goes three mornings a week)Damian is busy working but is doing GREAT!! It is so nice to be home (although our airconditioner has been broken and we've been camping out in the living room together-kind of reminds of the Ronald McDonald House again minus the sweating.)I am slowly realizing my kids are growing up and find myself in the car most of the time running to pick one up or drop the other off. I am truly blessed with the gift of my children!! Oh Yeah-Luke turns 4 next Tuesday, August 26, 2003.
Thank you for your prayers. Please don't stop. We will return to St. Jude's on September 29, 2003 for our first MRI after the radiation and to speak with a surgeon regarding surgery on Luke's face. Please continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke and no side effects.
Thank you for checking in on us!!
We will continue to update regularly!!

Stop now and pray for Luke!!
In His Grip!
Damian and Amanda


Friday, August 15, 2003 2:41 PM CDT

Are we home yet? I'm hungry! I'm thirsty! He looked at me! She touched me! Are we almost there yet?I think I'm car sick!! (but the kids did GREAT!! he he) Well, we finally made it home. We arrived in Tampa on Wednesday afternoon. The last few days have been a whirl wind!! Payton started kindergarten on Thursday. Much to our surprise, she had a few silent crocidile tears flow down as we left her but she had a wonderful day and loves her school and teacher. Thursday was a very... confusing day for Luke. As soon as he woke up he asked "Am I going to the hospital today?" But the worst part for him was his seperation from Payton. It was a very long day and he kept asking "When is Payton coming home? I miss Payton". He hugged her when we picked her up and he barely seperated from her all night. (at the RMH they had to sleep together because there were only two beds so he has gotten use to that and has slept with her the last two nights here. She is very patient and kind to him) I think I cried most of the morning yesterday. My little girl is growing up. So, now were moving on to today-Friday. Luke started preschool. I was preparing myself for a total melt down, what I didn't realize is that it would be me not Luke. He went into his class a bit shy but sat right down, started painting. I had to steal a kiss from him and he waved bye (giving me a look like...you can leave now mom!!)He had a great day! So, once again a very emotional day for me. Damian went back to work today. It looks like we are juming right back into....LIFE.
People seem surprised to see how great Luke looks. We realize how blessed we are that he handled his radiation treatment so well. We are monitoring him for side effects and were told that readjusting to life may be very emotional (that's my side effect). Continue to pray fervently that none of the long term side effects will occur and that we all will adjust to home again.No more tumors forever!
Thank you for your love and prayers!! I was very touched to see several of Luke's St. Jude nurses sign the guestbook and the manager of RMH!!! Our family has grown bigger and we are blessed!!!
Check in on us for updates!

Stop now and pray for Luke!!
The DeAndrea Family


Tuesday, August 12, 2003 8:19 AM CDT

30 radiation treatments down!!! WOO HOO!! It's over!! We're finished!! Homeward Bound!!!Yipee!!WOO HOO!!

What a GREAT morning we have had!! Our appointment to see our oncologist was 7:15a.m. We then went to radiation where LUKE was treated like a king-"A HULK KING". The anesthesiologist arrived wearing his own personal HULK shirt and brought Lukey one as well (Luke was very impressed that a "big" person would wear a hulk shirt) He then received balloons and a "EOT" shirt (end of treatment) that says he is "Radically Changed" (get it-because of radiation!!) Several of the nurses have worn HULK shirts as well in honor of Luke. Between the tears and the goodbyes we have had a great morning.
Luke is in radiation as I write this, he will then wake up and they will remove his pic line (it worked for the full 8 weeks!! Thanks for the prayers) After that we will begin our 14 hour car ride home. We will spend the night to break the trip up.
Last night was an awesome night for us as well. Luke and several of his buddies that arrived got to leave their handprints on the wall at the RMH!! (A warriors mark!!) We then had a pizza party and smoothies!! It was nice to share our last night with the people who we have spent our time with here and gotten so close to. They will be in our prayers forever.
Well, I better get moving!! Florida awaits!!!

Please keep our son in your prayers for healing and a complete recovery!! I will update the website as soon as we get home.

Thank you for being apart of our "Vacation with Radiation"

Stop now and pray for Luke and St. Judes!!
In His Grip,
Amanda


Friday, August 8, 2003 9:36 AM CDT

28 radiation treatments down!! Only 2 more to go!!

As I write this, Luke is in the recovery room from his 28th successful radiation treament!! It is hard to believe that almost 8 weeks have come and gone. God has truly blessed us in every possible way!! Our lives will be forever changed by St. Jude's and this journey. We have made so many new friends and have memories that we will cherish forever.
Lukey is doing "AWESOME".(Now that he has this radiation thing down!!) Yesterday was a little tough waking from his sleepy medicine but his buddy "Gavin" is the best cure for "sedation grouchiness." We have been very busy with testing, testing and more testing. Luke scored above average on his speech. He saw the dentist and no cavities!!(He will have to be checked often because radiation can affect your teeth.) The "biggie" test was for his hearing. The radation has definately affected Luke's hearing. He has atleast a 30 percent hearing loss in his left ear. Luke is not a candidate for a hearing aide because his problem is neural (nerve is affected-sounds are garbled) and a hearing aide will make that worse. For now we are to make lifestyle changes-making his teachers (and others)aware, moving him to the front of class, speaking more directly into his right ear etc. Just being aware is important!!He will be tested when we return to St. Jude's. Monday he has a physical therapy appointment and an occupational therapy appointment. BUSY BUSY BUSY!!!
Our weekend plans are fun!! We are having a cookout with our friends-The Martin's (www.caringbridge.org/ok/tylermartin)and we will be busy getting ready to come home (more like finding a U-HAUL-how did we get all this stuff in just 8 weeks?).
Continue to pray for the specifics!! Pray that Luke will face these last two treatments with courage and they will be successful!! Pray that his tumor is destroyed and that he will have no side effects or complications (ever). Thank each of you for your prayers, words of love and hope, CONTACT, mail and support!!(the list goes on and on) GOD placed each of you in our path to have a purpose in our "VACATION WITH RADIATION!!"

Stop now and pray HARD for LUKEY!!

In His Grip!!
THe DeAndrea's


Tuesday, August 5, 2003 10:05 PM CDT

25 radiation treatments down!! Only 5 more to go!!!

As we remember back when Lukey had his brain surgery in February at LeBonheur Children's hospital here in Memphis-we would joke about "Memphis Time" standing still. Well, let me tell you it is still true!! I find myself looking at the clock and thinking at least a few hours should have passed and guess what? It may be only minutes!! There is not a lot left to do or see here for us-I think we've "been there, done that and bought the T-shirt" where Memphis is concerned. It's a nice city but we miss home!!! As you know we have had such a great stay at The RMH House. The blessings have been abundant and we have made frienships that we will cherish for a lifetime. As much as we want to go home it is a bitter sweet good bye to our new friends. St. Jude's has a "survivor's day" that is once a year that the patients are invited to come back and celebrate. We are praying that we will be reunited each year with these special children and families!
Lukester is doing great!! (I told you that he waited til the end to get in the groove with all of this!!) Our oncologist feels that Luke's hearing is being affected by the radiation (He already had about a 30earing loss in his left ear when we arrived)Luke will have an extensive hearing test before we go home. Today he woke up with a big knot on his head, the doctor said to just watch it.?.He is ready to start pre-school when we get home (he got his favorite teacher Ms. Dottie WOO HOO!!I am very happy about this because she knows Lukey's history and will take extra special care of him!!) The doctor says we are suppose to "return to normal". I find myself asking either "how" or "what is normal now?" God reveals to me little by little that he will continue to empower us with strength (I can't live each day with the what if's or wondering if any of the side effects will occur!!)Luke is a very special 3 year old (soon to be 4!!) normal, spunky, frisky, brilliant little boy (who happens to be battling and winning a war against a brain tumor!!) So, we have to find our "normal" again!!!
Tomorrow is the first day of school back home!! My mom went to Payton's open house in our place tonight. She called with exciting news of how nice Payton's teacher is and how her class will be awaiting her "GRAND ENTRANCE" when she gets there next week. She is going to miss St. Jude's -she has enjoyed her "VACATION WITH RADIATION!!"
Continue to nag GOD with your prayers!!(as my friend Laura says!!)He loves "The Naggers"!! Continue to pray specifically that Lukes remaining treatments will go smoothly with NO complications! Pray that with each treatment that his tumor is getting smaller and smaller and smaller!! Pray that this tumor will be destroyed and will never return!! Pray that none of the side effects will occur (remember the long term side effects-hearing loss, mental deficit, neurological deficit, other tumors can occur) God has truly blessed Luke with courage and a peace that we could never have imagined!!

Only 5 more treatments!! (Did I mention that!!!WOO HOO!!)

Stop now and pray HARD for Lukey!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Friday, August 1, 2003 9:28 PM CDT

23 radiation treatments down!! Only 7 more to go!!
(If you haven't read the last journal entry, please do!)

Wednesday, Thursday and today went really good for Luke. It seems as if he is finally use to his radiation routine. Even as they call him back, he just goes-no tears, no fuss. He usually gets really quite during his vitals and if they are running behind schedule and he has to sit on the hospital bed too long he let's them know about it. "I want my radiation now" he says. As glad as I am that he is over being so afraid it saddens me at the same time that he is so use to all of this. He loves to get everything ready to flush his line and now he even tries to do it himself (he is actually pretty good). Our days seem very long now. It has become challenging to find things to keep busy. (Damian has taken up juggling, NO JOKE!! Our friends, The Adair's from home sent Damian some juggling balls to pass the time -he has actually gotten good. I'll be renting my husband out for children's parties.he he)
One of the first friends that we met here was Drake (www.caringbridge.org/tx/drakedahn) who had a brain stem tumor. Drake has returned this week for the surgery to his face that Luke will be having (reconnecting the 12th nerve to make his eye shut and the whole side of his face work). We were very happy to see Drake and his parents. Please keep him in your prayers. His surgery will be Monday morning.
We are anxiously awaiting August 12th!! The last radiation treatment!!! Please continue to pray for a complete healing of Luke's brain tumor and that he will have no complications from radiation. Thank you for all of your support. We are still receiving lots of letters and packages, which make our day!!!Most of all thank you for your continued prayers!!

TKO in ROUND 2!!
Stop now and pray for Luke!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, July 29, 2003 8:46 PM CDT

20 radiation treatments down!! Only 10 more to go!!!

Monday was "different" for Luke. As he received his sedation through his pic line he told Damian that it hurt. No one really knew what or if there was a problem and the pic line worked so...we were praying that today would return to normal with no complications!!Today was one of the best days Lukey has had so far. He wore his HULK HANDS back to treatment (I think the Doctors liked them as much as Luke), went to sleep with no problems and woke up HAPPY!(Did you read that?HAPPY!!These days are few and far between!) Those prayers are working.

We had a doctors appointment with the oncologist this morning. Without giving us too much....excitement, expectations (maybe HOPE would be the word)he told us that according to yesterdays MRI that he sees a slight slight DECREASE in the tumor and that he was "pleased" (pleased is a medical term for "things are going well but don't get too excited yet"!!) Well, he said "pleased" to the wrong people because we are "THRILLED"!! Any decrease is good news and another step toward our sons healing. Luke's last treatment will be August 12th. We were told today that we will return to St. Jude's for a 6 week follow up on September 30th. We will have another MRI at this time. We will also see a neurosurgeon to discuss a surgery that Luke will need on his face. As you can see from his pictures the left side of his face is paralyzed. We continue to struggle with eye drops, eye cream, taping his eye shut, glasses etc. so that his eye will stay lubricated. This procedure (which I only know the basics) will tie the 12th nerve from his tongue to another nerve in his face which controls that left side. He will have to somehow retrain his tongue to actually assist with shuting his eye(I know this strange but somehow his brain will eventually help that motion be more normal) He will lose some of his taste and tongue muscle but his face will move and work properly. You only have about a 12 month window for this procedure from the original surgery, then it becomes more complicated. We are praying about this and will be interested to hear what the surgeon will say in September.

Luke will be busy next week doing all the tests (eye, hearing,occupational therapy etc) that he did the first week that he was here. This will determine if the radiation has done anything to any of these areas so far. He actually has not lost his hair yet but it is breaking off in the back, so Damian gave him a buzz cut. (Lukey's signature hair cut is usually a spike-gel,hairspray, the whole nine yards so this is a bit different but adorable)

Lukey's new buddy, Gavin, went home today. I stood in awe as I heard Lukey say he wanted to give Gavin his "Hulk Hands". What? Gavin's mom and I were in tears as we watched the boys hug goodbye. Luke was very upset that he had to leave. I was touched that Lukey would want to give away his most valuable and newest HULK toy. We told him how proud we were of him and just so happens we passed a TARGET and Damian just so happened to stroll down the toy isle and just so happened to surprise him with another pair!! He was thrilled!!(Give unto others and it shall be given unto you)

As optimistic and faith driven as we remain, our hearts continue to be heavy for so many families here. It's hard to see and get to know children and find out some are out of options and to even witness them admitted into the hospital to be told they may only have days. Consider your self blessed to not be in their shoes and allow yourself to be used to touch people in need.

Continue to pray specifically for the remainder of Lukey's treatments to be successful. That he will continue with no complications and that he will have NO side effects and that his tumor will be destroyed FOREVER!!!You continue to bless us with your love and we feel so fortunate to have people who love and care about us as each of you do!!!

TKO in ROUND 2 BABY!!
We're outta here on August 12th!! WOO HOO!!!

Stop now and pray for Luke (and thank God for all he's done so far!!)
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, July 27, 2003 11:07 PM CDT

Friday marked 18 radiation treatments down!! Only 12 more to go!!!

Well, Memphis is slowly recovering. Although there is still no electricity in some parts of the city, we were able to return to the RMH on Saturday. HAPPY DAY!!! There's no place like....our temporary home!!! Damian came back Saturday afternoon. We were so excited to see him!!He had a very productive week back home. Luke did very well last week (especially with the promise that if he was good Daddy would bring him a treat!! HULK HANDS!! I was able to use this as leverage for good behavior and it worked!!Most of the time.Well, he got the HULK HANDS and plans on wearing them to his radiation tomorrow!! I'm sure the nurses will enjoy this.) Luke has an MRI scheduled tomorrow immediately (under the same sedation) following his radiation. Although, you usually will not see a change so soon we are praying for a miracle and that we will be able to see that this tumor is decreasing.
We have had a fun weekend. God has placed a very special family in our path here. The Martin's-(check out Tyler's webpage at www.caringbridge.org/ok/tylermartin) The kids and I spent alot of time with them last week (when we were on our search for electricity) and today we went to a place called Bogey's (kind of like a Celebration Station) Luke has found a real buddy in Gavin (Tyler's little brother)They have become inseperable. We love to watch them play together (they just click-no fighting, just goofy boy stuff)Payton thinks Kearston (Tyler's 14 year old sister) is way cool!!Tamara is Tyler's mom and she and I have really enjoyed getting to know each other, sharing our faith and fears. Tyler's Dad-Greg came from Oklahoma yesterday.God has truly blessed us by meeting them.

We are looking forward to the final stage of this trip. Our target date to finish is August 12th. Payton is suppose to start Kindergarten on August 6th. After some serious praying and planning we have decided that she will stay with us and start school the following week. (This was harder for me-as a mom I have had this SPECIAL first day of school all planned out for a long time)We have talked to her teacher and she assured us that this will not be a problem and that they will make Payton feel very comfortable!!

Well, I made it through the week!! It was definately challenging but after a flooded room, a severe storm (aka hurricane), no electricity, moving to a hotel, Lukey finding a cookie in the dark before treatment, waiting 45 minutes for gas, my candy bar getting stuck in the vending machine, a hair in my food at Friday's....I'm sure I'll remember this as a learning experience. (And of course, my husband returned to everything being almost the way he left, isn't that a HOOT!!!) Thank you for your prayers which sustained me!!

Please continue to pray specifically that in these last rounds, Lukey will continue with successful treatments. That there will be no negative side effects now or any time in the future and that his tumor is being destroyed even as we pray. We miss home so much but are truly blessed that God has sent us to such a special place and we have been able to meet and be touched by so many wonderful people. Please pray for the families and other children here who are not as fortunate as we are to have so many prayers being lifted up about their needs. Everyday we see the pain and struggles that others are going through and it reminds us of our blessings. Count yours!!!!A day with your child is a blessing, no matter if they are healthy or not.

Stop now and pray for Lukey!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, July 23, 2003 9:16 PM CDT

16 radition treatments down!! 14 more to go!!!


Where do I even begin?? Memphis is in a devastated state of destruction. We woke up yesterday at 6:30a.m. to the sound of severe wind and rain. At this point we had no idea of the severity of things. As of now they are saying there were tornados and/or hurricanes that came through (although no one was given any notice) As we arrived at the hospital through knocked down trees and debris, the hospital was in a state of chaos. They were operating on generators not knowing if any treatments would be performed. They finally went through with radiation but all surgical procedures, MRI, cat scans etc. were canceled (and still are). My words seem inadequate for the destruction that we have seen. 75f Memphis is without power and has been since yesterday. We are using flashlights to dress, no hot water, absolutely no electricity, no grocery stores, no restaurants, no gas stations ( we sat in line for 45 minutes yesterday waiting for gas and watching some rather interesting confrontations)They are mentioning water shortage, you can smell sewage in certain areas. Today got rough as it got hotter so did we. Finally at noon a manditory meeting at the Ronald McDonald House determined that since there was a chance we would be without electricity until...no one knows (we have heard up to a week)that they would move us to a hotel. This is no easy task as the hotels who are functioning are booked. 7 hours later and after being sent to a hotel, waiting in line to be told they were over booked, we finally have a room. The kids have actually done very well. I am so thankful that my friend Darla has been here (first of all I don't think anyone would actually believe me if I didn't have a witness)She has been so much help and support. Yesterday on top of everything I found Luke eating a cookie. The room was totally dark and he somehow found it and CHOMP! This means he had to wait 8 hours to be sedated, so he didn't have his treatment or anything to eat until 4:00p.m. He has done better than I expected without Damian here but there has been so much going on that he has been distracted. I have finally caught my breath and feel better that we can atleast have a shower. I find myself laughing hysterically because I can't actually believe some of the things that have happened. (Did I mention a flood in our room on Sunday due to a washing machine overflowing? We had to move rooms which is no easy thing after accumulating "STUFF")I have never experienced anything like this (You'd think being from Florida "the lightning and hurricane capital)It saddens you to see the destruction, hundred year old oak trees snapped in half, stop lights mangled, signs blown away, power lines down, people in a state of shock and panic (Although I am dramatic =) I am not exaggerating!!) So far there are 4 fatalities. We are hoping to have power back within a week.
Thank you for your continued prayers!! Now you have several more things to add. Yesterday was half way for Lukey!! So far so good!! We are still claiming the good news, the miracle of our sons healing and continued miracles in Round 2!! Damian is hoping to come back Saturday, we can't wait.

Stop now and pray for Luke (and Memphis!!)
In His Grip,
Amanda


Wednesday, July 23, 2003 9:16 PM CDT

16 radition treatments down!! 14 more to go!!!


Where do I even begin?? Memphis is in a devastated state of destruction. We woke up yesterday at 6:30a.m. to the sound of severe wind and rain. At this point we had no idea of the severity of things. As of now they are saying there were tornados and/or hurricanes that came through (although no one was given any notice) As we arrived at the hospital through knocked down trees and debrie, the hospital was in a state of chaos. They were operating on generators not knowing if any treatments would be performed. They finally went through with radiation but all surgical procedures, MRI, cat scans etc. were canceled (and still are). My words seem inadequate for the destruction that we have seen. 75% of Memphis is without power and has been since yesterday. We are using flashlights to dress, no hot water, absolutely no electricity, no grocery stores, no restaurants, no gas stations ( we sat in line for 45 minutes yesterday waiting for gas and watching some rather interesting confrontations)They are mentioning water shortage, you can smell sewage in certain areas. Today got rough as it got hotter so did we. Finally at noon a manditory meeting at the Ronald McDonald House determined that since there was a chance we would be without electricity until...no one knows (we have heard up to a week)that they would move us to a hotel. This is no easy task as the hotels who are functioning are booked. 7 hours later and after being sent to a hotel, waiting in line to be told they were over booked, we finally have a room. The kids have actually done very well. I am so thankful that my friend Darla has been here (first of all I don't think anyone would actually believe me if I didn't have a witness)She has been so much help and support. Yesterday on top of everything I found Luke eating a cookie. The room was totally dark and he somehow found it and CHOMP! This means he had to wait 8 hours to be sedated, so he didn't have his treatment or anything to eat until 4:00p.m. He has done better than I expected without Damian here but there has been so much going on that he has been distracted. I have finally caught my breath and feel better that we can atleast have a shower. I find myself laughing hysterically because I can't actually believe some of the things that have happened. (Did I mention a flood in our room on Sunday due to a washing machine overflowing? We had to move rooms which is no easy thing after accumulating "STUFF")I have never experienced anything like this (You'd think being from Florida "the lightning and hurricane capital)It saddens you to see the destruction, hundred year old oak trees snapped in half, stop lights mangled, signs blown away, power lines down, people in a state of shock and panic (Although I am dramatic =) I am not exaggerating!!) So far there are 4 fatalities. We are hoping to have power back within a week.
Thank you for your continued prayers!! Now you have several more things to add. Yesterday was half way for Lukey!! So far so good!! We are still claiming the good news, the miracle of our sons healing and continued miracles in Round 2!! Damian is hoping to come back Saturday, we can't wait.

Stop now and pray for Luke (and Memphis!!)
In His Grip,
Amanda


Tuesday, July 22, 2003 10:11 PM CDT

As you know, storms ravaged Memphis this morning. Amanda and children are safe and sound. Damian is home for a couple of days on business. Amanda's friend, Darla, arrived yesterday in time to help Amanda change rooms at the Ronald McDonald House. The laundry room overflowed on Sunday and again on Monday wetting all of their clothing as well as their luggage.

In the darkness of their room this morning during the storm, Lukey managed to locate one, lone cookie. Do I need to say more? He told his mom he was "hungry". They left early to try and get gas for the car before going to the hospital. Due to the storm, a gas station was difficult to find where the pumps were working. Once they found one they waited in line for gas for more than 45 minutes. On to the hospital and, of course, Luke's radiation had to be postponed until 4 p.m. The hospital was offering dinner to the children tonight and a movie afterwards. The hospital is running their generators for electricity and air conditioning. Amanda said they might have to move all the families to a hotel because of there being no air conditioning.

Please pray for them. All of these families have so many hurdles to cross. What a blessing it will be to get electricity working again. I want to thank each of you for your love, prayers and support. We're eternally grateful. Friends and family are setting up some fund raisers for Luke. I will try and post that information when it's available. Always know, that thoughts of each of you makes my heart smile.....Love & Prayers,
Luke's & Payton's Nanna .......Dorothy........

Wednesday update: They're moving Amanda and the children to a hotel along with all of the other families in the Ronald McDonald House and the Target House. They're afraid of infections and such with no electricity or water......There are 55 families in the McDonald House alone....That's some task. Keep those prayers going. Will keep you posted on what's going on. Love, Nanna


Tuesday, July 22, 2003 10:11 PM CDT

As you know, storms ravaged Memphis this morning. Amanda and children are safe and sound. Damian is home for a couple of days on business. Amanda's friend, Darla, arrived yesterday in time to help Amanda change rooms at the Ronald McDonald House. The laundry room overflowed on Sunday and again on Monday wetting all of their clothing as well as their luggage.

In the darkness of their room this morning during the storm, Lukey managed to locate one, lone cookie. Do I need to say more? He told his mom he was "hungry". They left early to try and get gas for the car before going to the hospital. Due to the storm, a gas station was difficult to find where the pumps were working. Once they found one they waited in line for gas for more than 45 minutes. On to the hospital and, of course, Luke's radiation had to be postponed until 4 p.m. The hospital was offering dinner to the children tonight and a movie afterwards. The hospital is running their generators for electricity and air conditioning. Amanda said they might have to move all the families to a hotel because of there being no air conditioning.

Please pray for them. All of these families have so many hurdles to cross. What a blessing it will be to get electricity working again. I want to thank each of you for your love, prayers and support. We're eternally grateful. Friends and family are setting up some fund raisers for Luke. I will try and post that information when it's available. Always know, that thoughts of each of you makes my heart smile.....Love & Prayers,
Luke's & Payton's Nanna .......Dorothy........


Sunday, July 20, 2003 8:09 PM CDT

13 radiation treatments down!! Only 17 more to go!!!

Wednesday night we had a great treat. Another friend from Tampa came to visit us! Theresa Wilson and her children (Amber, Timmy and Ashleigh-we missed Neal)!!The kids were very excited!! Timmy like the Ronald McDonald house so much that he kept asking his mom if they could get a room here.Thursday was kind of tough for Lukey!! Waking up for him was very difficult. (The whole kicking and screaming, waking up for a few minutes to fall back a sleep, he couldn't quite seem to shake it)Friday was much better and after his treatment we headed down the road for....the mountains!!The Schaller Family who had been here earlier in the week invited us to a cabin they are staying at. The weather was beautiful and the view was incredible. Being a native Floridian myself,it was rather scary driving up the mountain (especially with my husband driving and the kids screaming FASTER!!)BUT we made it and we had a wonderful time!!
Damian decided on Friday that he is going to have to go home. He has to attend to his business and take care of a few things. We have been blessed that he has been able to stay this long. SO, I'm running the show next week!!(I am extremely lucky to have one of my oldest and dearest friends, Darla, flying up to stay a few days with me)We have told the kids that Damian is going home and they are NOT happy about it, especially Lukey. Luke told us that he is ready to go back to his Florida home now. Luke has become VERY dependent on Damian. As soon as we hit the doors of the hospital, he is in "DADDY MODE." We are all going to miss him very much. I ask that you pray that Luke (Payton and myself) will have an easy adjustment to being seperated from Damian and that I will be filled with a supernatural strength to handle all situations!!!"This is only temporary" Anytime I get discouraged, I repeat this!!!
Please pray specifically that Luke will continue to do well with his treatments, that we will have a great week, that NO negative side effects will occur and that with each treatment God is destroying his tumor!!Pray for travel mercies for Damian and that he will have a peace about us being here alone and that he will have a successful week at work!! Please say an extra prayer for me. (Mothers tend to deal with things differently that Fathers!!!)Watching Luke be sedated is not easy for me (I'm not sure if it ever will be) but I want to be a comfort for Luke..it's not good for the parent to be more hysterical than the child (laugh!laugh!) I know the Lord will give me all I need just as he has so far in this battle!!!

TKO in Round 2!!!
Stop now and Pray for Luke (and all of us!)
In His Grip,
Amanda


Wednesday, July 16, 2003 10:59 AM CDT

11 radiation treatments down!!! (WOO HOO!! We are in double digits!!) Only 19 more to go!!

HUMP Day!! Today was a picture perfect treatment day!! Our appointment was at 7:45a.m. (no time to remember he is hungry!!)No wait at the hospital. We had a great nurse for sedation and he actually woke up in a little better mood with "Chocolate" being the first words out of his mouth. So, after a few bites of a Hershey, a few tears and growls he came back to being "LUKEY". Yesterday was a bit harder for him but I have come to the realization that "this is probably as good as it's gonna get" (as far as his waking up). Bottom line is after sedation everyone is miserable some just worse than others.They will start treating him for nausea (via his pic line)next week (treatment 15-half way through is when things may change so they treat him as a preventtive measure)I am preparing myself for Luke to lose his hair (with radiation it usually only falls out in the part that is being radiated)We are going to cut it really short so it won't be as noticable. I've talked to many parents undergoing the same treatment and it seems that it's not a gradual thing, that usually one day there is hair and the next day it is coming out. (Our one little friend was entertaining all the other kids by showing them how he could pull handfulls of his hair out. They were all very impressed. WOW! He is majic they thought. At one time something like that would have not been funny but as a parent going through this you just have to laugh!!!)
We are trying to stay busy (Damian may be the next "Martha Stewart" because all Payton wants to do is....CRAFTS!!He has also mastered "Candy Land", "JENGA" and "Guess Who" and will be moving on to "UNO" this week)We are spending a lot of QUALITY time together as a family and that is something we will always remember about this "VACATION WITH RADIATION." (I challenge each of you to a craft with your child (of their choice with lots of glue and/or makers) and five continuous games of "Candy Land"!!laugh now)
Please continue to remember us in your prayers. As these next treatments take place pray harder that none of the side efffects occur and that Luke will continue to fight this battle with ease,peace and comfort. Above all pray that this radaition will work and that Luke will be able to grow up only knowing what he went through by our words to him- no memories of pain but only KNOWLEDGE of his victory over this tumor, victory given to us by our Lord!! We stand firm on the promise and our faith in God!!We are claiming another miracle in ROUND 2!!!

Stop now and pray for LUKE!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, July 13, 2003 2:10 PM CDT


8 radiation treatments down!!! Only 22 more to go!!!

Thursday and Fridays treatments went very well. Even the "waking up from anesthesia" part was better for Luke. The past few days have been the same, he's not real crazy about being called back, he charms the nurses during his vitals, he goes into his actual radiation room, he sees the anesthesiologist and decides... "he doesn't really want to go to sleep" struggles with teary eyes for a few minutes, has his radiation, they allow him about 30 minutes to wake up, we go back to "recovery", he is extremely irritated for atleast 30-45 minutes, he comes back to reality and we are on our way. Simple huh?? Seriously, God has truly blessed Luke with the way he is coping with all of this. He is doing much better than I could have EVER imagined. (Our prayer is as we go further into these treatments the possible side effects will not occur.)
Friday was a GREAT afternoon here at The Ronald McDonald House. The actual Ronald McDonald came and put on a majic show. (He was very impressive!!) Of course, Ronald could not even look in Luke's direction with out him trembling. He doesn't do clowns!! Then we headed outside for a silly string war!! As always the kids are enjoying it here.
We are very excited because we had friends from home come to visit us this weekend!! The Schaller Family-Peter, Michelle, Sabrina and Rebecca!!It felt like Christmas as we saw them arrive-what a wonderful treat for us. Last night a family from Mississippi (who have come regularly to the Ronald McDonald House for eight years. WOW!)prepared a delicious dinner (it felt like home-chicken, veggies, sweetpotatoe casserole-almost as good as my momma's)After that we had a very special time of singing and prayer. Once again we boldly asked GOD for a complete healing for Lukey!!
It was a great day!!! Today we went to the zoo-rather hot but still nice. The Schaller's will be visiting us until Wednesday!!YEAH!!! Tomorrow we will show off "Lukey's hospital" He and Payton are happy to see their friends and play!!!!
Thanking you all again for your prayers and love!! You have no idea how big a deal "checking the mail" is. The kids love to receive your letters and packages (it's fun for us too)! Continue to lift us up in prayer as we watch our son undergo this FIGHT!! Join us in praying specifically for no complications with his treatment or pic line. Pray that every treatment is a step in terminating his tumor!! We are so blessed to have each of you praying and thinking of us. May God Bless you for your dedication to our family.
TKO IN ROUND 2!!!

Stop now and pray for Luke!!!
In His Grip,
Amanda and Damian


Wednesday, July 9, 2003 1:27 PM CDT

6 radiation treatments down!!! Only 24 more to go!!!!

The last two days of treatment have gone extremely well for Luke! Yesterday it only took about 20 minutes for "the real Luke to come back" as Damian says. He wanted Payton to go back to radiation with him. She was so sweet and held his hand and walked him back. Some nurses are more strict on rules than others so...they wouldn't let her stay for his vitals. This upset him but.. there's always Daddy.(They only allow one parent to take a child back, this is hard because he usually wants both of us) Before he went to sleep he told us that he wanted to go to Chuck E. Cheese afterward. So that is what we did. We had a fun day!! Today was even better for him. I was the lucky parent chosen (by Luke) to take him back today although as soon as they pulled out the needle to flush his line he immediately screamed "I want my Daddy". We had a great nurse today so they let Damian come back as well. Afterwards he woke up quickly and went straight to the treasure chest for his surprise toy!! After the last few treatments he hasn't been hungry but today he wanted.....GRITS!!! (That's my little Italian boy!!He's from southern Italy!!)His treatment was at 7:45a.m. today was longer because once a week they take films and make sure the alignment is perfect. We were finished by 10:00a.m. and headed for the Children's Museum. The kids had a blast!!
We have exciting news!!! Luke was chosen to have a song written all about him.It is an organization called "Songs For Love". They chose 5 children and Lukey was honored to be one of them!!! We'll keep you posted.
We have summer camp again this week at the Ronald McDonald house. Yesterday HOME DEPOT sponsored it and we built and painted picture frames. Payton is anxiously awaiting Friday for more KARAOKE!! We are remaining positive and encouraged!! The kids think we are on vacation so my husband has adopted our motto as "VACATION WITH RADIATION!!" We need a bumper sticker!!! I almost forgot- THE HULK continues to visit Luke while he is in radiation. Yesterday he left him Hulk candy and today a Hulk book. WOO HOO!!! Damian tried to tackfuly tell Luke that he thinks THE HULK might start to visit him only once a week but Luke informed his Dad........NOT!!!Luke continues to look in the mirror, make faces and repeats "You wouldn't like me when I'm angry" but so far he is still Luke and not THE HULK.=)
Our prayers continue for another miracle and that the radiation will continue to be successful with no complications. Thank you for your love and support.
TKO IN ROUND 2!!!!!

In His Grip!
Damian and Amanda


Monday, July 7, 2003 6:12 PM CDT

******TKO in Round 2!!******4 radiation treatments down!! Only 26 more to go!!!!

There's no place like home!!! We had a GREAT weekend. It was so nice to see our family and friends, eat real food and sleep in our own beds. Our plane left Tampa this morning at 5:30a.m. so we had a very early day. We arrived in Memphis around 8:30a.m., unloaded our things and went to the hospital. Luke's radiation was at 10:45a.m. and he was beginning to ask to eat. He was distracted by all the games and playmates at the hospital while waiting for his appointment. He was very confused this morning about where his "HOME" is. He told us "I don't want to go back to my hotel home, I want to go to my old home where my bike is." He didn't mind going to the hospital but again as they called his name for treatment he got a little teary eyed. He usually wants Damian to go back with him but today I was blessed with him wanting Mommy.(He even told me this weekend that I was almost as good as his Daddy at flushing his line! WOW! What a compliment!!) This was the first time I went back from the beginning and watched the anesthesia. I was surprised at how fast he actually becomes sedated-within seconds. They let him sleep a bit longer afterward to see if that helped him wake up in a better frame of mind. Guess What? It didn't help. Today was actually the worst day that he has had so far. It took him almost 2 hours to become completely alert and back to himself. Nothing we did made him happy. I think it may have been a combination of him being tired from the weekend as well. But now he's a "Happy Hulk". (The Hulk left him another toy today during radiation.=) Now we are trying to settle back in and focus on getting his radiation done and going back home!!! I have to admit it was hard leaving our house this morning but...6 weeks will be here and gone before we know it!!
Thank you for making Luke and our family a priority!! Luke and Payton run to check the mail each day. That's a big deal to get mail and packages. Thank you for your continued support and prayers!!!Please continue to pray specifically for there to be NO complications and that with each treatment his tumor is fading and will never return.

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea



Wednesday, July 2, 2003 4:42 PM CDT

2 Radiation treatments down!! Only 28 more to go!!!

Luke suffered with a severe headache last night. We were headed out for dinner and had to come back to the room because he was crying so hard. After some tylenol, cheese pizza and lots of games with Daddy he was able to go to sleep feeling better. I mentioned this to the doctors today and they said it is common for patients receiving radiation to the brain to have a headache, especially the first time. Today went like clockwork!! Once again, as they called him back he cryed a little but after about 45 seconds of "happy juice" he was sound asleep. I was able to observe the treatment from the monitors today. Initially I was overcome with emotion as I saw my baby lay lifeless, face down as they adjusted his head and neck to get it just perfect. Now I know why he had a headache. After the fact, I am very glad I was able to see exactly what goes on. His treatment probably only lasts 15 minutes, he receives 9 beams of radiation (they reposition either the table he lays on or the actual machine between each ray). It's the preparation that takes time. It took him about 30 minutes to wake up. He was much happier today!!(FYI-Luke is fascinated with THE INCREDIBLE HULK especially since he has discovered that THE HULK became THE HULK because of radiation. Luke has asked his doctor if this is going to happen to him-he is practicing faces in the mirror to see what happens. So far...he's still Luke. Today the nurse put a HULK sticker on his shirt and when he woke up he thought that THE HULK actually visited him while in radiation and gave it to him. The nurses wanted to paint his fingernails green but my husband wouldn't go for that=) No chocolate chip pancakes today, instead he wanted PASTA!! Tomorrow's radiation is at 7:45a.m. and then we are off to the airport for a weekend at home. HIP HIP HOORAY!!!! We are excited about going home.
Speaking of home...God has blessed us with the opportunity of meeting many special friends here. Two of our buddies are going home (for good other than check ups). Drake from Texas and Brandon from Washington. Although, we are very happy for then we are going to miss them. They both had brain tumors and have gone through surgeries and extensive treatments. Drake has a caringbridge web page, stop by and say Hi www.caringbridge.org/tx/drakedahn
Please continue to pray for Luke. The pic line has worked great so far, please pray this line will last for the entire course of treatment. We are claiming there will be NO complications and with each treatment this tumor is decreasing and being destroyed forever.
We are trying to go through this with our eyes open and asked The Lord to show us exactly what he has for us to see. He continues to bless us and we continue to thank him for everything.

Wishing you all a Happy 4th of July!!!


In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, July 1, 2003 3:00 PM CDT


1 Radiation treatment down!! Only 29 more to go!!!!!

Our morning started off with lots of questions from Luke, which is very normal. Are we going to the hospital? What are doing there? Am I going to get a shot?(Can Spiderman beat up Superman?) I never know how much he is going to process but I did tell him he was getting his first radiation treatment today. Don't ask me why but those words lead him to a mini-melt down. "I don't want to go" he said but after redirecting and distracting, which we have become very good at, he was ready to go. Today being his first treatment was much longer as they had to take films and make sure the radiation alignment was correct. As they called his name to go back, he didn't want to go but they let us all go back (initially) and that made him better. Payton packed her back pack with toys and played with him while the anesthesiologist prepared everything. Damian then took him into the actual room where the radition is done, held him and after about 45 seconds he was asleep. Damian laid him down on his body mold (face down,oxygen is put under his nose)and then Damian was able to observe the entire procedure from another room where monitors were. As I said, today was longer so in about an hour he was finished. They called us to recovery in another hour,where we found Luke wide awake and... GROUCHY!!!! They told us the sedation usually takes about an hour to wear off. As we got to the car he told us he was hungry and wanted "Chocolate" (What else right?) So... he got to have chocolate chip pancakes!!!! In about an hour he was feeling like his old self.(General anesthesia for breakfast, chocolate chip pancakes for lunch, running around way before dinner-Life is GOOD!!!) Half way through his treatments they will start giving him something for nausea, half way is when he will probably start to lose his hair. He has already gotten a package of some really neat hats (Thanks Aunt Darla). Tomorrow his radiation is at 9:00 a.m.
We are very excited about going home on Thursday afternoon.
Although is it only a quick week end it will be great to see our family and friend and sleep in our own beds. They scheduled Luke's radiation for 7:45a.m. so we will have plenty of time to get to the airport.
THANK YOU GOD FOR THE FIRST OF 30 SUCCESSFUL RADIATION TREATMENTS!!!! We appreciate all of your prayers (and calls) today. I know God heard Lukey's name many, many times this morning. Please continue to pray for the specifics-no trouble with the pic line, no side effects, that this tumor is being destroyed and will never come back.
Pray for Lukey to be surrounded by peace.
TKO in ROUND 2!!!!

STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Monday, June 30, 2003 3:46 PM CDT

Luke's day started with another "OUCHIE". He had his second bandage change on his pic line. He was NOT a happy camper!! This SHOULD be the last one he will have to have while he is awake, the others will be done twice a week after radiation treatments while he is still under anesthesia. Luke is doing extremely well with the IV flushes that we do twice a day. They gave him bright colored wrap for the top so he gets very excited to pick out his color for the day. (Ususally green like "The Incredible Hulk") The psycological evaluation went well, thankfully it didn't last the whole three hours. He did very well and will be evaluated again in 6 months. After that we were free, we went to "Mudd Island" (I heard this is where Tom Cruise filmed "The Firm")for Pizza (my kids favorite thing!). The Mississppi River runs right through and we were able to see a few Tug boats.FUN!FUN!
TOMORROW IS THE BIG DAY!!!!!Radiation starts. We have to be at the hospital at 7:45a.m. (Pray that Lukey doesn't find another pretzel on the way!!) and the radiation starts at 8:15a.m. I had a moment today where I couldn't believe this was all real, I couldn't believe my precious boy is going through this and about to begin the unknown. But God only asks us to trust him, not to understand him. It is when I try to understand things that the "why's" and the "what if's" start. We are choosing to TRUST God and BELIEVE in another miracle. I refuse to let myself repeat in my mind the risks of this radiation but instead believe in the MIRACLE.
Please think of Lukey tomorrow morning as he undergoes his first treatment. Pray that he is calm and the anesthesia works effectively and that this treatment is the first on the road to eliminating his tumor FOREVER. Pray that there will be no complications. Pray for his medical team.
Thank you for your continued encouragement and prayers.

Stop NOW and Pray for Luke!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea


Friday, June 27, 2003 5:12 PM CDT

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!!!!


TGIF!!!!!We made it through another week. The last few days have been relatively easy for Luke. On Wednesday he had a physical therapy evalution, that was a quick appointment-we were done by 9:30a.m. and had the rest of the day free. Yesterday was an "OUCHIE" as Luke says. He had his first bandage change on his pic line. This is more scary than painful(although that tape really hurts to get off). He did really well until he thought he saw "BLOOD", which was actually betadine. After we convinced him (and Payton) that he was not bleeding, he was fine (Payton on the other hand was really upset) That was all for yesterday. Today we had nothing on our schedule at the hospital. It is a gorgeous day today so we went to the zoo. Memphis has a beautful zoo and it free to St. Jude patients. They continue to amaze us at everything they do to make your stay easier. We all had a great day. Tonight there will be KARAOKE at The Ronald McDonald House (I'm sure Damian is excited about singing...NOT!! Payton on the other hand has her songs all picked out!!!!)
On Monday Luke will have a 3 hour psycological evaluation. His radiation has been reschedule to start on Tuesday instead of Monday. (I am really learning the meaning of patience) We are asking again that you specifically pray that his pic line will work effectively with no complications for the entire 6 weeks. We ask again that you continue to pray that he will have no side effects or complications from the radiation, that he will handle the general sedations well. Pray that this tumor will be destroyed and never return.
Thanking you again for your love and support. God continues to show up all day in big and small ways. Our prayer is to please him and give him all the glory for another miracle in ROUND 2!!!!!!

In His Grip!!!
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, June 24, 2003 7:22 PM CDT

Well, we are officially know around the hospital as "The Pretzel People!!" I told Damian that I will never look at a pretzel the same way again. We have had two extremely busy days. They have both started around 8:30a.m. and we have not made it back to our rooms before 7:00p.m. Yesterday we were blessed becasue they were able to reschedule the MRI!!YEAH!! Lukey was able to have the MRI and the pic line placement under one anesthesia. He did really well. We had been practicing with a mask (that they use for sedation) over the weekend and when he went to the surgery room he even asked where his mask was. But all of a sudden it became a reality and he told Damian "Daddy, I don't want to go to sleep here." I was worried about his cough but there were no problems. It took about 3 1/2 hours total. Then we had to learn how to flush his line. We have to do this twice a day and he has to have his dressing changed twice a week. Please pray that this pic line works for the entire course of radiation!!! (Sometimes the anesthesia it too thick?? and the actual line may work its way out!!) Today was extremely busy. We had an eye appointment-we are to continue what we are already doing (drops and taping it shut)We'll follow up before we go home . Then we had a hearing test/appointment-they said his left ear (which is the one affected by the tumor) is not hearing at capacity-it's only a mild loss and at this point it doesn't render a hearing aide but we will have tests in the future to monitor. FYI-sometimes radiation can make hearing worse. We then went to occupational therapy , which Luke did awesome!!! She was extremely impressed by his intellegence (of course!!!) and his fine motor skills. We'll follow up before we go home. Again, radiation can affect this as well. After that we headed back to see our radiation oncologist. Today, we got the nitty gritty on the risks. I will briefly share these with you so that you can pray specifically for these things NOT to occur!! First, intellectual impairment (the part of the brain that inables him to remember things could be afftected therefore a learning disability) Second, a physical impairment (may cause his body not to grow properly-steroids can be given to help) Third, neurological impairment (much like things that happened after the surgery-swolling, breathing issues, may affect his hearing, motor skills,anthing the tumor affected radiation can affect-eye closing, hearing etc.) Fourth, increases the chance for Luke to have other tumors. Radiation can kill tumors and create them at the same time. Any of these things can occur up to a year after treatment. WOW!!! After hearing all of this, we stand confident in GOD and his power!! We believe Luke will have a successful treatment and none of these things will happen. (TKO IN ROUND 2!!!) The rest of our week is fairly easy. Tomorrow he has a physical therapy appointment and Thursday a quick appointment for his first bandage change on his pic line. Nothing on Friday and then Monday is the BIG day. His first radiation treatment!!!! He is handling everything SO well. The PGA St. Jude's tour is here so Luke and Payton played putt putt golf at the hospital today and met a few professional golfers!!(They knew our friend from home who is a pro golfer-Brian Kamm, so that was neat!!)We were suppose to do CAMP this week but so far we have been unable to make it. Tonight we stopped by the TARGET HOUSE (another place for families to stay)which is gorgeous, feels like a resort. The kids did a craft and there was a catered dinner by the PGA!! We didn't stay long because the kids started running and getting hot and I didn't want Luke to do anything to his pic line. Damian and I are doing really well. Continuing to trust God for another miracle!! We are VERY VERY excited because we are going to be able to come home on July 3rd for the weekend!! (Damian's small group (men's group at church)took care of arranging this incredible gift for us!!! We are so thankful and thrilled!!)Our thanks go out to all of you who have and continue to help us in your special ways. We could not go through this without you!!!Thanks for the e-mails which encourage us and thanks for the regular mail that you are sending. Luke (and Payton) look forward to opening it!! Most importantly we thank you for your prayers.
Continue to pray for us as we get ready for this treatment. Pray for a text book case of radiation and follow up. Pray that nothing negative will occur. Pray that God's hand of peace and protection will be around Lukey. We are boldly asking The Lord that this radiation treatment will shrink Luke's tumor away and that he will never be affected by it again and live a long,happy, Christ centered life.

Stop Now and Pray for Lukey!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, June 22, 2003 2:41 PM CDT

Dear Friends,
I intentionally waited to update the web page until now because Friday was such a HORRIBLE day and I didn't want to seem negative or upset. As I sat in church last night and listened to the minister, his message really hit home with me. He spoke about how you may be unhappy with things going on in your life but you can still have JOY in your heart. That is exactly where I am right now. Through our faith we have JOY but sometimes life steps in and that doesn't always mean we are happy. We had a 9:00a.m. check in on Friday at The Ronald McDonald house, we had a quick tour because we had a full day at the hospital starting at 10:00a.m. Luke was scheduled for an MRI with general anesthesia so he could NOT have anything to eat. We made sure we put away all the snacks and drink and tried to explain to him about NOT eating. As we quickly finished the tour and ran for our car, strapped the kids in and were beginning to pull away, we hear "CRUNCH"!!! I immediately screamed "SPIT IT OUT!!!" Luke had found a tiny pretzel and had began to eat it. I made him spit it out and asked him if he swollowed any and he said yes. It could only have been a tiny amount. Although, my husband thinks I am a bit dramatic at times (laugh, laugh) I knew they were going to cancel the test. We'll get back to that later. We started our day at the hospital by speaking to a physician about chemotherapy. They wanted us to know all of our options. After waiting almost two hours (rememeber Luke nor any of us have had NOTHING to eat still in hopes of the MRI so you can imagine how anxious we all were getting) Finally the doctor sees us, he is extremely knowledgable and kind but his realistic views upset me. He explained how there are no benign tumors in the brain and that Lukey's tumor was a very low grade cancerous tumor, that we would have to watch for the rest of his life. Again, I guess I know all of these things but as they are presented in such a clinical fashion it is very painful. After speaking with us for almost an hour he concluded by stating he agreed with our decision about radiation and that chemotherapy is not a good option at this time. HAPPY DAY we can leave now!!! We immediately ran (literally) to our appointment for anesthesia. The first question from the nurse was "When was the last time Luke had anything to eat or drink?" (Damian had told me earlier that he would answer this question due to my dramatic interpretation of the pretzel scene (laugh again!)) They immediately told us "NO!!" he could not have the sedation. See, we need the MRI so they can actually plan the radiation and it takes about three days to do this. Without having the MRI on Friday there would be no way to start radiation on Wednesday and this was what we had planned. After a long explanation...the answer was NO!! Well... we decide to regroup, get some lunch and pray. We had to be at the surgery clinic at 3:00p.m. to speak with the surgeon about the central line or port that Luke will be having placed in his chest on Monday. To make a long story short at 5:30p.m. we were still waiting!!! The surgeon had been delayed in surgery. By all means we understood but this day kept getting worse. Finally, his assistant came in to explain what everyone else had explained to us as a "simple procedure" the central line. Guess What?? This lady scared me to death. I understand that they must tell you the possible consequences but I was not ready to hear how she presented these things (possibly punture a lung, possibly hit the top of the heart and cause bleeding???) Maybe on a different day I would have handled things differently but not then. I am so thankful that Damian has the strength to handle things and comfort me. Finally, we decided on a different option (remember this line is only to administer his general anesthesia everday)we decided on a pic line. This procedure is much less invasive, he will be under anesthesia but they will place an IV in his arm and feed the tubing up toward the top of his heart. This will be done Monday morning at 9:00a.m. Things have definately gotten better. The Ronald McDonald House has been great for the kids. Payton was very upset because we had to miss vacation bible school at our church. But again God shows up in even the smallest ways, a church youth group (actually from Florida) is here having bible school this week at The McDonald House! They have made a lot of friends already. Luke asked us earlier why some of his new friends had masks on. He has met other little boys with brain tumors as well (none exactly like Lukeys). We are learning our way around Memphis but we miss home.
Luke has about 4 spots on his head where they haved shaved and placed big black X marks (this is where they will do the radiation) As we were at breakfast yesterday in a local restaurant, I noticed people looking at him, whispering and then offering that smile of condolence to us, the same smile that I have given before when I would see a child with a health issue but this time it's me and my child. I got teary eyed the first few times but after praying I realized those looks of curiosities can turn into opportunities for me to share what God has done for Luke and my family!!!
As you pray for us today-specifically remember Luke's procedure tomorrow morning (and now he has a bad cough). Continue to ask God to protect him and blanket him with peace. We are believing in another miracle in ROUND 2!!!
Thanking you all for even reading this.

Stop NOW and pray HARD for Lukey!!!
In His Grip,
Amanda


Thursday, June 19, 2003 3:50 PM CDT

Yes, we made it. Monday was a easy day of travel, lots of games of "I spy" and Mommy's favorite game "The Quiet Game" although Payton and Luke could never seem to win that one. We made it all the way to Birmingham, Alabama on Monday and spent the night there. Tuesday was a bit of a hassel. Our tire seperated and we ended up sitting at a Good Year Tire for about four hours. That wasn't a lot of fun but.... now even the Good Year service men are praying for Luke too. We arrived at St. Jude's on Tuesday about 5:00 p.m. We were absolutely amazed at what a beautiful hospital it is. The grounds remind you of Disney World, everything is so manicured and maintained. It only gets better on the inside, it is very child friendly with lots of paintings and murals on the wall. This facility runs like clock work. You check in every day and are given a schedule of what your day will be. You report to different clinics and areas. It is absolutely amazing. My words do not do it justice. Wednesday was very long. We met with the oncologist, child life specialist and then social worker. We were not finished until late afternoon. Luke handled everything well (because there were no shots or treatment). We told him this was HIS hospital and that makes him smile. Now he says "My hospital is nice". Luke seems so out of place here, he is NOT sick like most all of the other children you see- but then it came to me he is but his disease just chooses to be a quiet type. Yesterday was very hard for me. You have NO idea how protected you are until you come to a place like this and see these beautiful innocent children fighting for their lives. Although it may only be terminology I had to come to grips with the fact that my son is now a "Cancer Patient". That really hit me hard. Today Luke had a radiation semulation- this is where they place him in the exact position he will receive the radiation and they mark his head and form a mold completely under his body, the way he will be laying. He then had a cat scan. He was sedated (general anesthesia) for all of this. He did very well through it. They left the IV in his arm so tomorrow when he is sedated for his MRI, he will not have to be stuck again. He was NOT happy to wake up with the IV!!!Tomorrow is another busy day, MRI at 9:00 a.m. then visits with an eye doctor, hearing specialist, psycological evaluation and then to surgery clinic. On Monday he will go to surgery where they will put a central line or port in his chest so he can receive his sedation everyday for his radiation.
We are all doing well. We are moving to the Ronald McDonald House tomorrow. This will be good because we can unpack and they have activities for the kids to do. We will have an address so you all can write us. We are staying strong and leaning on God through all of this. Even though we are here and going through this we see how blessed we are. As I said earlier to see these sick children and their families and how they are coping and fighting makes you see the miracles in your own life and that your issues are so minor compared to what others are facing.
Please continue to lift us up in prayer. Pray for Luke as his days get tougher and tougher. May God blanket him with peace and comfort. May Damian and I (and Payton) draw strength from each other and especially from God to go through this. Count your blessings!! We will hopefully have our own access to the internet (thanks to The Bile's Family) by Monday so we can update daily!! We thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.

Stop now and pray for Luke and all of the children in this fight for health!!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, June 19, 2003 3:50 PM CDT

Yes, we made it. Monday was a easy day of travel, lots of games of "I spy" and Mommy's favorite game "The Quiet Game" although Payton and Luke could never seem to win that one. We made it all the way to Birmingham, Alabama on Monday and spent the night there. Tuesday was a bit of a hassel. Our tire seperated and we ended up sitting at a Good Year Tire for about four hours. That wasn't a lot of fun but.... now even the Good Year service men are praying for Luke too. We arrived at St. Jude's on Tuesday about 5:00 p.m. We were absolutely amazed at what a beautiful hospital it is. The grounds remind you of Disney World, everything is so manicured and maintained. It only gets better on the inside, it is very child friendly with lots of paintings and murals on the wall. This facility runs like clock work. You check in every day and are given a schedule of what your day will be. You report to different clinics and areas. It is absolutely amazing. My words do not do it justice. Wednesday was very long. We met with the oncologist, child life specialist and then social worker. We were not finished until late afternoon. Luke handled everything well (because there were no shots or treatment). We told him this was HIS hospital and that makes him smile. Now he says "My hospital is nice". Luke seems so out of place here, he is NOT sick like most all of the other children you see- but then it came to me he is but his disease just chooses to be a quiet type. Yesterday was very hard for me. You have NO idea how protected you are until you come to a place like this and see these beautiful innocent children fighting for their lives. Although it may only be terminology I had to come to grips with the fact that my son is now a "Cancer Patient". That really hit me hard. Today Luke had a radiation semulation- this is where they place him in the exact position he will receive the radiation and they mark his head and form a mold completely under his body, the way he will be laying. He then had a cat scan. He was sedated (general anesthesia) for all of this. He did very well through it. They left the IV in his arm so tomorrow when he is sedated for his MRI, he will not have to be stuck again. He was NOT happy to wake up with the IV!!!Tomorrow is another busy day, MRI at 9:00 a.m. then visits with an eye doctor, hearing specialist, psycological evaluation and then to surgery clinic. On Monday he will go to surgery where they will put a central line or port in his chest so he can receive his sedation everyday for his radiation.
We are all doing well. We are moving to the Ronald McDonald House tomorrow. This will be good because we can unpack and they have activities for the kids to do. We will have an address so you all can write us. We are staying strong and leaning on God through all of this. Even though we are here and going through this we see how blessed we are. As I said earlier to see these sick children and their families and how they are coping and fighting makes you see the miracles in your own life and that your issues are so minor compared to what others are facing.
Please continue to lift us up in prayer. Pray for Luke as his days get tougher and tougher. May God blanket him with peace and comfort. May Damian and I (and Payton) draw strength from each other and especially from God to go through this. Count your blessings!! We will hopefully have our own access to the internet (thanks to The Bile's Family) by Monday so we can update daily!! We thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.

Stop now and pray for Luke and all of the children in this fight for health!!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, June 19, 2003 3:50 PM CDT

Yes, we made it. Monday was a easy day of travel, lots of games of "I spy" and Mommy's favorite game "The Quiet Game" although Payton and Luke could never seem to win that one. We made it all the way to Birmingham, Alabama on Monday and spent the night there. Tuesday was a bit of a hassel. Our tire seperated and we ended up sitting at a Good Year Tire for about four hours. That wasn't a lot of fun but.... now even the Good Year service men are praying for Luke too. We arrived at St. Jude's on Tuesday about 5:00 p.m. We were absolutely amazed at what a beautiful hospital it is. The grounds remind you of Disney World, everything is so manicured and maintained. It only gets better on the inside, it is very child friendly with lots of paintings and murals on the wall. This facility runs like clock work. You check in every day and are given a schedule of what your day will be. You report to different clinics and areas. It is absolutely amazing. My words do not do it justice. Wednesday was very long. We met with the oncologist, child life specialist and then social worker. We were not finished until late afternoon. Luke handled everything well (because there were no shots or treatment). We told him this was HIS hospital and that makes him smile. Now he says "My hospital is nice". Luke seems so out of place here, he is NOT sick like most all of the other children you see- but then it came to me he is but his disease just chooses to be a quiet type. Yesterday was very hard for me. You have NO idea how protected you are until you come to a place like this and see these beautiful innocent children fighting for their lives. Although it may only be terminology I had to come to grips with the fact that my son is now a "Cancer Patient". That really hit me hard. Today Luke had a radiation semulation- this is where they place him in the exact position he will receive the radiation and they mark his head and form a mold completely under his body, the way he will be laying. He then had a cat scan. He was sedated (general anesthesia) for all of this. He did very well through it. They left the IV in his arm so tomorrow when he is sedated for his MRI, he will not have to be stuck again. He was NOT happy to wake up with the IV!!!Tomorrow is another busy day, MRI at 9:00 a.m. then visits with an eye doctor, hearing specialist, psycological evaluation and then to surgery clinic. On Monday he will go to surgery where they will put a central line or port in his chest so he can receive his sedation everyday for his radiation.
We are all doing well. We are moving to the Ronald McDonald House tomorrow. This will be good because we can unpack and they have activities for the kids to do. We will have an address so you all can write us. We are staying strong and leaning on God through all of this. Even though we are here and going through this we see how blessed we are. As I said earlier to see these sick children and their families and how they are coping and fighting makes you see the miracles in your own life and that your issues are so minor compared to what others are facing.
Please continue to lift us up in prayer. Pray for Luke as his days get tougher and tougher. May God blanket him with peace and comfort. May Damian and I (and Payton) draw strength from each other and especially from God to go through this. Count your blessings!! We will hopefully have our own access to the internet (thanks to The Bile's Family) by Monday so we can update daily!! We thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.

Stop now and pray for Luke and all of the children in this fight for health!!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, June 19, 2003 3:50 PM CDT

Yes, we made it. Monday was a easy day of travel, lots of games of "I spy" and Mommy's favorite game "The Quiet Game" although Payton and Luke could never seem to win that one. We made it all the way to Birmingham, Alabama on Monday and spent the night there. Tuesday was a bit of a hassel. Our tire seperated and we ended up sitting at a Good Year Tire for about four hours. That wasn't a lot of fun but.... now even the Good Year service men are praying for Luke too. We arrived at St. Jude's on Tuesday about 5:00 p.m. We were absolutely amazed at what a beautiful hospital it is. The grounds remind you of Disney World, everything is so manicured and maintained. It only gets better on the inside, it is very child friendly with lots of paintings and murals on the wall. This facility runs like clock work. You check in every day and are given a schedule of what your day will be. You report to different clinics and areas. It is absolutely amazing. My words do not do it justice. Wednesday was very long. We met with the oncologist, child life specialist and then social worker. We were not finished until late afternoon. Luke handled everything well (because there were no shots or treatment). We told him this was HIS hospital and that makes him smile. Now he says "My hospital is nice". Luke seems so out of place here, he is NOT sick like most all of the other children you see- but then it came to me he is but his disease just chooses to be a quiet type. Yesterday was very hard for me. You have NO idea how protected you are until you come to a place like this and see these beautiful innocent children fighting for their lives. Although it may only be terminology I had to come to grips with the fact that my son is now a "Cancer Patient". That really hit me hard. Today Luke had a radiation semulation- this is where they place him in the exact position he will receive the radiation and they mark his head and form a mold completely under his body, the way he will be laying. He then had a cat scan. He was sedated (general anesthesia) for all of this. He did very well through it. They left the IV in his arm so tomorrow when he is sedated for his MRI, he will not have to be stuck again. He was NOT happy to wake up with the IV!!!Tomorrow is another busy day, MRI at 9:00 a.m. then visits with an eye doctor, hearing specialist, psycological evaluation and then to surgery clinic. On Monday he will go to surgery where they will put a central line or port in his chest so he can receive his sedation everyday for his radiation.
We are all doing well. We are moving to the Ronald McDonald House tomorrow. This will be good because we can unpack and they have activities for the kids to do. We will have an address so you all can write us. We are staying strong and leaning on God through all of this. Even though we are here and going through this we see how blessed we are. As I said earlier to see these sick children and their families and how they are coping and fighting makes you see the miracles in your own life and that your issues are so minor compared to what others are facing.
Please continue to lift us up in prayer. Pray for Luke as his days get tougher and tougher. May God blanket him with peace and comfort. May Damian and I (and Payton) draw strength from each other and especially from God to go through this. Count your blessings!! We will hopefully have our own access to the internet (thanks to The Bile's Family) by Monday so we can update daily!! We thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.

Stop now and pray for Luke and all of the children in this fight for health!!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, June 18, 2003 8:02 PM CDT

The DeAndrea's do not have access to the internet as of yet, but would like to tell you they had a very busy day seeing doctors and planning Luke's treatment. Tomorrow is another very busy day as Luke will be having a radiation simulation and a CAT scan. This will done under general anesthesia. Please pray for him. Please pray that he will handle all of this well. On Friday he will have an MRI under general anesthesia as well. Amanda will update the web page as soon as possible with more details.

Please stop and pray for Luke.


Monday, June 16, 2003 7:43 AM CDT


TKO IN ROUND 2 BABY!!!!!

Well, we are all packed (everything but the kitchen sink) and getting ready to leave any minute now. We will try to travel half way to Memphis and continue tomorrow!! We are anxiously expecting to see God's hand throughout our journey. Pray for travel mercies. We have our first appointment at St. Jude's on Wednesday so we'll update the web page Wednesday evening. Thank you all for your continued love, support and PRAYERS!!! Keep em coming!!!

STOP NOW AND PRAY HARD FOR LUKEY!!!
In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's

(Hey Killeen Family (and Friends)!! You guys are awesome!!Thanks for everything!!!)


Friday, June 13, 2003 11:37 PM CDT

We received a phone call today from St. Jude's and things are moving faster than we thought. We have to report to St. Jude's Tuesday (June 17) and we start with a multitude of appointments and meetings on Wednesday (June 18). We will start with an appointment at 9:30 a.m. with the chief Radiologist/ Oncologist, then move on to a meeting with the child life specialist and then on to social services. On Thursday Luke will have a CT scan and a semulation test. On Friday he will have an MRI. From what I can understand his radiation will start the following week (June 23). We are still not sure of the housing arrangements as there is a waiting list at the Ronald McDonald House. We are planning to drive and will leave on Monday and split the trip into two days (we believe it will take about 13 hours to get there)Payton is going with us. Damian is planning on staying for the first two weeks and will return home (those plans and dates are still up in the air depending on how Lukey is doing) It would be ideal if Damian could be home (Tampa) Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays and come back to Memphis over the weekends and Mondays and Tuesdays. But we don't know if this is feasible. When he does come home (to Tampa) I am hoping that between my mom, family and friends that someone will be able to come up to Memphis so that I am not by myself so much. The doctor said that we could come home on the weekends as well so maybe we could come home once or twice within the 6 weeks.?. Everything is up in the air until we get there and find out the details of the housing and Lukey's treatment. I was rather shocked to find out how quickly things are happening but the faster we start the faster Luke is healed and the faster we are back home. I can't imagine being away for 6 weeks and I am trying to only take one day at the time. My biggest concern of course is for Lukey and how he is going to handle all of this.
Please continue to pray for him and his little body to be completely healed. Pray that he will handle the radiation and daily sedations with ease. Pray for another miracle!!!
Pray for our entire family that we draw strength from each other and the Lord and that we use this time to bring Glory to God. May we be a light to others and be able to shine for God even through our own pain. Pray for a safe trip and that all of our plans will fall into place. We will update the site as often as possible. We are thanking you from the bottom of our hearts as you enter into another phase of Luke's journey with us-ROUND 2!!!

Stop now and pray HARD for Luke!!!
In His Grip-
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea


Wednesday, June 11, 2003 9:43 PM CDT

I can't believe how long your days can be when you are sitting by the phone waiting for it to ring. Our surgeon in Tennessee returned from vacation today and called us this evening. He started by explaining the three things that can happen to that small little bit of tumor that was left. First, the bodies immune system usually will take care of it on its own. Second, it may stay the same for the rest of someones life or thirdly, it may grow back. This is what has happened to Luke (he said it was about the size of half of a lima bean) So now the question is what do we do. The first option is surgery but at this point he feels the risks out weigh the benefits. Second, is focal radiation which is his recommendation. This would be done 30 times which is a six week treatment and he recommends we come to St. Jude's in Tennessee as they specialize in this type of radiation and only work with children. There is a 80% success rate for Lukey's treatment.
We believe we are going to do this (our local neurosurgeon is still on vacation) Of course, we don't want Luke to have to go through anything else but.... We feel extremely fortunate that we have this option and this hope!!! It will be challenging to be away from home this long but we have to go and do what we feel is the absolute best for Luke. As of now, Damian and I are tossing around plans.. how long can Damian stay?should Payton go? The surgeons coordinator will call us on Friday with details on when Luke will begin treatment (The doctor said with in the next week or first part of the following)so we will have more details on Friday.
We tried to have a very light discussion with Luke about this. Damian told him that we needed to go see Dr. Sanford again in Tennessee. He told Damian "That's okay, I don't want to see him." He can't process this and we don't want him to be afraid. Payton on the other hand knows something is going on and we have told her a part of Luke's tumor is back and we need to go make him better. She is very emotional and while she was saying her prayers asked God not to let her brother die. This was one of the saddest moments I have ever had!!!!
I think I have been in shock over the last few days but I know I am blessed, I know there are hundreds of mothers who would change places with me because their child has no options, no hope, no treatment. So as my husband says "We are ready for Round 2!!" and we will be victorious again!! We are trusting in the Lord for another miracle, another healing, another list of answered prayers. My Luke will live to tell his grandchildren how God has used him to touch each of you and thousands of people everywhere. He is special!! A fighter (actually he's more of a lover)!!Those of you who know Luke know what a sweet spirit he has, he is quiet, charming, easy going,loves his daddy but is definately a momma's boy-he told me yesterday as he stroked my hair that I was the most beautifulest mommy in the whole world!!! We will never give up our hope, our faith, our walk with the LORD.
We need your prayers!!!We need God to prepare our way, let the right doors open, let the plans fall into place. More importantly we pray that this radiation will destroy this tumor and that it will never grow back again. We pray that Luke is surrounded in peace and that whatever pain and discomfort he has to tolerate that God will give his little body strength to endure it!!! We give all the glory to God.
We will update you on Friday.

PLEASE STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda DeAndrea


Friday, June 6, 2003 11:43 PM CDT

We have received some very devastating news. Luke's tumor has "grown back st the surgical sight". Our main surgeon in Tennessee is on vacation (so is our local neurologist in Tampa) apparently this is why no one was calling us. I have not left the side of the phone in three days and no one had called to give the results. I left message after message and finally today I phoned a liaison at the hospital in Tennessee who told me that Dr. Sanford was on vacation but she would find out if Luke's films were reviewed at the brain tumor meeting this past Wednesday or if they planned on waiting until Dr. Sanford was back. It only took a short while before she called and stated the brain tumor clinic board reviewed Luke's films and the news was not good and that the tumor was back. She said Dr. Sanford's associate would call me back with details but that Dr. Sanford would be the one to call back next Wednesday (june 11th) with his recommendation for treatment. The other doctor did phone late this afternoon stating the tumor had recurred. I ask if they could have possibly misdiagnosed the original tumor because why would such a slow growing tumor grow back so fast. He said they felt the original diagnosis of a benign low grade astrocytoma was correct but often in these cases if the tumor is going to grow back it does very rapidly. He said the board suggested radiation but the question was do you operate again first or go straight to radiation. He said that Dr. Sanford would be the one to offer the plan of treatment.
There aren't words to describe my feelings right now. I NEVER thought this would be happening. We are trying to regroup and only take a day, an hour, a minute at the time and not jump to the WHAT IF's and WHY's. We will draw strength and courage from above and get through this!!! Of course as a mother my biggest concern is for my darling baby. I never want him to have to go through any more pain or suffering.
I am begging AGAIN for your specific prayers for ANOTHER absolute miracle!! I am not sure what to even say. Find your own words to beg GOD to have mercy on Luke and to spare him from another surgery and to heal his sweet little body from this terrible tumor!!
PLEASE STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKEY!!!
In HIs Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, June 5, 2003 5:05 PM CDT

Thank you all for your continued care and concern for Luke. As of now, we still do not know the results of the MRI. We will update you as soon as we here something. Please continue to pray for a clear scan.

In His Grip,
Amanda and Damian


Monday, June 2, 2003 7:31 AM CDT

Our appointment for today has been canceled due to the fact the doctor is on vacation for two weeks. I explained to them that we did not want to wait two weeks to discuss the results of Lukes MRI but..... the doctor isn't there. THE GOOD NEWS IS... we went and got a copy of the films ourselves and overnighted them to Dr. Sanford (our surgeon in Tennessee). I franticly called his office after our appointment here had been canceled and he instructed us to send the films to St. Jude's, which is where brain tumor research is done. Their radiologist will review the films and compare them to the originals and then Dr. Sanford will see them on Wednesday (June 4) at a weekly brain tumor meeting at St. Jude's. He will then call us on Wednesday with his findings. This is what we were to do originally anyway other than we would have found out something today. Oh Well, I am being taught a lesson in patience, faith and trust just to name a few.
We are still asking for your constant and intentional prayers that this and every scan in the future will be clear!!!! I will be back with the good news on Wednesday!

Stop now and pray for Lukey!!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:06 PM CDT

We made it!!! Things went extremely well today. (I think Luke handled it much better than I did) Luke did not know where or what we were doing today. There is only so much a three year old can process and with the fears he has we did not tell him anything. So.... at 6:45 a.m. when we were leaving the house he wanted to know what was going on. At first I tried to avoid the questions but then as we got closer to the hospital Damian told him that he had an appointment at the doctor. His immediate frantic question was "Am I going to get a shot and bleed?" Then he started repeating " I don't want to go to an appoitment, I don't want to see the doctor!!" Payton went with us so she did a good job at playing with him and distracting him. As we approached the hospital, I felt this huge lump in my throat. I had done such a good job at preparing myself but a lot of memories suddenly flooded my mind. Once again, I got to see "God at work" as we began to pray before entering I was able to breath again, swallow, smile, talk and I knew everything was going to be okay. Luke walked right into the hospital, he first donated some toys at the front desk (he was very excited to do this) and we checked into radiology and within minutes we were with the nurses going over his history. It was so neat because the same nurses who did the first MRI (where we found the tumor) were there again and were so excited at how he was doing. Luke remained calm as they did his vitals and we answered questions about his surgery. The anesthesiologist made me a bit anxious, he explained the risks of "just not knowing" how anesthesia will affect a child who has gone through what Luke has gone through (and having a paralysed vocal cord and shallow breathing) he went into what they would do "IF" something happened. For a moment I felt my heart burn again BUT it had to be done and we have faith that God didn't bring Lukey this far this fast for that to happen. As I signed the consent with teary eyes the nurse began looking for a vein. This is when Luke knew something was going on. (My biggest concern was that he understand as best as possible that he was NOT having another surgery and that he was going home with us today!!! I didn't want him scared that he might being going through anything like before) She found a vein quickly and inserted the IV. He screamed (what child wouldn't)once again he begged for us. They tore him (literally) out of my arms and Damian and I stood outside the door as they began the sedation. (All Children's Hospital has been awesome with their care and how fast they do things, they don't call you back until they are ready for you. So, from the time he got the IV it was only 3-4 minutes until he was totally out!!That's a good thing) We heard him in the room crying for us and for Payton but within seconds he was under. In about an hour, Damian disappeared to what I thought was the bathroom but he drifted back to recovery. Luke was still deep asleep but as soon as Damian called his name he woke right up. He had his crackers and juice and was ready to leave. So...what a GREAT day this turned out to be!!! God is good. Now we are awaiting the results. We have an appointment with our local neurosurgeon on Monday at 10:00 a.m. Please continue to pray for a clean scan FOREVER!!! Thank you all for your prayers and concern. This journey would be so difficult without all of you.

STOP NOW and PRAY FOR LUKE!!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, May 20, 2003 6:29 PM CDT

PLEASE STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!!!

We ask that each of you who read these words will stop and pray for Luke. He will be going for his first MRI since his brain surgery in Febraury. His MRI is scheduled for TUESDAY MAY 27th. We will not have any results until we see the neurosurgeon on Monday, June 2nd. We ask that you specifically pray for Luke as he undergoes this test. Pray that he will be calm and handle the actual surroundings of the hospital, nurses, needles (etc) with a peace that only God can give. His is extremely afraid of being hurt and "bleeding" (he always asks us now if he is bleeding when he gets hurts) Above all PLEASE pray for a clear scan and that there will be NO trace of a tumor on this film or any other film for the rest of his life!!!!! We continue to have faith in our Lord Jesus Christ and know that he is the master of all miracles and healing and all good things. We continue to claim a complete miracle.
Ephesians 6:18 "Pray all the time. Ask God for anything in line with the Holy Spirit's wishes. Plead with him, reminding him of your needs, and keep praying earnestly for all Christians everywhere."
Please pray for peace and strength for Damian and I as well. Thank you for being a part of our journey.
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, May 20, 2003 6:29 PM CDT

PLEASE STOP NOW AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!!!

We ask that each of you who read these words will stop and pray for Luke. He will be going for his first MRI since his brain surgery in Febraury. His MRI is scheduled for TUESDAY MAY 27th. We will not have any results until we see the neurosurgeon on Monday, June 2nd. We ask that you specifically pray for Luke as he undergoes this test. Pray that he will be calm and handle the actual surroundings of the hospital, nurses, needles (etc) with a peace that only God can give. His is extremely afraid of being hurt and "bleeding" (he always asks us now if he is bleeding when he gets hurts) Above all PLEASE pray for a clear scan and that there will be NO trace of a tumor on this film or any other film for the rest of his life!!!!! We continue to have faith in our Lord Jesus Christ and know that he is the master of all miracles and healing and all good things. We continue to claim a complete miracle.
Ephesians 6:18 "Pray all the time. Ask God for anything in line with the Holy Spirit's wishes. Plead with him, reminding him of your needs, and keep praying earnestly for all Christians everywhere."
Please pray for peace and strength for Damian and I as well. Thank you for being a part of our journey.
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Friday, May 9, 2003 6:14 PM CDT

WOW!! Yesterday was a BIG day for us. Payton graduated (cap and gown-the whole works) from pre-school and Luke was an undergraduate (quite the cutie in his dress clothes). It was a very special ceremony at Gaither High School. It is amazing how far God has brought Lukey over such a short time. As I sat there and watched him sing and accept his diploma I was overcome with JOY (once again) at what a miracle he is!! He is doing AWESOME. His eye is maintaining. The redness is so much better. It is staying lubricated mostly on its own. We still do not notice a difference in the closing, it still only closes about half way. We are praying that he will remain comfortable and eventually the nerve will regenerate and heal (this will take at least a year if it happens at all). We will see the eye doctor for a re check next week.
Please continue to pray for him as he goes for his first MRI on Tuesday May 27th. Please pray specifically for clear scans. We will not find out the results until June 2nd , when we see Dr. Tuite. We cling to our miracle and are EXPECTING nothing but positive news!!!!
Thank you all for the continued love, care and interest. This journey would have been impossible without your prayers and love. Join us in praying for continued healing and that this tumor NEVER EVER returns.
Stop now and pray for Lukey!!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, April 27, 2003 9:36 AM CDT


Check out the new pictures of Luke with his new glasses and Payton and Luke on Easter!!

Luke is doing GREAT! His eye is doing remarkably well. We are not having to do the drops as much, it is staying lubricated more and more on its on. This is a big PRAISE!!! We are still holding off on the surgery.Continue to pray for healing.

We had an awesome Easter. We have so much to celebrate. There is not a day that goes by that we are not thankful for the miracle we have been given. It's hard to believe where we were only a few short months ago and how much Luke has overcome. (Funny Easter story-our church had a special service where JESUS rode into the sanctuary on a donkey. Damian was reading a book to the kids about Palm Sunday and Lukey said with utter excitement "Daddy, Jesus goes to our church, I saw him there on a donkey just like the book." So now Lukey is telling everyone that Jesus goes to his church)

Our next big adventure will be the MRI (which is scheduled for May 27th) We're clinging to THE WORD. Philippians 4:6 says "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with THANKSGIVING present your requests to God." Please continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke. We are claiming that when they do this MRI that there will not be a trace of any tumor. We continue to give all the praise and glory to GOD for HIS work. It is amazing how God continues to use Luke to spread the good news and how he continues to bless us with peace and strength.

We are honored that you continue to read this and continue to pray for Luke and our family.

In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, April 15, 2003 8:59 AM CDT

Luke has had a GREAT week. His eye has amazed us-there have only been hints of red this week. We continue to use the drops and tape it closed at night. He is starting NOT to like any of that any more. He got a pair of glasses-this is for protection only. Boy does he look cute in them. As of now we are patiently WAITING (and praying) to schedule the surgery. We will know when the time comes.

He is happy to be back at school. You would be amazed at how the children at school, church and friends are welcoming him and being so concerned and gentle. He told me last week that all of his friends ask him how he is and if he is feeling better. I asked him what he said back to them. He told me he tells them "I'm fine, my brain stem is all better". That basically sums it up!!

Luke will be having an MRI every three months for three years and then every 6 months for a total of five years. His first MRI is scheduled for Tuesday, May 27th at All Childrens. Mark this date and specifically pray for him.

Continue to pray for a complete healing for his eye and a total healing for his little body. Pray that this tumor NEVER returns. Thank you for your prayers. We are amazed at how you keep reading this and keep reaching out to us.

Wishing you a blessed Easter!!

Stop now and pray for Lukey!
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Monday, April 7, 2003 6:48 AM CDT

We had another busy week of Doctor appointments. On Thursday, we had a follow up with Luke's eye doctor. To his surprise, the lesion on his eye was healing. He does still feel that Lukey probably has paralysis of the 5th cranial nerve which controls the feeling in his eye. He thinks this because Luke has not complained or does not act as if he is in any pain or discomfort from his eye. He said a person with normal sensation would be extremely uncomfortable through all of this. I am thankful he is not in any pain. We are still doing eye drops every hour and taping it closed a night (he pretends to be a pirate). As far as surgery, the physician recommends it. It is not urgent to schedule but the sooner we do it, the sooner the drops will stop and we can avoid another lesion. I was not in the frame of mind on Thursday to decide, Damian did not go to the appointment with me and I wanted to discuss this with him. We have decided to pray about it and schedule it in the next few weeks. For now, as long as the eye stays lubricated it will be fine. On Friday, we saw the ENT. Upon exam, he could not tell if the left vocal cord is still paralyzed or if the right one is working for the left. He feels it is too early to know anything. He recommends a scope of his vocal cord in 4 months which will be 6 months from the surgery. Luke had a hearing test and the left ear was normal. As I sat there and watched him take the test, the flash back of the Doctor saying "he will DEFINATELY lose his hearing" came to my mind. What a miracle that he can hear. We continue to feel the power of your prayers. These are small obstacles that are continuing to build our faith and trust in God. We ask that you specifically pray for protection of Lukey's eye and for a complete healing to continue. Luke's attitude and strength continues to amaze us. He continues to share with people about his scar and talk about his surgery. Our shy little boy is changing. He told me the other day, his brain stem hurt. I laughed out loud!! He was pointing to his scar while saying this so we stopped and prayed that he would feel better. In a few seconds he said "Mama, my brain stem is all better."
Remember how fortunate you are to have your children!! Enjoy them. Thank you for your continued support and prayers.
In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Monday, March 31, 2003 8:03 PM CST

Luke gave us quite a scare this weekend with his eye. Friday evening we decided to go out for yogurt, before we left I went through the routine of his eye drops. As we were sitting in the yogurt shop, I noticed his eye being extremely red but in a different spot. Instead of being red on the bottom, it was bright red on the part nearest his tear duct. After yogurt, we decided to go to Michael's Craft (Payton's favorite store-she is quite crafty) in a matter of only about twenty minutes I looked down at him and became almost frightened. His eye was the brightest shade of red I have ever seen and it was as if he had mucus on the brown part of his eye. As I screamed for Damian to look at it, he tried to wipe the film from his eye and then he said to me "A piece of his eye is missing." I know this sounds crazy but a piece of the colored part of his cornea was dug out in layers and gone. In a matter of seconds we were in the car and for some reason I wanted to go to Eckerds, thinking the pharmasist would say we were crazy and that this is normal. On our way there I beeped Luke's eye doctor that we had just seen last week. At this point, it was 9:00p.m., Luke had gone to sleep in the car and was not in any pain. The doctor returned our call and offered to see us back in his office that night or since Luke was asleep, first thing Saturday morning. So, that is what we did. (What an awesome Doctor to be so amenable and concerned!!) Dr. Slonim basically described to us that Luke's eye is so extremely dry it is almost brittle and that he could have poked himself or gotten something in his eye and the dryness will not allow it to heal like normal so infact a piece of his cornea is "dug out". He also feels that Luke's 5th cranial nerve is affected which controls the senses to your eye because normally to have what Luke has you'd be EXTREMELY uncomfortable and it is as if he doesn't even realize it. (We are claiming that as a blessing for now since he is not in pain and will continue to pray for complete healing of this 5th nerve too). Where we stand now is he has two drops and an ointment which go in hourly, taping the eye shut at night, avoiding wind and direct air. We will see Dr. Slonim on Thursday. It is important that is NOT get infected. I think God has opened my eyes to see that the eye surgery is the best thing for Lukey. I was being selfish not wanting to go through another surgery but it is not possible to put enough drops to keep it lubricated. Imagine following a three year old around every hour with drops-not fun. He was suppose to go back to school this week but that has been put off for a while.He said to me this morning as we dropped Payton off "Mama, I use to be able to go to school, before I had brain surgery." He misses his friends and teachers. We will discuss the surgery at our appointment on Thursday. Friday he has an ENT appointment to evaluate his vocal cord. Believe me, we are still counting our blessings-these are such small things to be going through compared to what "could have been." PLEASE pray specifically for his little eye to heal, for the nerve to start working and his eye to be able to shut. Pray for no infection. Pray for a complete healing for him. He is so precious. We are so blessed and honored to be his parents. Oh yeah-he got a great haircut which makes him look even more like his daddy. Thank you all for your faithfulness to our family.
In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, March 25, 2003 2:21 PM CST

Luke has had been busy with doctor appointments. On Thursday we saw an eye doctor. As you know, Luke's left eye only closes half way, we currently put eye drops as needed for dryness and irritation. We have noticed his eye being very irritated lately. The Doctor said he felt Luke would probably have to have surgery. This is the procedure they told us about in Tennessee where they put a gold weight in his eyelid so that when he blinks the weight will pull the eyelid down and prevent the irritation he is experiencing. This appointment was very tramatic for him because he is still so afraid of being hurt and "bleeding" and he says. The doctor increased his drops to every hour, we have to tape his eye shut at night, he has to get glasses and we must try to eliminate direct air (ceiling fans, windows down in the car)We will see the eye doctor in a few weeks to re-evaluate. His next appointment was yesterday with the neurosurgeon that we originally saw at All Childrens. I felt we needed some direction as to his eye, throat, speech, hearing. I can't tell you how it felt to be back in that building, sitting in the office where we found out what we thought to be the most devastating news of our life. It brought back so many emotions. Then I looked at my beautiful miracle boy and felt such joy. It was quite a day for me. Needless to say, Luke didn't want anything to do with the Doctor- but he ended up showing him his scar and giving him a high five. I thanked Dr. Tuite for his direction and honesty and for sending us to Tennessee. Some physicians may not have done that. He referred Luke to a ENT to follow up on his vocal cord and swallowing and possibly a hearing test of his left ear. He will have Luke evaluated by a speech pathologist and ordered another swallowing study in about a month. Luke's next MRI will be May 8th. Please keep us in your prayers. Ask for protection to be placed around Luke and our family. The last two weeks have been rather difficult for us-I think everything is kind of catching up to us. We are counting our blessings, we have an unending amount!!! Continue to pray for a complete healing for Luke (specific- eye and throat) Pray that this horrible tumor will NEVER return!!! We are so thankful to God for our miracle and to you for your continued prayers and love.
Still In His Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Monday, March 17, 2003 11:49 AM CST

Hello!!
Luke has had a GREAT week. He continues to improve. We have cut back on the "Thicken It" in his drink. We are even giving him sips of fluid with nothing in it. So far so good, he is coughing with each sip (which the ENT told us he may do for a very long time since his vocal cord is paralyzed) We find ourselves amazed everyday, how could it be that only 4 weeks ago our son was lying in ICU and is now enjoying picknicks with his friends? (Check out pictures on Jon Adairs guestbook entry). We got AWESOME news from the Doctor in Tennessee, the final pathology came back as the tumor being an ASTROCYTOMA which is what he suspected and a very low grade. We are on our knees daily thanking God for our miracle. His scar continues to heal. Luke is very sensitive to bug bites and something bit him on his incision, so it is red and a bit swollen. He will be going to the eye doctor next week to have his vision and the left eye checked. He still can not close his eye and has to have eye drops quite often to help with the irritation.We have to take this very serious in order not to damage his cornea. He has been quite the comedian lately. For those of you who don't know Luke, he is (or should I say was) extremely SHY. His preschool had a talent show last Thursday and Payton was singing, I asked him if he wanted to go with her and sing and he said Yes. I just knew he would back out but he marched right to the front and sang his little heart out, with hand motions and everything. He has amused us by talking a lot this week about his surgery. He bragged to his cousin as he showed him the scar on his head. He asked me the other day out of the blue "Mom, is my tumor all gone?" I said yes, Jesus and Dr. Sanford took it out. He said "Okay, Good" and went on about his business. Payton asked to have a drink of his juice and he told he No because it had his medicine in it, She continued to beg(and whine) And with the most serious look on his face and his hands on his hips he said "Listen, if you want to go to the hospital and get surgery on your brain, you can have my drink with medicine" It was the funniest thing, we laughed for hours. He still has a few scary memories that he has also shared especially the tape being ripped off the back of his head before they removed the sutures. If he ever falls or gets hurt the first thing he asks is "Am I bleeding?"
His incision is such a tool to witness to people, as people see it and ask we are able to share what God has done in our lives and along with this hear of people who have needs and need prayer as well.
Our request for specific prayer this week is continued healing for Luke. Ask specifically that the nerve will be regenerated and Luke will be able to use the left side of his face again (we are asking for the whole enchillada!!)Pray that his eye will close more and more and that he will continue down the path of complete healing and will be tumor free FOREVER. Find another child in need of specific prayer and ask God for a miracle in their life. We thank you for your continued love and prayers. We'll update next Monday!!
In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Monday, March 10, 2003 1:56 PM CST

Dear Friends-
Life is slowly getting back to normal. Luke is doing better everyday. His voice is still a whisper at times, he still can't drink liquids but as I said before this is improving because if we get his drink too thin- he'll cough which is a great sign. We'll repeat a swallowing study in a few weeks. He has gained about 4 pounds which makes a big difference in him (his little legs looked like toothpicks) He won't be returning to pre-school until his swallowing improves. We had a GREAT weekend. We were able to share a bit of Lukey's story with our church. It's hard to tell of all that the Lord has done for us in a 10 minute testimony. We are still amazed at how far and how fast Luke has come. God has taken care of every complication that Luke has faced. Thank you so much for your continued support and PRAYERS. We still need them. His next MRI will be in May. He will have an MRI every three months for two years and then every six months for five years. Please continue to pray for Luke's complete healing. We are amazed at the hand of GOD and give him all the credit. We will continue to update the webpage (our computer has been down if you have tried to email us on our personal email. Sorry!)
Continue to remember us. Thank you for your love and prayers during this difficult journey. God is GOOD!!
In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:42 PM CST

Dear Friends-
We are still "Walking on Sunshine" although the enemy has been after us this week. Our computer, airconditioner and refrigerator all went out. Isn't that funny? It is amazing what a different perspective we have on things now. Nothing is going to steal our joy!! Luke is doing incredible. We say several times a day "It's like the old Luke". We are continuing to go less and less with the "Thicken It" in his drink. He seems to be handling it well. We are hearing more of his voice each day. We hope he can return to school in a few weeks. His incision looks Great. His hair is growing in so it is itching him. Pretty soon his hair will almost cover it all. His neck seems stiff at times and he likes to curl up and just rest through out the day (but who doesn't). We are all adjusting back to normal life. Damian and I seem to be extremely tired. It's like the past month has caught up to us. Payton has had a few melt downs. Every morning on the way to school we pray and as she prayed a few days ago she said "God, help me have a good day at school and thank you for not letting my brother die in the hospital because he is a nice brother and I love him." She has been very patient with him (although a little of that is starting to wear off)She is always making sure when he drinks that he tucks his head down, if not she tells on him.
We continue to be amazed at the stories some of you are sharing with us at how Lukey's journey has touched so many lives. We feel truly blessed and find even more comfort in hearing your words of excitement.(We'd love to hear your messages in the guest book)
Please continue to pray for a complete healing, Luke's vocal cord to heal and his swallowing to continue to improve and of course that the tumor NEVER returns.
Hope you all prayed for Riley (from my last entry). Today I will share with you about Ashley. She is a beautiful one year old little girl that we actually didn't meet until the day we were leaving. We passed her mom in the hall as she was cradling Ashley to calm her down. Ashley had a brain tumor and surgery but the surgeon was unable to get all of the tumor. She is now a patient of Dr. Sanford and he did the second surgery. They were waiting for the results of the second MRI to see if he was successful. Pray for a complete healing for Ashley and comfort for her parents and family.
God is Good! Continue to pray for our family. We are truly blessed and want others who are going through tough times to feel the love and support that God has provided us through each of you. Hug your kids!! Say something extra sweet to your sweetie!! Value each moment.

Stop now and pray for Lukey and Praise God for your life!
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, March 2, 2003 2:23 PM CST

WOW!! What a difference a day makes. On Wednesday, I was telling you how Luke had began to walk on his on. Since then he has improved even more. He is running, jumping and trying to wrestle (that's where I draw the line). I went to my women's small group at church on Friday and Damian stayed home with the kids, when I pulled up they were all outside playing basketball. Luke is quite the dribbler! He has a great appetite. He has lost alot weight through all of this, but the way he is going he'll put it back on quickly. As I've shared with you, he LOVES chocolate, he is actually eating M&M's right now. He is waiting for his night out to Applebees. He is basically eating whatever he likes, we just make sure he takes small bites and chews alot. He is starting not to like the "Thicken It" in his drink, I hope that means that his swallowing is improving. We are gradually adding less and less to see how he handles it, so far so good. He's practically the same old Luke. (A little more spoiled) His voice is still hushed and strained at times. The ENT told us it could take up to two years for his vocal cord to heal. Continue to pray for a complete healing. We are walking on sunshine, screaming (literally) the Praises of the Lord and the miracles he has delivered to our son and to us. God wants you to share this miracle as well, just as you shared the need. Join us in telling everyone what an awesome God we serve. Remember I wanted to tell you more about some of the people we met. Today I'll tell you about "Riley". He is an adorable red headed two year old little boy. Riley had a two hour seizure which destroyed the front part of his brain, the part which controls logic and speaking. One of the surgeons that assisted with Lukey's surgery removed the front part of Riley's brain. He was without a skull for weeks. He finally went home and was back in the hospital when we were there for a problem with his heart valve. His precious little veins could hold no more IV's (they stuck him eight times one day ,as we listened to him scream- all we could do was pray). They finally took him to surgery to give him a central line for his IV's and to draw blood. His Great grandmother is his caretaker. She stayed with him all day, everyday. We became very friendly with him as did the whole hospital. He loved to give Payton high five, and would smile a bashful smile when he would see us. They could not figure out the problem with his heart, finally they called in an infectious disease doctor who told them that due to the surgery Riley had a bacteria in his heart valve that was causing this problem. They put him on a super high dose of antibiotics. The day we left they were taking him for some type of study to see if his heart had improved. The most awesome part of this story is the day we met him, his grandmother was telling us about his situation, and right as she was saying he can't talk, Luke was pulled right beside him in the wagon, Riley looked at Luke and said "Hi"! The word was crystal clear. Everyone was absoultely amazed!! (All those prayers for Lukey are bouncing off.) We ask today that you not only continue to pray for Luke but to lift up Riley (and his family) to the Lord. He needs healing, he has a long road to recover. Thank you all for your continued prayers. Don't stop. We'll update in a few days.
Count your blessings!!
Screamin' his praises!!
In His Grip,
The DeAndrea's


Wednesday, February 26, 2003 2:37 PM CST

(More photos on web page)

Ther's no place like home! There's no place like home! We are thrilled to be home. We checked out of the hospital Monday afternoon after Luke had his swallowing test, stiches out and feeding tube removed. This was the last of his "ouchies" as he says. He did not completely pass his swallowing test, he can not have any liquids. We have to put something called "Thicken It" in all of his drinks. It turns to a slushy consistency, it doesn't have a taste so he doesn't mind. He also has to tuck his chin to his chest to swallow. He did not like having his stiches taken out. At the bottom part of his incision, the skin had grown over so it hurt as they removed them. After that he had his feeding tube removed. Needless to say it was a rough last hour for him. We were so happy to be going home but in the same breath sad for all of the children and families that were staying. Some of these kids have been there for months and months and the word "HOME" has not been mentioned to them. We will never be the same. We have seen SO many miracles and want to share them all with you, I wish everyone that has shared in this experience could come together and hear details of what the LORD has done, but I'll try over the next few weeks to share them with you on this page. We are truly in awe at the hand of our Lord and Saviour and have committed to Him that we will tell of his goodness. This has been a tough journey. To see your child with tubes, not breathing at times, crying for you to help him, being scared, confused- all this is very hard but God heard our cries and extended his hand to pull us through. Luke's result is an absolute miracle. First, he is alive(he had two plates and 8 screws in his head), then there's the fact they got all of the tumor (we have had nurses tell us that in all of their years it is rare for this to happen because of the location in the stem) then we were told he would DEFINATELY WITH OUT A DOUBT lose the hearing in his left ear and the paralysis of the left side of his face would be worse(the Doctor stated after coming out of surgery "the tumor was not where we thought it was, it did not affect these nerves")
Can I get an "AMEN?" Then there was the breathing, the talks of the trachyotomy(now this was the toughtest part for us, to see Luke struggle to breath, his chest collapsing but we immediately put out the word for prayer, he did have to have the second vent but was able to come off of it)There were talks of a more permanent feeding tube directly into his stomach-We Prayed-and it didn't happen. There were talks that he may have to come home with the feeding tube in his nose-We Prayed-and it didn't happen. How can anyone doubt the Lord? How can anyone not see his hand? The even better news is he is waiting to do miracles in your life and he already has (some you may not even recognize). As I said before all you have to do is go to a Children's Hospital to realize the miracles that God has given you. As I would be listening to other parents share their stories, I found myself thanking God that my baby had a brain tumor. That may seem crazy but when you hear the condition of these kids and see the pain their parents are in you would understand. Thank you Lord for what you've given me and the path you've made for me and the people you've put there to make it easier.
We see Luke changing hour by hour. Yesterday he walked as if he were drunk. He'd take 4-5 steps and then stumble. He thought he could do alot more than what he was capable of. He had a good night. He and his Daddy got up about 2:00a.m. and had pudding and applesauce. (Damian forgot how to sleep without the nurses coming in every hour) I can't tell you how strong Damian has been through all of this, there would be times that I would feel physicially sick watching them do things to Lukey, I'd go get on my knees in the corner and Damian would stay right by his side, reassuring him that he'd be okay and that Daddy and Mommy loves him. Once in ICU when Lukey had the vent and couldn't speak, Damian said do you know Daddy loves you and with Luke's eyes still shut he nodded YES. They made many trips in the wagon to the chapel to pray together.
Today has been amazing. He walks like he did before we left. I actually caught him sneaking chocolate. He has had a awesome day playing with Payton. Please continue to pray specifically for his vocal cord to heal (he sounds like he is on helium when he talks, it's quite cute) his swallowing to improve, his strength and healing to continue. Also, that this tumor will NEVER EVER EVER return (one in five tumors may reoccur)
We continue to stand on the promises of God. We thank you all from the pits of our souls for all you have done. Our words are inadequate but we are so grateful to each of you.Each of you took part in saving his life through your sincere and dedicated prayers. We will update again in a few days. I ask you again to count your blessings, don't take another day with your children or family for granted. Continue doing the Lords work by helping his people as you have done for us.

Stop now and Thank God for this miracle and continue to pray for Luke.
Bursting with Joy,
Still in HIS GRIP.
Damian and Amanda


Monday, February 24, 2003 2:53 PM CST

Hello! I am writing on behalf of Amanda and guess what? THE DEANDREAS ARE COMING HOME!!!!!!! Tomorrow in fact. Luke was just released from the hospital. He had his stitches removed and also had another swallowing test. The test went well. He is still not completly OK with liquids, but he has progressed enough to come home. Once again, God has worked a miracle and answered our prayers. Damian, Amanda, and Luke will be staying at a hotel tonight near the airport and will be on a flight in the morning!!!!!!!!!!


Saturday, February 22, 2003 3:04 PM CST

Luke has had a great day! He was able to have a few bites of pudding yesterday. It was awesome! He handled it quite well. He loves chocolate, so it hit the spot. He is restricted from all liquids and still has the feeding tube. Today got even better for him. The doctor allowed him to have tiny bites of ravioli- he was in heaven! This was the first time we were able to eat in the room with him, because we didn't want him to smell or see food. We usually hide in the bathroom or eat in the hall. He keeps asking to go to Applebee's (which is his favorite restaurant.) He is very anxious to go home. His sister went home today, which was very sad for all of us. He has looked forward to seeing her daily and playing with her. More good news... he has taken several steps on his own- which is awesome!!! Everyone that sees him is amazed at how well he is doing. The nurses use words like unbelievable, phenomenal, and miracle! So... we're just hanging out in the hospital- playing with play-doh, watching movies, and walking the hall in the wagon. (Did I mention that Memphis time practically stands still?) He gains strength everyday. God is so good! Please continue to pray specifically for his swallowing test on Monday at 11:00 a.m., that he will pass and be able to have the feeding tube removed. He is also having problems with his left eye. It is only closing half way, which causes dryness and irritation. He gets drops hourly. The doctor said if this doesn't improve, they may have to surgically implant a weight in his eyelid to help it close. Pray for continued rest, healing, protection, and no complications. The Lord is so real! Read Psalms 91. Thank you all for your continued prayers, fasting, love, caring, sharing, and the list goes on. Take a moment to just thank God for answered prayers, not only about Luke, but for all the things YOU have to be thankful for. If you could see the children here and their families, you would realize even more all of your blessings.

Psalms 100:4 Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. Give thanks to Him and praise His name.

We give God all the glory. Stop now and pray for Luke.

Love,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, February 20, 2003 11:27 AM CST


Dear Friends,
Luke had his swallowing test. At this point , they do not feel it is safe for him to eat. They have placed a feeding tube thru his nose to feed him. They do feel this will be a temporary complication. (We know it will be-Phil 1:6 Being confident of this very thing, that he who has began in good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Jesus Christ.) At this point things get a bit confusing beause you have different doctors following you for different things-this tube should only be used for 2-4 weeks. At that point if his condition had not improved they would put a device directly into his stomach. They are going to re-evaluate his swallowing in a week. He is extremely weak and he can barely lift his arms or speak, but he has managed a few of his charming smiles. He is very popular throughout the hospital-we had a nurse specifically ask to take care of him today because the nurses in ICU told her about him. Even sick he has his sweet spirit. Yesterday afternoon and this morning were heartbreaking for us. He has been extremely hungry and has begged us to eat. He said " Mama can I just have a piece of bread?" ( I saw that a friend prayed that he would be filled with the bread of life and he is). He then asked for some chocolate M&M's and this morning for donuts. This has been hard to hear him beg for food and then try to distract him. But once again God has gotten us through this. They hooked the feeding tube up at 3pm and this has done wonders. Damian told him he is eating a vanilla milkshake through his tube. We have seen the power of prayer first hand and continue to see it daily! With each obsticle, you all have gotten the specific request out and the prayer chains going and we have seen miracles daily. One story I will share is on Tuesday at 11 am they could no longer give Luke pain medicine due to the fact that it slows down your breathing and since they had to remove the breathing tube, he had to have his breathing at 100%. How can you go through brain surgery and have no pain medicine? It's the Lord and another step in this journey. You all started the calls and e-mails and specifically asked for rest and my boy slept all afternoon and even today he is only getting Tylenol and is managing his pain well. A nurse said "he must have been tired". Thats not it! Its God amazing us and honoring our prayers. We are taking advantage of your prayers and continue to ask for specific requests. We see God show up all day long here. A few weeks ago, I mailed a letter to some of the local Memphis churches stating that Luke would be undergoing surgery on Feb. 14th in their city and asked them to join in prayer for his healing. ( The Lord laid this on my heart when I was here 2 week ago-I was looking through a newspaper and saw a list of churches) What a blessing! Friday morning a pastor showed up before Lukes sugery to pray with us. A nurse here at the hospital saw us in the hall and told us her church had received my letter and they were praying. I got a call today from another church for an update. Isn't God awesome? Our home church in Tampa (Van Dyke Methodist) has reached out with a love and support that is incredible. I know God is smiling down thinking " This how it is supposed to be!" Those of you who don't know us but are honoring us with your prayers-we are speechless and grateful. Even people here are amazed as we share in waiting rooms and halls . They can not believe the prayers. God is affecting everyone through you. I'll close with specific prayers for Luke- to rest-for comfort( he is very scared at times)-for healing-for his vocal cords to begin working-for no complications. Damian and I continue to be amazed at our Lord. This miracle is not by anything we have done but by HIS might and power. We give Him all the glory, praise him for everything good! He fills us with hope. Hug your kids (and each other ) extra hard tonight. Thank God for creating you. Ask him to show you your purpose. Make a difference in someones life, as you have done in ours!!
Stop now and pray for LUKE!!!
With Love-
In his Grip
Damian and Amanda


Tuesday, February 18, 2003 5:33 PM CST

I am writing on behalf of Amanda and Damian. They asked that I update everyone. He is now breathing on his own and the breathing tube has been removed. He also been moved out of ICU and into a regular room. We thank God for these blessings! The next issue he is facing is swallowing. He will be having a swallowing test tomorrow morning at 11:30 am. The family has asked that you pray specifically that his vocal cords will be healed and that he will be able to eat. He is extremely hungry and is miserable. He has been asking for food every ten minutes. The nurse unsuccessfully attempted to put the feeding feading tube back in (it had to be removed yesterday when they removed the breathing tube). Without sedation, it is a difficult procedure to put the feeding tube back in, so they are feeding him only thru IV fluids. This is why he is so hungry. They also ask that we pray for Luke to have a comfortable night. The family is standing strong. They have seen many miracles and feel the power of your prayers and are grateful for them. Please stop now and pray for Luke!!


Sunday, February 16, 2003 6:52 PM CST

(Hospital pictures on website)

Luke had a good morning yesterday. He was answering questions with a nod. "Does your head hurt?" He nodded yes. "Does you leg hurt?" He nodded yes. "Do you want medicine?" He nodded no! (Same old Luke.) Yesterday afternoon got rough for him! They removed his air tube to scope his vocal cords to see if they were functioning properly. During the scope, they found his right vocal cord functioning properly, but his left is partially paralized. (We need your specific prayers for his vocal cords!) He also was struggling to breathe. His airway was too swollen to leave the tube out, so they had to reinsert it. While the tube was out, the ENT Dr. was trying to get him to speak, and was telling Luke to say eeeee and cheeeeese, but Luke wouldn't say it. But he struggled and said "Daddy." AWESOME!!! It was a very rough episode Luke (and for Damian and I.) Then they sedated him completely and he rested the rest of the day. This morning we got a special surprise. The new nurse on duty let us hold him!!!! What an awesome thing to hold our baby after 3 days! We sang to him, talked to him, and prayed for him. Reassuring him we love him, he was safe, and Jesus is with him. He is such a trooper. He now has a feeding tube through his nose. We need your specific prayers that the swelling in his throat will go away so that his air tube may be removed! Pray his vocal cords will not be paralized. Rebuke a tracheotomy! Pray for no complications. We have seen so many miracles here and met so many people ( we have a prayer list a mile long.) God has given us a supernatural peace and courage. It's hard to see our baby like this- in pain with tubes, but we trust the Lord. Without Him, this would be impossible. Please continue to pray for a complete miracle and no complications. We love and miss you all. Stop now and pray for Luke's healing!

God bless,
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, February 16, 2003 6:52 PM CST

(Hospital pictures on website)

Luke had a good morning yesterday. He was answering questions with a nod. "Does your head hurt?" He nodded yes. "Does you leg hurt?" He nodded yes. "Do you want medicine?" He nodded no! (Same old Luke.) Yesterday afternoon got rough for him! They removed his air tube to scope his vocal cords to see if they were functioning properly. During the scope, they found his right vocal cord functioning properly, but his left is partially paralized. (We need your specific prayers for his vocal cords!) He also was struggling to breathe. His airway was too swollen to leave the tube out, so they had to reinsert it. While the tube was out, the ENT Dr. was trying to get him to speak, and was telling Luke to say eeeee and cheeeeese, but Luke wouldn't say it. But he struggled and said "Daddy." AWESOME!!! It was a very rough episode Luke (and for Damian and I.) Then they sedated him completely and he rested the rest of the day. This morning we got a special surprise. The new nurse on duty let us hold him!!!! What an awesome thing to hold our baby after 3 days! We sang to him, talked to him, and prayed for him. Reassuring him we love him, he was safe, and Jesus is with him. He is such a trooper. He now has a feeding tube through his nose. We need your specific prayers that the swelling in his throat will go away so that his air tube may be removed! Pray his vocal cords will not be paralized. Rebuke a tracheotomy! Pray for no complications. We have seen so many miracles here and met so many people ( we have a prayer list a mile long.) God has given us a supernatural peace and courage. It's hard to see our baby like this- in pain with tubes, but we trust the Lord. Without Him, this would be impossible. Please continue to pray for a complete miracle and no complications. We love and miss you all. Stop now and pray for Luke's healing!

God bless,
Damian and Amanda


Friday, February 14, 2003 7:42 PM CST

Update
7:30a.m.-They took Luke down for anesthesia, Damian and I were able to walk him down to "The Bunny Room" to pick out a special toy before surgery
8:15a.m.-They gave Luke something in his IV and took him screaming and terrified out of our arms
8:30a.m.- As we walked back to Lukes rrom Dr. Sanford was waiting to speak with us once more to confirm our decision
9:24a.m.- Surgery began
10:30a.m.- They are still working to get to the tumor
11:30a.m.- They reached the tumor-starting biopsy
12:20a.m.- They started actual resection (that means they feel it is not malignant)and stated "they had it almost all out"
2:00p.m.-Dr. Sanford came in to tell us the surgery went well. He feels he got most of the tumor, although he will not know until he does an MRI tomorrow. He feels his hearing may NOT be affected (remember this was one of the guaranteed complications. Praise GOD!!)because the tumor was not laying the way he originally thought on the 6th and 7th cranial nerves. The next 48 hours will tell more. The 9th and 10th nerves were affected (which control swallowing and breathing) He now has a breathing tube-tomorrow we will have an ENT look to see if the vocal cords are paralized. They have mentioned a possible tracheotomy. WE ARE STILL CLAIMING THE FINAL PARTS TO OUR MIRACLE!!!! The Lord will finish this. We were able to go see our baby in ICU. They counseled us on "what to expect". Explaining we will not be able to touch him as they do not want him stimulated by anything. They painted a scary picture of ICU-tubes,monitors,sounds and that we need to prepare ourselves for the way Lukey will look. As we made the steps around the corner where Luke was laying, I found my beautiful boy never looking more peaceful. As the tears streamed down our faces and we praised the Lord for the mere miracle of Lukey living through this delicate operation-the Lord performed another miracle right in front of our eyes. Luke tried to pull the breathing tube out of his mouth. Guess which hand he used? The right one,(remember there was a possibility of his right side being paralyzed)We are singing the praises of our Creator-of the Miracle Worker. More like we're screaming his praises. Today and yesterday have been the two hardest days of our lives. Yesterday Luke was tramitized badly. He had so many needles and tests, vitals and medicines. They put probes on his tiny head and shaved two spots with a dry razor as he screamed with a sound I had never heard my shy boy use. As we handed him over for an MRI, tears running down his precious face he said "I'm scared". This is the most painful thing to hear from your child, we felt helpless. And as the doors shut this morning seperating us from him-they held our child in their arms as he cried and begged for us to take him home. "I want to go home" he screamed. When we could go no furhter with him, the Lord continued. He was present in the OR and guided the physicians. We all waited back in Luke's patient room (there are 10 of us here plus Payton)we surrounded ourselves in prayer(at times on our knees)in song and in scripture. As we received those phone calls from the nurse with the news our voices rang in praise as we promised (Show us your strenth Lord so all may see it and we will sing your praises). We can't explain to you how we feel right now-we know this is not over but in our eyes it is!!Our hope is in the Lord because of Him we have seen a miracle. We still ask for your specific prayers-no complication,no infections, no tracheotomy,voice and throat nerves healed-peace and rest for Luke. He will wake up scared-Lord grant him peace and comfort. We are tired but inspired. We know you are all praying and rejoicing right now where ever you are. We feel your prayers. How will we ever repay you all for your love and prayers? We cant but the Lord will. We have truly seen the Hand of the Lord.
Spread the good news of Luke and the road to his healing.
Stop and continue to pray for Luke.
God Bless,
In His TIGHT Grip,
Damian and Amanda


Friday, February 14, 2003 1:04 PM CST

Update
7:30a.m.-They took Luke down for anesthesia, Damian and I were able to walk him down to "The Bunny Room" to pick out a toy
8:15a.m.-They gave Luke something in his IV and took him screaming out of our arms
8:30a.m.-As we walked back to Luke's room the surgeon was waiting to speak with us once more to confirm our decision
9:24a.m.-Surgery began
10:30a.m.-They were still working to get to the tumor
11:30a.m.-They reached tumor, starting biopsy
12:20a.m.-They started the actual resection (that means it is not malignant) and stated "they had it almost all out"

We are sitting here at the nurses desk- Praising the Lord for his goodness and blessings. This is the critical part of the procedure. Please get on your knees and THANK GOD for all he has done to this point and ask him to finish our miracle. Stop now and pray for Luke.


Wednesday, February 12, 2003 6:44 AM CST

Dear Friends,
It's hard to believe this day has arrived, we start the next stage of our journey. I can't explain to you how these last two weeks have been, every level of emotion you can imagine and at times contemplating our decision- but in every moment of weakness we have turned to the Lord and he has filled our hearts with hope and PEACE. For those of you who don't know me(Amanda), I have a tendancy to worry (imagine that) This is something I have been working on and praying about for 2 years, since I quit my job to stay home with my children. And I must say I have improved but these past few weeks even I have been amazed at the supernatural peace I have allowed (that's the key) the Lord to give me. Damian and I have discovered that God wants to give us many things but we often don't allow it. As we were on our way to Disney even Damian said to me that it's hard to describe the peace he had but knows without a doubt this peace is a gift from GOD. Please believe us when we say WE ARE EXPECTING A MIRACLE!! The Lord is in control of our lives and certainly of little Lukey.
Psalm 18:1 I love you, O Lord, my strength. The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer:my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
We have seen God's hand in all of this, just as some of you have. We see an extention of him in all of you, just by your words and prayers. What a comfort that is. Thank you all, weather we know you or not for that GIFT. You are a part of our peace.
We will be leaving at 3:00 p.m. today. Luke will check in to the hospital tomorrow and his surgery is Friday, Feb 14th at 7:30a.m.(that's 8:30a.m. our time Memphis is an hour behind) We ask for a final plea of your prayers for our son. That God will guide Dr.Sanford, Dr. Boop and their team and that God will amaze even them at his awesome power and strength. We rebuke any complications. Through all of this we have learned as much control as we try to have or think we have over people (in our case our chldren)or things -We really have no control but GOD HAS ALL CONTROL and we glorify him for allowing us the priveledge of parenting our children. What an honor to be parents. We're standing firm on His word and promises and continue to ask you to do the same.
We will update the web page as soon as we know anything. Thank you for reading this and being apart of our journey to a miracle. Pray for our baby.
Psalm 34: I will exault that Lord at all times; his praise will always be on my lips. My soul will boast in the Lord; let the afflicted hear and rejoice. Glorify the Lord with me;let us exalt his name together!!! WOW! We are glorifying the Lord!!
Wherever you are tomorrow at 8:30a.m. and throughout the morning... STOP AND PRAY FOR LUKE!!
IN HIS GRIP,
The DeAndrea's


Monday, February 10, 2003 4:31 PM CST

We had a WONDERFUL time at Disney World.(Check out the new pictures) The weather was cold but thankfully there was no rain. Luke never fed Mickey any cheese (actually Luke wouln't get near Mickey or any other characters without screaming- but he had a GREAT time in spite of that)His favorite ride was Buzz Light Year and the Rollercoaster. Payton liked Pirates of the Carribean. It was a wonderful day. Thank you again to ALL who made it possible (Kelly you're the best!!)
We started packing today for the big trip!! We fly out on Wednesday afternoon. We are filled with faith and hope and are anxiously awaiting our miracle. As you know Lukey's surgery is Friday, February 14th, Valentine's Day-What a great day for God to show his LOVE. We are dependent upon your prayers! God has been so good to shower his blessings upon us. How can we have PEACE right now some ask. The answer-JESUS. He has provided a blanket of peace that we can not describe. We owe all the glory to him.

Mark 11:24-"Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it and it will be yours"
Thank you for asking and for believing that we have received our miracle. Continue to lift our son up to the Lord, now even more. We continue to be inspired and comforted by your words of love and your prayers. Thank you doesn't begin to tell you how we feel.

We will update the website on Wednesday before we leave.
STOP now and pray for Luke (and Dr. Sanford)
God Bless,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, February 6, 2003 7:44 PM CST

Well, once again our plans have changed. Now instead of driving to Tennessee we will be flying. After realizing how far it actually was we decided it would be better to fly (my husband gets a little cranky if he's in the car too long) We've had a great week. The kids went back to school, Ms. Becky and all of the teachers and Little Wranglers were happy to see them. Go Gaither!! We are very excited because tomorrow we are going to Disney World. Luke has never been. He says he can't wait to feed Mickey a piece of cheese. We were blessed with this special trip from a host of friends. We would like to say thank you.We feel your prayers. The Lord keeps pouring his peace and love upon us. We are anxiously awaiting to see his miracle.We are still asking for your daily prayers. Let the Lord hear Lukey's name more this week than ever before. We are still in awe at your continual emails and prayers. Thank you for praying for us and asking others to as well. As one person stated "Faith doesn't get you around problems, it gets you through them." It is our desire to glorify the Lord. We'll update the sight on Monday, hopefully with some pictures of Disney.
One of our favorite verses: Jeremiah 28:11-12 "For I know the plans I have for you delcares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me and I will listen to you." As my husband and I were in prayer together he said a simple prayer that said so much "Lord let our plans for Luke be your will"
Stop now and pray for Luke!
With Love,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, February 6, 2003 7:44 PM CST

Well, once again our plans have changed. Now instead of driving to Tennessee we will be flying. After realizing how far it actually was we decided it would be better to fly (my husband gets a little cranky if he's in the car too long) We've had a great week. The kids went back to school, Ms. Becky and all of the teachers and Little Wranglers were happy to see them. Go Gaither!! We are very excited because tomorrow we are going to Disney World. Luke has never been. He says he can't wait to feed Mickey a piece of cheese. We were blessed with this special trip from a host of friends. We would like to say thank you.We feel your prayers. The Lord keeps pouring his peace and love upon us. We are anxiously awaiting to see his miracle.We are still asking for your daily prayers. Let the Lord hear Lukey's name more this week than ever before. We are still in awe at your continual emails and prayers. Thank you for praying for us and asking others to as well. As one person stated "Faith doesn't get you around problems, it gets you through them." It is our desire to glorify the Lord. We'll update the sight on Monday, hopefully with some pictures of Disney.
One of our favorite verses: Jeremiah 28:11-12 "For I know the plans I have for you delcares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me and I will listen to you." As my husband and I were in prayer together he said a simple prayer that said so much "Lord let our plans for Luke be your will"
Stop now and pray for Luke!
With Love,
Damian and Amanda


Monday, February 3, 2003 9:37 PM CST

Thank you all for your continued support,e-mails,calls, notes and most importantly your prayers. We received more details today regarding the time of Lukey's surgery. It will be Friday, February 14th at 7:30 a.m. He has to be checked into the hospital on Thursday at 11:00 a.m. They will do another MRI (Psalm 21-The message "Show your strenth, God, so no one can miss it. We are out singing the good news.") We have decided to drive to Tennessee, we will leave on Tuesday (Feb 11th) we plan to split the trip and stay over night somewhere. Payton will be going with us for a few days but will fly home early. If we feel Luke can not make the car ride back, one of us will fly home with him. The physcian feels Luke will be in ICU for two days and then in a room for about 8 days. A lot of people still think this is at St. Jude's Hospital but it is not. It is at LeBoneur Childrens Hospital.We anxiously await this (Jerimiah 29 "For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future")Please continue to pray without ceasing. Pray for Dr. Sandford and his team. If they are able to remove the tumor the procedure will last 5-6 hours. We're claiming our miracle. Thank you all for spreading the word, it's amazing to read those e-mails and see how we're being prayed for all over the world. Our God is AWESOME!! We continue to be touched and amazed at your thoughtfulness and dedication to our son, our family and the Lord.
Stop now, get on your knees and pray for Luke!
With Love,
Damian and Amanda


Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 10:34 PM (CST)

Well, we made it home. We are considering our trip a successful one. As we shared with you yesterday, Dr. Sanders spent three hours with us discussing Lukes condition. The type of tumor he feels Luke has is an astrocytoma (not a pontine glioma as we thought before)Glory be to God,of course we will not know for sure until the biopsy. He is hopeful this is a benign tumor due to the slow growth. Now that we look back over pictures we see a slight weekness in Lukes left eye as much as a year and a half ago. The plan is he will do a biopsy, immediately send it to pathology for a priliminary diagnosis, this takes about thirty minutes, as long as it is not malignant he will go to the next step which is seeing if he can remove 90-95% of the tumor without an extreme compromise of Lukes quality of life. If he can not remove that percentage of the tumor he will stop and he will go to another course of treatment. If he feels he can, he will. He stated there is no way not to affect the 6th and 7th cranial nerves. He feels Luke will lose total hearing in his left ear and the left side of his face will be paralysed worse than now. (He apparently hasn't seen the prayer warriors on this website) Also, there is a chance of complete paralysis on the right side of his body. We are claiming victory over ANY complications. This was not an easy decision but we felt the Lord led us to this man and empowered us to come to this. We are begging for your specific prayers to be lifted up: that this surgery will be safe and successful, that NONE of the complications above will occur, that we will see a miracle. Our Lord is the ultimate surgeon. Pray for the knowledge, direction and ability for Dr. Sanford and his team. Pray for peace and protection for Lukey. Pray for strength for our family. As Damian and I flew back on the plane today our prayer was that God will open the eyes of our hearts so that we may truly know what He longs to show us through all of this. We are drawing our strength from God and because each of you have honored us by praying for us. While we know this is a tragic situation, we see time and time again how the Lord is being glorified. God's fingerprints were all over our trip. Every where we went God put someone in our path who prayed for us and encouraged us or who Luke touched with his precious smile. My little brother, J.C. (who attends Lee University in Cleveland, TN and is becoming a youth pastor) came to Memphis with the Senior Pastor of his church. On Wednesday night they set out to find a church. They passed church after church who did not have Wednesday night services, they were about to give up when they found a little Baptist church. After the sermon, the pastor of this church recognized my brother and Pastor Tim as visitors and asked Pastor Tim to share a few words. He shared with the congregation that he was in town because J.C.'s nephew had been diagnosed with a brain tumor, immediately the church formed a circle and lifted our little Luke up in prayer. They did not intend on being acknowledged at this church and instead the Lord gave them the opportunity to allow that church to share in our journey. This is only one story of the many. As I told my friend earlier we are relying on God for each breath for without him we would not be breathing right now. We are empowering ourselves with scripture. Thank you all for giving us verses. I write each of them down that you give and look them up time and time again. Today someone sent us James 5:16 The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and wonderful results. All of you are a part of the "wonderful result" that we are going to have because you are praying. It has been so moving how you are sharing our needs with your friends and family.We will tell you everytime we write that we are honored you are sitting here reading these words and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your prayers on our behalf. Luke's surgery is scheduled for Friday February 14th at LeBonheur Childrens Hospital (not St. Jude's). We will know more details next week. Keep praying, keep writing, keep sending scripture.
Stop now and pray for Luke!!
God Bless You.
Damian and Amanda


Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 03:55 PM (CST)

We are sitting in a Kinko's in Memphis, TN. We know you are all are anxious to know what is going on. To briefly update you, we met with Dr. Sanford today for almost three hours. After reviewing all of our difficult limited options, it seems to be that preforming a radical resection is in need. What this means is he will start with a biopsy and attempt to remove at least 95% of the tumor. He has stated that if he can't get 90-95% of it he won't get any of it or if it too risky he won't remove it. He spelled out the complications in black and white. With the removal procedure Luke will lose his hearing in his left ear and the paralysis of the left side of his face will be worse. There is also a chance of paralysis to the right side of his body. We are asking for you to join us in praying specifially for none of these complications to exsist. We pray for a safe and successful surgery. We are standing strong in our faith and the power of the Lord. We know he can preform a miracle and Luke will fully recover. There are a lot more details but we will update you when we get home. Again, we would not make it without your prayers and support. Continue to lift us up and pray specifically for these things. We are so thankful for each of you, no matter if we know you or not, you are blessing us with your prayers. We find comfort and strength in that. We will be home tomorrow afternoon, and expect to return within the next two weeks for the surgery. Lukey misses his sister. It's too cold for him here!!
Stop now and pray for Luke.
God Bless you all.
Damian and Amanda


Monday, January 27, 2003 at 09:21 PM (CST)

We had our follow up appointment this morning with the neurosurgeon. The new MRI confirmed the original prognosis. Luke has a pontine glioma in the brain tissue of the brain stem. We candidly asked the doctor "If this was your child, what would you do?" He answered with "I would start with a second opinion and formulate a plan." He referred us to a top neurosurgeon at St. Jude's Hospital in Memphis, Tennessee. Our flight leaves tomorrow afternoon. Damian's parents, my mother and my best friend will accompany us for support. You have no idea how much we appreciate ALL of you, even though you may not know us you are lifting us up in prayer. What a comfort and a blessing. Please join us in praying specifically for a miracle!! For guidance, for wisdom, for the physcians knowledge, for safe travel, for peace. We want you all to know we are GLORIFYING the Lord through all of this. We are leaning on him for each breath. We want all the glory for the miracle that we are claiming to be His. We will be home Thursday afternoon and will update you then. Again, we are overwhelmed with your love and prayers. Stop now and pray for Luke!
Love,
Damian and Amanda


Sunday, January 26, 2003 at 09:23 AM (CST)

Yesterday morning we were honored to have over 45 people from our church come to our house to lay hands on and pray for Lukey. What an overwhelming example of Christ's love. This is only a fraction of you who are lifting Luke up to the Lord. This website has been such a blessing, we find ourselves checking it regularly and receiving such comfort from your words of love. We have shown Luke and have started reading your "love notes" to him. I asked him earlier "Luke, what do you think about all these people praying for you?" He said "It's cool"!! Alot of you have asked if he knows what is going on. He has been praying for his face since we were first diagnosed with Bells Palsy in August. He says "Jesus, please heal my face" other than that he doesn't realize anything. Alot of people have been in and out of our home over the last two days but he thinks we're having a party (because his Aunt Chelle and other friends have brought over balloons). He did ask our friend Sue (who was with us all afternoon and evening on Friday and was the first one who arrived Saturday to pray) He said "What are you doing here again?" It was cute! Other than that he is a normal 3 year old boy playing, laughing and fighting with his sister. God has blessed him and Payton with a special peace. They have enjoyed the constant company and different playmates all day long, so to them it has been a party. How do we thank each of you for just reading these words? My heart wants to tell you so much more but for now I beg you for more and more and more prayers. Thank you all for loving us and loving God. We are claiming a miracle. In less than 24 hours we will hear the word from the doctors but we have already heard the word of the Lord!! He will be healed. Thank you all for your love and concern. We are so blessed to have each of you. In closing, I found great comfort in a scripture that someone from our church sent to us on the website "So do not fear, for I am with you, do not be dismayed, for I am your GOD. I will strengthen you and help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10. Please stop right now and pray for Luke!
With Love,
Damian and Amanda


Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 11:06 AM (CST)

Thank you all for caring about and praying for our little boy. Luke turned three on August 26th. He is a very shy but active boy. He loves Thomas The Train, Bob the Builder, football (his favorite team is the Dallas Cowboys, just like his daddy) he loves to wrestle, color, play outside. His best buddy is his sister Payton, who is five. He loves to go to church and learn about Jesus and play with his friends. A quick history is Luke was diagnosed with Bells Palsy in August. We noticed the left side of his face was not functioning properly. When he would smile only the right side would move, when he cried only the right side had tears, when he would sleep the left eye would not close completely. The peditrician suggested we watch his face and visit him monthly to check for changes. Finally, after no change he suggested we see a neurologist to make sure nothing else was going on. Last Friday (Jan 17) we saw the neurologist and he recommended an MRI, he did not feel it was a brain tumor becasue Luke's left eye moves and he has no other symptoms (his motor skills are perfect, it is only affecting his face) We had an MRI on Wednesday (Jan 22) Luke did GREAT, he had a slight sedative, went to sleep and woke up not knowing anything had happened. We received a phone call from the neurologist on Thursday (Jan 23) stating they had found a mass he did not know any details as he had not seen the actual films but said we needed to get to All Childrens Hospital as soon as possible to see a Pediatric Neurosurgeon, Dr. Tuite. Dr. Tuite informed us that Luke has a tumor on his brain stem, he could not tell from the films if it was on his brain or in his brain. (First of all we are praying for a miracle and that the tumor is gone but it would be better for the tumor to be on the brain and not in it) He sent us directly for a Cat Scan which again, our beautiful little boy did great, he pretended to be Buzz Light Year going up in a space ship. The Doctor scheduled another MRI with dye for Friday morning (Jan 24). This time Luke had a general anesthesia. God was so present!! As the nurse put the IV in his little hand he just sat there, never cried!! We will see Dr. Tuite on Monday at 9:00 a.m. for the results and to decide what will be done. Please join us in praying for a miracle and that our son will be healed!! Pray for peace and comfort for our family. Pray for direction and guidance for the physicians. Thank you all for your concern.


Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 11:06 AM (CST)

Thank you all for caring about and praying for our little boy. Luke turned three on August 26th. He is a very shy but active boy. He loves Thomas The Train, Bob the Builder, football (his favorite team is the Dallas Cowboys, just like his daddy) he loves to wrestle, color, play outside. His best buddy is his sister Payton, who is five. He loves to go to church and learn about Jesus and play with his friends. A quick history is Luke was diagnosed with Bells Palsy in August. We noticed the left side of his face was not functioning properly. When he would smile only the right side would move, when he cried only the right side had tears, when he would sleep the left eye would not close completely. The peditrician suggested we watch his face and visit him monthly to check for changes. Finally, after no change he suggested we see a neurologist to make sure nothing else was going on. Last Friday (Jan 17) we saw the neurologist and he recommended an MRI, he did not feel it was a brain tumor becasue Luke's left eye moves and he has no other symptoms (his motor skills are perfect, it is only affecting his face) We had an MRI on Wednesday (Jan 22) Luke did GREAT, he had a slight sedative, went to sleep and woke up not knowing anything had happened. We received a phone call from the neurologist on Thursday (Jan 23) stating they had found a mass he did not know any details as he had not seen the actual films but said we needed to get to All Childrens Hospital as soon as possible to see a Pediatric Neurosurgeon, Dr. Tuite. Dr. Tuite informed us that Luke has a tumor on his brain stem, he could not tell from the films if it was on his brain or in his brain. (First of all we are praying for a miracle and that the tumor is gone but it would be better for the tumor to be on the brain and not in it) He sent us directly for a Cat Scan which again, our beautiful little boy did great, he pretended to be Buzz Light Year going up in a space ship. The Doctor scheduled another MRI with dye for Friday morning (Jan 24). This time Luke had a general anesthesia. God was so present!! As the nurse put the IV in his little hand he just sat there, never cried!! We will see Dr. Tuite on Monday at 9:00 a.m. for the results and to decide what will be done. Please join us in praying for a miracle and that our son will be healed!! Pray for peace and comfort for our family. Pray for direction and guidance for the physicians. Thank you all for your concern.


Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 11:06 AM (CST)

Thank you all for caring about and praying for our little boy. Luke turned three on August 26th. He is a very shy but active boy. He loves Thomas The Train, Bob the Builder, football (his favorite team is the Dallas Cowboys, just like his daddy) he loves to wrestle, color, play outside. His best buddy is his sister Payton, who is five. He loves to go to church and learn about Jesus and play with his friends. A quick history is Luke was diagnosed with Bells Palsy in August. We noticed the left side of his face was not functioning properly. When he would smile only the right side would move, when he cried only the right side had tears, when he would sleep the left eye would not close completely. The peditrician suggested we watch his face and visit him monthly to check for changes. Finally, after no change he suggested we see a neurologist to make sure nothing else was going on. Last Friday (Jan 17) we saw the neurologist and he recommended an MRI, he did not feel it was a brain tumor becasue Luke's left eye moves and he has no other symptoms (his motor skills are perfect, it is only affecting his face) We had an MRI on Wednesday (Jan 22) Luke did GREAT, he had a slight sedative, went to sleep and woke up not knowing anything had happened. We received a phone call from the neurologist on Thursday (Jan 23) stating they had found a mass he did not know any details as he had not seen the actual films but said we needed to get to All Childrens Hospital as soon as possible to see a Pediatric Neurosurgeon, Dr. Tuite. Dr. Tuite informed us that Luke has a tumor on his brain stem, he could not tell from the films if it was on his brain or in his brain. (First of all we are praying for a miracle and that the tumor is gone but it would be better for the tumor to be on the brain and not in it) He sent us directly for a Cat Scan which again, our beautiful little boy did great, he pretended to be Buzz Light Year going up in a space ship. The Doctor scheduled another MRI with dye for Friday morning (Jan 24). This time Luke had a general anesthesia. God was so present!! As the nurse put the IV in his little hand he just sat there, never cried!! We will see Dr. Tuite on Monday at 9:00 a.m. for the results and to decide what will be done. Please join us in praying for a miracle and that our son will be healed!! Pray for peace and comfort for our family. Pray for direction and guidance for the physicians. Thank you all for your concern.


Friday, January 24, 2003 at 03:30 PM (CST)

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